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Michael Allender Obituary

HILLSBOROUGH - Michael Joseph Allender, 54, died Wednesday, April 2, 2014 at Duke Regional Hospital. He was born in Lexington, KY, son of Mary Ellen Gentry Allender and the late John Spalding Allender. In addition to his father, he was preceded in death by his brother, Matthew Spalding Allender. He was an Electrical Engineer with Star Electric in NC. Mr. Allender is survived by his wife, Shirley Hughes Allender; daughter, Ashley Marie Allender; son Aaron Michael Allender, all of Durham; brothers, John Rodes Allender (Cynthia) of Brentwood, TN, Stephen Gentry Allender (Gay) of Johnstown, Ohio; sisters, Nancy A. Jones of Versailles, KY, Lynn Tipton (Wesley) of Corbin, KY; mother-in-law, Avenell Hughes; several nieces, nephews and many friends. A memorial service will be held 1 p.m., Saturday at Clements Funeral Chapel in Hillsborough with Rev. Leah Rade officiating. The family will receive friends prior to the service from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. The family would like to thank the many nurses, doctors, family and friends who provided such great and loving care for Michael. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the American Lung Association in North Carolina, 514 Daniels St. #109, Raleigh, North Carolina 27605. The family is being assisted by Clements Funeral Service, Inc., in Hillsborough, N.C. Online condolences may be made at clementsfuneralservice.com

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Published by Lexington Herald-Leader on Apr. 3, 2014.

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Shirley Allender

March 29, 2021

Michael, It so hard to live in the world without you. I am so glad you and Ashley are together. I miss you both. I will always love you
Shirley

shirley allender

April 22, 2014

love and miss you alot

Renee & JC Hare

April 5, 2014

Shirley, Aaron, Ashley,
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope knowing he is not in any more pain helps to lesson some of the pain. We are thinking about yall and praying for the strength to get thru.

Alan Morris

April 5, 2014

My prayers are with all of you at this time of sorrow. I look forward to the day when we'll be walking side by side in the glory promised by our God. God bless you all!

Prince Family

April 4, 2014

I cannot find the words to tell you how much my heart aches. I love you all so much! Mike was a wonderful man, he touched so many people, he will be missed.

Paula + Mike DeBoor

April 3, 2014

May memories of the good times be of comfort to you all. Mary ,you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Love Paula and Mike ?

Kim Hall

April 3, 2014

So very sorry for this great loss. Praying the love and peace of God will be all around your precious family.

Elizabeth Livingston

April 3, 2014

Shirley, Ashley and Aaron,
My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Much Love

Geri Wahlay

April 3, 2014

I'm so sorry Shirley. Will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Jackie Young

April 3, 2014

Shirley, Ashley, and Aaron,

May the LORD keep your spirit calm and give you strength.

Barbara Davis

April 3, 2014

May our Lord take you in His arms and surround each of you with comfort and love. I am so sorry for your loss.

Felicia Harris

April 3, 2014

You and your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless each of you.

Cindy Hopkins-Craycraft

April 3, 2014

Sorry for your loss. Prayers for the families.

Casey Dean

April 3, 2014

Love you all very much! Miss you!

Love, Casey, Jon, Kylie and Delaney Dean

Nancy Mahaffey

April 3, 2014

Mahaffey Family we love u

TERESA HURST

April 2, 2014

Shirley and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you now and in the future. God Bless you all, Teresa Hurst (Bryant)

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