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1945
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Paul Aiesi Obituary
1945 - 2019
On Thursday, November 14, 2019, Paul Alfred Aiesi went to his eternal reward at the age of 74. Paul was born in Fitchburg, Massachusetts to Sicilian immigrants, Cologero "Charles" and Maria (Federico) Aiesi, both from Pietraperzia, Sicily. Paul was the "baby" of six children, Giovannina "Jennie"Reichard, Josephine "Tootsie" Farrell, Catherine "Katie" DiMarzio, Philip Aiesi, and Lucia "Lucy" Aiesi. Paul is survived by his wife, Ann Marie (Puma) Aiesi; his sisters Katie DiMarzio and Lucy Aiesi; and his children Jenn (Aiesi) Ause, Paul "P.J." Aiesi and hiswife Jennifer (De Varney), Emily (Aiesi) and her husband Gary Melanson, Stephen Aiesi, and Michael Aiesi. He also leaves behind seven grandchildren, Nolan and Lilah Ause, Jaxon, Paislee and Jiovanni Aiesi, and Emma, Mia and Ava Melanson, and several nieces and nephews. Paul Served as a Staff Sergeant in the military from 1965-1971 (Army, 26th Aviation Battalion), and the Massachusetts National Guard. Paul and his brother Philip also owned Family Hair Care in Ayer, Massachusetts, where he was a Master Barber. Paul went on to become a Massachusetts Police Officer and later, a Detective for the City of Fitchburg, serving the community in which he was raised. After he retired from the Police Department, Paul could be found, and definitely heard, back alongside his brother cutting hair and telling stories at the Barber Shop. He enjoyed golfing, singing, and playing the piano and saxophone. Paul's humor, quick wit, generosity and love of family are his greatest attributes. He will be sadly missed by all who loved him. Paul certainly shared a sentiment with one of his favorites-Frank Sinatra, in living life-"His Way"! A Funeral Mass will be held at 11 a.m. on November 30th at Saint Leo's Roman Catholic Church in Leominster.
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Mrs. Aiesi
February 12, 2020
My husband was the most unique individual I have ever known! So full of life, energy, intelligence and wit! He suffered most of his life from Chrones disease but many people never knew because he never complained and even went to great lengths to hide his pain. He always wanted to put others at ease in that way and focused on them; he made everyone he knew feel special , like they were the only one that mattered because he cared deeply about what was right, true, false and he always knew the difference! He wasnt perfect , no one is, but he was an exemplary human being; gifted with literary, music, and dance talent!! But, his greatest talent, was his ability to adapt to any situation with ease; it was an art to him and he was a social genius in my estimation! We were inseparable and as well as I knew him; and I knew him well there was so much more I knew I would learn if given the time but he didnt get that time; but one day, I know I will be with him again and we will pick up where we left off! He was my rock; my knight in steel shining armor! No one is like him; he was so very special and I will love him eternally! If you are reading this, You Likely knew him; But you didnt know you were in the presence of a great man; my man, Paul! God bless you! Your loving wife, Ann Marie
Stephanie Silenti
November 27, 2019
My sincere condolences to the Aiesi family. I only met Paul this summer, when I contacted him to ask about the "Descendants of the Aiesi Family" book. He was such a character, telling me stories and making me laugh. I am sad to hear of his passing, but I am certain his legacy will live on. Sending love to all who knew him.
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