Dr. Stephen Joseph Hedges
passed away October 31st, 2014, at the age of 66, ending an adventurous life distinguished by the pursuit of wisdom, a commitment to service, a thirst for travel, the appreciation of music and craftsmanship, and most importantly, an extraordinary love for God and his family.
He was born to Carl Hedges and Ethel (Schellinger) Hedges who lovingly raised him in Michigan City, Indiana. He earned his undergraduate degree from Indiana University Bloomington before journeying to California to acquire his graduate degree from Southern California College of Optometry in 1977. Doctorate in hand, he moved back to Indiana and embarked upon a notable career defined by enthusiastic learning and ardent stewardship. His devotion to providing exceptional eye care for his community at home and abroad spanned 35 years, opening practices in Danville and Indianapolis, Indiana. During this time he found enrichment through regularly visiting the homes of housebound patients, volunteering his services at many local schools and even traveling as far as Cartagena, Colombia with Bridges of Hope International to assist impoverished children in need of vision care. In 2012, he was named the national Private Practice Optometrist of the Year.
His commitment to service extended far beyond his practice in optometry. His parents had instilled in him a love for the Lord as a child, and he began taking full ownership of his faith upon returning to Indiana after graduate school. God soon provided him a loving and devoted wife in Suzy (Schuh) Hedges, and together they crafted a life serving and celebrating God's will. They attended Lakeview Church for 20 years, where he served in the Men's and Music ministries.
As a gifted multi-instrumentalist, worship leader, luthier, and ISO regular attendee, his life was further enriched and shaped by a fervent love of music. He had a deep fondness for bluegrass and old-time music in particular, which he shared with his father, and ultimately led him to the study of luthiery at Indiana University's School of Violin Building. Once there, he developed a knack for building and restoring fiddles, a craft that allowed him to donate instruments to school music programs and augmented a lifetime of joyful and passionate learning. He was also a lover of fine food, a terrific cook, and an eager traveler, having visited every state except Hawaii - tasting and exploring extraordinary cuisine all the while.
His legacy will be maintained by the family, friends, and patients whose lives he touched with singular tenderness and generosity. His zeal for life and learning are continued by his wife and children, Josh Hedges (and wife, Erin) and Sarah Hedges, who note his many unique ways of saying "I love you," and how he continued to grow more playful and affectionate even into his final days. Steve and Suzy created a family and a home so clearly defined by love that neither the dread of cancer nor the sting of death could overshadow the sweetness of their time together.
His family invites you to a Memorial Service and Celebration of Life at Lakeview Church, on the west side of Indianapolis, on Saturday, November 22nd at 3:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Bridges of Hope International to advance his legacy of vision care to those in need.
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Donna Gladden
January 8, 2015
The Hedges Family,
I am so sorry for your great loss. I was wanting to send a note wishing Dr. Hedges and family a HNYear and googled for the address when up came the obit. I did not know until now. Dr. Hedges was a very special, kind man and one that I truly felt cared and connected w/ his patients---a quality not always common amongst professionals. I appreciated that trait. A truly unique man. Peace and prayers to all of you.
Carol Becker (Hedges)
December 4, 2014
Greg called me on his way home from Steve's memorial service. He said it was a beautiful and moving service. I am lost for words as to what grief you must be experiencing, Suzy, Josh and Sarah....but know that God is celebrating Steve's arrival in heaven. He was a very gifted man and extremely kind...this is how I remember him. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Brad Tearman
November 20, 2014
Suzy, Josh, and Sarah, we are so sorry for your loss! Prayers for peace and comfort from our family to yours. Love Brad, Rebecca, Sophie, and Maddie
Linda S
November 20, 2014
I will miss you, Dr. Hedges. Your warmth and generous spirit made my eye appointments a visit to look forward to. With my deepest sympathy to your family.
November 14, 2014
Suzy,
Mom told about Steve passing, I'm so sorry for you and your family. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers, God Bless.
Erin Goodnight Clampitt
Joseph Schott
November 12, 2014
I'm sorry for your loss. I didn't know Stephen, other than as our family eye Dr. upon taking over Dr. Kernel's practice in Indy. I'm proud to know more of him and what he stood for, from these entires and his news paper obituary. He will leave a great void only to fill a huge spot in heaven. May God bless his family as ,Stephen watches over youand all. Rest now Stephen in God's loving embrace
Chris & Jeramy Spurgeon
November 12, 2014
My heart is so sad for your loss but so full for the blessings and love that this amazing man left behind. His life and legacy will be carried on by each of you and I know you will honor him and the Lord in all you do. Well done, good and faithful servant.
Jim & Jenny Amrhein
November 11, 2014
Hi Suzy,Josh,Sara & All Your Friends, Steve!!! We Are DEEPLY SADDENED LEARNING THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED "WONDERFUL FRIEND", WHEN A FEW WEEKS AGO WE WERE SO OPTIMISTIC YOU WERE GONNA BEAT THIS TERRIBLE CANCER... I RECALL HOW MUCH YOU SEEMED IMPROVED THE LAST TIME I SAW YOU, BUT IN A PRAYER WE PRAYED FOR YOU THAT DAY WE ASKED GOD FOR YOUR COMPLETE HEALING WHATEVER WAY THAT WAS GOD'S WILL... I RECALL ASKING GOD TO HEAL YOU AND KEEP YOU WITH US "DEAR FRIEND" BUT IT SEEMS GOD DECIDED YOU DIDN'T NEED TO SUFFER ANYMORE SO HE TOOK YOU HOME TO HEAVEN WHERE AMONG OTHER THINGS YOU & YOUR DAD CAN ENTERTAIN THE SAINTS & ANGELS WITH YOUR SUPERIOR "FIDDLE PLAYING" & OTHER "GREAT THINGS YOU DID TO BLESS OTHERS!!!! MY DEAR FRIEND, I HOPE YOU GET TO MEET
"OUR PRECIOUS JULIE" UP THERE & DOWN HERE THERE'S MANY FOLKS THAT ARE GONNA MISS YOU 'TILL WE ALL MEET IN HEAVEN 'SPECIALLY SUZY, JOSH, & SARA AS WELL AS OUR FAMILY AND ALL THE FRIENDS YOU SO DESERVINGLY MADE OVER THE YEARS!!! WE ALL LOVE YOU STEVE & PLEASE ENJOY YOUR PAINLESS ETERNITY WITH "OUR LORD"!!! Jim & Jenny Amrhein
Sammi
November 11, 2014
"Great are the men who leave a legacy behind" I never thought that I would have to write this as I feel deeply saddened and shocked to learn that Dr.Hedges passed away. He was a great doctor for our whole family, my kids absolutely loved the way he communicated with them on their level.Over a decade he remained a wonderful doctor and I learnt that he was an amazing human being.His humility and kindness impressed our whole family and we delightfully and eagerly visited him.I miss his stories of cooking, passion for food and travels. He was always curious to know what I was up to these days.We all have to go one after another but people who leave a mark on the world and touch many hearts are the greatest of the humans and gems.With tears in our eyes, we are praying that May his soul rest in peace and May his family find the strength to bear this irreparable loss.A salute to one of the finest people I have met in my life. Dr.Hedges you will be missed by many.Good bye.
November 11, 2014
Dear Suzy, Josh and Sara,
We love you guys. Steve IS such a dear friend and brother in the Lord. We know you miss him, but that big reunion will come! And the Celebration in November will surely bring stories of his very caring (& sometimes comical) nature. We have good memories of times with you guys.
Barb, Richard,and Ryan Wenglarz
Seneca,SC
Maura
Indianapolis
Carla Berger
November 10, 2014
The end came too soon as it always does. Danville lost a great optometrist, Suzy Sarah and Josh a husband and father and Ann, Mike Rose, Ruth and I lost a loving brother. I just know that he and dad have arranged for a hoe-down in heaven. May those who were positively touched by him pay it forward.
Laurel & Jim Hasner
November 10, 2014
What an incredible man. A leader of his family, a strong force for God's kingdom, an example of sacrificial love and vision. We celebrate his life with you who are left behind for this time being, and know that right now, he is face to face with his maker. We are praying for you and praise God for this man who was brave enough to trust in a loving God and fight the good fight. Love to Josh and Sarah especially.
Jina McCormick
November 10, 2014
Dearest Hedges Family-
May the Everlasting Arms encircle you and guide you through this grief of separation.
In His Love- Tim and Jina (Davis) McCormick
Santiago Family
November 10, 2014
Sorry for your loss. Dr. Hedges was a great doctor. He was very nice to all his patients and had so many great stories to tell, and was a great listener too.
Barbara and Russ Bush
November 10, 2014
Suzy, Russ and I are so very sorry for your loss. We know your strong faith will help you through this along with your family. God be with you.
November 9, 2014
Suzie, So sorry for your loss. We pray that the grace that comes from God alone will sustain you in the coming times. We are so thankful for our friendship during our years of living in Indiana and so thankful for Steve's good care of our eyes. Hugs, Donna and Dick Peterson
Michael Neely
November 9, 2014
Susie- Sandra and I have been living in Missouri for the last two years and I didn't see Steve's obit until today. I am so incredibly sad for your loss. Steve was an extraordinary man in so many ways. I treasure the times I had with him and it was a privilege to be his doctor and for him to be mine.those year. His legacy will live on in his children and grandchildren. I pray God's comfort for you in the days ahead.
Margie Wiseman
November 9, 2014
I will miss his kindness and patience. He remembered that I HATED the drops in my eyes so we made an agreement to only check them every other year. He always remembered this. The last time I saw Dr Hedges was just before we both were going to Alaska. He was so excited. We talked about the trip our whole session. I will miss him dearly. RIP
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