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Mark Poker Obituary

Mark S. Poker

- - Passed away unexpectedly on September 5, 2019 at the age of 55. Mark will be deeply missed by his two loving sons, Michael and Matthew; two brothers, Paul Poker and Jim (Sally) Poker; In-laws, Mr. and Mrs. Tom (Peggy) Kloempken. He eternally joins in heaven his late wife, Mary Catherine, who preceded in death in 2009 and his parents, Jerome S. and Margaret (nee Singer) Poker. Mark Poker received B.S. and J.D. degrees from Marquette University. He started his career in Milwaukee, WI immediately after receiving his L.L.M. with honors, in taxation, from Georgetown University. He then briefly moved to Charlotte, North Carolina for his career and then back to his home State of Wisconsin two years later. For the past 25 years, he spent his career at Michael Best & Friedrich LLP where he Chaired the Wealth Planning practice and served as a trusted advisor to individuals, family fiduciaries and businesses. Clients turned to him for his deep experience representing both businesses and individuals in tax and succession planning, along with disputes with state and federal tax authorities. Mark served on the boards of directors of several closely held businesses and family foundations. He was also a Fellow of the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel as well as an adjunct professor for the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee Lubar School of Business. In addition, he taught numerous estate and succession planning courses for the American Bar Association, Notre Dame Estate Planning Institute, Wisconsin Institute of CPAs, National Law Institute, Northwestern Mutual, the Wisconsin and North Carolina State Bars and other professional and community organizations. Although Mark's professional accomplishments are many, they pale in comparison as a father. Mark was completely dedicated to his sons, Michael and Matthew. The three were inseparable. Mark was extremely proud of the young men they have become: intelligent, kind, respectful and of course very good athletes. Sports were a consistent and central theme of the Poker household being thoroughly discussed, analyzed, watched and debated. But best of all was then they were participated in by his sons. Mark enjoyed coaching and watching his sons grow and their skills blossom through a tremendous amount of hard work and dedication. Mark attended and wholeheartedly enjoyed all the games, regardless of location or time of day (meaning at times taking off of work early to watch and support his sons). Mark has been acknowledged in The Best Lawyers in America® for trusts and estates since 2002. He has been recognized every year since 2005 on the "Wisconsin Super Lawyers" list in the area of estate planning. Mark served on the planned giving advisory councils for the American Heart Association, Children's Hospital - Milwaukee, Community Memorial Hospital - Menomonee Falls and St. John Vianney Catholic Church. Prior to passing, he was the Chairman of Planned Giving Committee for the Children's Hospital and was the Trustee for the Zoological Society of Milwaukee Endowment Trust. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, September 11, 2019 from 2:00 to 9:00 pm at the Becker Ritter Funeral Home, 14075 W. North Ave., Brookfield, WI 53005. Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, September 12, 2019 at 10:00 am at St. John Vianney Catholic Church, 1755 N. Calhoun Rd., Brookfield, WI 53005. Interment will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery, Milwaukee. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the College of Business Administration at Marquette University to create a scholarship fund in Mark's name (1250 W. Wisconsin Ave. Milwaukee, WI 53233).

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Sep. 8 to Sep. 10, 2019.

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Harry Marek

September 2, 2023

I think of Mark many times throughout the year.
I miss his advice and knowledge .
Harry

Ellen Roy

September 12, 2019

I worked for Mark many years ago at MBF. I was shocked to hear about this and my heart breaks for his boys.

God bless him and his family.

Ellen Roy

Marc and Pearl Kravets

September 12, 2019

Tom, Peggy, and the entire Klompken and Poker family we are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Lori Ott

September 11, 2019

So very sorry to hear of Mark's passing. Was privileged to know him at Michael Best. Deepest sympathy to his family and friends, and partners at Michael Best.

Mike & Debbie Robb

September 11, 2019

Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers to go out to Michael, Matthew and the Poker and Kloempken families. Mark was a wonderful colleague, mentor and friend. He touched the lives of many in the Milwaukee estate planning community as well as his local Brookfield community. We will miss his practical down-to earth guidance and advice.

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Butch and Patty Campbell

September 10, 2019

Our deepest sympathies to family and friends. Mark is gone to soon. And all family and friends will be in our thoughts and prayers

Harry Marek

September 9, 2019

What a great person!!I will miss his knowledge and advice!.So knowledgeable but so down to earth.

Mary Kelly

September 8, 2019

God bless Michael and Matthew

Thomas Eric and Sally

September 8, 2019

Our deepest sympathies to Mark's family. Mark was a business associate then a friend! Our prayers are surrounding you boys and your family. We have watched you grow from little ones under Jesse's care to young men with updates from your very proud dad. Most Sincerely, Sally and Eric Thomas

Anne Gehl

September 7, 2019

As One of Michael and Matthews former teachers, I could not agree more. These boys will make it because of the dedication of their dad. He was a great man.... kind and cordial. I will pray for his wonderful sons.

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