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Thomas Capano Obituary
Thomas J. Capano, age 61, of Wilmington, DE, passed away suddenly in his sleep on the evening of September 19, 2011.
Tommy was a prominent Wilmington attorney who worked in various capacities providing trusted counsel to countless clients throughout the years. Of all his positions held, he was most proud of his work as Wilmington City Solicitor. He was also a member of the Sons of Italy, a member of the Knights of Columbus, and a well-known benefactor to numerous organizations and non-profits in the state of Delaware.
Tom was also known for his impeccable taste: Blasting old classics - the Temptations, the Four Seasons, Aretha Franklin, Frank Sinatra, or the Rolling Stones - at full volume while waiting to pick up pizza from Gallucios; allowing his daughters to skip school on their birthdays for a luxurious lunch at the Rodney Square Club; ordering an assortment of mouth-watering seafood from DiNardos with extra Old-Bay seasoning; or insisting his daughters read the Great Books and prominently display them in their homes. Tom was many things to many people, but most of all he was a loving father who will be greatly missed by his daughters.
Tom's four daughters, Christy, Katie, Jenny and Alex, and former wife, Kay Ryan, celebrated his life with close family and friends, including his siblings, Marion and Lee Ramunno, Louis Capano, Joseph and Joanne Capano, Gerry Capano, Michele Jones, and mother Marguerite Capano, as well as many nieces, nephews and close cousins, at a private service on Friday, September 23rd.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Capano
LIZ Sheppard
October 16, 2011
TO THE CAPANO FAMILY , TOM WAS A GOOD MAN AND FATHER HE WILLBE MISSED,
Kimberly Bell
October 12, 2011
Joe, Gerry & Michele and Tom's daughter's, Mother and extended Family and Friends,
My heart felt sympathy to each of you, I'm sure your losses are deeply impacted and felt stronger, in different ways, to each of you. I'm sure each of you have so many fond memories of Tom ( your Dad). That can be shared with each other, especially to his daughters. These good memories will help each of you heal, I hope. I know everything in life take's time. Some things such as a death, we know, take's a very long time, if not forever to try to cope with.
God Bless Each of You, Sincerely,
Kimberly Bell
Newark, Delaware
(Cashmere Magazine)
Terri Manganello Lueck
October 10, 2011
To the Capano Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. I remember Tom as a great guy!
Jillian Brontee
October 1, 2011
How ever to capture in our words this man who constantly enchanted us with his. Though a person of many accomplishments and good deeds, those who knew him will best remember him for his most extraordinary generosity, humor and warmth. A charismatic person, he left an indelible mark on whomever he touched. A gentleman, he lived with courage, dignity, and the wisdom of a man far beyond his years. He held onto this life for those he loved so much for as long as he possibly could. And when his death is long past, someone will simply need to say “Tom” and those who knew and loved him will understand all that word will forever mean.
So very sorry for the loss of a father, son, brother, uncle, and friend.
Margaret Semple
September 30, 2011
Our heartfelt sympathies to your family, he was a caring and loving father and husband. The Semple family
September 29, 2011
Joe and family,,,, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Jerry & Becky Meadows
Sandy Jones
September 29, 2011
My heartfelt sympathy to all of the Capano family at this incredibly difficult time. Rest in peace Tom, you will be missed greatly. My thoughts are with you Katie, Christy, Jenny, and Alex, as you carry memories of your loving father with you always. Sending peace, love, and comfort to all of the family.
John Scoggin
September 28, 2011
Joe and family - my most sincere condolences to all of you. - John
W & J Gunther
September 28, 2011
Marguerite, you are always in our thoughts and prayers, as are your children and grandchildren. Please let us know if you ever need anything. Love, W & J
Calista Saunders
September 28, 2011
My heartfelt sympathies to the Capano family. Tom has been through so much but now is at peace with God. A wonderful man who will be remembered by many.
diana Cerroni
September 28, 2011
Our condolance to Tom's daughters and family.
David Lawler
September 28, 2011
R.I.P Tom You will be miss. To the Capano Family, my sympathies and prayers to you all
Melinda Sandoval
September 28, 2011
To the loving family of Mr.Capano, I did not know him personally.I just wanted to express my condolences.My thoughts and prayers are with you! God Bless.
J. N. T
September 27, 2011
From those in Stone Harbor who knew what a great family the Capanos were we mourn the loss of a son and brother. Our Lord and Saviour Jesus. Peace be with you. Amen.
A. Brenneman
September 27, 2011
My sincere condolences to Mrs. Capano. Tom was a good man who lived a giving life. May he now have the peace he deserves.
September 27, 2011
My heartfelt sympathies to you all. I hope you girls have great memories of your dad. Katie I love you and will always have great memories of your volleyball escapades with Kelly. My best to all of you. Linda Papili and Girls.
Monica Merlino
September 27, 2011
My sincere sympathies to all Tommys loved ones. RIP Tommy J, I miss you, our lunches at Govatos and Cavanaughs and desserts afterwards.
Barb Hatch
September 27, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the Capano family,miss you
C Casey
September 27, 2011
To the Capano family, my deepest sympathy.
caro succarotte daniels
September 27, 2011
To the daughters of Mr. Capano and to his mother and family, our sympathies and prayers to you all.
Shannon Nisky
September 27, 2011
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Sam Stroup
September 27, 2011
To his Daughter's, I send my deepest sympathy. To Kay, I wish you peace & happiness.
For now he is at peace.
God Bless all of you.
Sandra Stroup
September 27, 2011
My Heartfelt Sympathies for all of the Capano Family. So sorry for your loss. R.I.P. Tom
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