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NEAL PATTERSON Obituary

NEAL L. PATTERSON Neal L. Patterson passed to the hands of his Lord Sunday, July 9, 2017, from complications of recently recurrent cancer. He was 67. Neal's story is defined by hardiness, perseverance, and purpose. For a technology CEO, Patterson came from improbable origins. Born Dec. 10, 1949, in Anthony, KS, he was the middle son of tenant farmers, Wendell and Betty (Newberry) Patterson. Neal spent his early life working wheat fields on the Oklahoma-Kansas border. Wendell had a Depression-hardened work ethic, exemplified by his insistence that his sons should not stop their work until they made "one last round after sundown." Risk was inherent to the Patterson family's life as farmers. When Neal was a child, he and his father once watched a hailstorm destroy an entire year's crop - the family's sole source of income. Living through the aftermath, Neal said, provided an important lesson in resilience. As an adult, Neal spoke of the similarities between farmers and entrepreneurs. Both were susceptible to conditions beyond their control, and their success over time was based on planning, hard work, adaptability, neighborliness, and courage to go forward after apparent failure. Neal believed that agrarian values had remarkable relevance to the American experience. From an early age, Neal was fascinated with the way technology added value to life. The Patterson's first farmhouse did not have indoor plumbing or heat, apart from a single propane heater. As his family's circumstances improved, Neal welcomed each change to farm and home - the beginning of a lifelong enthusiasm for the "next new." Neal's modest upbringings encouraged him to work hard in pursuit of his own change. He received support along the way from his parents and Scoutmaster, who helped Neal achieve the rank of Eagle Scout four years early. In a town of a few hundred, he also started first grade a year ahead of schedule, so that the only other boy would have a playmate in his class. After graduating Anthony High School in 1967, Neal was accepted to Oklahoma State University. He raised livestock to pay for his tuition. There, he championed efforts to raise funds to rebuild the Pi Kappa Alpha fraternity after his chapter's house was destroyed by fire. He made lifelong friends at OSU, earning a degree in finance in 1971 and a master's degree in business administration in 1972. He spent the first six years after graduation as an information systems consultant and manager for Arthur Andersen & Co., now Accenture, in Kansas City. In 1979, at age twenty-nine, Patterson left his job to co-found Cerner with Andersen colleagues, Cliff Illig and Paul Gorup. The young entrepreneurs saw the potential of application software to transform paper-based, information-driven industries. After identifying a need in clinical medicine, they helped define the emerging medical software industry. The company was driven by Neal's belief that "architecture matters." His foresight into how healthcare would evolve, paired with his willingness to invest and take risks, allowed Cerner to distinguish itself from best-of-breed competitors by developing a fully integrated suite of clinically focused software over the next decade. Even while its first software platform experienced commercial success, Patterson pushed the company to completely rewrite the platform and solutions to meet complex future needs. Today, Cerner is one of the world's most innovative and admired companies, with health IT platforms and solutions in use in more than 25,000 facilities in more than 30 countries. Patterson guided Cerner since the company's inception. He earned a reputation as a rare entrepreneur who led the technology company through repeated cycles of growth and reinvention. Neal tended to downplay his role in Cerner's success, maintaining that he surrounded himself with very smart people, and that success followed hard work and often luck. Those who worked with him, however, describe him as a brilliant visionary and systems thinker. His boldness and persistence built an extraordinary company. Patterson was also an impatient, outspoken chief executive with high expectations for himself and others. In addition, Neal had a remarkable wit, warmth, and sense of inclusiveness that won people over. Those who knew him well understood that it was this unique mix of attributes that made him an exceptional leader. Neal never micromanaged. He worked hard to become a better leader, studying the habits of successful businesspeople including Ewing Kauffman. In the early 1980s, Kauffman, then a mentor, told Neal that the type of people he would want to work for Cerner were essentially volunteers - smart people who could work anywhere but chose Cerner because they were challenged and felt a sense of pride in their jobs. Patterson took this message to heart. He was often the first to see potential that others could not. Neal asked - and often pushed - his associates to become more than they believed they could be. They responded. He will be greatly missed by all those he inspired along the way. Apart from work, Neal gave time to causes in which he believed. He was an active supporter of the American Royal Association and the First Hand Foundation. He also strove to foster entrepreneurship as he believed that successful entrepreneurs changed communities for the better, not just by creating jobs, but also by caring about and investing in the community. When Kansas City risked losing its major league soccer team, Neal stepped in and worked to improve the franchise and rebranded it as Sporting Kansas City. To family and friends, Neal was a man of brilliant thoughts and a big heart. Despite his busy mind and schedule, he loved bringing people together. Traditions were important to him, whether that was driving a combine at harvest, bowling with family after Thanksgiving dinner, or getting classmates together for an OSU Cowboys game. He especially enjoyed passing skills and values down to a younger generation. Every Patterson can bait their own hook. He loved telling stories and frequently had a hand in creating them. Friends and family knew that hanging out with Neal would often include a physical contest, a mental challenge, or an adventure. Behind it all was a recurrent theme of wanting the people he cared about to test themselves, know themselves, and grow in boldness and self-reliance. Neal cherished each member of his family. He loved Jeanne's creative energy. He was proud of each of his children and marveled at their differences and potential. When he was diagnosed with cancer in 2016, his family was there. They worked together to ensure that he was never alone - something he described as humbling and awe-inspiring. Neal passed surrounded by family and close friends. "One last round after sundown." Consistent with his father's mantra, Patterson continued working throughout his initial cancer treatment, and even after cancer returned in 2017. He considered his work as more than a profession, something akin to a calling. In the end, Neal was much like the volunteers Kauffman described - he could have taken his talents anywhere, but chose to focus them on healthcare and on improving the lives of others. He did this because he cared about the mission and pursued this goal ferociously. He squeezed the most out of every day. But he always took time to watch the sunset. Even his last. Patterson was preceded in death by his parents, Betty and Wendell; nephew, Scott Patterson; and sister-in-law, Linda Patterson. He is survived and will be greatly missed by his wife of nearly thirty years, Jeanne Lillig-Patterson, their children, Cortney and Will Patterson; as well as his oldest son, Clay Patterson, daughter, Lindsey Patterson Smith along with their spouses Carrie and Matt and their mother, Carol Katzer; his grandchildren, Dean, Katherine, Alex and Georgia; brother, Kent Patterson and wife Gini; brother, Bryan Patterson and wife Lauri; and by his many beloved in-laws, nieces, nephews and friends. His family wants Cerner associates to know that he was proud of them and confident that Cerner will remain a visionary company. He believed an exciting era was still ahead. Former United States Senator, John Danforth, and Pastor Adam Hamilton will lead a public funeral service at 11 a.m. Thursday, July 13, at Church of the Resurrection in Leawood, KS. Live video of the service will be available at cor.org/memorialsonline. A private burial service will follow. Anyone wishing to leave a public remembrance may do so by sending an email to [email protected]. Assistance provided by Funeral Advocates LLC. Memorial donations may be made to the American Royal Association, First Hand Foundation, Oklahoma State University, or the Gamma Chi chapter of Pi Kappa Alpha. Donations are preferred, but flowers accepted. His generosity will stay alive through the Patterson Family Foundation.

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Published by Kansas City Star from Jul. 11 to Jul. 12, 2017.

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Teresa McEldowney

July 5, 2019

I can't believe it has been 2 years since Neal's passing. Over that time I have remembered many things about my childhood and Neal, spending time on the farm with Uncle Wendell, Aunt Betty, Kent and Bryan as well as my 2 sisters Roxie & Shiela, my mom Joy, Uncle Wendell's youngest sister, and my dad Harold Oneth. He has been missed by many but especially his family and close friends. Love and prayers to all of them.

James Thomas

October 5, 2017

To the Patterson, Lillig and Illig families:

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy over your loss. Neal loved his family and his friends deeply. I had the privilege of meeting him and Cliff as a banker to discuss Cerner's needs regarding its first contract to install its Pathnet program. Prior to that job with Houston Methodist, Cerner had not one sale! He convinced me, by handing over the check for Houston Methodist's deposit for the contract and his obvious passion and commitment, that Cerner was going to grow and fast. After that financing plus those that followed, Neal called me one night about financing his 16 or so employees to purchase stock in the closely held company knowing that Cerner was going to go public in the future and he wanted his initial "associates" to participate in the company's success in its market value growth. My bank made those loans due to Neal's logical points. Needless to say those associates have fared well financially.

Neal was the smartest person in business
I've ever had the privilege to know in my some 45 plus years in commercial lending. he retained the smallest details in the company's operations and finances, yet could expound with facts on his market and its global requirements. I often thought he was a a computer himself, yet he he was even more. With his impish smile and reflective glance, one knew he was two steps ahead of every one in a conversation at a Cerner annual meeting or over dinner. And what a wit he had.

Truly, a unique treasure to his family, his friends, his associates, Cerner's clients, and Kansas City. Hunting pheasants, fly fishing for Montana trout, or talking Oklahoma coyote calling....all were special moments with Neal. I doubt if I ever meet another individual on this earth with his character and versatility. What a personality.

May God bless you all again as He did once with His gift of Neal.

Myranda Coons

August 1, 2017

I love the passion and hard work ethic that Neal founded the company on. It's this kind of dedication that has made Cerner a success. You will be missed.

G Koehler

July 25, 2017

I grew up near Manchester,Okla - went to Grade school with Neal and his brothers. Great Parents - Great Family..

Tiffany F

July 20, 2017

Neal and Jeanne's kindness, philanthropic spirit, and partnership with the Ellis Foundation provided me with a college scholarship to Oklahoma State University. I will forever be grateful for their generosity. Neal had a giving heart.

Debi & Dennis Eskie

July 17, 2017

Neal is one of those rare individuals that made a difference in the world. Our prayers are with the family as they face tomorrow without his physical presence, but we believe he will always be with you in spirit.

Debi & Dennis Eskie

July 17, 2017

Very few people can say they have made a difference in the world. Neal did that, not only in business but in his relationships with family and others. Our prayers are with the family as you face tomorrow without his physical presence, but we believe he will always be with you in spirit.

Jamie Schwarz

July 15, 2017

I worked at Cerner for several years. My fondest memory of Neal was when the first cafeteria opened in the 2900 building back in the late '90s. I walked in and saw Neal talking to an older couple. He was showing them all of the features of the this new addition. I soon realized the couple were his parents. He was so excited to share everything with them. It was very touching. My prayers are with Jeanne and the entire Patterson family.

Janice Carter

July 14, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss. He made our town halls come alive. He will be missed. Janice Carter

Bruce Pond

July 13, 2017

A true visionary. Neal taught me to always look at the bigger picture. As I watch him and Cliff grow the business (Build the Cathedral as he put it) I learned we all were working to make a huge change in the way healthcare was delivered. He certainly leaves a legacy of transforming healthcare. It was an honor to with and for him.

Rest in peace

CERBLP

Naaman Clark

July 12, 2017

First time I met Neal, we went to his house to see his mom, treated me and the pastor so nice and was great to visit with him and his wife. He loved his family for sure.
Praying for the family.

Irene Haefele

July 12, 2017

My favorite childhood memories are of being on the farm at harvest time with my cousins. My heart is with you. Peace...

Jerry Hatten

July 12, 2017

As most, I was shocked & deeply saddened to hear of Neal's passing Sunday. Neal's family, Kansas City, Cerner, SKC, the American Royal & many others lost "one of a kind" way too early. He was truly one of the good guys who impacted so many. My thoughts & prayers go out to Jeanne, Neal's family & Cliff. Safe Journey "Hawkeye"!

William Norwood

July 12, 2017

We had the pleasure of living next to Neal & Jean for nearly 10 years and were totally shocked by his passing.
Neal was a down to earth guy that always had time for you - we would meet on our tractors while mowing.

Jean, Clay, Lindsey, Cortney, and Will our Heartfelt Condolences to you on your loss. He will be missed in this community!

Bill & Jacki Norwood

Amber Norris

July 12, 2017

He was genuinely one of the nicest kindhearted people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Family was always the most important thing to him. Memories include him forgiving me for blaming his son Clay of stealing a dollar from my mom's purse (over a rocking chair at a reunion), taking us on a tour of his new office building when I was a kid, picking him and the family up from Craig Airport when they would come into Jacksonville to visit, taking us to see all the family locations around Kansas and Oklahoma before a reunion including jumping on the back of the 4 wheeler I was on to show me how to really drive it, giving us tickets to play all the games and rides at a carnival (he helped me win the water squirt game), getting my cousin Kristen Keeney Pogorzala in the dunking booth, and most touching to me, coming to Jacksonville just to be there for my grandmother's funeral. Thank you Neal for the love you always showed your family and thank you Lord for letting us have the time we had.
Love Always,
Amber McEldowney Norris

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Laurie Atchity Dressman

July 11, 2017

Hey Jeanne, I'm so thankful I read his bio. What an amazing man he was and what principles he has instilled in so many. I am sorry for your loss. I pray that you and your family and friends find strength through this time. I was moved by Sporting KC's tribute to him at the Cup game tonight. A man to be proud of who made a difference in many, many lives. Love you!

July 11, 2017

Jeanne, so sorry about your Husbans Neal. My thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Jeanne O'Boyle Teter

Barb Callahan

July 11, 2017

Neal was a leader, a leader that I followed for 18 years. His passion to make healthcare better for all people was what drove me day after day to be my best. The world lost a great visionary but his memory lives on in the hearts and minds of thousands of associates. My heartfelt condolences to his family.

Ryan Bass

July 11, 2017

Phi phi brother Patterson, I will always think fondly on the few conversations we did have! From the first hand golf tourney, to putting together your daughter's college graduation video, to pike poker night, you were always a pleasure to be around! Rest easy brother!

TOM MCKITTRICK

July 11, 2017

I was very surprised and terribly saddened to hear of Neal's passing. Neal knew what he was looking for and certainly pursued it with a passion. Its been a long but fast road since those early days at NKC Hospital. Unfortunately, Cerner has lost a true visionary.

Jack Teague

July 11, 2017

We were saddened to hear of Neal's passing. He was a wonderful person and is a great loss to Loch Lloyd as well as all of Kansas City. He will be greatly missed. Our prayers are with his family.Jack and Linda Teague

Teresa Oneth McEldowney & family

July 11, 2017

My awesome 1st cousin! I have so many good memories of him as a child through adulthood. He was a wonderful person as well as a great man. He will be missed by all. Many, many prayers to all of his family and friends.

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