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Mark E. Ball

1959 - 2019

Mark E. Ball obituary, 1959-2019, Kansas City, MO

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1959

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2019

Mark Ball Obituary

Mark E. Ball Mark E. Ball of Prairie Village, KS died February 9, 2019. His life was cut short suddenly two days after he turned 60. Mark was a dearly loved father, grandfather, husband, son, brother, uncle, friend, teacher, mentor, and colleague and will be missed by so many. Most people knew Mark for his extraordinary musical gifts. He led and nurtured church music in the Kansas City area for more than 40 years. He was currently serving as Director of Music and Organist at Southminster Presbyterian Church and previously was the Director of Music at Village Presbyterian Church for 15 years, both of Prairie Village, KS. Additionally, Mark was presently an adjunct member of the Music Faculty at William Jewell College in Liberty, MO. Mark had an extraordinary knowledge of the importance of sacred music in the theological traditions of the church. As many can attest, he was a wonderful teacher and choral director. Mark often said he believed everyone had a voice and he could teach them to sing. He played both organ and piano with an awe-inspiring blend of technical competence, passion, and emotion. He was further proficient on the violin and used this talent to assist his youngest daughter with her violin studies. It made him happiest teaching children and adults to sing and leading congregations in song for the proclaiming and learning of the faith. Mark also produced many memorable and creative musical performances over the years. Some concerts combined choirs from different churches and from musical programs at local colleges and incorporated orchestras formed by some of the best musicians in the area and beyond. These musical experiences were profound for everyone involved. Most recently, Mark produced Gospel of Freedom at Southminster Presbyterian in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Within the music community, Mark was an ardent supporter of other local arts organizations, serving on the boards of several not-for-profit arts groups. At the drop of a hat, he would lend music, offer his expertise, accompany on the piano, or become part of the choir, whatever was needed, Mark was there to help. Mark loved spending time with his children, Jon, Susanna, and Charlotte, and delighted in being a grandfather ("Pop") to Mira and Sparrow. He enjoyed traveling, especially to England, reading biographies of great Americans to the poetry of Wendell Berry, and cooking meals for friends and family, chiefly homemade soup and bread. He often visited the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art and was fond of watching birds come to his bird feeders. Born on February 7, 1959, Mark was the son of the late Clifford and JoAnn Boyer Ball. He grew up in Olathe, KS and graduated from Olathe High School in 1977; did his undergraduate study in music at William Jewell College, class of 1981; and achieved a Master of Music from the Eastman School of Music, Rochester, NY in 1990. Mark is survived by three children, Jonathan Meredith-Ball, Edythe Susanna Van Doremalen (Matthew), and Charlotte Ball; two granddaughters, Mira and Sparrow; and his wife, Lisa Ball. Additionally, Mark is survived by four siblings, Neila Nelson (Greg), Malissa Gould (Joe), Twila Culver (Rick), and Daniel Ball (Beth). Furthermore, those surviving include an aunt, Cheri Smith (Gary), and an uncle, David Boyer, as well as many nieces and nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews, cousins, and a multitude of valued friends and colleagues. A celebration of life service for Mark will be held Saturday, February 23, 2019, 2:00 p.m. at Southminster Presbyterian Church, 6306 Roe Avenue, Prairie Village, KS 66208. A reception will follow the service in Fellowship Hall. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks honorariums for Mark be made to the established college fund for his daughter, Charlotte (529 fund through Edward Jones; financial adviser, Justin Scicluna, 913-262-1414); Southminster Presbyterian Church; or to an arts organization of your choice.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Feb. 17, 2019.

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Ball and Orrence Cousins on the deck of the Grandparents Farm. Mark is seated in front.

Karen Orrence Walkersville, Maryland

February 22, 2019

robert sperry sr

February 21, 2019

What a nice and talented man. I recall how gracious and caring he was when I and my son,
Bob Sperry, met with him to discuss my wife's
funeral service some years ago. I am so sorry he he is no longer here.

Jim Thoburn

February 21, 2019

Thinking of great memories with Mark in the late 70's and prayers for all the family. Peace...jim thoburn

Paul Cummings

February 21, 2019

Mark was one of the kindest, and smartest, and talented people I've ever known. We had a barely-kindled friendship. The evidence is, unfortunately, part of the last time I spoke to him. He didn't want me to drive home from Oklahoma City alone, on that day, from the American Choral Director's Association conference. He asked me, if he could drive back to Kansas City with me. I gladly accepted. By talented, you may think I mean only musically. I don't. He was talented with people too. And smart. We had a wonderful car ride, that day. It was like a wonderful down-payment on a house. Only, it was, a down-payment on a friendship. That's how I choose to see it. Mark, God bless him. Was so busy. One had to schedule a friendship with him. We had done that, actually. And realized that we both were interested in spending time together, outside of rehearsals, and performances. And, prior to that day, we had talked on the phone. And even chatted about playing golf together. But that day. Was fun. And significant. We had a little time to unspool our life stories with each other. And Mark's story was important, to me. I related. And he had a way of asking questions, (and not asking questions,) that was endearing. The conversation even extended to a little legal advice. Even that, had the mark of kindness. I really enjoyed sharing that time together. He even insisted on sharing driving duties. (Chuckle, and a smile) That car ride was, by far, the most time we have ever spent together. Life is often busy. But I regret, that I didn't take the time to speak to him after that day, and the summer went by quickly. And fall with school flows quickly, to winter.

So goodbye, after a long, and fulfilling car ride, with stories, and understandings about each other, was really goodbye, in more than one way. I saw him one other time, but we didn't talk. I am grateful for that gift. One, that Mark initiated. It felt simpatico. A meeting, of heart, and mind. Goodbye, friend. And thank you, for the down payment. I can't wait to continue our friendship. In the hereafter...

February 20, 2019

The world was a better place with Mark Ball's kindness and sharing of his many talents. His love of music was infectious and we all learned from him. Prayers for his family during this time of loss.

Dick & Cindy Baldwin

February 20, 2019

We have so many happy memories of Mark over the yearsholidays, birthdays, weddings, and musical performances celebrated together. We loved Mark for his kind, thoughtful, and humble demeanor. He loved visiting us in the country. We will miss you, Mark!

February 19, 2019

My sincere condolences to your family for the loss of your loved one. May the God of comfort be with you during this sad occasion and may His loving words at John 6:40 console your heart.

Jon and Shirley Fischer

February 18, 2019

What a talented man who touched so many peoples lives through music and his personality. It is so sad to see life cut so short for him. We met him at Josiah and Michelle's wedding and enjoyed hearing about his music. Our prayers are with the many family and friends who will miss him.

Parents of Michelle Gould

Eric Behrens

February 18, 2019

Mark was a high school friend, and an absolutely wonderful one. I'm glad he had a beautiful life, devoted to his family and music.

February 17, 2019

Mark brought me back to singing. I had given it up for several years, but with his encouragement, I began singing again. What a generous and patient teacher. He seemed to make everything, every song, very effort, somehow as praise for the Lord.

February 17, 2019

May the family continue to find comfort in one another and in knowing that God does care.

Julie and Bryan Rosenburg

February 17, 2019

Mark, we will miss you. You cared deeply for your family, your music, and for justice in the world. And you were a wonderful cook! You made the world a better place.

Lisa Ball

February 17, 2019

Lighting a candle for Mark from his daughter, Charlotte and me. Mark lamented the darkness of winter sometimes. He always wanted light around him and liked candlelight to Christmas lights, anything to bring light in on the darkest days/nights of the year. To him, a flame represented hope in the darkness. Mark is being missed by us and so many.

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