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Jeremy Graczyk Obituary
Jeremy was born on Aug. 29, 1977, in Atkinson to James and Darlene Graczyk. Jeremy was a highly intelligent and ambitious individual who graduated as valedictorian in 1995 from Timberlane Regional High School.
He attended college at the United States Naval Academy, where he was co-captain of the rugby team his senior year. He was a two-time Collegiate All-American whose speed and size went unmatched.
Jeremy received a bachelor of science degree in Systems Engineering in 1999.
After completing his academic studies, he was commissioned as a second lieutenant in the United States Marine Corps. He served as a platoon commander in the infantry and led Marines during the initial invasion of Iraq as part of Operation Iraqi Freedom in 2003.
He was later reassigned to a Force Reconnaissance unit as a reconnaissance platoon commander. He also served as an Infantry Company Commander during combat operations in Iraq.
Upon his return to the United States, he was reassigned to Headquarters Marine Corps, where he deployed over seven times to Afghanistan and Africa.
He was promoted to the rank of major in 2009.
His awards include three Navy-Marine Corps Commendation Medals, one Navy-Marine Corps Achievement Medal, two Combat Action Ribbons, Presidential Unit Citation, a Meritorious Unit Citation, two National Defense Service Medals, two Afghanistan Campaign Medals, five Iraq Campaign Medals, Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, and seven Sea Service Deployment Ribbons.
Jeremy was the quintessential renaissance man who embraced living each day to its fullest. He spent many years traveling the world as a free spirit and developed countless friendships along the way. His interests included rock climbing, motorcycle riding, skiing, skydiving, travel, reading, rugby and all-night discussions that showcased his love of learning and respect for knowledge.
He had an infectious commitment to each moment.
Jeremy was beloved by all and influenced many people throughout his lifetime. His generosity and kind heart were an inspiration to his family and friends. He lived his life with integrity and courage.
Jeremy is survived by his parents, James and Darlene (Shoop) Graczyk of Atkinson; sister and brother-in-law Jennifer (Graczyk) and Aaron Sakash of Somersworth, nephews, Aidan and Gabe Sakash, maternal grandparents, Richard and Leora Shoop of Shippensburg, Pa., and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
Relatives and friends may call on Thursday, July 21, 2011 from 2 to 5 and 6 to 9 p.m. at Brookside Chapel and Funeral Home, 116 Main St., Route 121A, Plaistow.
His funeral with full military honors will take place on Friday at 10 a.m. in the Atkinson Congregational Church, Main St., Atkinson, followed by rendering of military honors by the United States Marine Corps.
Burial will take place at a later date in Arlington National Cemetery
Donations may be sent to the Maj. Jeremy J. Graczyk USMC Memorial Scholarship, Timberlane Regional High School, 36 Greenough Road, Plaistow, NH 03865.
His final resting place will be at the National Cemetery in Arlington, Va.
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Sony Mancha
May 20, 2015
I served under you as a Lcpl with 1/4 B co.in OIF 06-08 sir. RIP
April 19, 2013
Thank you Major for your service to this Country.
Bravo Six enjoying his COC, Notice the Ring:)
Greg Rogers
January 5, 2012
Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences, I just found out today. Jeremy was a special person. He was my Company Commander in 2007 1/4 Bravo Co. Very few times in life do we come across people like Jeremy. He was the consummate Professional as a Marine, but he did things his way. As a leader, Bravo Company would follow him to Hell and back no questions. He was only on this earth for a short time, but he made it count! Semper Fi Bravo Six and God Bless.
Mark Reed
October 12, 2011
Yesterday, while reading Jeremy’s Grandfather’s obituary, I learned that Jeremy was gone from this world. I taught Physics at the U. S. Naval Academy and lived there with my wife Karen and two sons Baden and Luke. I was one of three officers on the Service Selection Board that approved Jeremy to become a Marine. We really didn’t have to select him, he had selected Marines long before, and there was nothing we could do about it. On all those boards reviewing all those candidates, Jeremy was the most perfect match. He spoke, walked, and played all things Marine.
I had often wondered, which country was he roaming? Which battle was he leading? Selfishly, I hoped he might settle down back in Shippensburg on the Shoop farm in Middle Spring. I retired to a house just up the road, and I thought I might catch up with Jeremy and get to hear about his career as a Marine. Maybe, I would get to tell him a bit of my 20 years as a Submariner. That will have to wait till I hopefully catch up to him somewhere, someday, God be willing.
I am very proud to have known Jeremy, and I am deeply sorry for his family’s loss. My son came back from sea today. He is a Lieutenant in the Sub force. I will talk to him in a few minutes, and I will have a different perspective, because Major Jeremy Graczyk lived and died, a man, a Marine, a leader that touch the lives of many.
Cappy Franks
September 6, 2011
Jeremy, thanks for the good times, war was hell, and you have gone to a better place...Peace, man.
August 13, 2011
Our prayers and appreciation for all you have done for our country. Raleigh, NC family
A Wilson
August 9, 2011
Jeremy was the most fearless man I have ever met. I remember Jeremy at the Cliffs of Moher...everyone was afraid to get close to the edge except Jeremy. Jeremy just stood at the very edge looking over the 700 foot drop-off without an ounce of fear. He lived the rest of his life the same way and truly fulfilled the New Hampshire motto "Live Free or Die" to its fullest. My sincerest condolences to his family. Although he is no longer with us, his impact on my life and so many others will never be forgotten.
LCPL. Corey Mcelroy
August 9, 2011
I was part of the color guard today that laid this amazing man to rest at Arlington he is a true hero and an Idol for all Marines to look up to hes done so many great things. rest in peace sir.
August 8, 2011
Our sincere condolences to the Graczyk Family.May the Lord bless you and keep you in your time of need.Although we did not know Jeremy, we have learned of his great zest and energy,his tireless bravery, and know that his legacy will endure.
The Morse Family
Travis,Amanda,and Megan
Carolynn Gallmann
August 4, 2011
What a great loss.
Rest in peace brother
Semper Fi!
Diane DeVries
July 29, 2011
Jen and family,
I am sad to hear of the loss of Jeremy. My deepest condolences to you and yours.
Donna and Ken Downes
July 29, 2011
Jen and family,
We were very saddened to hear of the loss of your brother. Keep your memories of Jeremy within your heart and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you during this time and give you the strength and peace you need.
Michael Petrilli
July 29, 2011
May your soul Rest in Peace and your family be comforted by the grace of our Lord...My heart is breaking as I write this about your loss Please accept my sincere condolences.
Michael & Kathy Petrilli...Salem NH
Josh Gann
July 28, 2011
Jeremy and I were in the same company and class at the Naval Academy. He was the kind of guy that, from the moment you met him, you knew he was in a different league, someone meant to do great things. He is absolutely one of the most genuinely impressive individuals I have ever met in my life.
To the Graczyks, I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless.
Jessica and Eric Lyon
July 27, 2011
Jeremy was a great man, although I only met him a few times, my husband Eric (who is deployed now) had great respect for Jeremy, who he worked with in Northern Virginia in 2008. We are both so sad that the world has lost such an amazing individual.
Jessica Lyon
Shelley Scott
July 27, 2011
Jen
I am so sorry to read about your brother. My thoughts are with you and your family.
July 26, 2011
To the family of Jeremy Graczyk. I'm sorry for your loss. I'm Theresa Wilson and actually got the opportunity to meet Jeremy at my nephew's Earl Danzie's wedding. I danced with him and had a great time. Jeremy was a wonderful person. He lived his life with excitement and loved it. You have beautiful memories of him and he made you proud. God bless!
July 26, 2011
I was saddened to hear of your loss. As a mother of a soldier in Special Forces, I know we face the prospect of losing our sons and daughters almost daily. To think it happened to you and your family, makes me sad. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.
LIPEO,
Carmen Young
ralph goff
July 25, 2011
you inspired me with your enthusiasm, your gallantry and your genuine desire to follow the right path instead of the easy path. I will miss you as a friend and comrade.
Jason Geurts
July 25, 2011
I played All Marine Rugby with Jeremy for several years. His tough play and fitness were always inspiration to the rest of the team. I was just a lowly E-2 for most of camps but Jeremy always treated me as if I was a fellow officer. Sad to hear one of my favorite Marine ruggers is no longer with us. My prayers are with you.
-Jason Geurts
Terry Rademacher
July 24, 2011
I didn't know your son, but wanted to offer my sincere condolences to you and your family for sharing him with the world for the good he has done. I'm sorry he had to lose his life for those of us us here in the United States.My prayers are with you and your family.
July 24, 2011
Warrior......Protector....
and Live free or die...pretty much sums it all up.....You will be missed
Semper Fi
Mike Robinson
Bedford NH
kimberly mcchesney
July 24, 2011
I did not know your family or you jermemy but you will always be one of our heros
July 24, 2011
Jen and family,
We are deeply saddened about the loss of your brother /uncle. Keep hold of your memories and know that we are thinking of you! Cora and Cooper Guilmette
Kyle Wittenbraker
July 23, 2011
I was at the All Marine Rugby Camp in 2006. Major Graczyk was the toughest rugby player I have ever met and probably the toughest Marine. I remember him being upset about the medical staff trying to put stitches in his chin. A true leader, role model, fun guy, and legitimate bad@ss. I am sad to see him go too soon.
Connie Riecke
July 22, 2011
To the Graczyk family my sincere blessings for you all during this difficult time of loss. My son, Cpl William Riecke has shared with me his admiration for your son as he bravely lead his Marines during the initial invasion of Iraq. He said that he was an amazing man of honor and he is proud to have served under his leadership in the US Marines. From one proud Marine mom to another I pray for a sense of peace in the days ahead. Maj Gracyk mission accomplished Sir, rest in peace, God bless you.
Connie Riecke, Proud Marine Mom
July 22, 2011
Dear Darlene & Family,
I am saddened that I have to send this kind of a message to you and your family. I did not know Jeremy, but I know you, Darlene, and am certain he was a wonderful young man. I know God has welcomed Jeremy and may God bless you and your family through this time of unimaginable grief. Thinking of you and praying for your family, Juanda Frelin.
Travis Richie
July 22, 2011
I'll always remember Jeremy as a friend and classmate that I looked up to, and someone who you could always count on. Rest in peace and Semper Fi! Travis Richie USMC, USNA 1999
J Ellis
July 22, 2011
I'm awfully sorry I could not be there this morning. Jeremy was an amazing individual. Not to go as far as a greek god in mythology but damn near close. The world is missing something great today and forever on. RIP.
John Rau
July 22, 2011
A true patriot, mature beyond your years. My deepest sympathy for you and your family from my daughters and I. We say thank you.
Rouleen Williams
July 21, 2011
Mr. and Mrs. Graczyk,
I do not know your son but I know the love with which he was raised as I read the thoughts of his family and friends. Thank you for his life, your teaching him to be a leader and his decision to serve our nation in the military tradition. We are enriched by his short life and I deeply mourn your great sacrifice.
Donna Dyanzio
July 21, 2011
My sincere condolences and prayers. Jeremy, A true American Hero.
May you find Peace in your love with God.
Amy Vaillancourt
July 21, 2011
Jen and family ~ I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your brother was a true hero! My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Peter Olesen Lund
July 21, 2011
Many years earlier as a young sixth grader, Jeremy's path joined mine. Jeremy was a student in my Tech. Ed. classes, for all three of his middle school years. I recall those years with great fondness and I extend to his family and close friends my thoughts and prayers.
I am certain Jeremy heard, "Well done, good and faithful servant," when he was met at Heaven's gate.
God's peace be with each you.
July 21, 2011
He is a part of all of my fond childhood memories from our days in elementary school. My thoughs and prayers go out to his family, friends and colleagues. What and exceptional and inspirational man! May he rest in peace. God Bless.
Stacie (Kelley) Brown - Phoenix, AZ
Mona Skidgell
July 21, 2011
I wish to say THANK YOU for our freedom. RIP
Please except my condolences and God Bless you and your family.
Pam Palmerino
July 21, 2011
Our Prayers and thoughts are with you all. We lost a great Hero and a person who made a big different's to so many lives.
He will be greatly missed.
The Bell-Palmerino Family. God be with you at this time of need.
July 21, 2011
I have been priveliged to have many fine leaders throughout my time in the Marine Corps. You Sir stand out as the one I looked up to most and wanted to serve with again. Consumate warrior who cared about his men and loved his country. You made a difference. Semper Fi, Killer Kane 3-1
joe gangi
July 21, 2011
not only a hero to our people and country but a HERO TO ALL OF HUMANITY for his efforts to give and preserve freedom to all the world.
He is in my prayers and with honor we should speak his name.
BROADSWORD 5
July 21, 2011
Keep the gates open upstairs as we your Warriors will meet again and dine in the halls of Vahalla
July 21, 2011
Jen, I am so very sorry for your loss. A true American Hero, a Brother, a Son, an Uncle. I just don't have the words. Please just except my condolences and God Bless you and your family.
Carol Cavanaugh (from the library)
For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud
July 20, 2011
The Final Salute
“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to Maj Jeremy James Graczyk our “Brother-in-Arms”. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Jeremy. And to Jeremy it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the devoted and selfless service he rendered to his country during Operations Iraqi Freedom and Enduring Freedom while serving in the U.S. Marine Corps. Jeremy, we bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at Ease. Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the 1,307 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Jeremy’s family and loved ones.
Dennis Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109
Connie Bartlett
July 20, 2011
Jim & Darlene, I want express my condolences at this heartbreaking time. I'm so sorry for your loss. We have lost a true American hero & it leaves a hole in our hearts. God bless you all.
SCOTT CHAMBERLAND
July 20, 2011
SEMPER FI
Barry Harrison
July 20, 2011
Jeremy’s tremendously positive contributions to his friends, the Marine Corps and his country will continue to resonate well beyond his passing. I had the pleasure of leading (or trying to keep up with…) him when he was a 2nd Lieutenant in 3rd Battalion, 7th Marines. His contagious enthusiasm and unmatched professionalism will continue to inspire me to be a better officer and man. My sincerest thanks go out to Jeremy's parents and family for raising such a gentleman and sharing him with the Marine Corps.
Carolyn Somma
July 20, 2011
I am so sorry for the loss of this wonderful young man. Although his loss to his family is immeasurable, his loss to our country will also be deeply felt. I did not have the honor of knowing this fine young man, but I have taught many students who possess his fine qualities. Currently, I have a number of former students who are serving our country in military installations all over the world. They are carrying on his legacy, and I pray every day for their safe return. May his family find comfort knowing what an exemplary son they have raised and shared with all of us.
Jim McCusker
July 20, 2011
I'm so very sorry for your loss. This young man served with honor and is the kind of example our children need today.
Brad Prunier
July 20, 2011
thoughts and prayers go out to Mr. and Mrs. Graczyk. I will always hold my memories of Jeremy close to me, he was a true friend, and a true american hero. thank you for raising such a wonderful human, i know i am a better person having known him
Henryk Zaleski USN-Ret
July 20, 2011
Rest in peace, you're paid in full.
craig grant
July 20, 2011
jeremy has honored us all and we must be thankful for his service to the united states..thank your sir!!!!!
82nd airborne craig grant
Killer Kane 5-7
July 20, 2011
You will forever be my brother and I will remember you always.
Brian Berube
July 20, 2011
JG there will never be another person like you. You were the most exceptional man i ever knew. You were my hero growing up, and you still are to this day. I love you man. Rest Easy. The world was a safer place with you in it.
Leslie Carhart
July 20, 2011
Jim & Darlene,
We can not fathom your sense of loss and heartbreak. You are in our thoughts and prayers to find comfort in having raised an exemplary son who garnered the pride, admiration and respect of so many. His life was full and purposeful, rife with adventure, service and accomplishment... a testament to your own love, support and strength of character. Gods speed and grace. Leslie and Christopher Carhart
dennis vashey
July 20, 2011
As a vietnam veteran (Navy) it is with a heavy heart that i read the passing of a fine up standing young man. I to did not know him but thank he and his family for his service to this great country my thoughs and prayers are with you all>Sempi-Fi Marine
Allan Trombley
July 20, 2011
My condolences and prayers to you all. Thank you for raising such a brave and generous young man. I know you are very proud and may our prayers help in your healing process.
Susan MacDonald
July 20, 2011
I have never met your son however I just wanted to say thank you for all that your son did to serve our country. He was truly an exceptional young man....you must be so very proud of him. I am so sorry for your loss.
Anonymous
July 20, 2011
Please help welcome this hero home TODAY! (7/20 between 2:00 and 4:00) Put your flag out and fly it high! Salute or place your hand over your heart as the procession drives through town, pauses at the Atkinson Town Green, or at his childhood home on Walker Street. Clearly Jeremy was a great man, completed his mission on earth, and was called home by the lord where we will all thank him and serve with him upon our arrival.
Carolyn Kidney
July 20, 2011
I too, did not know your son, however I am compelled to send my sincere condolences and prayers to your family. .Thank you for sharing him with our country and allowing us all to sleep well at night, knowing we are in good hands like those of your son. May your memories keep you strong at ths difficult time.
July 20, 2011
I didn't know your son, but wanted wanted to leave a thank you for his years of service and dedication to the United States of America. Men like him are what keep our country strong. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Donna McLaren
July 20, 2011
I did not know Jeremy but wanted to leave condolences. You must be so proud of your son. What a wonderful life he had. He served his country to the fullest. May your loving memories help you though this time. God bless. Donna McLaren
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