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Howard Harper Obituary

KINSTON - Howard "Carl" Harper, age 77, went to be with his Lord Thursday, July 5, 2012, at Kitty Askins Hospice Center in Goldsboro, N.C. He was born April 14, 1935, in Lenoir County to the late Kathleen Harper-Warren and Tiney Warren. Carl served 22 years in the U.S. Navy retiring in 1973. He served in Korea and four tours of Vietnam. He served with the Mobile Riverine Force (Task Force 117) and is a plank owner of the USS Okinawa (LPH-3) which he was aboard during the Cuban missile crisis. He held many jobs after retiring from the Navy, but nothing compared to it, except caring and cooking for his family and supporting his wife in her career. He is preceded in death by his mother and father, his beloved wife of 48 years, Elizabeth Ann Murphy-Harper and son, Howard Bennett Harper. He is survived by his loving wife, Rachel W. Harper of the home; son Micheal Cale Harper and wife, Dawn Suzanne Minshew-Harper of La Grange; daughter Elizabeth Hope Harper-Jones and husband Ralph Carroll Jones Jr., of Fort Knox, Ky.; sister Rose Jones and husband Billy Jones, of Kinston; five grandchildren, Kurtis Allen Jones "Big Guy", Murphy Grayson Jones "Little Man", Nathan Minshew, Nicholas Stroud and TJ Dusseault; many nieces and nephews and other loving family. The family will receive friends from 7-9 p.m. on Sunday evening, July 8, 2012, at Garner Funeral Home and other times at 101 Darrel Road, LaGrange. A private family service will be held later. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in his memory to Kitty Askins Hospice Center, P.O. Box 88, Goldsboro NC 27533. Arrangements are by Garner Funeral Home. Sign the guest book at kinston.com. (Paid obituary)

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Published by Free Press from Jul. 6 to Jul. 10, 2012.

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Mindy Stevens

July 9, 2023

Rembering you Carl, with so much gratitude. Your voice calling me 'sug' will always be in my heart! Being a part of your family has continued to give me comfort. Thanks for all the love & support you & Ann gave to me!
Mindy Stevens & family

Rose Jones

July 12, 2012

Brother, I will miss you, I know we may have not talked or seen each other a lot, but we knew we could call on each other and we would be there. I love you and will miss you. Give Mama, daddy, aunt Jane and uncle Philip a kiss for me. Hope, Mike and Rachel- I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and remember I am only a phone call away. Love, your sister, Rose

Rena Harper

July 10, 2012

Carl was like a father to me, he was a wonderful man and a great father. I will miss him greatly. I love you Carl rest in peace.

Karla & Allen Paul Holcombe

July 8, 2012

Rachel, so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Chris and Carol Bates

July 8, 2012

You were a wonderful father and grandpa. I know you will be sadly missed. No more pain and suffering and in a better place

July 8, 2012

I know you are with God my friend Carl. I thought of you often over the years with fond memory. God be with the family and Rose who I know will miss Carl greatly. God Bless you all.
Keith Harper(cousin) Newport News, Va.

Sandra Faulkner

July 8, 2012

Praying for GOD to comfort each of you during this sad time.Treasure the memories and keep them in your heart... it will keep his spirit alive!

jerry eubank

July 7, 2012

R.I.P. SHIPMATE,GOD BLESS.

Lori Murphy

July 6, 2012

I was his neighbor for many years in Jacksonheights. I will cherish the memories of Carl ,Ann and Ben. We had some good times. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

Lori Stroud Murphy

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