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Carlos Lee

1957 - 2019

Carlos Lee obituary, 1957-2019, Salt Lake City, UT

BORN

1957

DIED

2019

Carlos Lee Obituary

Carlos Lee
1957 ~ 2019
It is with deepest sadness we announce the sudden passing of Don Carlos Lee on May 16, 2019, at age 62: forever a loving father, husband, uncle, brother and friend. He graced this earth with unmatched energy. With a personality larger than life, a voice louder than thunder, and a bellowing laugh that could be heard across the planet, his presence was always felt and known. He was born and raised in Hong Kong, and very proud of his Chinese heritage. At the age of 18, two missionaries knocked on his door and introduced him to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Shortly after his conversion, with pennies in his pocket and knowing very little English, he traveled to the United States to attend Brigham Young University, Hawaii. After a year of college, he served a two year church mission in Toronto, Canada. He returned to BYU Hawaii, where he would meet his eternal and surviving sweetheart, Jan Annette Critchfield Lee. They were married in April of 1982, and enjoyed a two year honeymoon on the North Shore of Hawaii while he finished his undergraduate degree. Hawaii was his paradise where he returned regularly to create priceless memories with his family. With his passion for learning and boundless enthusiasm, he graduated Summa Cum Laude from BYU Hawaii, and later earning top honors in the Brigham Young University MBA program. As a young executive, he shot up the corporate ladder, pursuing various opportunities across the United States. His bright mind and excellent memory were always at work, striking up lively conversations, thinking of business ideas, talking politics and current events, unraveling computer problems, or studying gospel topics. He never forgot a birthday, holiday, anniversary, or family event. As the family chef and food connaisseur, he would plan and shop for meals in advance for each Sunday dinner and for every family celebration. He lived and breathed BYU athletics. He could be found watching BYU reruns from games thirty years ago, boisterously cheering on the Cougars and criticizing the refs, while already knowing the outcome of each game. His enthusiasm for singing couldn't be bridled. As a choir member through all of his adult life, his voluminous voice could be heard at times, above the voices of the choir. He was always proud and touched to be singing his praises through sacred music.
Without hesitation, he would say his greatest success was his family. He was the very proud father of three accomplished, righteous sons and a beautiful daughter-in-law. He is survived by them: Eric Charles Lee (Amanda Willis Lee), Jared Spencer Lee and Alexander Kenneth Lee. He showed his family the world, he taught them drive, survival, ambition, and the value of hard work. He was strong in his opinions and disciplined through his every endeavor. He expected his family to live by the highest of values. Not only did he love his sons unconditionally, he consistently showed them how much he loved and respected their mother. His loving desire has always been that his family press on in righteousness with strength and fortitude. He lived by the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and fully embraced His plan. He dutifully fulfilled various church callings at the Ward and Stake level. He was recently set apart as a temple ordinance worker; he cherished his time in the temple. Now he returns to the loving arms of his Savior, prepared to continue His work. Aloha nui loa, beautiful man, until we are together again to enjoy the promises of life eternal.
Funeral services will be held at 7:00pm, Tuesday, May 21st at the Cottonwood Stake Chapel, 1830 East 6400 South, Salt Lake City, UT 84121.

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Published by Deseret News from May 19 to May 21, 2019.

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Irene Hill

June 17, 2019

Jan, We just learned of Carlos' passing...we are truly so sorry! We love Carlos, we love you, and we are grateful for wonderful memories of time spent together!! May God bless you with His peace at this time. Much love, Irene and Curtis Hill

June 6, 2019

Jan and Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. Carlos sounds like a remarkable man, husband and father.
May you feel comfort at this time and forever. May God wraps his arms around you and bring you peace.

Love,
Dave and Cathy Tolbert Anderson
Sunnyvale, California

Corrie Tolbert Holloway

May 23, 2019

Oh Jan, I am so sorry to learn of your great loss. May you feel much peace and love at this difficult time. Our love and prayers are with you and your family, from the Tolbert family.

Lohr LeSueur

May 23, 2019

To the Lee Family.

We are so sorry for your loss. Carlos was hard to ignore. His personality is bold and pure which is a very rare and great combination. You wanted to be around him in hopes that some of his optimism and happiness would rub off on you. He is a man of action always wanting to make things better. I have many memories of Carlos and every one of them contain his smiling face. The one that stands out in my mind is when I joined him to give someone in the ward a blessing. He pronounced the blessing and it was exactly what that person needed at the time. The before and after difference in that person was astonishing.

While his time on this earth was short, he accomplished every thing he needed to and then some. I know that he will continue to be busy and productive and we all will see him soon.

Richard Evans

May 21, 2019

Im so sorry, Jan. I wish we had had the opportunity to get to know your Carlos better.

GREG WATTS

May 21, 2019

Chris, Garrett and I were so saddened to hear about Carlos. We have have such great memories of him while we lived In Salt Lake. His smile, laughter and friendship will always be in our hearts. What a great man, father and friend. May our Heavenly Father wrap his arms around you and your family during this time. We love and appreciate you.

Living Spirit Dishgarden

a loved one

Sent Flowers

May 21, 2019

Losing someone that we love never comes easy.
It is truly heartbreaking. May God's promises in
Isaiah 65:17 comfort and help you.

Ingrid Chapman

May 21, 2019

Jan,

I am so sorry to hear of Carlos' unexpected passing. My love to you and your children at this very difficult time.

Don Treasure

May 20, 2019

He will be well remembered. Those words were highest praise from my grandmother and like her, I use them sparingly but sincerely. Carlos will be well remembered.

Carlos' smile said so much. It evoked a friendliness that was genuine and generously given. It said he was honestly happy to see you. It also revealed a sense of humor and occasional mischief.

A father appreciates nothing so much as an honorable adult who presents a great example for his own kids. And on this note, Carlos was perfect. This morning we met our older son for breakfast. Remembering Carlos, he mentioned things like such a great guy, so kind and (of course) terrific smile.

My observation was that with young people he was always kind and respectful. He would listen with interest, empathy and, often, humor. What a rare and wonderful quality. Carlos was intelligent, brave, dedicated and honorable. He was an example of manhood that is timeless and sadly rare.

His beautiful and adoring wife, three fine sons and daughter in law will honor his memory, I am sure. His many good works and qualities will live on in their lives. That is a tribute of the highest order. And something they can never take away another bit of my grandmother's timeless wisdom.

Rest in peace my friend.

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a loved one

Sent Flowers

May 20, 2019

Jan, I'm so sorry to hear of this shocking and enormous loss. Sending much love to you and your family.
Susan Hinckley

Rocky Martinez

May 20, 2019

Dear Jan, Eric, Jared, and Alex.
My sincere sympathy to your family.

Cindy Acord-DeHart

May 20, 2019

Jan, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart and prayers are with you and your family. I hope the virtual hugs help as much as the support you are surrounded by. Much love! Cindy Acord DeHart

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a loved one

Sent Flowers

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a loved one

Sent Flowers

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a loved one

Sent Flowers

May 20, 2019

Jan, Ericm Jared, and Alex,

Our hearts broke for each of you at the news of Carlos' passing. His smile and booming voice filled every room he entered. May the succoring blessings of the atonement assuage your grief and fill you with eternal hope.

Amis Family

May 20, 2019

Dear Jan, Eric, Jared, and Alex.
We are saddened at the death of your dear dad and husband. May the Comforter be with you and help to soften this great loss. His joy and great life should be a comfort for he was a great soul and the knowledge of the forever family I am sure brings great peace. We love you and him.

Ann and Gary Halversen

May 20, 2019

Jan--I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have such fond memories of you here in the Plymouth ward. Sending you hugs and condolences.

Donna Ostvig

Heather Howell

May 19, 2019

Dear Lee Family,

Our hearts are saddened to hear of the passing of Carlos. We have fond memories of his kindness and friendship. He always carried a smile. We are praying for you Jan. We hope there is comfort in knowing that families are forever.

Love
The Howells
(Marv, Heather, Caleb, Dax and Carson)

Compton Khan

May 19, 2019

Lee Family- We are sorry for your loss. We admired Carlos's integrity, dedication & leadership. His laugh was infectious.

Compton Khan Family

Kathy Magdal

May 19, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember several fun times we all had together. He taught George & I what was the best food on the menu in an Asian restaurant! Sending prayers of peace & comfort.

Guy and Tracy Adams

May 19, 2019

We are so sorry for your loss.

Gloria LeSueur

May 19, 2019

We will be with you Tuesday my darling little sister. Our hearts are broken along with yours. We love Carlos and will always carry him with us. Love to the boys and daughter. Everyone in Minnesota knows thanks to to your Laurel, Erin ❤ Methinks Jeb and Carlos have embraced Love you. Gloria

Rand Sarles

May 19, 2019

Jan & boys. I am sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers are with you.
Rand Sarles

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