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Suellen Elizabeth Barth

Suellen Elizabeth Barth obituary, Darrington, WA

Suellen Barth Obituary

Sue died March 2, 2015, in Darrington, Wash., from complications while recovering from an extended hospital stay. She was only 63 years young. Sue was born September 25, 1951 in Seattle, Wash. and was soon after adopted by Verne and Lenora (Lee) Kurtz. She liked to tell the story of her adoption as told to her by her parents: They weren't able to have their own children, but they were glad to be able to "choose" her, like choosing a favorite candy bar. And they got to pick her like a delicious Hershey bar, rather than have no choice and end up with one of those yucky Seven Up bars. Sue grew up in North City (Seattle), up above Motorcycle Hill, with her parents, Verne and Lee and older brother, Tom. She was born a "tomboy" and hated the girlie clothes, hairdos, ribbon and bows that her mom dressed her up in. She enjoyed playing outside, getting dirty, and having adventures with the neighborhood kids. Sue attended North City Elementary, Kellogg Junior High, and graduated from Shoreline High School in the class of 1969. Sue made lifelong friends wherever she went. You could be driving around anywhere in the state of Washington and she would say "Oh look, there's "so-and-so' " and it always was the person she thought it was. After graduation Sue attended Edmonds Community College, She worked various jobs including volunteering with political campaigns, going house to house as a census taker and working with special needs kids at Fircrest School. Through her mother-in-law, Marylu Barth, she was very involved with the King County Council of Campfire. Sue also liked to go to local venues and watch bands play. She was known to rule as the Rock & Roll trivia queen at Cheeseburger Deluxe shows. On February 14, 1970 she was married to Steve Barth in a small ceremony where she was attired in a purple and green paisley mini-dress, a very "Sue" kind of outfit. Even though she was quite obviously "expecting" the lady pastor finished by stating that she "hoped the marriage would be blessed with children". Sue and Steve were "blessed" with their only daughter, Rachelle Shannon Barth on March 19, 1970. Sue, Steve and Rachel spent their first few years living in various places with friends, family and band mates. In 1974 Sue and Steve bought a house off 164th in Lynnwood, Wash. which was considered the "boonies" by most at that time. Sue went to work with her friend, Helen Cosgrove as a book keeper for a restaurant chain called The Delis. In 1977 Sue and Steve parted but remained lifelong friends and spent all holidays and occasions with their daughter and families. Sue stayed with The Deli corporation after it was purchased by CJ Worm and worked there in various positions until 1984. In 1988 when Sue's daughter, Rachel finished school at Lynnwood High, Sue moved for a brief time to Redmond, Wash. and then decided to move to Darrington and live at a friend's home that she had previously spent time in and loved. She was there a year or two when she met and fell in love with Warren "Tolly" Tollenaar. Tolly became an instant member of the family and they remained together the rest of her life. Sue's first grandson Alex was born May 17, 1994 and they spent many fun times together. Including family camping trips to the ocean, trips to Birch Bay and Silver lake, 4th of Julys in Chelan, hanging out at the Darrington Rock Festivals and their Legend of Zelda video game marathons. She was always very proud of Alex and was really excited when he was accepted into the University of Washington upon graduation and subsequently into the Architecture program. Sue was a huge Seahawks and Husky football fan and loved watching and attending the games. She especially loved Steve Largent and proudly displayed his poster on her bedroom wall next to Bruce Springsteen and a portrait of Jesus. All of her life some of Sue's other favorite pastimes were camping outdoors, listening to music, attending concerts (especially Bruce), watching movies and TV shows. It would drive her crazy if there was an actor or actress on something she was watching and she couldn't figure out who they were and where she knew them from. Sue loved collecting records, movies, frogs and then later giraffes, her home is filled with all of these things. Sue loved animals and always had a variety of dogs and cats around. Although Sue only had one daughter, she was like a second "adopted" mother to many of Rachel's friends, most especially Rachel's sisters, Tara and Malyssa, as well as the "kids" she met living in Darrington. She was a great friend to many people both young and old. Sue was preceded in death by her father, Verne Virgil Kurtz in 1970; her daughter-in-law, Talitha Miranda Winters in 2010; her mother, Lenora May Kurtz in 2012 as well as far too many close friends and family members in the last few years. Sue is survived by her daughter, Rachelle Shannon Barth; son-in-law, Travis Roth; and grandson, Alexander Travis Roth of Lake Stevens, Wash.; Rachel's dad, Stephan Barth of Everett, Wash.; Rachel's sisters, Tara Elizabeth Kaestner Barth, Malyssa Renee Reedy; Malyssa's son, Oliver and their mother Laura Kaestner all of Sedro Wooley, Wash. She is also survived by Warren Dale Tollenaar and his mother, Vivian Tollenaar of Darrington; stepson, Brian Dale Tollenaar; daughter-in-law, Jennifer Jankowski; grandsons, Dorian Bodie Tollenaar, Casten Kai Tollenaar and Kinden Dale Tollenaar, all of Everett, as well as Jennifer's children, Natalie and Kole Jankowski of Arlington, Wash.; also granddaughter, Brittney Ann Winters, Brent Travathan and great grandson, Brody James Trevathan of Panama City, Florida and many more family members in and around Chillicothe, Missouri. Suellen will be greatly missed by all of her many friends and extended family members and her special kitty, Jackie. Services for Sue are being handled through A Sacred Moment Funeral Home www.asacredmoment.com There will be a funeral service held at 11 a.m. Saturday March 28, 2015 at First Congregational Church of Maltby, 21111 86th Ave SE Snohomish, WA followed by a short burial service at 2 p.m. at Floral Hills cemetery, 409 Filbert Rd, Lynnwood, WA 98036. All friends and family are welcome to attend and feel free to show your Seahawks spirit.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) on Mar. 27, 2015.

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Travis

March 21, 2024

Miss you sue..see you soon

Travis Roth

March 31, 2015

I'm sad for both of us Rachel I'll always love you stay strong and of course will always miss you especially around the holidays it won't be the same without herLove you Rachel

jack billman

March 31, 2015

gonna miss you girl

Jerry & Donna Booker (family)

March 30, 2015

Sorry for your loss. Sue was always very nice to my family and we were happy to call her our dear friend. Warren had a wonderful life partner and memories for ever

Dennis Olsen

March 27, 2015

Condolences from the Olsen family. You will be missed terribly be all of us. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

Anita Lode Olsen

March 27, 2015

Dear Sue,
You have always been a huge part of my life, and like we used to joke to each other, my other mother. We almost made it to 40 years of a wonderful, funny, and deep friendship that we shared together. You were always there to listen and tell me just like its was, and knew what to say. At all the family gatherings, time spent at your house and Gramda Lee's house, camping trips, vacations and football games, because of my best friend, your daughter, Rachel, I always felt part of the family. You have a exquisite and honest soul, a one in a million that carried over into everything you did. Thank you for being a part of my life. I know you will be watching over Rachel and all of us other children you took in a shared your life with.
With love,
Anita

Dear Rachel,
I'm so sorry you have to feel this loss in your life. You have always been a caring person, and a strong will, that has carried you through all the loss in your lifetime. Too much for you my young friend. I will always love you and there when you need me. Time passes but true friendship remains like the sands of time. Be well and let others carry some of your burden. You are not alone. This goes for you, Travis, as well. Keep steady my friends, and keep your heart open. What we endure will only make you stronger. My deepest, deepest, condolences to you both and your entire extended family.

Connie Younkin

March 27, 2015

Sorry to hear about your mother, Rachel.

Lynn Severance

March 27, 2015

Rachel, I join with others in sharing my prayers of comfort for you and all who knew and loved your mom. I knew her briefly because of YOU, but she was so very kind ( and fun ) and I know the depth of the loss that is felt.

Love, Lynn

Lois Robinson

March 27, 2015

Sue will really be missed and I am blessed to have known her. She was a joy at the soccer games when Rachel was younger and we always had a great time. Her smile is what will be missed so much.

March 27, 2015

YOU will be greatly miss. I remember you as the frog lady...
your friend casey

corey caldwell

March 27, 2015

R.I.P. sue you will ALWAYS be remembered and NEVER forgotten !

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