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Ashley Okland Obituary
West Des Moines
Ashley Okland, 27, officially became an Angel on Friday, April 8, 2011. Visitation will be held Tuesday, April 12, at Fjeldberg Lutheran Church, 209 N. 2nd Ave. in Huxley, Iowa from 4 to 8 p.m. A Celebration of Life will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, April 14, at Lutheran Church of Hope, 925 Jordan Creek Pkwy, West Des Moines, Iowa. A burial will be held in Huxley.
Ashley was born on December 30, 1983 in Ames, Iowa. Growing up, Ashley was involved in sports, dance, 4-H, and piano. She attended Ballard High School, and after two years at the University of Northern Iowa she transferred to Iowa State University where she graduated in 2006.
A transplanted country girl at heart, she lived happily in West Des Moines with her "Hun" Eric and new pup, Indi. Above all else, Ashley loved spending time with her family and friends. Always on the go, her biggest struggle was finding the time to make everyone feel as special as she thought they should. She began her real estate career, which quickly became a passion, at the JDR Group in 2007 and became an Iowa Realty Agent in 2010. Actively involved in a number of charities and organizations, her (limited) free time was spent as a Young Variety board member, Big Sister, and avid Young Professionals Connection supporter. Always the event planner, she enjoyed traveling, concerts, golfing (The Legacy!), exercising, and just being busy. A beautiful girl inside and out, she will be missed terribly by all those who've been fortunate enough to know her.
Ashley is survived by the love of her life, Eric Grubb (WDM), sister Brittany Okland (Minneapolis), brother Josh Okland (Ames), father Tim Okland (Kelley), mother Deb Cochran (Huxley), grandmother Margaret Okland (Huxley), grandmother Marilyn Gregg (Clarion), ten loving aunts and uncles, and 33(!) cousins.
Ashley was preceded in death by her grandfathers Kenneth Okland and Charlie Gregg.
The family would like to thank all those that offered their love and support during this extremely difficult time. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Ashley Okland Memorial Fund. Distributions will be made to her and her family's favorite charities. (Mail to 30048 530th Ave, Kelley, IA, 50134).
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Memories and Condolences
for Ashley Okland
James Gregg
April 5, 2024
Sending our love to Ashley and her family...
James, Bettylynne,
John and Julie Gregg
Lee Vogt
April 5, 2019
Forever in our hearts!
Anna Marie & Ronald Harsh
May 6, 2011
My husband and I had the privilege of meeting Ashley by showing us home in that area when we came to Des Moines looking for homes with our intention of moving back to our home town (Des Moines). Ashley was a caring, loving person and always giving a helping hand when needed she will be missed and will be a guardian angel and looking out for Brittany and her family forever. R.I.P. Ashley
Veronica Herrera
April 29, 2011
I pray for peace for this family, this is absolutely heartbreaking! I hope for peace of the Lord to gently carry them through this most difficult time and in time--in a respectual time, they find the strength to honor her memory- as a mother of 3 girls, I cannot even imagine their loss.
God be with you now and always
V, Colorado
April 27, 2011
I didn't know Ashley but just want to offer my condolences on the sudden loss of your beautiful daughter, friend and sister. I am so sorry. I cannot imagine what you all are feeling right now, but know that the nation is grieving and praying for you all. She will always be your beautiful angel.
God Bless. Erica Miller
Ali DeVries
April 26, 2011
Continuing to pray for strength and comfort for Brittany and the entire Okland family. Ashley will forever be your gaurdian Angel!
Heather Schulze
April 23, 2011
Im sorry for the pain this has caused you, Ashley will always be remembered and forever loved by her dearest family memebers and her amazing friends...
Kelly Hart
April 19, 2011
May God bless you, and give you some peace and comfort through this tough time. My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family.....
Vicki Swedlund
April 19, 2011
May Ashley's family and friends find strength and accept prayers from all her colleagues around the country. We grieve with you. Vicki Swedlund, Kansas City REALTOR.
Mark
April 19, 2011
Ashley was such a beautiful lady.
Deb she truly was a reflection of you in her looks and her inner beauty, she was such an amazing person you and Tim should be so very proud to have raised such a wonderful angel. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all your families.
Troy D
April 18, 2011
I had the pleasure of knowing Ashley at Iowa State. She was an amazing person to be around and I am thankful for those memories. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
A
April 18, 2011
I am blessed to have met Ashley last January. Her kindness & smile were truly uplifting. My deepest sympathy to all her loved ones. You are in my prayers.
Michelle Walker
April 18, 2011
To the family and friends of Ashley,
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your dearest Ashley. Please except my condolences and know that you are in my prayers.
~Michelle Walker,
California Real Estate Agent
Peg Berg
April 16, 2011
As a REALTOR myself, Ashley's story has special meaning. It is especially poignant because she was so young and had so much more to contribute to the lives of her family, friends and associates. Just as God is aware of and cares about 'one sparrow falling to the ground', so does He feel about Ashley. I share your loss.
sam
April 15, 2011
I did not know Ashley, but she was showing a open house and my family and i went into the house she was showing. She was very kind and helped us with our answers. she talked to us about Iowa State and about other homes, also about our home choice. when i saw this on the news, i was very shocked and stunned. how could this happen to such a wonderful girl? she is in heaven and is a angel looking over her family and iowa reality family as well. god bless.
Robb Squiers and family
April 15, 2011
Ashley was an amazing person. I vividly remember spending a day with her and some of her classmates at the high school state basketball tournament. She was so sweet and was a blast to be around. Our prayers go out to all of her family and friends in this difficult time. I know it has been said but it deserves repeating, Ashley has always been, and will always be, an Angel. So sorry for your loss.
Maria
April 15, 2011
To the Okland family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Ashley was a beautiful girl with an amazing future ahead of her. Take comfort in the fact that she is in a better place and became a beautiful angel who will guide you forever.
Jessica Hubby
April 15, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to all who affected by this terrible tragedy. May she rest in the comfort of Gods arms and be at peace.
Melissa
April 15, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
*I did not know Ashley, but I do know alot of people who were horribly hurt by this tragedy. I attend HOPE and have heard nothing but wonderful things about her. We all know God has a plan and I have faith that Ashley's the Angel He's planned for her to be! The day will come, that they'll come down for us, in time I promise you will see. Until that day, thoughts and prayers to you from me!
God Bless
Steve & Courtney Williamson
April 15, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Okland Family as Britt was a part of our Iowa Wesleyan Women's Basketball Family and always will be. We are thinking of you and are here for you no matter what Britt! Stay strong as you have an amazing guardian angel watching over you now! We love you!
Love, Coach Will and Family
K
April 15, 2011
I did not know Ashley personally, but I am aware of her kindness and community involvement. The world lost a wonderful person. Condolences to her family and friends.
Melissa
April 14, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
*I did not know Ashley, but do know alot of people who were horribly hurt by this tragedy, and my heart goes out to all of you!! I go to Hope, which I know Ashley was very much involved with... and we all know God has a plan, that none of us can see. But from what I've heard of her~ she's going to be the Angel, God has planned for her to be!
God Bless
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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Gina Battani
April 14, 2011
Dear Lord, please allow the Okland family to be comforted by your unfailing love during this most difficult time.
April 14, 2011
May God hold you in his hand through this terrible tragedy. What a beautiful gal. May He bring you much strength to carry on.
Gina Northway
April 14, 2011
How proud Ashley your family must be to have such beautiful thoughts and memories written about you. You will be in missed in every aspect of your life. I am so sory that it had to end so soon for some senseless reason. You did more to touch people in 27 years than some do in a life time. You will sadly be miss by all.
Donna
April 14, 2011
There is nothing more heartbreaking than losing a child. Those of us that have been through this terrible loss will pray that you receive the strength to move through the devastating grief until you are able to celebrate what she brought to your lives. She will be where she's always been, in your hearts.
Brad Burnquist
April 14, 2011
My thoughts and prayers for Ashley, her family, and friends. May God watch over her always and for her to live in spirit and watch over us that live in body.
Terry Toth
April 14, 2011
Our thoughts are with you for your loss.
Josh Okland
April 14, 2011
I am Ashley's brother, Josh. I have been reading through these comments and it really touches my heart seeing how many good people are out there. Thank you to all of you for your messages from those who knew her and those who did not. God Bless.
Robyn,LeRoy Lutjen
April 14, 2011
We are so sorry for your loss. Let God help all of you in these tough times.Still hard to belive, God Bless
Marcy Nelson
April 14, 2011
I wanted to extend my deepest sympathies to the entire Okland family. Your loss is unimaginable and there will be a void on this Earth with her not here. Please find comfort in knowing that she has proudly earned her wings and is taking care of you all from above. May time ease your pain and prayers from others help you through this time.
Rhonda Jensen
April 14, 2011
Prayers to Tim,Deb and family during this trying time. May the prayers of many across our country comfort you now and the days to come.
Judy Fitch
April 14, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to Tim & Deb and Ashley"s family during this terrible time Such a terrible loss of a beautiful young women.
Judy Fitch
April 14, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to Tim & Deb and Ashley's family during this terrible time. Such a terrible thing to happen to such a beautiful young women.
Melanee and Mike Stanbrough
April 13, 2011
Ashley's beautiful smile spoke volumes about the kind of wonderful person she was. She will be missed by so many and never forgotten to any of us in the real estate community. May God give his peace to her parents and to Eric and to all her friends who loved her so very much.
Penny O'Neill
April 13, 2011
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Ashley. I pray that God will comfort you in your time of sorrow. Cherish your precious memories until you meet again in Heaven.
Lynda St Julien
April 13, 2011
Ashley's story is spreading all over the country. I'm a Realtor in Palm City, Florida and had to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you. Praying that you will find comfort in knowing she is in the presence of the Savior.
April 13, 2011
Iam so sorry for your loss. I'm a real estate agent in Arkansas and just heard about the tragic story on the National Association of Realtors webinar this afternoon. Just want you to know that we held a moment of silence for her and keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
April 13, 2011
Sending sympathy, prayers & healing to the whole Okland family. The entire real estate community across the country is shocked by this senseless tragedy & saddened at the loss of such a young beautiful life. - CBSHOME Real Estate, Omaha, NE
Debra Lawrence
April 13, 2011
My heart goes out to all of Ashley's family and friends. I'm a Realtor in Syracuse, New York and her story has really hit home to all of us Realtors here. Please accept my condolences. Debra Lawrence, RealtyUSA
Candace Bryant
April 13, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss, she is a Angel
April 13, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. -Dawn Hogan
Mark McCauley
April 13, 2011
I know your pain Deb, time will heal and look to the Lord.
April 13, 2011
I am so very sorry for your loss of this lovely young lady. May you find peace ahead. Jeff Sederberg, Realtor, Valparaiso, IN
Lee and Jodi Coons
April 13, 2011
We are so sorry for your loss. We did not know Ashley, but she sounds like she was an amazing, beautiful girl. My husband went to Ballard High School with Ashley's parents, we were so saddened by this tragic story. Know that she is on her next journey in life and may you all find peace at this difficult time.
Pat & Sue Jennings
April 12, 2011
My heart goes out for Tim, Deb,and your family. You,ll be in my prayers. I,m so sorry, Pat.
Maryanne Freeh/Realtor
April 12, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 12, 2011
So terribly sorry for your loss. Just wanted to let you know that people you don't even know are praying for you during this difficult time. Carmen Ware, Realtor
Harlan & Debi Helgren
April 12, 2011
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Ashley's tragic death. Please know that you, Tim, Deb, Brittany and Josh, as well as the extended families are in our thoughts and prayers.
Erin Helgren
April 12, 2011
Ashley was one of my first friends and someone I always think about when remembering my childhood. She is a wonderful person and will be missed.
Dan, Cheryl, Keaton & Logan Sansgaard
April 12, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to all of you during this difficult time. Words feel hollow right now and cannot express how sorry we are about the loss of your beautiful Ashley. Cherish your memories of her.
Jenni Stevenson
April 12, 2011
Sending peace and prayers your way. So sorry to hear about your loss.
Gary Eichenberger
April 12, 2011
I was lucky enough to have met Ashley at Iowa State. We had numerous classes together and she helped make my years at ISU enjoyable ones! My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss.
Michelle and Matt Shaeffer
April 12, 2011
Our deepest sympathies to the Gregg and Okland families. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lee Vogt
April 12, 2011
Ashley was a wonderful and beautiful young lady from the day she was born. Something like this is so hard to fathom. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May the love of your family and friends give you strength at this time.
Deborah Clark
April 12, 2011
I am so very sorry for your loss.
April 12, 2011
peace From James t. Neveau and Dianna Davis
Austin Hennessey & Katie Shabino
April 11, 2011
It was sooo fun riding with you and Brittany this summer on Ragbri! We were really looking forward to doing it again this year! You are such a wonderful person inside and out. You always had a smile on your face even when it was 95 degrees outside riding that mom/mountain bike. :) You will be missed so much and hopefully someday we will see you again!
Karen VanderLaan Dowden Hinn Realtors
April 11, 2011
I did not know Ashley and can hardly comprehend your loss. My heart goes out to you with deepest sympathies,thoughts and prayers.
April 11, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. May the love of friends and family carry you through your time of grief.
Mike & Linda Dawkins
(parents of Willie Jones)
Peggy Smith
April 11, 2011
May God help your family, and watch over you in heaven. Blessings to your family through this difficult time.
Geri Doyle
April 11, 2011
Such a Tragedy. May God give your family the strength to get thru the difficult days ahead. Praying for you.
Geri Doyle
Doyle & DeVoe Iowa Realty
Newton
Amber Harvey
April 11, 2011
I met Ashley years ago on her pursue to Physical Therapy, I developed a real friendship and admired everything she had going for her, beautiful girl, and one of the sweetest people I have ever been lucky enough to know. I miss you Ashley.....love Amber
Melanie Hermann
April 11, 2011
I still can't fathom that this actually happened. Words can't express how sorry I am for the entire Okland family. Ashley was a wonderful person inside and out as is evident by all that she did in her short life. I remember our fun times on the softball field at Ballard and the long bus rides. RIP Ashley, you will be missed by all those you knew.
April 11, 2011
I know your family well and know they are good christians. I know God will uphold them in their time of sorrow. You were a beautiful young woman and will be a beautiful angel. You will be missed much. Dolores Williams Huxley, Iowa
Amy Lensing
April 11, 2011
I had Ashley in most of my classes the last couple of years in college. Racking my brain against my book was made much more enjoyable by Ashley, her humor, kindness, patience in showing me the right way to do it, and her smile. I pray her family finds closure with answers. Gone but never forgotten Love, Amy Lensing and Everett Roberts
April 11, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with Britt and her family. Although I didnt have the pleasure of knowing Ashley, I do know that if she was anything like her sister heaven has gained an amazing angel. I'm so sorry for your loss.
April 11, 2011
From the Realtors in Roscoe Illinois, Our deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Ashley. God will keep her safe in his hands. Carrie Buckett
American Dwellings Realtors
April 11, 2011
Our sincere and deepest sympathies to all of Ashley's family ~
Bruce Larson & Mary Henderson
Susan Gummert
April 11, 2011
We Know Britney by Bud and Denise Seeman and their son Kolt. We go th the same Church. My husband Doug Gummert and myself Susan wish to extend our Heart felt sympathies to Ashleys Family and Friends. This is a terrible tragedy! Ashleys Famliy and Brittney will be in our prayers.
Brett Dobbe
April 11, 2011
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Ashley. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
stacey nerness
April 11, 2011
so sorry for your loss...
Jim Cormier
April 11, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Jim Cormier Minnesota Realtor
James Gregg
April 11, 2011
Ashley we are all in such pain and wish you were still here with us. May your goodness make Heaven and the Angel"s sing as they welcome you in éternity.
With all our Love
Cousin Jim Gregg
April 11, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful person inside and out. I didn't have the opportunity to know Ashley, but I know she will be missed by everyone that knew her. Sending prayers to you all! Pam - RE/MAX, Spencer, IA
Julie (Stensland) Winchell
April 11, 2011
Tim,Deb and family- I'm sure you know the Ballard community is embracing you-- we can only imagine your pain; may God grant you the peace that passes all understanding.
Mary Oxendine
April 11, 2011
Sending you our sympathy to you and family. We are sorry for your loss!
Dale and Mary Oxendine
Hilary Zrostlik
April 11, 2011
Continuing to pray for strength and comfort for you guys during this very difficult time. Ash touch the lifes of so many and there is not one memory of her that does not bring a smile to my face. She was one of a kind and will be deeply missed.
Erin Westbrook
April 11, 2011
Ashley,
You had an outrageously funny personality with the kindest of hearts. We certainly tried for the past year to get the girls together but as we know with life and careers we get busy. I'm so saddened I didn't get to see you one last time and hear your delightful giggle! I'm certain you are being taken care of in heaven as you were such an amazing person. RIP
Deb Harre
April 11, 2011
May God Bless Ashley's family at this difficult time. I feel our paths did cross. My deepest sympathy.
Deb Harre - Prudential First Realty, Ankeny
Joanne at Cedar Rapids Iowa Realty
April 11, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Your in my thoughts and prayers
Cory Beauchamp
April 11, 2011
Ashley's entire family will be in our hearts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Emily and Mark Potter
April 11, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. I remember Ashley always smiling and a lot of fun to be around. I feel blessed to have spent time with her throughout sports and highschool. She will be missed!
Jodi Peterman
April 11, 2011
All my thoughts and prayers are with the family, friends and loved ones of Ashley. I never had the pleasure of meeting your dear Ashley and have only this to share....
John 14:1-4
Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God[; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.
Gods blessings to all of you through these troubled times, may you feel his loved wrapped around all of you!
Lindsey Opp
April 11, 2011
A true Angel is above us all now. Keeping Eric and Ashley's family in our thoughts and prayers as they go through this difficult time.
Love, Ryan & Lindsey Opp
Lin Dee Stowell
April 11, 2011
Our hearts are with you in this tragic time.Although we did not know Ashley, I can see the beautiful spirit of her great grandfather Charles Gregg (my special great uncle) and the love of her family have have touched her life. We will be praying for your peace and that justice is soon found. I know she is with her very loving extended family who have gone before her including my Aunt Laurine. Peace be with you.
Steven Vorm
April 11, 2011
I only knew Ashley for a short time. The last real estate transaction was with her...she brought the buyers to what was my son's home. Very professional...but even more just pleasant to work with and be around; and WOW, what a beautiful smile she aways had. My heart goes out to her family, and my prayers are with you.
Sandy Ulmer-Fisher
April 11, 2011
My God continue to bless and comfort your family through this tragic time. What a Beautiful spirit and Blessing you were to all that knew you.. May you rest in Peace sweet Ashley.
Suzie Phipps
April 11, 2011
Though I didn't know your beautiful Ashley, I have been touched by her story and certainly by her giving nature and beautiful spirit. May you all be richley blessed by His comforting presence and love. Ashley is surely an angel among us. God bless you all.
lorraine kennedy
April 11, 2011
My heart goes out to the family of Ashley. We are given our children for awhile, but nothing ever says for how long we will get to keep them here on earth. You all have another angel in heaven. Thank God for the good memories everyone has of her and share them with everyone.
Vickie & Marcel Konz
April 11, 2011
Our heatfelt sympathy to Ashleys family.
We knew her through our daughter as they were friends from college. She had the best smile and personality, she will be missed by all who knew her and loved her.
Rose Anderson
April 11, 2011
There's not much one can say in a time like this especially not having the privilege of meetin a person u hear such great things about...god bless you and your family...my heart goes out to you
Mustafa Hassan
April 11, 2011
My deepest sympathy goes to Brittany and her family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
April 11, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
Deb Law
April 11, 2011
I did not know Ashley or her family, but want to express my deepest condolences to you all for your loss. She sounds like she was a remarkable young women who will definitely be missed. Hold your memories close and you will get through this tragedy. Vicki, Johnston, Iowa
Vicki
April 11, 2011
I did not know Ashley or her family, but want to express my deepest condolences to you all for your loss. She sounds like she was a remarkable young women who will definitely be missed. Hold your memories close and you will get through this tragedy. Vicki, Johnston, Iowa
Sandy Annett
April 11, 2011
I just sadden by her passing. Ashley I will miss your comments on Facebook and always likingmy christian posting. God bless you and your family. You will be missed. Sandy Annett Century 21
Robin Palmateer Tice
April 11, 2011
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family. Such a tragedy for a young person with lots of life to live. She sounds like a wonderful person, someone that eveyone likes to have as a friend.
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