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Daphne Elliott Obituary

April 5, 1924 - January 16, 2014 Daphne Elliott, beloved for her indomitable spirit, spunk and keen intelligence, died peacefully of natural causes in Agoura. She was 89. Elliott, a writer, avid naturalist and beloved mother of Zan Dubin-Scott, was one of early TV's few female directors. In 1951, at only 28, she directed NBC TV's "The Big Story," which dramatized true stories of newspaper reporters. She also directed, wrote or produced crime dramas, quiz, game and variety shows. Elliott was blacklisted, as was her husband, the late Charles S. Dubin, also a director. "My father and friends said that mom was blacklisted right along with dad," said Dubin-Scott. "But she never overcame the fear of retribution left by this shameful event, and never confirmed it. The blacklist marked people for life." Elliott didn't hide her initial jitters about working in a male-dominated industry, telling Cue, the Magazine of New York Living, in 1952, that she was "scared silly" to meet the man in charge of "Big Story's" production. "I wondered how to conduct myself," she said. "Should I be gay, charming, wistful, humble? I just didn't know. I finally decided to be as businesslike as I knew how. It worked out fine." Her direction of "Treasury Men in Action," an NBC crime drama, also succeeded, despite concerns by the show's advertiser that it might "take on a feminine flavor" under her hand, she told Cue. While no fan of gratuitous TV violence, Elliott recalled that in her first script, "one character shot himself and another got beat up three times on camera. When it was over, the agency's only complaint was that my treatment was too brutal." Elliott was not afraid of embracing her femininity, however. "Flirting with cameramen will get you nowhere," she told Cue. "On the other hand, I'd never work in slacks, even though I'd be much more comfortable that way." A San Francisco native, Elliott's first passion was acting. After two years at UC Berkeley, she attended New York's Neighborhood Playhouse, then pursued a career in off-Broadway. In TV, she also directed such shows as "Police Story," and wrote and produced quiz shows including ``Quiz Kids.' It is unclear whether Elliott was blacklisted for her own actions or because of her marriage to Dubin. He helped shape early TV by directing shows in the early '50s like "Tales of Tomorrow" and "Omnibus." His career stalled after he appeared before the House Committee on Un-American Activities in 1958, but he went on to prolific success, eventually directing more episodes of "M*A*S*H" than anyone else. After the blacklist, Elliott specialized in non-TV writing, becoming an editor of House Beautiful Magazine and the North American Newspaper Alliance, and a writer for the "Dinah Shore Show," among others. After raising two children, Elliott became an honored volunteer with the Sierra Club and other wilderness organizations, leading hikes in the Santa Monica Mountains. She lectured about the Greek mythology and astronomical constellations, wrote about Greek myths, and penned opinion columns. In addition to her daughter, Elliott is survived by two nieces, Hattie and Pam. Her son, Shepherd, died in 1996. A memorial will be held at Malibou Lake.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Jan. 23, 2014.

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Marjorie Belieu (Huft)

December 28, 2020

Daphne and I spent time hiking in the Santa Monica mountains many years ago. I always felt a bond with her. She was such a fun, kind, and wonderful women to me. I treasure my memories of her, whether sitting in her condo or hiking together. Love and fondness is all I have for her. Love Marjie

Zan Dubin-Scott

January 28, 2014

Thank you all for such beautiful remarks. My pain is eased knowing that my inimitable mom had many loving friends, who really got her, and admirers. I am one lucky girl.

Joyce Levinson

January 28, 2014

My father Bob Levinson met Daphne over 24 years ago. Our mother passed away and my dad started hiking in the Santa Monica Mountains with the Sierra Club. They were friends for a short time but I know that Daphne made quite an impact on him. I actually had lunch in Malibu, along with my sister Rae and her son Brian and it was memorable. I remember floating in a little boat in the lake near her home. She told my nephew some stories about the Amazon that caused him to go home and do some research. He was about 7. I may have some pictures of that time and I would love to hear from the family so I can send them along. Thank you for the sweet memory of your mother…..

January 28, 2014

Damn! I wish I'd made more of an effort to meet her. She sounds like a remarkable woman. What a lovely tribute to her. Sydney

January 27, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Mary Soccoccio

January 25, 2014

ZAN--We were so sad to hear of your Moms passing. We would look forward to seeing her at our Womens Discussion Group at the Thousand Oaks Senior Center on Tues. at 130pm. We will miss her very much. Daphne always had great stories to tell us. She was a real kick ! Mary Soccoccio & Blanche Silberberg

David Root

January 25, 2014

While reading The Los Angeles Times, I noticed that she was the director for the television series Treasury Men In Action. I researched this program, and found a video from this program. I posted this obituary on my Facebook wall, stating that this is an accomplishment for a woman even for today!!!!! My 4 cousins who are sisters are most thankful for such women as Ms. Elliott!!!!!

Mary

January 25, 2014

I will always remember Daphne with great fondness. I described her, the other day to a visitor in her hosp. room, as a "bon vivant" and the visitor wanted to know what that was. At a loss for words I turned to Daphne who said, "It's a "good liver"!" That was Daphne.

Don Hewitt

January 24, 2014

Zan,
What an inspiring history your Mother had. Although I didn't know her well, I remember her as very sophisticated and charming. You Mother and Dad were remarkable, principled and talented.
Please accept my condolences for the recent loss of your Mother.

January 24, 2014

Dear Zan, loved reading your mom's story. My deepest condolences from one red diaper baby to another. ~Susan

David Reyes

January 24, 2014

Wow, what a legacy Zan ...my condolences.

Daniels Family

January 24, 2014

Deepest sympathies offered. May your precious memories of her full and wonderful life always bring you comfort. And may the "God of all comfort," help ease the pain of your grief.

Tass Rupp

January 23, 2014

Daphne was forever encouraging of strong women, she had a career, family and life of which she was so proud. She wanted others to live their dreams, and be steadfast in the rough parts. I miss her.

Nancy Wride

January 23, 2014

What an impressive life, and woman!

Deborah Howard-Page

January 23, 2014

Sincerest condolences, Zan. I remember how hard it was when we lost Eva (who was always so fond of you). <3

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