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John MENDILLO Obituary
MENDILLO, John "Jack"
John "Jack" Mendillo, 83 of East Haddam formerly of West Palm Beach, FL passed away peacefully on July 20, 2013 at Chestelm Convalescent Home in East Haddam. Jack fought a long, hard battle against Parkinson's Disease with few complaints. He is survived by Joanne, his wife for 40 years, three children, Sean of Green Acres, FL, Sara of Beverly, MA, Jackie and her husband Paul Kashel of Travers City, MI, seven grandchildren and one great-grandchild. Jack was born in New Haven and taught in the Cheshire School District. Before his retirement, he was employed at Conn. Education Association for 25 years. He served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. Before retiring to Florida, he and his wife Joanne lived in Cromwell, East Haddam and New Milford. Jack was an avid Boston Red Sox fan, a New York Giants Football fan and thoroughbred horse racing fan. Jack was known for his keen wit, love of teaching and loyalty to friends and family-a devoted husband, father and grandfather. For the last two years of his life, he had excellent care at Chestelm Convalescent Home. The family wishes to thank all the staff for their love, support and compassion. Jack was fortunate to have a home away from home at Chestelm.
A memorial service will be held in the fall. Donations in Jack's memory should be made to Chestelm Meditation Garden Fund and mailed to Chestelm Convalescent Home, P.O. Box 719, Moodus, CT 06469. Expressions of sympathy may be mailed to his wife Joanne Mendillo, P.O. Box 70, East Haddam, CT 06423. For online condolences, please visit courant.com/obituaries.
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Memories and Condolences
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August 16, 2013
Dear Joanne & family,
Fond memories of special happy times over dinner and evenings together at Boca Towers. Rest in peace dear friend. WINNIE & JOE PEDALINO
Diane Showich
August 8, 2013
Joanne and family,
I will remember Jack as being a gentleman and a good friend to my husband, Nick. He was a very kind soul.I am so sorry for all of you.
Jo Anne Broe
July 30, 2013
My brother and I have fond memories of Mr. Mendillo from Norton School. Our condolences are with your family.
Maria Proffitt
July 30, 2013
To the Mendillo Family,
Mr. Mendillo was my 5th grade teacher a Norton School and was by far one of my favorites! Not only did he teach us, he cared about us, joked with us, and respected us. One of my memories was watching the 1969 World Series during recess and breaks! I also remember his daughters coming on field trips with us. I had the pleasure of seeing him again at a CEA function after I had started my own teaching career and I was able to tell him how he inspired me to go into teaching. Always know that his memory will be kept alive at CHS reunions where the Norton gang inevitably gets around to reminiscing about our great teachers. My condolences on your loss--Mr Mendillo was a true educator!
Charlie Farrow
July 28, 2013
Dear Joanne and Family--Charlie, Debby, Annie, and Liz Farrow send condolences on Jack's passing. We remember him well as a great supporter, along with Tom Mondani, of Connecticut's teachers.
Much love,
Charlie and Debby Farrow
July 28, 2013
Joanne, Sean, Sara and Jackie.
My sincerest condolences to you all. We lost a wonderful person and my best friend. Jack was my confidant, co-worker, golfing friend and donut (Dunkin) eating buddy.
He will be missed by all. I am looking forward to the celebration of his life in the fall.
Don & Charlotte Frattini
John Nahas
July 28, 2013
Joanne,
My prayers are with you and your family. I remember thr parties with you and Jack. Best times of my life.
Kathryn (Chiesa) Talbot
July 28, 2013
To the Mendillo family- I stopped short when I saw Mr. Mendillo's picture today, as I remember him as my 4th grade teacher in 1959-60 at Darcey in Cheshire. A good teacher- energetic, a good role model for mischievous boys- lots of dark hair! I have good memories, and I wish you the same.
Dana Maus
July 28, 2013
To Joanne and Family. . .
Please accept our sincere sympathies on the death of your husband. . .our hearts and prayers go out to you at this very difficult time.
Dana and Margie Maus
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