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Julie Flatt Obituary
Born in Queens, N.Y., on Oct. 20, 1971, she was the daughter of Thomas and Marianne (Beck) Dinsmore.
She was a waitress for Shelby's Dingmans Ferry.
In addition to her husband, she is survived by three daughters, Alexis Cole, Amber Rose, and Autumn Rae, all at home; her mother, Marianne Dinsmore of Seminole, Fla.; two brothers and one sister, Russell Dinsmore, Charles Halstead and Deborah Ann Halstead, all of Seminole, Fla.; and several nieces and nephews.
Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. Tuesday, Nov. 26, at Stroyan Funeral Home, 405 W. Harford St., Milford. The Rev. Wayne Jones will officiate. Burial will take place in Delaware Cemetery, Dingmans Ferry.
Friends may call from 9 a.m. until time of the services on Tuesday at the funeral home.
This obituary was originally published in the Pocono Record.
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ezra flatt
December 12, 2019
mom,
i didnt know this page existed, or at least i forgot it did. i wish you were here, even if i didnt get to know you super well. i think about how different my life would be if you had been here, but at least i know in my heart you would have supported me through my transition. im sorry i changed my name from amber, but im living my life as who im meant to be now.
i live in florida now. its been almost three years since i moved out, but i still miss going to see you and bring you flowers. i get homesick a lot.
i hope youre proud of dad. he did his best with us, and i think he did well. sometimes, when i feel like the world is against me and no one has my back, i give him a call just to talk.
i love you. i miss you. give aunt ginny a hug and kiss for me, ok?
Cindy Falcaro
November 24, 2018
I remember seeing Jules a few days prior to the day she passed. She spoke of her love for her girls and especially Vinney. I think of her often as well. RIP Jules.
Debra Halstead
December 7, 2005
Hey, Long time. I'm sorry that I can't be the person that you need me to be. I try but it's way to hard. You were always stronger then me. I dont know how you always did it. Regardless. There is so much going on in the family right now it's like a crazy world. Death, Weddings and babies. It's like never ending. But a least I have you to listen to me when I am talking in the car by myself. At least I know who I am talking to. I probably look like a nut to everyone else. Well I love and miss you very much. so much. We finally became friends and that I am greatful for. I will be talking to you soon. Love always, Debra Ann
Heidi
December 6, 2005
Hey Sis!
It should be easier than all this after all these years, but it isn't. Thanksgiving was hard on us all. But I enjoyed having dinner with your family on the 25th. You better be proud of your husband, he is a saint. I am so greatful to Vin, the way he has held it all together. Even though I know he hates going on. He loved you so much. And he has become a very close friend to me. We need eachother I guess. Well sis, I love you and will talk to you tonight in my dreams. Heidi
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Heidi
February 14, 2005
Hey Sis,
I am sitting here thinking about you as always. I miss you so much, and they say it gets easier, but it don't. I saw Lexi at Christmas time, she is so beautiful, just like her mom. She has gotten so big. I almost cryed when I saw her. She is still Lexi though. I am so happy her and Vin still keep in touch. He misses you alot, but you would be so proud of him sis. He has done such a great job with your girls. And he has been so good to me. I see how you loved him so much, he has a big heart. I wish you were here to hold us all. We need you. Dale is my love and he is here with me and for me. He knows all about you and wishes he knew you in life. So do I . I will write again soon sis. I love you!!!!! Happy Valentines Day!!
Lexi
February 9, 2005
hey mommie it has been a crazy school year! I start night school tonight and im praying that this will have me up to date with all my work so that i will be able to be a senior next year. i just wanted to to tell you that i miss you and that i love you very much mommie and i wish you were here to hold my hand through all the rough times i've had so far without you, i know that you are looking down on us and smiling along the way but it isnt the same. i love you
Alexis
January 28, 2005
Hey Mommie,
i miss you like mad! there were so many times i wish i could just pick up the phone and call you, but i know that isn't possible.there are times where i wish i could just hug you and have you tell me how much you love me. im sorry i haven't spent time with the girls like i should, but mom its hard to go there without you kissing me goodnight. i went up on christmas with my boyfriend and i wished so much that everything that happened was a dream and when we got there you would met me downstairs with a hug like always. its really hard to be here without you ma. there had been times that i've thought about coming to you and leaving everything. but i know that i can't. the girls are getting so big ma and they miss you so much. i love you ma and i miss you every second of that day that your not here with us.
Vinnie Flatt
November 24, 2004
It seems like a lfe time ago that I lost you, but is in fact two years ago, I miss you, In more ways than I ever thought possible,
Love always
Vinnie
October 20, 2004
HAPPY BIRTHDAY,
Still miss you just like it was yesterday that it happened
love you
Heidi Vanderhoof
April 23, 2004
Hey Sis,
As always, I am missing you. I need so much to hear your voice. I know you are with me cause I can feel you here, but I just wanna hear you. I am so happy with my life right now, everything seems to be so good. I never thought I could love and feel loved so completly. I understand now what you meant when you talked about your love for Vin. And I thank god that you felt all of this in your life. You were one lucky woman Jules. Vin is so great, I am glad that I have him in my life. He gives me the same advise you would and that is so great. Girl I will spend the rest of my days here on earth thinking about you and happy just knowing that we will meet again in a better place. Till then I will talk to you as I always do and write to you just as I am now. You will forever be my sister! Love you always, Sis
Heidi
April 5, 2004
Hey Sis,
Here I am again. I miss you girl! I just hope you are watching me from up there. I hope you are happy for me, cause your opinion has always mattered. Sis I am so happy right now for the first time in years. I know you can feel that, I think about you and I talk to Dale about you all the time. I just wish you two would have met one another. But keep me safe girl. Your girls are sooo beautiful. I see so much of you in them. I can't tell you how much I am wishing you could just hug me right now. You are forever with me. I love you!!! SIS
Heidi Vanderhoof
March 5, 2004
Hey Sis,
I was thinking about you and decided to write ya. I miss you as you well know. I know you are with me and that gets me through so much. I talk to you all the time and I get your answers and thank you for that. I have lost 160 lbs girl! I feel so great! I wish you were here so I could hug ya though. You have always been by my side and you will forever be my angel. I love you sis!
Heidi
Heidi Vanderhoof
January 28, 2004
Hey Sis,
Sorry it has been so long. I am missing you as always. I had the girls for the night the other day and boy your Autumn is her mothers daughter. She looks like you too. Amber is doing ok. She misses you though. She asked me about you cause she saw a pic of us and said it is hard to look at pics of you because they make her sad. I just told her that she should just remember the fun times she had with you and then she will smile. They are good kids sis. Alot going on with me as always so stand by me, I will make it through with you by my side. I love you girl!!!!!!
Love, Heidi
Vinnie
January 8, 2004
well the holidays are over, thank god, all I can think about is you, they say it gets easier but I don't see it, you have missed so much in the last year I can't even begin to tell you, the one thing that I can tell you is that I miss you dearly every day
Missy D
December 29, 2003
Hey Jules its been awile since I wrote my comp is out but your always on my mind. Its over a year now and I miss you as if it was yesturday. Stopped by to see Vinn at work awhile ago and saw Belinda just doesnt feel right without you. I hope you can see Jessica from up there she is so pretty and boy what a temper. Well anyway just wanted to say miss and love you Missy
Heidi
November 11, 2003
Hey Sis,
Missing you! I just wanted to say thank you for helping me through all that I am going through. I feel you here with me everyday. You are sooooo loved and missed. Talk soon. I love you! Heidi
Heidi
October 28, 2003
Hey Sis,
Well, I am so sorry that it has been so long sense I have been on here.I have so much going on right now, but you know that. Thank you for being with me through my operation. All went well and I am now 100 lbs lighter. I wish I could see your face right now as you look at me. I am back in the outfit you loved so much. Wearing the jacket is hard for me, it still smells like you. I feel better, and that is what matters. I look alot more like mom now, at least that is what everyone says. I am finally moving home to Florida sis. I have to go where my heart is and it has always been there. I am starting to stand up for myself and doing what is right for me, not everyone else. I know you would be proud. I can here ya now... i had to wait till you past to take the advise you have given me for years. Jules, I miss ya girl! I think about you everyday. And I will for the rest of my life. You will always be my best friend and sister. Talk soon! Love you, Heidi
Alexis
October 24, 2003
HEY MOMMIE TODAY MAKES 11 MONTHS THAT I COULDNT PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL YOU OR SEE.IM MAKING IT THOUGH THE PAIN.VINNIE IS DOING A GREAT JOB WITH THEM,THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU AND YOUR SMILE AND THAT WE HAD TO SIT THROUGH LONG PAINFUL HOURS TRADING SPACES.(LOL)YESTERDAY WAS PARENT TEACHER CONFERNCES I DID GOOD ONLY FAILED TWO CLASSES THAT WEREN'T MY FAULT.I PASSED ENGLISH WITH AN 85 AND SPANISH WITH A 85.IM NOT AS WELL AS I SHOULD BUT SOMETIMES ITS HARD TO CONCENTRATE BECAUSE EVERYTIME I DO MY MIND TYRAVELS TO YOU AND I THINK THAT I SHOULD OF SPENT MORE TIME WITH YOU.I HAVE TO GO NOW THE LADY IS KICKING ME OUT OF THE LIBARY I LOVE YOU.I HOPE I MEAN I KNOW I WILL SEE YOUN SOON GIVE GRANDPA TOMMIE A HUG AND KISS FOR ME, LOVE YOU
-LEXI
vinnie
October 7, 2003
miss you
Debra Halstead
October 1, 2003
Hey you!
Just wanted to say hello and that I was thinking of you always. Well six days left and that degree is mine. Its about time, huh! Well just wanted to say hello I love you and miss you very much. And going to try and go to PA after graduation to visit the girls just depends on my car and money. You dont worry Vinny is doing the job. I Love you always. Debra
Debra
August 29, 2003
Hey you,
Just me again. Thinking of you always. Just six weeks left and I will finally graduate from College. Just like you always told me I would. I just wish that you could be here to see it. I miss you so much. I still go to pick up the phone or check me email to see if you are there and then I remember. I know we didnt always get along the best or have much in common, but just when we finally changed that and had much to say and forgave and forgot the past something bad has to knock it down. I know one day I will see again and it will be the best reunion that we ever had. Like Jonathon says "Pop-pop's in the moonlight taking care of Aunt Julie" and I truly belive that he is. I also belive that you and him are watching over all of us. Just dont let him get on your nerves to much(ha ha ha). I love you and miss you very much. With Love always, your lil sis Debra
Debra Halstead
August 4, 2003
Hey you,
Cant belive it, she is 15. I dont think I ever thought that they get older. We get old and they stay little forever. I had a geat time with her when I went up. Jonathon too. She is beautiful. Love you I will talk to you soon. Your little sis, Deb
Heidi
August 3, 2003
Hey Sis! Well I am now 33 lbs lighter. I am on the road. My operation got changed to the 20th. I just can't wait for it all to be done. I am starting to get nervous though. I am having a hard time sis. I keep thinking I need to get on here and just say good-bye, but when I get here I can't do it. I need you so much and I hate that I can't pick up the phone. I start to quite often and I have to stop myself. I miss you Jules, I am so sorry that I wasn't there for you more, that you called and I didn't come to often. I hate that our lives drifted apart even a little. You showed me love, even when I did not deserve it. I was hard on you about things I didn't understand, but never for one second did I stop loving you. And you knew that. Thank you! I can't say my good byes right now, I'm ready for that yet. I am gonna go for now though, I need to sleep. I wil talk to you again soon! I love you Sis! Bye for now!
Heidi
July 6, 2003
Hey Sis,
I am thinking about you and wanted to say hello. I am getting closer to my surgery, and getting a little nervous. I went on a pre-operation diet though and lost 19 pounds in 13 days, that was preety great. I miss you girl. I got my wedding pictures back and there was a really nice one in there of you and I. I was so happy to see that. I gave one of you that I blew up to the girls and Vin. He was happy. You are forever in my thoughts sis. I am so sorry things happened like this. I really thought about you today because we went sneaker shopping and Jose picked up a pair of the high top converse and I had to laugh. I just said ok Julie, let's go. I almost bought them just to make me smile when I saw them. I love you girl, and I know you are with me. Just keep me safe through the operation girl. All my love, Heidi
Heidi
May 23, 2003
Hey Sis,
Missing ya as I sit in one of your favorite places we used to go. I have been going through pictures that I have and you look great. Seven months has done nothing to heal this pain I feel. I want you to know that you are forever in my heart. There will never be anyone who could understand me the way that you did, which leaves me feeling real alone about now. I love you sis, please watch over me and keep me strong. And don't let me do anything stupid that I will regret ok! I will write again soon. Sisters for Life! Heidi
Heidi
May 16, 2003
Hey Sis,
As always, needed a friend and who else would I turn to. I finally got my date for surgery. I go in on Aug. 14. I am scared, but I want this so bad for so many reasons. I need you to look out for me on this. Be there for me and I will feel safe in your hands. I have so much going on that needs you honest opinions. I guess I was sorta hoping you could throw me a few signs. I hate that you are not a phone call away anymore. But I know you see what is going on down here, so many to watch over, still a busy woman huh! And you wouldn't want it any other way. I love you girl! Talk soon! Remember, Aug. 14! LOVE YOU!!!!!
NIKKI DEMARIO
April 12, 2003
HEY JULES,
ITS BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I'VE WRITTEN, BUT I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY....HOW COULD I NOT, JUST LOOK AT YOUR BEAUTIFUL GIRLS...I TOOK THEM TO THE PARK TODAY WITH SUMMER. THEY HAD A GREAT TIME..FOR ME IT WAS BITTER SWEET. I REMEMBERED ALL THE TIMES WE TOOK OUR GIRLS TO THE PARK TOGETHER AND IT MADE ME FEEL SO SAD, YET I KNOW YOU WERE THERE WITH US...I MISS YOUR LAUGH. ITS BEEN SO LONG SINCE I'VE HEARD IT BUT I CAN STILL REMEMBER IT LIKE I JUST HUNG UP THE PHONE WITH YOU AFTER HEARING ONE OF YOUR FUNNY STORIES. THE GIRLS TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME AND I REMIND THEM HOW MUCH YOU LOVED "YOUR BABIES"....THE OTHER NIGHT SAMANTHA SLEPT OVER AND THEY DIDN'T WANT TO GO TO SLEEP SO I TOLD THEM I WAS GOING TO TURN THE T.V. OFF AND THEY SAID PUT ON SOMETHING THAT WE DON'T LIKE AND I WAS FLIPPING THROUGH THE CHANNELS AND TURNED TO "TRADING SPACES" AND SAMANTHA SAID "LEAVE THAT ON, WE WON'T WATCH THAT" AND AMBER SAID "THAT'S TRADING SPACES" AND I SAID "HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT'S TRADING SPACES?" (KNOWING FULL WELL THAT SHE WAS SUBJECTED TO HOURS OF IT) SHE REPLIED "MY MOMMY AND ME USED TO WATCH THAT SHOW...IT WAS HER FAVORITE SHOW!" SHE'S GETTING SO BIG, SHE IS A GREAT BIG SISTER AND RAE IS SO BEAUTIFUL...JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I WAS THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND EVERYDAY....MISS YOU NIK
Debra Halstead
April 9, 2003
Hey Sis,
Just thinking of you as usual. Vin and the girls will be here soon I cant wait for them to finally meet Jonathon. He turned three last Sunday and enjoyed himself at his buzz lightyear party. Everyone is holding up okay I guess. Ma has been a little down the last few days more then usual cause of Pop's birthday and all. I think having the girls coming will be really good for her. I just hope she will be able to adjust and go on. I know right now she really doesnt feel that way but only time will tell. Just make sure you keep an eye on her from up there and I will keep me on her from down here. Well I will write soon. I'm missing you much wishing you were here. (Oh by the way had a dream we did trading spaces how cool that would have been still watching everyday getting great ideas) I'll love you always. Love you little sis, Debra
Lexi
April 8, 2003
Hey Mommie,in 9 days me vinnie and the girls will be on our way to Florida I wish you could be here to come with us it, wont be the same with out you there.We used to always say that on Easter we would be in Florida together, as a family but I guesse we can't.Vinnie is doing a great job i know yur very proud of him I know I am,I love him s if he was my own father, but in a way he is.I Love You Ma.
Missy D
April 7, 2003
Jules, Hey you. Missing you as usual. You wouldn't believe all the new changes in my life.......just wish you were here to share them with. I am having another baby and I cant help but think you kinda have something to do with it. I got pregnant right around the time you passed away and my due date is oct 12th. I think this might be a gift from you so that the pain of missing you isnt as unbarable. Vinn sounds a little better these days but I dont think he will ever get over this and I cant say I blame him. I dont know if any of us will ever get over this. I know I dont write much here but you know I talk to you all the time and miss you more and more as time goes on. I really wish you could be here when the new baby comes, it hurts so much to know you wont. But he/she will know your girls I garantee that and he/she will know about you for sure. After all if it werent for you and Vinn he/she might not have been here at all because I might not have been here either. Thank you Jules I will never forget you or our friendship ever. Love and miss you. me
Heidi
April 3, 2003
Hey Sis,
I was thinking about you alot today. I feel like I am letting you down by not being there for the girls more, but it hurts so much. I don't want to breakdown in front of them and I feel such a bad pain in my heart when I am in your home. I try, for the girls and Vin, but it kills me inside. I am so so sorry that I am letting you and those beautiful girls down. I am so lost without you. Please help me heal enough to be able to be close to those girls, I need them. I NEED YOU!!! I love you sis.
Alexis
April 2, 2003
Mommie, i miss you so much i would give up all my treasures in the world plus much more just to have one more day with you.And ma dont worry the girls will have me and Vin to tell about you and to tell them how much of a great person you were.I know your smiling down on us right now and you were probaly smiling ear to ear when the peincipal handed me my honor roll medal and certificate.I love you mom now and always.-Lexi
vinnie
April 1, 2003
Hey,
128 days later seems,like a lifetime ago that i was able to hold you.
love always
Heidi
March 16, 2003
Hey Sis,
Well yesterday was the dinner dance. I couldn't even go there without you. But I want to say HAPPY ST.PATTY'S DAY! I miss ya and I think of you everyday. Love ya! Sis
debra halstead
March 11, 2003
Hey you,
Just wanted to say hi and let you know how we are doing. I am getting nervous about leaving but I know its the best thing. He is so smart I wish you were here to see him. The girls are coming with Vin we are really excited well I have to go I love you and I will write to you soon.
Love always, Debra
alexis cole
March 10, 2003
hey ma just wanted to say hi and tell u that i miss u everythings been going real, good except that your not here. I made the honor roll and class is getting more challenging. everyone is doing good i miss u alot .well i cant talk long im in school love you bye-LExi
p.s. happy st.patricks day
Heidi
March 9, 2003
Hey Sis,
Thinking about you as always. Raven has been in the hospital again and I wish I had you to tell me all would be ok. I just get so tired sometimes. When does this get easier? I can't seem to let you go. You consume my thoughts most the day. I just wish I could understand why this happened. I guess everyone that loves you feels the same way. I'll talk to you later. I love ya!
Sis
Heidi
February 26, 2003
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.
I love you Sis!!
Heidi
February 21, 2003
Hey Sis,
I need to talk! I hate that I can't just call and tell you all I need to say. I hope you hear me when I talk to you while driving down the road. I would hate to think I have lost it for nothing. They say ya never know what you have until it is gone, well I did! I think about all the things we have done and gone through and I know that I made it through those things because I had you by my side. Now, here I am left to face all my problems alone. How do I do that. I loved having you to talk to , and I still do I guess. I write to this site enough! Well, gotta go! I REALLY MISS YOU!!
Love Sis
Heidi
February 2, 2003
Hey Sis,
Just felt the need to say I miss you! Waiting for the pain to stop, or at least let up a little. Everyone keeps saying that it will in time, What do they know?
I love you, SIS
Vinnie
January 31, 2003
Hey,
Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts, all the time
I MISS YOU, the girls are great they are strong just like their mother, I just wish they could have gotten to know you, but i will do my best, telling them how much they mean to you , they say it gets easier, but when?
Heidi
January 25, 2003
Hey Sis,
Just felt the need to tell ya that I love ya and miss ya very much. Always on my mind, always in my heart.
Sis
Heidi
January 22, 2003
Hey Sis,
Just have you on my mind alot today. Mom had a birthday today. We both miss you sooo much. She wants me to tell you that she loves you. Talk to you soon!
Love, Sis
Heidi
January 16, 2003
Hey sis,
I just wanted to say thank you for keeping your promise to there for me through this surgery process. I heard our song on the way to the meeting, and then that girl sitting next to me and talking away, her name was Julianne. All I could think about was the fact that you were there. As you will be for the rest of my life. I love you so much sis. Forever in my heart, and always on my mind.
Love ya, Sis
Alexis Cole
January 9, 2003
Mom its been CRAZY! out here in Queens everything is going alright I just wish that you could be here.I miss you and i know that you are looking down on guiding me towards the right direction because iI haven't gotten into any trouble(and you know how hard that is for me!lol)And ma don't be up there bothering anyone because you know how you are telling people what to do all the time.just wanted to say I love you bye-LExi
Debra Halstead
January 8, 2003
Hey,
Just thinking of you and wishing you were home so I could have someone to talk to. You know the drama down here never stops. Well, I did it I finally joined the Navy. For once I took you advice and finally went through with it at least I know I have you and Pop looking down keeping me and Jonathon safe. I miss you much. I'll love you always, your sister Debra
Alexis Cole
January 7, 2003
Hey mom evrythings going good in school i've been doing really good i know you would of been so proud of me. Mommie I miss you so much evryday I say to myself that your home and im going to pick up the phone and call you but it never happens because I always realize that your not goin to be on the other end talking back.Lately I haven't had any strenght I need you here mommie telling me that I need to do better and that slacking off isn't what I need to be doing.I miss you so much mommie I love you always -Lexi
Heidi
January 5, 2003
Hey Sis,
This is so hard, talking to you like this. I need you so much. Not for anything really, just to hear your voice and know that it's not in my head. I am crazy enough thank you. Well I know you are my angel above, but thanks for leaving me an angel here on earth. You married a wonderful man, and we will be strong for eachother. I used to nervous talking to him, and now I am so glad I have him to talk to. We all love you Jules. Kyle said he misses you telling him to listen to his mother. He tries! When we went to the house after Christmas to see the girls, Rae looked so cute all dressed up and dancing. She kept saying "Look, I am a ballerina". They are so wonderful. Well, till next time sis. Love Ya!!
Bonnie Pulver
January 5, 2003
Julieann: From the first day I met you I admired your gutsy way with my sister and her family, especially with Vinnie. Although you are no longer with us your spirit will live through those 3 girls you left behind. And when Vinnie feels like he can't go on I will kick him in the rear and point to those girls and tell him that that's not what you would want. I will miss you lots. Love Aunt Bonnie
b
January 4, 2003
dear julie
well, christmas and new years are over. i'm so glad. this was by far the worst christmas of my life.i miss you so much that i just can't take it anymore.i can't stop thinking about you.i can't stop wanting this to be a nightmare! vin is my rock now. i only hope that he can lean in me too. i'm hrer jewel, and i'm not going anywhere. i love you and i miss you more then i ever thought possible.
much love from your sister friend B and kate.
Alexis Cole
January 3, 2003
Hey mom,its a been too long and i feel as if I could call you and talk to you and you'll be there, but your not and im hating ever minute that I realize that.Our Christmas was good it was just missing one thing you.You should of seen the girls faces as they walked into the living room but you should of also seen their faces when they realized you weren't there to enjoy every minute of it with them.Theres so much I want to tell you but I can't.I just wish that before you left us I could of gotten the chance to tell you how much I love you and how much i appreciated everything you did for me.I love you mom
vinnie
January 2, 2003
My love,
My first new year without you, I miss you more than ever, and will never forget you , you were and are the love of my life, Thank you for the time we had ,and showing me what true love is, I just wish we could have grown old together like we planned,but we can't, so now it is time to say goodbye untill we met in the end
love always your beloved husband
Heidi
December 26, 2002
Hey Jules,
Well sis, it is Christmas and I have been dreading this day. One more day of waiting for that phone call that always came first thing every holiday morning. I was watching the tape of my wedding today. You looked so beautiful and happy. You were always such a rock for me, there when I needed ya even when I didn't know I needed ya. Vin and I were talking the other day and he said to me that because you past the sweeter side of him was gone, and I feel like the stronger side of me is gone. I know you knew that I love you, but I didn't realize how much I loved you, and that really hurts. I want to say that I am sorry for every fight we ever had, but I'm not. I know you understand what I mean. Those fights are what made us sisters. I also want you to know that you would be so proud of Vin, he is taking such good care of all three of your girls. He is a wonderful man. I will stop going on and on. MERRY CHRISTMAS JULES!!!! I love and miss you like crazy!
Sis
Heather Lynn
December 22, 2002
Julie..
i never really knew you. but i was close with alexis. thats like my sister. all i really know is how much lexi loved and still does love you. I hope that during your life in heaven you can please as many people as you did on earth.We love you always and forever.
Alexis Cole
December 22, 2002
Ma i miss u so much.When Vinnie came to get we went to see you but i couldn't say much there really isn't much to say you know.But the girls are doing fine and Vinnie doing the best he can he's a really good dad and Ginny and Billy are here helping out.The girls are here holding up real strong, you know their just like you.Well Wednesday is christmas everyone wishes you were here with us.Ma i would do anything to have you here, you know how the song goes,You know i'd walk a thousand miles if i could just see you, if i could just hold you, tonight. I love you mom always-Lex
Cindy Lewis
December 22, 2002
Jewels Just here thinking of you and some of the CRAZY things we always talked about. I know you are looking down upon us. Thanks For Being You. MISS YOU ALOT...
on with life
December 18, 2002
"TO THOSE I LOVE AND TO THOSE WHO LOVE ME"
When I am gone, release me, let go - I have so many things to see and do. You musn't tie yourself to me in tears, be happy that we had so many years.
I gave to you my love. You can only guess how much you gave to me in happiness. I thank you for the love that you have shown, but now it's time I traveled on alone.
So grieve awhile for me if you must. Then let your grief be comforted by trust. It's only for awhile that we must part so bless the memories within your heart.
I won't be so far away, for life goes on. So if you need me, call and I will come. Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near, all my love around you soft and clear.
And then, when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and "Welcome Home"
michael and angie plocica
December 16, 2002
Jules,
My dearest cousin I have never known that much but I miss too much.
I feel so lucky to have a cousin so sweet as you,one day we will meet again in heaven,and be with you.
Michael,Angie,and family...
joyce dirosa
December 13, 2002
God's Angel in heaven. You time was so short here on earth. But you left a big hole in all our hearts. You will be so missed.I know you are smiling down on us, and know how much you were loved. Aunt Joyce
vinnie
December 12, 2002
Julie,
18 days later , and I am so screwed without you , you will never know, and still I miss you more than ever, I have been listening to a song on your Natile Merchant cd so i figured I'd put it here
You were the love
for certain of my life
you wer simply my beloved wife
I don't know for certain
how I'll live my life
now alone without my beloved wife
my beloved wife
I can't believe
I've lost the very best of me
you were the love
for certain of my life
you were simply my beloved wife
I don't konow for certain
how I'll live my life
now alone without my beloved wife
my beloved wife
I can't believe
I've lost the very best of me
you were the love of my life
for 50 years simply my beloved wife
with another love I'll never lye again
it's you I can't deny
it's you I caan't defy
a depth so deep
into my grief
without my beloved soul
I renounce my life
as my right
now alone without my beloved wife
my beloved wife
my beloved wife
my love is gone she suffered long
in hours of pain
my love is gone
would it be wrong if I should surrender all the joy in my life
go with her tonight?
my love is gone she suffered long
in hours of pain
my love is gone
would it be wrong if I should
just turn my face away from the light
go with her tonight?
Missy D
December 11, 2002
Jules, So many times I have thought about you and sometimes its as if this never happend. I miss you so much and feel so much pain for your families loss and my own. People like you only come once in a life time and I am so glad you came into mine. You were a friend that didnt judge me and when everyone else did you stood by me weather I was right or wrong you were still my friend and I thank you so much for that. There is such a hole in my heart without you here. So many times I want to pick up the phone and call you then I realize I cant. So instead I talk to you in my mind. Its just not the same. All I have to go on is that someday we will be together again. I love and miss you so much. Always in my heart Missy
NIKKI DEMARIO
December 10, 2002
JULES - STILL MISS YOU LOTS...THIS IS A LITTLE POEM THAT I WROTE OVER THE LAST 16 DAYS..ITS CALLED "IF I DIED TOMORROW"
IF I DIED DTOMORORROW
I'D HAVE NO REGRETS OR SORROW
I LIVED MY LIFE
WITH ALL ITS TROUBLES AND STRIFE
TAKING JOY IN THE SMALLEST OF THINGS
COLORING WITH MY "BABIES"
A NEW TUNE TO SING....
IF I DIED TOMORROW
NO MORE TIME TO BEG STEAL OR BORROW
I WOULD NOT BE SAD
I LIVED MY LIFE
GIVING ALL THAT I HAD.....
HAPPY TO BE A MOM, FRIEND, AND WIFE
AN ANCHOR TO STEADY YOUR WAY
ON THIS CRAZY JOURNEY WE CALL "LIFE"
IF I DIED TOMORROW
THERE'S 1 THING I'D WANT YOU TO KNOW
I LOVED YOU ALL DEARLY,
BUT IT WAS MY TIME TO GO!!
SO DRY ALL YOUR TEARS
THINK OF MY SMILE, MY EYES, MY LAUGH
TO EASE THE PAIN THRU THE YEARS!!
TO MY SISTA FRIEND!!!
LOVE YOU, NIKKI
Heidi
December 8, 2002
Everything makes me think of you julie, this hurts so much! I LOVE YA!!!! SIS
marianne dinsmore
December 8, 2002
hi julie, i woke up thinking of you just if you were here with me.i miss you more than you will ever know. i hope you and tom are taking care of each other.dad and i were so proud of you, you have three beautiful children and a great husband, but don't worry we will call and go on line and talk to each other and make sure vinny and the girls are ok, i know vinnie is a good dad, you told me that. i love you and miss you, say hi to tom love mom.
Debbie
December 8, 2002
Hey Jul,
Just missing my sis a whole bunch. Love ya
jackie
December 7, 2002
Julie,
I didn't know you well but we spoken on the phone (alot) and meant a couple of times. I do know one thing Vinnie loves you . You are a mother,wife and now a guardian angel Vinnies,Ambers and Autums guardian angel. You will watch over them and take them under your angel wings and give them strength when they need it,you will take them under your angel wings and keep them warm when they are cold,you will keep the three of them safe under your angel wings,you will make them happy under you angel wings when they are sad. As there angel you will watch over them as they sleep and dust them with your angel kisses. As Vinnie,Amber and Autums guardian angel please I ask of you as there friend to help them make it untill you meet again.
vinnie
December 6, 2002
Hey Baby,
well i am at work and was just thinking of you, and wish i could call you just to say good morning love you
vinnie
December 5, 2002
Jules,
The snow is coming I know you love the snow,and the girls wnat to play in it so we are going to make snow angels for momma, I miss you,and I know I must keep going, but every breath from now on is for you
Ginny Lawrence
December 4, 2002
Jules,
You are missed more everyday that goes by. You are a great spirt ! Know that AMBER & RAE will be LOVED & CARED FOR EVER. We do GROUP HUGS EVERYDAY sometimes 3 to 15 times a day . Its great, they are great! Also know your spirt lives on in all you touched ! Thanks for entering my life as I"m better just for knowing loving living with and among you and your family. Thanks for all the Christmas, Thanksgiving, New Years we spent with YOU & YOURS .
TRULY YOUR FRIEND TILL I SEE YOU ON THE OTHER SIDE!!!!!!!!!
GINNY
Debra Halstead
December 4, 2002
Dear Julie,
Your name meaning "lighthearted". "All those who know you cannot help but feel that you have a bouoyant and youthful appeal. You're so filled with energy that what you do best are activities that demand vigor and zest. You'll always be your, for your future must hold a place for a heart that will never grow old". When I saw this in your kitchen I knew I had to write it down so I would always remember my big sister. I took this in many different meanings , but regardless of how you read it, it was you in many different ways and for everyone that knew and cared for you I hope they will get the same several meanings that I did. I want to thank you for just being you and being there when I needed you the most. I am so sorry for everything I didnt get a chance to say or should have said and I am greatful for the things I did get a chance to say. I will love you always and you will forever be in my heart and my memory. (and you know how long my memory is!) Love always, your lil sister Debra
BELINDA BENSON
December 4, 2002
hey sista friend,
i miss you more every day!!!
you know i'm not real good with words, unless ofcorse i'm singing them. words couldn't express the hole in my heart anyway.As the days pass,i think it's getting harder and harder. i can't even begin to imagine how hard it's going to be for vin and the girls. BUT KNOW THAT I'LL BE HERE AS LONG AS I'M ON THIS EARTH. I'LL LOVE YOUR GIRLS AS IF THEY WERE MY OWN!AND I'LL ALWAYS TELL THEM ABOUT ALL THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER. I'LL KEEP YOUR MEMORY ALIVE. THAT WAY YOU'LL ALWAYS BE WITH ME. I LOVE YOU
YOUR SISTA FRIEND B
Heidi Vanderhoof
December 4, 2002
To my biggest fan, this one is for you....
Julie, Thank you for coming to see me every night in my dreams, it's what stops me from coming apart at the seems. In the begining they were nightmares, no place I wanted to be, forced to relive an accident I wasn't even there to see. But the conversations we share now while I sleep seem so real, it's given me the strength to finally feel. I've felt nothing sense Vin called to tell me you had past, how could someone so loved be taking so fast. No time to enjoy your happy family life, so loved and needed as a mother and a wife. I know he called you home and you had no choice but to go, but there is one last thing you should know..... You live on in everyone you touched on your short journy through life, BEST SISTER, BEST FRIEND, BEST MOTHER, BEST WIFE!!
nikki demario
December 4, 2002
JULES - THEY SAY THAT TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS....I PRAY EVERY DAY THAT THAT IS TRUE...WE MISS YOU MORE EVERY DAY AND THERE IS A BIG FAT WHOLE IN OUR HEARTS WHERE YOUR SMILE USED TO BE!!!! I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOUR "BABIES" WILL BE A PART OF MY LIFE AS LONG AS I LIVE...JUST LIKE YOU ALWAYS SAID TO ME ABOUT MY BABIES. ROCK ON MY "SISTA FRIEND"....
LOVE ALWAYS,
NIKKI (MRS. DEMARIO - HA-HA!)
Amber Rose & Autumn Rae Flatt
December 3, 2002
Mommie,
we love you
Vinnie
December 3, 2002
Jules,
yet another day, which the sun rises, I wish I could change so many things I truly,madly, deeply love you, there will never be another
Karina Granda
December 3, 2002
Julie my sista, Some of the best memories of my life,were spent with you.Thank you for every moment. In my heart, you will always be.TTFN
Heidi Vanderhoof
December 2, 2002
Julie, I don't even know where to start. You are my sister and my very best friend. I never met anyone so loving and good hearted in my life. You are on my mind and in my heart 24/7. As promised to you, I will always be there for your family, after all, they are my family too. I LOVE YOU!! And I will see you in Heaven.
Missy DeGroat
December 2, 2002
Jules, I am trying to think of words to express what you meant to me and how much I miss you and will always miss you, but how can I do that you were my best friend. So instead I am gonna do what we loved best I am gonna play you a song......Angel came down from heaven yesturday..she stayed with me just long enough to rescue me..she told me a story yesturday.. about the love between the heaven and the deep blue see..then she spread her wings high over me ..she said I'm gonna come back tomorrow..and I said fly on my sweet angel..fly on threw the sky. I love ya sis
cindy lewis
December 2, 2002
Dear Julie There isnt a day that goes by I dont think of you and your smile and laughter..I miss you so much It hurts.. LOVE YOU ALWAYS JEWELS
robert flatt
December 2, 2002
dear Julie every day is a memory of you missing you very much.
rob pollison
December 2, 2002
dear julie, thank you for being my freind ,and thank you for being a great wife and mom for my best freind,ill never forget you..
Debra Halstead
December 2, 2002
Missing you much. Love your sis
Vincent Flatt
December 2, 2002
My Dearest Julie,
yet another morning, and i miss you even more
vincent flatt
December 2, 2002
My Dearest Julie,
i miss you
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