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John McCooey Obituary
DOVER - John E. McCooey, 72, gently passed away, in the arms of his family, Monday October 27, 2014 at Brigham and Women's Hospital, Boston from complications following surgery.
Born in Portsmouth, August 5, 1942 son of John Edward and Anne (Quirk) McCooey. He lived in Dover all of his life and was a graduate of Dover High School, class of 1960 and graduated from St. Anselm College. He enjoyed wintering in Sarasota, Fla.
After graduating from college he worked for the State of New Hampshire, Welfare Department. In 1984 he started his own business, New England Emergency Response Systems in Dover. His college friend, Paul Dubois, joined the business and they built a successful company for over 20 years.
John was a 36 year veteran of the Board of Commissioners of the Dover Housing Authority, and served as chair from 1998-2013.
He stood up tall for children. He had a sharp intellect and a strong "debate team" type of style. John was a strong and tireless advocate for children in the DHA neighborhoods. He wanted opportunities for children living in homes for low income residents. He championed the afterschool program at Woodman Park School and championed the HeadStart program as well as the Community Police officer in collaboration with the Dover Police Department.
His family includes his fiancee Mary Vangen of Dover and Sarasota, FL, family members include his sister Anne B. McCooey of Portsmouth, three brothers David McCooey and wife Virginia of Rochester, Patrick McCooey and wife Harriet of New York City, and James McCooey and wife Patricia of Jamestown, RI. He also leaves his nieces and nephews, Karen Gravel, Susan DiPrizio, Jeremy McCooey, Beth McCooey Johnson and John D. McCooey and cousins.
Friends are invited to call Friday from 5 to 8 p.m. at Tasker Funeral Home, 621 Central Ave. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 10 a.m. Saturday Nov. 1st at Parish of the Assumption, St. Mary Church, corner of Chestnut & Third Sts. Burial will follow in St. Mary New Cemetery.
Family flowers only and memorials in his name may be made to the Seymour Osman Community Center & Youth Safe Haven, 40 Hampshire Circle, Dover, N.H. 03820
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for John McCooey
Maurice Richard
November 9, 2014
So sorry to hear of john's passing over his service took care and made my mom and aunt for years love Maurice and Patricia Richard
Stephen Economides
November 6, 2014
John was two years ahead of me at Dover High School and I still remember his rhetorical ability as a junior and senior. He honed his skills in the Debate Club and you had to really be on your toes when diving into a serious subject with him. In this respect he got better with age. My condolences to the extended McCooey family.
Bob Kelley
November 1, 2014
I'm so sorry to just learn of John's death. He was a special person. Rest in peace.
Allan Krans
November 1, 2014
John was a dedicated member of the Board of Commissioners of the Dover Housing Authority for 36 years. He worked hard to learn the complexities of public housing often attending trainings and inquiring of others. He knew his stuff. He had a keen sense of humor and a hearty laugh. He shared his thoughts and concerns freely challenging others to do the same. His lifelong love of debating and debate team competitions was evident and often displayed. He formed his opinions based on facts and reasoning. He changed his mind based on cogent arguments. He made the DHA a better place with his persistence and loyalty. He supported and championed children. HIs efforts leave a lasting legacy. He will be greatly missed, but not forgotten.
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DC Palter
October 31, 2014
Satsuki and I send our sincere condolences to your entire family.
" Sam the Dog"
grace seldner
October 31, 2014
John had a special love for my little dog, Sam. I know when Sam gets to heaven, he will find John, and be back on his lap. We will always miss him.
Grace Seldner and " Sam the Dog"
Annette Cockburn
October 31, 2014
To the McCooey Family -
I and my family(Silver)remember many members of your family. I am very sorry to read of your loss - John certainly was a gem in the community.
May he rest in peace.
Annette(Silver)Cockburn and family
The Leach Family
October 31, 2014
Dear Mary and The McCooey Family and Scruffy and Peanut,
We are so saddened to hear of Johns passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you daily. John's spirit will always be present on the beaches of Florida. We hope you find comfort with memories of sand, sun and watching the dogs play.
Love Katie and Family
October 31, 2014
To Cub and the rest of the McCooey family, So sorry for your loss. . .Sandra Baranski
Jody Cizmadia
October 31, 2014
Cubby and John' family, I am so sorry for your loss.
Jason Hindle
October 30, 2014
Dover has lost a true giant and advocate. My condolences to his family and friends. His legacy towards advocating for the youth and those in need will be his lasting legacy.
Fritz Cerullo,OSA
October 30, 2014
I was sad to that John passed over to the Lord. John was a faithful friend who was he was a compassion and caring gentleman--John was 'the salt of the earth" compliment that reflect the genuine warm and kind human being
MayJohn rest in peace in the Kingdom of our loving God--my his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace
Fritz J. Cerullo,O.S.A. Pastor Emeritus Saint Mary Parish Dover
October 30, 2014
To all of us who knew and loved him, it's a sadder world today than just a few hours ago. I miss you already, Moe.
Esther Ann
Gail Daudelin
October 30, 2014
My deepest sympathies to John's family. He was a wonderful man who will be dearly missed.
John & Millie Emond
October 30, 2014
Hard to find the words to describe the loss at the passing of Moe. He and I have been friends for over 60 years and I will always remember his warm smile and laugh. He will be missed by all who knew him. Peace my friend...
Alice and Jeff Murray
October 29, 2014
To Mary and the McCooey family, We are heartbroken by the loss of John. He was the best neighbor when we lived at Davis Farm. Our driveway talks were the best. His wisdom and wit was second to none. His friendship we will always cherish. He was one in a million. Until we meet again my friend, hit 'em straight. And, in case you need it, god will be available to help you with your short game! Love, Alice and Jeff
October 29, 2014
Being a part of Moe's long time group of friends has been one of the true joys in my life. Moe's passing is very difficult to imagine but the amazing years of memories will always be vivid and alive. With deepest sympathy
Leslie Smith Locatelli
Eric and Joe
October 29, 2014
To the family of John McCooey, please accept our deepest sympathies. We were John's neighbors for just over a year in Davis Farm, and we always had great conversations whenever we saw him. We could never have asked for a better neighbor. He was the best. Though we did not know him long, he made a great impression on us, and we will miss him greatly.
Elkan Ries
October 29, 2014
Shocked to hear this
We argued a lot but it never carried over.Mutual respect and appreciation was our modis
My condolences to the family
The Elliotts
October 29, 2014
Jimmy & Trish & The McCooey Family,
Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you all
Greg, Cindy & Nick Elliott
Brian Collins
October 29, 2014
The obituary touched on many wonderful aspects of John's life and personality. I would also like his family and friends to know how instrumental he was in assuring that services to people with developmental disabilities and mental illness remained intact in Strafford County. John served on the Board of Developmental Services and was President when we merged with Strafford Guidance Center. Both organizations were troubled but found a path to success largely based on his countless hours of dedication, fulfilling the responsibility he felt in that volunteer role. He assured that the voices of all constituents were heard and understood before proceeding with policy or direction. I know he believed in and acted the same way in his role as Board President of Southeastern NH Services. Those of us who watched and learned from his style are terribly sad at this suddenness of his passing. He will be missed.
Brian Collins-Executive Director
Community Partners
Dave Dupont
October 29, 2014
John was a golfing partner and a great friend. My deepest condolences
Tommy & Katie Cash
October 29, 2014
The class of 1960 has lost one of it's outstanding members and we send our condolences to the McCooey family. However, if there's a debate team on the other side of the pearly gates, St. Peter had better watch out! We'll miss you Moe .........
Bob Dearborn
October 29, 2014
To the family of John McCooey, My condolences to all of you. My memories of John go back a long time to our days at DHS. I remember john as a pleasnt person to be around. I know he will be missed.
Susan and George Colby
October 29, 2014
John,We will miss you terribly. You have been a wonderful friend for nearly fifty years.We will remember all the good times we shared from Dover,and Northwood Lake,to visits in Virginia, and Florida. Love Sue and George Colby
October 29, 2014
Hard to find words to describe the feelings this morning. John and I have been friends for over 60 years and will always remember him and his smile. He will be missed by all who knew him and know that he is in a better place. Peace my Friend!!
Norma Donahue
October 29, 2014
Patrick, my sincere condolences.... I just lost my older brother, Douglas Rogers, two weeks ago.
None of this part of life is easy as we see our families age...
Sean Clarke
October 29, 2014
John was a friend and mentor in so many ways. His incredible spirit and energy is already missed. Rest in peace my friend. Your memory and spirit will live on.
Michael Mastro
October 29, 2014
Patrick, deepest sympathy for the loss of your brother.
Joe Couture
October 29, 2014
So sad to hear of John's passing. He was truly a good man who energized and motivated everyone he met. He had a great heart and gave his time freely to many. He will be truly missed by all who knew him.
Joe Couture
Former Director Somersworth and Portsmouth Housing Authorities
October 29, 2014
Dear Anne and Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Please take comfort in the fact that he is now with your mom and dad. Love, Alice
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