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Stephen Hillyer Obituary

STEPHEN SCOTT HILLYER passed away on November 5, 2002, in Austin, Texas. Born on March 24, 1956, in Houston, Scott was a graduate of the St. John's School and later attended the University of Texas in Austin where he was a member of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity. A long time independent insurance agent known for serving his clients with diligence and integrity, Scott devoted his life to his wife and three children, who were his greatest joy. An exuberant and gifted athlete, Scott had a life long interest in sports of all kinds and he worked tirelessly for children at the West Austin Youth Association as a coach, mentor, and volunteer. He touched many lives with his infectious humor and easygoing ways, and will be remembered fondly and often by his family and his many friends. Scott was preceded in death by his parents Betty Nell and Richard Hillyer. He is survived by his wife of 17 years Cathy and his children Anne Elizabeth, Stephen Scott, Jr., and Sherwood; his brothers Ward and Stuart Hillyer of Bastrop; sister Libby Hillyer of Alvin; cousins David B. Dunham and Paul Dunham of Austin and Thomas Dunham of Santa Cruz, California; mother- and step father-in-law Maryanne and Roy Goodearle of Houston; sister- and brother-in-law Alta and Charles Asmar of Washington, D.C.; brother- and sister-in-law Sherwood and Sally Gaines of Minneapolis, Minnesota; brother- and sister-in-law Greg and Jean Gaines of Houston; sister-in-law Julie Gaines of Houston, along with Cathy's grandmother Carrie Gaines of Houston, and seven nieces and nephews. Memorial services under the direction of Weed Corley-Fish Funeral Home will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, November 8, at the Covenant Presbyterian Church at 3003 Northland Drive in Austin with the Reverend Jim Singleton officiating. The family requests that contributions in Scott's memory, in lieu of flowers, be sent to the American Cancer Society. Arrangements by Weed-Corley-Fish Funeral Home, 3125 N. Lamar, Austin - 452-8811.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Nov. 7 to Nov. 8, 2002.

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Scooter Smith

November 22, 2002

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Scott is such an indelible presence in my high school memories. Those years would not have been nearly as colorful had Scott not been part of them. Specific memories include watching (from the ground) Scott running the ball into the end zone for four years; trying to keep a straight face after one of his "outta-nowhere ad-libs" during a theater performance of Oklahoma!; his dreadful Chicago accent in "Guys and Dolls"; his singing extra loud and off-key in the Chapel choir and confusing the elderly choir director as to who was the culprit; the debate as to the wisdom of putting firecrackers in the chapel candle-snuffers; the list goes on and on. What a super guy - it is very hard knowing that he's gone - but what great memories!

Rob Sult

November 13, 2002

I join with my other fellow St. John's alums in expressing grief and sadness of the untimely passing of our friend, Scott. He was a constant source of inspiration and encouragement, to those who excelled and to those who struggled. His infectious laugh would enlighten everyone. His determination for excellence was contageous. His Spirit will live in all of us who had the opportunity to call him "my friend".

Bill Cooper

November 12, 2002

With Scott's other far-flung friends, I send our heartfelt prayers to all of his loved ones.

Scott was a very special guy -- a joyful and energetic spirit who, no matter how accompllished he was, never forgot those of us who were more timid, or less skilled, in a sport. He always had an encouraging word and a hearty smile. I'm not surprised that he became such a beloved coach to so many young people over the years.

The world is a poorer place for his passing, and a richer place for his having been with us.

Trevor Vietor

November 11, 2002

Scott was a dear friend in high school -- I caught my first (and only) touchdown pass from him against Kinkaid, and I remember his great acting in the play "Man of La Mancha" with me. What a nice, nice guy. I saw him a few years ago, and it was like no time had passed since we had last spoke. I have nothing but the fondest memories of Scott. My sincerest sympathies extend to his family and to all those others who loved him.

Kim Straus

November 10, 2002

I remember Scott's laugh as if the next moment there would be trouble. He definitely had an impish quality to him. He also had character. I had not seen him in very many years but those who knew him won't forget him. My very best to his family and friends.

Marylyn Douthit

November 10, 2002

I was so incredibly sad to learn today of Scott's passing. Even though our paths have not crossed in many years, I have thought of him often because his friendship has been and always will be one of my most cherished memories of my senior year at St. John's. Please know that your family is very much in our thoughts and prayers.

Kristin White Moore

November 10, 2002

I knew Scott at St. John's, both through the Johnnycake musicals (ah, Guys and Dolls!) and through the group gatherings -- usually at the Smiths' house. In fact, Marylyn McCulloch Douthit and I were talking and reminiscing about him just last weekend in Houston at our SJS Reunion over Kinkaid weekend. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Henry Wilde

November 7, 2002

My children played on the St.John's football team with Scott and I remember him with great affection. I am saddened by his loss.

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