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Kathleen A. Drum

1951 - 2021

BORN

1951

DIED

2021

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Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home

364 Salmon Brook St.

Granby, Connecticut

Kathleen Drum Obituary

Kathleen A. (LaRock) Drum, 69, of Granby, beloved wife of Robert M. Drum, passed away peacefully on January 18, 2021 after a long and courageous battle with Multiple Sclerosis. Born in Hartford on May 9, 1951, the daughter of the late Robert and Delphine (Miller) LaRock. She was a graduate of Avon High School and went on to obtain her bachelor's degree from Western Connecticut State College. Kathleen was hired right out of college as a music teacher in the Southwick-Tolland School System. She loved bringing music to her students and cherished the many students she educated over the years. Kathleen was also instrumental in creating and developing the drama club. She put on many Broadway like shows over the years until her retirement in 1994 due to her illness. Kathleen was a longtime communicant of the former St. Bernard's Church in Tariffville, where she was a member of the Ladies Guild. She also enjoyed crafts, needle point, cross stitch, and stuffed crafts. She is survived by her husband of forty years, Robert M. Drum of Granby, her sisters; Lynn Speckman and her husband Rick of North Swanzey, NH and Peggy Guay and her husband David of Granby and many beloved nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents. A funeral service will be held on Saturday, January 23, 2021 at 12PM at the Hayes Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, 364 Salmon Brook Street, Granby, CT 06035. Visitation will precede the service from 11-12PM. Burial will follow in St. Bernard's Cemetery, Maple Street, Tariffville. In lieu of flowers donations in Kathleen's memory may be made to Multiple Sclerosis Society, CT Chapter, 659 Tower Avenue, First Floor Hartford, CT 06112. For condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 21, 2021.

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James Hanley

January 24, 2021

My dear Aunt Kathleen, my amazing teacher prior to becoming my aunt. One beautiful day after dropping me off at home my Uncle Bob just happened to be standing in the driveway and said " Hey James, who is that cutie? " And the rest they say is history. For four years she was my music teacher, drama coach, and chorus leader. Most of my best childhood memories come from those four years spent with her. She was the Pied Piper of Powder Mill school. Where she went children followed. You will be greatly missed. Your nephew, James Hanley aka Tom Sawyer & The Cowardly Lion. Love You. Rest In Peace

Susan Raimondo

January 23, 2021

Bob, I am very sorry about Kathleen’s passing. I have many memories of the both of you at our MS Day at the Capitol. The National MS Society sends condolences to you and your family. Peace.
Susan Raimondo and the National MS Society

Terry Hahn

January 23, 2021

Kathleen was a special person who showed us what it was to have love of neighbor and courage. She always had a smile and would come to the St. Bernard's Ladies Guild events. We always looked for her presence. Even with her limitations, she always tried to do the craft we were making, engage in conversation with the group, laugh and smile and just be and in doing so, was a gift to us who knew her and loved her. Bob, thank you for always bringing her and for taking care of her all those years. Your love for one another showed. You are in my prayers.

Beth Heffernan Thomas

January 22, 2021

She was a fantastic teacher and one of my all time favorites. I’m sorry for your loss and my sincere condolences

Dave & Teddi Herbele & Family

January 22, 2021

Great inspiration and teacher to our kids, wonderful friends to us. So many great, fun memories for all of us. Sending love and prayers. Bob, so very sorry for your loss.

Robert M Drum

January 22, 2021

My beloved wife Kathleen was a true angel on earth. Her love for teaching and the thousands of kids whose life she touched is what made her so special. I will forever have a void in my heart but now know she is GOD'S most special angel. I LOVE YOU my special angel and will never forget the special LOVE we shared for so many years.

Sue Barnett

January 21, 2021

Kathleen welcomed me to Powder Mill when I started as a sub. I then went on to be hired as a fulltime teacher and got to know Kathleen better and what a wonderful woman she was. I especially remember her production of "The Music Man," no small feat with middle schoolers, but it was a great show thanks to her direction and patience. I feel honored to have known Kathy.
Sue Barnett

Bruce Lambert

January 21, 2021

My prayers and condolences. She was one of my favorite teachers. I still have a letter she wrote to my parents. I was in her first three plays at Powder Mill school. I had always hoped to talk with her again. She will be missed!

Bruce Lambert

January 21, 2021

My prayers and condolences. Mrs Drum was one of my favorite teachers. I still have a letter she wrote to my parents. I was in her first three plays at Powder Mill school. I had always hoped to talk with her again. She will be missed!

Debbie Patryn

January 21, 2021

Bob so sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. She was one of my first friends in Southwick. I loved working with her at Powder Mill. May she Rest In Peace. Debbie Patryn

Darleen Sheehan-Gonyer

January 20, 2021

Such a wonderful person, inside and out. I was lucky enough to have her as a teacher and a friend. She will be missed.

Malin Cannon

January 20, 2021

Bob, I'm so sorry to hear about Kathleen. I missed seeing her the last few months and I will miss making her look beautiful and all the many talks when she was in! She will always have a special place in my heart and many memories of all the plays and concerts that she taught so many of us! My thoughts and prayers are with you! Heaven gained a beautiful lady and teacher!

Launa

January 20, 2021

I was a student of Mrs. Drums in the early 80’s. I remember she would roll her cart into the different room of Woodland School! She was a kind woman. Prayers for all of her family and friends. RIP.

Cheryl A. Bruno

January 20, 2021

An amazing teacher and woman who touched so many lives in a positive way. Prayers for her family. The Bruno family

Douglas Pepe

January 20, 2021

She was my music teacher and director of many plays that I was in. My condolences to her husband and family.

karen lampiasi

January 20, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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