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Elliot Valenstein Obituary

Valenstein, Elliot 12/9/1923 - 1/12/2023 Ann Arbor Elliot S. Valenstein died on January 12, 2023. Born December 9, 1923 in Manhattan, he remembered the George Washington Bridge being built and the ice man hauling a frosty block up four flights of stairs into his parents' apartment, an iron tong braced on his shoulder. Emerging from a matinee showing of the much talked about new Orson Welles' film, Citizen Kane, Elliot learned that Pearl Harbor had been bombed while he was in the theater. Two days later, he turned eighteen and shortly thereafter enlisted in the Army, spending WWII in the jungles of Burma (Myanmar) and western China. With the war over, he returned to his Inwood neighborhood and met his future wife Thelma, to whom he would be married for 73 years. He graduated from City College of New York, completed a PhD program in experimental psychology at the University of Kansas, and enjoyed a distinguished career as a neuroscientist, using brain stimulation in animals and other techniques to enhance our understanding of motivation, emotion, and behavior. Dr. Valenstein was Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Michigan. He was the author of more than 160 scientific articles and ten books, several of which have been translated into different languages. These books include BRAIN CONTROL, an account of man's attempts to control his own brain; GREAT AND DESPERATE CURES, the award-winning history of psychosurgery; BLAMING THE BRAIN, a critical examination of chemical theories for mental illness; and the highly-praised history of the discovery of neurotransmitters, THE WAR OF THE SOUPS AND THE SPARKS. His book JAI HIND: THE AMAZING LIFE OF SUBHAS CHANDRA BOSE is based on experiences he had serving in China, Burma, and India during World War II. His last book, BEHIND THE IRON CURTAIN. PSYCHOLOGY, NEUROSCIENCE , AND POLITICS IN THE SOVIET UNION, describes his work in science laboratories in the Soviet Union in 1961. Elliot's wife Thelma predeceased him by 2 years. He is survived by two sons (Paul and Carl), two daughters-in-law (Marcia and Susan), 4 grandchildren (Clara, Helen, Max, Laura), 4 great grandchildren, and numerous doctoral students and postgraduate fellows, many of whom have gone on to have their own distinguished careers. Donations can be made to the University of Michigan Valenstein Colloquium Fund at https://donate.umich.edu/wAMvQ

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Published by Ann Arbor News from Jan. 16 to Jan. 19, 2023.

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William J. Sanders

January 10, 2024

Elliot and I shared the same locker row at the gym--he was part of a really accomplished, smart, funny group of guys who made it a delight to be at the gym everyday. When he was well into his 90s, he received a case of fine wine from his son as a gift. I asked him what he planned to do with it, and he said (optimistically, as he always was) "I'll let it age for about 20 years and then I'll drink it!" We had Elliot and his wife over for dinner at our house, and for dessert we did smores over the fire--you would have thought that Elliot was 12 years old, with the enthusiasm he had for roasting those marshmallows! I miss him greatly--his wisdom, humor, humanity, and kindness.

Christy Ferguson

April 10, 2023

I first met Elliot as an undergraduate when I couldn't get into Introductory Psychology and reluctantly signed up for his class, Introduction to Psychology as a Natural Science. He was such a wonderful teacher that I was immediately converted and subsequently went on to study cognitive neuroscience in graduate school at Michigan several years later. As luck would have it, my advisors had offices down the hall from his in East Hall, and I had the pleasure of many casual interactions with him there and at the gym during my five years in the program. His work was fascinating, he was a terrific teacher and writer, and he was just an all-around nice person. I am so glad that he lived such a long, productive, healthy and happy life. My thoughts are with his family and the many other people who loved him. May his memory be for a blessing.

William Sanders

January 28, 2023

I knew Elliot from the U of M gym, where I learned much about his amazing life and love for Thelma. When one of his sons gave him a case of good wine after he turned 90, he optimistically said he would let it age for about 20 years before drinking it. One of the nicest and most interesting men I have ever met. Sincere condolences to his family-you are in my thoughts

SeonAe Yeo

January 19, 2023

Paul, Marcia, and their families,
I was deeply saddened to learn about the death of Elliot. I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you. In addition to many great achievements, he was a kind and funny neighbor to my family and me. I cherish my memories of long summer days at the neighborhood swimming pool and tennis courts.

Roland Schaedig

January 17, 2023

To Paul, Marcia, Carl and Susan: How special to have met you in the presence of our All Seasons' beloved, precious and delightful Elliot and your father/father-in-law! I only wish I would have had more than just 14 months to become more acquainted with him. I appreciate the obituary with its information on an honorable and well-lived life with those most interesting details.

I submit these words from Psalm 23: "Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever." Shalom, dear friends!

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