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Betty WEAVER Obituary


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WEAVER, Betty Jane (nee Hendrix) "BJ" age 79, of Beavercreek, passed away peacefully on July 16, 2013. She was born on November 26, 1933, in Dayton, OH, to the late Claude and Elizabeth Haines Hendrix. Betty graduated from Wilbur Wright High School in 1951 and worked as a dental assistant after high school. Betty had a love of flowers, which she demonstrated with her passion for gardening. Betty was an active original member of the Redbud Garden Club, which originated in 1960, through which her talent of flower arranging flourished, resulting in numerous award ribbons and special friendships with other members. She went on to become a flower show judge through the Ohio Association of Garden Clubs while also joining the Miami Valley Ikebana and Ohara chapters. Betty was also an active member of Xenia's Memorial Presbyterian Church, which she served in Sunday school throughout the years plus the homeless shelter program; she served as an elder and deacon as well as on various committees within the church. She also enjoyed her role as Brownie and Girl Scout Leader, participation in the neighborhood bridge club, Friday night bunko group, family parties plus numerous overseas and stateside traveling adventures with her husband, including many fun winters at Tops'l Beach Resort in Destin, Florida. Her sister, Barbara "Masy" Sundermeyer, preceded her in death. Betty is survived by her devoted husband of 57 years, Bud; children, Barry Weaver of Playa del Ray, CA, and Zelda BethAnne (Warner) Searls of Circleville; brother, Richard (Rese) Hendrix of Gahanna, brother-in-law, James Sundermeyer of Kettering; sister and brother-in-law, Ann (Weaver) and Hank Apel of Springfield, plus numerous nieces and nephews. The family would like to express appreciation for the compassionate nursing staff at Miami Valley Hospital and Hospice of Dayton and to the multitude of thoughtful family, friends and neighbors who showered Betty with cards, flowers and the precious gift of friendship during this past year. Memorial Service at Memorial United Presbyterian Church, 343 W. Ankeney Mill Road Xenia Ohio 45385 will be held Sat. July 27th at 11am. If desired, donations may be made to The Hospice of Dayton 324 Wilmington Ave. Dayton, Ohio 45420 or Memorial United Presbyterian Church of Xenia.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Jul. 19, 2013.

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Kathleen Bauer

July 12, 2019

The world was a better place with you in it! I am so impressed with all of your community involvement and charitable works! (and inspired to be a more involved person). Mostly, I am thankful for the beautiful daughter that you raised - Zelda❣

July 26, 2013

Betty was a truly kind and gracious person. I was privileged to be in garden club with her. She was always willing to share her flower arranging knowledge when asked. Any time I brought my mother to garden club when she was visiting, Betty always went out of her way to welcome her. She will be missed by us all.
May God bless you, Bud, and your family. Our prayers are with you.

Jenny Cross

Ronda Lier

July 24, 2013

We were blessed to have Bud & Betty as our neighbors for 3 years. Mrs. Betty was such a wonderful lady and friend.

sharon schall

July 22, 2013

Rejoicing to be in His presence, what a beautiful thing. A lovely daughter you have given us for our friend.

MaryLynn Lang

July 22, 2013

I knew Betty from garden club you could not ask for a more thoughtful and generous person and a wonderful mentor to all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Gina Foster

July 20, 2013

Betty was a wonderful friend, classy lady and a great neighbor. She will be missed dearly.

Joy Culler

July 19, 2013

Lovely lady. Gardening friend

Regina Boyd

July 19, 2013

A very wonderful person who will be greatly missed and dearly remembered. My prayers go out to Bud and all her family.

Judy Stopkotte

July 19, 2013

A wonderful and elegant lady I knew through the Ohio Association of Garden Clubs, Region 16. I had the privilege of student judging with her and found her comments and demeanor to be both gracious and kind. My condolences to her family and close friends.

Naomi Ormes

July 19, 2013

Such a sweet and gracious lady. She will be missed by her fellow judges and members of the Ohio Association Garden Clubs.

Susy Spence

July 19, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear about Betty Death. She was a dear person who I enjoyed knowing many years through our interest in OAGC. What a wonderful picture of her!
My heart goes out to all of you in her family. I know she leaves a huge void for you.

Kathleen Fennig

July 19, 2013

Although our friendship was a relatively new one, I knew the instant I met Betty, that she was " some kind of wonderful."
Friend and Neighbor

Kathy (Heinz) Bauer

July 19, 2013

While Zelda is the only member of this family that I know, I feel compelled to say that Betty Jane must have been an extraordinary woman! Not only was she a highly contributing member who seemed to be involved in more clubs and OUTREACH programs than I could ever dream of; but she raised one of the sweetest people on this earth! (Beth ~ as I knew her in high school) / Zelda! I'm sure Heaven is a better place now that Betty Jane is there!

Melissa McCoy

July 19, 2013

I never got to meet you Betty, but you made a wonderful daughter and I feel through her love for you, I got to know you. Rest in peace and enjoy heaven.

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