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Blaine William Nelson

El Paso - BLAINE W. NELSON

Blaine William Nelson lived a full, socially involved, and happy life, as a loving husband, father, grandfather, friend and educator. He was loved by family and friends around the world. Blaine was born in Portland, Oregon in 1943 to Thomas and Grace Nelson. He was a long-time resident of El Paso, TX and passed away of Pancreatic cancer at home with his wife Nancy by his side on September 28, 2020. Blaine is survived by his loving wife of over 56 years, Nancy Neptune Nelson; his adult children, Bruce (Ann) Nelson of Los Angeles, CA, and Cynthia Nelson (Jacob Armengol) of El Paso; and his grandchildren Hannah, Isaak, Cienna, Isaiah, Ashley, and Jacinda. He was preceded in death by his parents and his only sibling, Erik Nelson. Blaine is also survived by his sister-in-law Susan Neptune-Townsend, brother-in-law John Neptune, and their extended families, and the many close friends he had during his lifetime.

Blaine and Nancy met as teenagers in 1962 on a peace walk, which began in San Diego, CA. Nancy soon became the love of his life, partner, and life companion. They married in 1964 in La Jolla, CA. Peace, civil rights, and social justice issues were always a hallmark of activities in their lives and their family's lives growing up. As a young family, Blaine and Nancy lived in Los Angeles and Santa Monica, CA, and then in Tucson, AZ before moving to El Paso in 1973.

Blaine began his career interests in printing, and later decided to pursue a career as a community college professor. He then earned a Bachelor's degree in Political Science from California State University-Northridge, and a Master's degree in Government from the University of Arizona. Blaine was a Professor of Government and Political Science at El Paso Community College from 1973 - 2011. Blaine had a number of roles during his tenure at the College, first as an early faculty pioneer and leader, including his election as one of the first Faculty Senate Presidents, and as the only faculty member to serve on the steering committee with College administrators and community leaders and notables, to organize a construction bond and tax election for the College, held in September, 1974. The election was successful and provided for the construction of EPCC's first campuses. Later, Blaine was one of the original set of instructors to open the Valle Verde Campus in 1978. Blaine also served as the division of social sciences instructional administrative leader for a number of years, and was instrumental in the development of two-year degree programs for Associate of Arts degrees in History, Political Science, Sociology, and Social Sciences. Blaine then returned to his love of teaching and bringing government into the lives of his students. Later during his tenure, Blaine ultimately was a pioneer and mentor, once again, this time in distance learning, particularly through online instruction. Blaine loved his career choice of college teaching and was dedicated to the thousands of students whose lives he touched for 38 years. Blaine was eclectic in his interests and involvements. He was a member of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) since 1964. He was involved in politics, including his election as a precinct chair, and as a delegate to county, state, and national conventions. He loved a good conversation, humor and banter with friends and family; he enjoyed eating at good restaurants around the world; he enjoyed many sports, attending professional baseball, basketball and football games on "sport trips" in person, to sporting events involving his grandchildren, to watching games on TV; he was a champion of the underdog, especially in sports; and he enjoyed mastering crossword puzzles. Blaine travelled to many parts of the world with Nancy and alone on "photo shoots" taking wonderful pictures and making spectacular calendars each year for family and friends. As a teenager, Blaine traveled the country with a high school friend, living for short periods of time in Tucson and New Orleans. His final trip was with Nancy to New Orleans in early March of this year. Blaine's family wishes to thank the doctors at Texas Oncology for the care and treatment they gave to Blaine during his 10-month cancer illness; and to the dedicated employees at Hospice of El Paso, for their care and support during the two months Blaine was under their care while at home. Blaine's wish was to be cremated. A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. There will soon be an opportunity through Hillcrest Funeral Home for the sharing of messages to the family. In lieu of flowers, Blaine's wish was to have donations made to a memorial fund with Habitat for Humanity (Habitat for Humanity of El Paso, 1400 Hardaway, Suite 329, El Paso Texas 79903) or to the Southern Poverty Law Center (400 Washington Avenue, Montgomery, AL 36104).

To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die. (Thomas Campbell). Services entrusted to Hillcrest Funeral Home-East

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Published by El Paso Times from Oct. 2 to Oct. 4, 2020.

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Leon Blevins

September 26, 2024

I have three short memories: 1. I interviewed Blaine when he first appeared on campus, looking to fill a spot alongside me in the government department at EPCC. He asked where his wife, Nancy, might apply for a job in El Paso. I said that she should apply at EPCC. She did, she got a position, and worked at high levels of administration for many years. 2. It was a joy to work with Blaine on winning a change in Texas law related to bond issues in Texas, a change that was highly favorable for EPCC. 3. When Blaine moved from being a faculty colleague to being my campus dean, he summoned me to his office to discuss my controversial teaching style when it came to race relations. He was having to explain to complaining students that he and I felt the same way about justice and fairness for people of all races and that we needed to be frank in discussing the issue in classes. Blaine became my hero. Leon Blevins

Mike Vandeman

September 26, 2021

I didn't know know Blaine well, but judging from who his mom was, he was a gem!

Leon Blevins

January 26, 2021

I was the first faculty member to interview and recommend Blaine for employment at EPCC. After only a few minutes into the meeting I knew that he would be a great colleague. Soon, his wife Nancy also began working with us at the college in administrative roles. We had many decades of productive and joyful work together. Blaine truly made the college and the community wonderful places to live and work.
He was our leader in getting a bond issue passed that to this day financially supports the work of the college. In many areas, he kept us "calm, cool, and collected." I truly loved him as a friend and colleague. Leon Blevins

Ted Johnston

October 13, 2020

Blaine was a great colleague, delightful conversationalist, and had a great sense of humor. He was one of the original old timers at EPCC who was a true pillar of the college both as an administrator and instructor. He and his wife Nancy were also very progressive in their views and were great to be around. I send the whole family my sincerest condolences.

Matthew Jones

October 10, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Very nice remembrance.

Sarah John

October 8, 2020

My heart goes out to the Nelson family. May the prayers of family and friends bring you some measure of comfort, and may Blaine rest in peace.

Cecilia Armendariz

October 6, 2020

Cyndi, I am so sorry for your and your families loss. Just know that he is in a much better place with our Lord and is no longer in pain. May God Bless you and yours through this trying time. May God give you peace and comfort. "Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday. Unseen unheard but always near. Still loved still missed and very dear."

Mike Vandeman

October 5, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm so glad I got to meet and spend time with Grace, Eric, Blaine, and their families. As I told Grace, if I had never met her, but only her sons, I would have to conclude that she must be a wonderful person.

Patrick pace

October 5, 2020

My love for Blaine for all my life.

Michael Lyvers

October 5, 2020

Blaine was a deeply compassionate man who always looked for the good in people. I will never forget his calming presence, compassionate nature and sense of humor. Blaine loved to laugh and I hope he is still laughing somewhere in the cosmos.

Richard Hopp

October 4, 2020

Blaine, like his brother, Erik, enjoyed family greatly and loved to hear and tell stories. We knew and admired his strong commitment to justice for all and education. My favorite memory of him is a Hopp family reunion some years ago at my sister's place at Lake Coeur d'Alene - great stories and much laughter.

Jean Knobbe

October 4, 2020

I stated, on their 56th wedding anniversary card in July, that I had had the privilege and good fortune to be in their rear-view mirror from the beginning of their courtship, while I shared high school with Nancy, until this sad time, as she is forced to say goodbye to this special man and life-long husband and partner. I shared in her excitement when they first met. Our high school choir crowd got to meet him when he paid her one of the infrequent visits to San Diego, before their marriage. We were all amazed at what a striking resemblance Blaine had to Elvis Presley, at that time. It is safe to say, we were all favorably impressed! Being a part of their wedding day and on through life, Blaine and Nancy have been two of my dearest friends and I find it very hard to have to join everyone to let Blaine go on his new journey. His wit, his intelligence, his love for Nancy and his family will always set him apart from so many others.

I join all their other friends, family and acquaintances in sending my condolences as well as those of my daughters, Heather and Kimberly and their families, to Nancy, Bruce and Cyndi and their families at this difficult time.

MARY Ann Wallesverd

October 3, 2020

I will always remember the fun we had on the beach in St Martin. May you're Memories bring you comfort.

Stacy franklin

October 3, 2020

So very sorry, Fond memories when I think about Cyndi and I Growing up . May you all find peace . Love to all

Janet (Cherry) Pitcher

October 3, 2020

Blaine was one of my many cousins who kept in touch with me over the years and was one of my favorite people. He had a wonderful laugh and was so kind. I will miss his trips to Tucson to see us when we take we go to visit our friends there every year. Love to you Nancy and family

Lynn Nelson

October 3, 2020

Blaine was a kind and loving man and the best brother-in-law. He was my rock during his brother’s illness. I will always be grateful to him. May God hold him in His loving arms.

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