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Karin
August 20, 2023
Old probate paperwork popped up today and the memories came flooding back. I had to look through things from that day and as much as I tried to smile, the sadness filled my soul. Although life has changed dramatically, you are still loved and missed everyday. Sleep well.......
Lilly
December 9, 2021
Today I make final preparations for my husbands funeral. I can't even process what's going on. Just know that I've been thinking a lot about you. Kind of creepy your memory video started to randomly play on my laptop. I love and miss you dearly. Xoxo
Lilly
September 14, 2021
The last fees day, I've been thinking of you. There are homes in the burn areas that completely gone. And, as look at them, I remember our childhood home. So many great memories like gardening or taking care of me because I was so sick growing up. It's been a rough few weeks and I miss you so much.
October 18, 2018
Dad,
I sit here feeling alone and I am not sure why. I have a beautiful family, gainful employment and have been places I had never dreamed of before. I always think of you and wish you were still here, even if to make one more joke. Id love to hear your voice one more time and just talk about anything and everything. I imagine I would video chat you a lot more to show you places Ive been. I love and miss you always.
Lilly
Me
November 7, 2017
Forever tucked away in our hearts.....
Lilly
June 16, 2017
I wish you could have seen how far I've come. You are always in everything that I do. There is never a day that I don't think of you or wish you are still here. There's this place that I've been to in Missouri. The Wild Grape Leaves grow reminding me how Grandpa used to have us taste the sour grapes. There is a river here that I swear I saw you fishing in. And there's a young woman envisioning what life could have been with you still in it. I hope that you would have been proud of all of us and what we become. I love you very much. Until we meet again...
July 30, 2015
Still loving and missing you. I know you're watching over us. Sleep well....
Karin
March 26, 2014
Missing you now and always......the tears just never end......
So long ago....
Karin Agritelly
December 29, 2013
December 26, 2013
Dad,
I hope you've enjoyed the Christmas Lights at our new house. To think if we didn't move, we couldn't have set all of those lights up. Ironically, I couldn't set them all up because there wasn't enough power this year. I'm sure you could have figured a way out! Some how I feel closer to you when I am outside working on things you always did. Mom enabled my obsession with lawn ornaments for next year. Secretly, I know she likes the lights and feels you there too. After all, she did buy the outdoor music sensors to go with the lights.
Love always,
Lilly
Your joy!
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas baby......I love and miss you sooo much!
December 5, 2013
I miss you...as much today as yesterday......I wish I could hold you just one more time......sleep well.....
Me
October 20, 2013
We had to put your little dog to sleep last week. It was so sad....like losing a piece of you all over again but I know you were waiting for her at the Rainbow Bridge. I love and miss you more every day. Sleep well and kiss Little One for me.......
Your wife.....
August 5, 2013
Still missing you now and always. I walk on the beach in Naples and can almost feel you beside me. Sleep well......
Your wife forever...
June 17, 2013
Another Father's Day....and the kids couldn't deal with it. No one even mentioned it.....I couldn't handle going to your grave yesterday.....too sad......but I guess I'll go today. Uncle Ray died.....I hope you are there to welcome him home......miss you!
April 21, 2013
Getting ready to move in a couple of months. Alissa graduates soon. I soooo wish you were here to see her......you would've been so proud.....I know you're proud. Miss you and love you always.
March 16, 2013
I think of you everyday. It's so sad without you. Tomorrow is your birthday....you would have been 52..... So young.... Gone way too soon. Love you always! :(
September 30, 2012
Its been over two years since you left all of us! still just as sad as the day you left. We all still cry and think of you non-stop. Wishing you were still here but thats nothing new. LOVE AND MISS YOU!
Lilly
September 18, 2012
Dad, it is almost 2 years. I love and miss you like crazy. Please watch over Athena! Love you!
September 4, 2012
It's almost two years and I'm still lost without you. I love and miss you.
July 30, 2012
Thinking of you a lot today......and missing you.......
May 5, 2012
I found this great pic of you on a recovered hard drive. I remember that day....I miss my friend.....I miss my husband. :**(
Karin
April 23, 2012
So sad without you...I will never forget you. Love and miss you
Always and forever.
Karin
March 27, 2012
March 17th....St. Patrick's Day....Happy Birthday in heaven. Still loving and missing you so much.....now and forever!
December 28, 2011
Merry Christmas in heaven. It's my second one without you and I miss you as much today as yesterday. My pain is so deep....my love....my friend. I hope you're singing with the angels. Love and miss you.
November 14, 2011
I'm sooo lost without you still........love and miss you.
November 4, 2011
Still missing you now more than ever. I wish you were here with me. I'll love you always..............
September 18, 2011
I wrote you a letter and left it at your grave on our 24th anniversay a few days ago....my first without you. I miss you.<3
August 30, 2011
Missing you as much today as yesterday. I'll love you always.
<3 amanda
August 24, 2011
I miss you more and more. Wishing you were here
<3
Me
August 12, 2011
Missing you always.....
Your headstone came in the day before Father's Day. What horrible timing. We love and miss you so much! :(
Me
June 29, 2011
I miss you.
May 24, 2011
The Angels looked ‘ore the garden
And saw an empty space
So they glanced unto that orchard
And smiled upon your face
They saw my tears were flowing
As I tried to keep you here
It was then they gently whispered
“It’s time” softly in your ear
Now I’m left so lost and broken
And feeling all alone
And questioning why God in His wisdom
Would decide to call you home
I awaken every morning
With tears upon my face
I think of you and wonder
Why you’re in your resting place
Now all I have are memories
And dreams that will never be
You’re not the only one who died that day
You took a part of me.
For Tom 3/17/61 – 9/26/10
May 23, 2011
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
Gone too soon....
Me
May 22, 2011
I think of you every moment of every day...it feels like you will be home soon.....but I know you won't be. I'll always love you.
May 12, 2011
I bought a house in Florida...a place for us to retire...but....you'll only be with me in spirit now. Still missing you sooo much. Sleep well.
Lilly
May 11, 2011
Love and Miss you!!!
March 19, 2011
I went to the cemetary yesterday for your birthday and today for mine. Just isn't the same without you. Love and miss you always. :(
March 16, 2011
WOW...can't believe that it's your 50th birthday and you are where you are. I miss you more and more every second and it is just not getting easy. I mean i always thought i could be wishing you the happy on the top of the hill birthday. But i guess i can just do it on this.
St. Paddys Day will never be the same.
Wishing you never left and i could still see you.
Hope you are enjoying your birthday with all the loved ones you get to see now.
-amanda
March 7, 2011
Sleep well - miss you so much. :(
amanda
February 26, 2011
can't believe that it has already been 5 months and it's still not getting any better. Not that i ever think it could be. Miss and love you sooo much.
Still really hard living without you.
<3 sleep well
Together always........
February 5, 2011
Us............
February 5, 2011
They miss you so much........
February 1, 2011
9-12-87 - Our beginning,,,,,,,
February 1, 2011
I miss you Papa.
February 1, 2011
9-26-10 The last photo of you.....minutes before you left. We love you always.
February 1, 2011
Me
January 30, 2011
Four months have gone by and it seems like yesterday that I could hold you. Now it's only in my dreams. I love and miss you. :(
Karin
January 23, 2011
I'm in FL looking for a house-wishing u could retire with me. I miss u so much...
Karin
January 16, 2011
I had a bad day today.... missing you so much and wishing you could hold me just one more time. Sleep well.....
Baby Athena can wrap herself up in the blanket and imagine your arms around her.
Me
January 4, 2011
December 31, 2010
I just had my first birthday without you. It wasn't the same not hearing you sing me Happy Birthday soo out of tune. I wish you were here with us. Not a second goes by i don't think of you, and not a day goes by where i dont cry.
Sleep well my resting hero
always on my mind.
Love,
amanda
Sharon Poinelli
December 31, 2010
God Bless you Karin & kids and your beautiful granddaughter. May you find peace and happiness one day! Please know your thought of often and we love you! Uncle Ray,Aunt Sue, Lori , Pami, Sharon
Karin
December 25, 2010
I love and miss you so much...today and every day. Sleep in heavenly peace......
December 1, 2010
Time does not heal......I'm not learning to live with it...I'm simply living. I miss you every hour of every day. I love you.......
Karin
November 30, 2010
Not a second goes by when I dont think of you. I miss you more and more each passing day. Who ever said that it gets easier with time lied. My you rest in peace my hero and loving father.
Amanda
November 29, 2010
Regrettably, I was unaware of Tom's passing until recently. My prayers are with you all. I can vividly remember playing wiffle ball in the side yard and running for my life after one of my pitches struck Tom in the leg.
Matt Paradis
Karin
November 15, 2010
Time does not make it any easier. I miss you more today than yesterday and will miss you more tomorrow. Rest peacefully...
Forever Yours
November 7, 2010
Not an hour goes by that I don't think of you and wish that you were here with me. I miss you soooo much. The kids miss you sooo much.
Karin
November 1, 2010
I miss you more with each passing day. Sleep well my love.....
October 17, 2010
Dear Karen, my heart go out to you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and ask that the Lord see you through this most difficult time.
Your Soulmate
October 4, 2010
I am so lost without you. I miss you so much my love.
Bob Brick
October 2, 2010
Karin, kids and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You guys were by far the best next door neighbors we ever. Tom was such a good guy, a true classic! Ryan, Shannon, Meghan and I will hold you all in our prayers.
Gail Adamo
October 1, 2010
Dear Karin and family, we as a family send you our deepest sympathy in your sudden loss of your most loved one. No words can be spoken that would ease the pain that you all feel but know that your friends and your neighbors have you in there thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that can be done to help you all out please dont hesitate to come on down.....God bless you all.... The adamo family (#3)
Jean Schmaling
October 1, 2010
Karin and family, My heartfelt sympathy goes to all of you in such a sudden loss of your husband, Tom. You are in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.
Trish Hesslein
October 1, 2010
Dear Karin and family:
I send my heartfelt sympathy to you at this most difficult time. I hope you find some peace in remembering many happy memories of your life with Tom. Much love, Trish
Janice Chiu
October 1, 2010
Dear Karin Donny Allisa Amanda and Tommy my deepest sympathy on Tom's passing he will be sorely missed I willalways remember him helping with the yard work and snow removal miss you all glad Randy and Kara could be there to say goodbye to Tom for us god bless you all
September 30, 2010
Dear Karin,Tom was loved by all,especially the kids in the family. I remember a very bad thunderstorm at the lake. Lizzy was so scared...she jumped into Tom`s arm`s and would not get down. He was her hero that day and every time after that.Ralph and i are so sorry. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayersLove Ann&Ralph
Net and Bob Robbins
September 30, 2010
Karin,
We are so sorry~You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers
Sharon Poinelli
September 30, 2010
Karin & Family, We send our deepest sympathies to you and your entire family. We will all miss Tom !. God bless you and be with you all. Uncle Ray, Aunt Sue ,Lori , Pami, Sharon (Love from the Venbergs)
September 30, 2010
Karin and family - We are very sorry that you have lost Tom. We will keep you in our prayers. Melanie and Eric Nitsch, Westfield, MA
Amy & Jenn
September 30, 2010
Karin,
We send our deepest sympathies to you and your family. If there is anything you need, please don't hesitate to let us know.
Kelly Selander
September 29, 2010
I feel very deeply for your whole family. My love goes out to you Alissa, and I wish your family the most sincere blessings.
September 29, 2010
Dear Karen, You have our deepist sympathies. Know that our love and hearts are with you ,now and forever. I didn't know him personally but you picked him so I know that he had to be great. Anything that I can do just ask. Just know that you and your family are in our hearts and prayers. Jackie Cooke and Angel
Lori McLellan
September 29, 2010
Karin & Family,
Nothing I can say here can help with your loss. Hope it is comforting to know your friends thoughts are with you during this difficut time.. Lori McLellan
Lisa Levesque
September 29, 2010
Karin & Family, please know that our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. The Fruchtenicht/Levesque Family.
charlie nitsch
September 29, 2010
Karen
Sorry to hear about Tom..My father called me and told me what happened.To put Tom into one word I would have to say"cool"....he was cool....always a pleasure seeing you guys on that first sunday of august....im sorry for your loss..Charlie Nitsch
Eileen Canny
September 29, 2010
Karen and family, my heart goes out to you for your loss. You will all be in my prayers
Bob and Bev Strong
September 29, 2010
Dear Karen and Family,
Bob and I are so very sorry to hear of this unexpected loss to you and your family. We are thinking of you.
September 29, 2010
Karin, Tom was one of a kind. He always had a smile on his face and love in his heart for his family.He will truly be missed. He's now with our angels your Dad,Gail and Janet. Love you all. Ann Marie Clayton Walsh
Chris Covey
September 28, 2010
Karin and Family, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers for strength and peace.
Thomas Petrocione
September 28, 2010
Karen and Family we are soo very sorry for your loss, You are in our prayers.. The Petrocione family.
Jen Clayton Clark
September 28, 2010
My uncle was a great man! I remember he used to scare me so much because he was so tall compared to me. He was always in charge of the grill out at the lake. Then the next thing I knew he would be tossing me into the lake like it was nothing! I remember tractor rides, him always making sure the steps in the lake were brushed down so none of us slipped, him helping us carry the boats down the hill... it's funny, all of my memories of him were good ones and all of them show him helping or taking care of everyone else... I'm sorry we had to lose another hero in our family. If you guys need anything please let me know. I know i'm far away in miles, but not in spirit. I love him very much. He is always in my heart and mind and so are you guys.
Dee Downs
September 28, 2010
Dear Karin I am so sad to hear of the passing of your dear husband we heard many a funny story about him years ago at the day program. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Dee Downs
Guide Friends
September 28, 2010
May the Family of Thomas Agitelly, Jr. find peace within their loving memories.
The Prayers of Vicky's work friends our with you all,
Donna Lessard
September 28, 2010
My heart broke hearing the news. Karen so many good times at the lake I remember them as it was yesterday. I send my love to you and your family. He will truly be miss by all.
Laurie Gonzalez
September 28, 2010
Karin, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is with you at this difficult time. - Laurie (Mills) Gonzalez, PHS '77
Bob Coons
September 28, 2010
Karen, I am so sorry to hear about Tom, You and all your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to all in your family.
Lisa Borkoski
September 28, 2010
Karin,
You and your family are in my thoughts...
Pudgie Delohery
September 28, 2010
Karin and Family,
My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family.
Chris Singleton
September 28, 2010
Karen, my heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers.
Rozz Mitchell
September 28, 2010
Karin and Family,
I pray for your strength...
Jeanne & Chris Tennis
September 28, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to Karen and family.
Lynn MacKinnon Nowell
September 28, 2010
My sympathy and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. So shocked to hear the news.
Dan & Karen Franzen
September 28, 2010
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of loss and sorrow.
Baby Athena
September 28, 2010
Papa,
I miss you. Love you now and forever.
Baby Athena ?
Bailey Funeral Home, Inc.
September 28, 2010
Our heartfelt sympathies in this, your time of grief.
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