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Robert Emmett Brockman

1963 - 2014

Robert Emmett Brockman obituary, 1963-2014, Petaluma, CA

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Robert Brockman Obituary

Robert Emmett Brockman Rob passed away suddenly at his home on April 16th at the age of 50. He is survived by his wife and love of his life, Karen, his son Daniel, daughter Emily, mother Marie McCarthy and brothers, Pete and Todd. His father, Peter Brockman, precedes him in death. He was born in San Francisco on August 9, 1963 and raised in Greenbrae, CA where he attended elementary school in the Kentfield District and graduated from Redwood High School and College of Marin. He went on to graduate with a degree in Landscape Architecture from Cal Poly San Luis Obispo in 1988. In his younger years he often played on sports teams with his two brothers because they all were so close in age. At the College of Marin, Rob was the captain of the soccer team, leading the team in many winning games as goalie. He was an outstanding student and was a recipient of the National Merit Award. It was at Cal Poly where he met the love of his life, Karen Rossi and they soon married after their graduations. They first lived in Marin County and for the past 20 years have resided in Petaluma, CA. Rob lived life to its fullest ...as a loving husband and father, and in his work and community. He always made sure that his family came first. In his work, his creativity, artistry and vision are evident throughout the West Coast and his designs have been recognized nationally. Rob was an artist, a musician and songwriter and was collaborating with his daughter Emily on her new album. Rob coached numerous boys and girls soccer teams, both recreational and competitive traveling teams. Along with being a coach, Rob was a mentor, a confidant and a friend to all he met. Rob was happiest when he was spending time with his family, either on a sunny beach or in the clean air of Lake Tahoe. The world was a better place as a result of Rob Brockman...he will be greatly missed! A Celebration of Life will be held on Thursday, April 24th at 1:00pm at the 360 Church of Petaluma, 879 Linberg Ln., Petaluma with a reception immediately to follow at the Petaluma Veteran's Memorial Building, 1094 Petaluma Blvd. So., Petaluma, CA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Emily and Daniel Brockman Education Account #1544428491 c/o Wells Fargo Bank. Online condolences may be made at adobecreekfuneralhome. com Adobe Creek Funeral Home & Cremation Services 707-789-9000

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Apr. 22 to Apr. 24, 2014.

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June 29, 2014

To the family that has sen me through so much
my deepest sympathies for your loss.I remain your good friend and Auntie Vicki Newcomb Bohlke

Karen Nardi

May 28, 2014

Dear Karen and family,

We haven't met but we knew Robert well. He did the landscape design on our home in Mill Valley a number of years ago. We were deeply saddened to hear of his passing.

Robert redesigned our entire back yard. Every time we are in the garden, we enjoy the beauty he so abundantly created. I smile when I remember Robert's creativity, his practical nature, his helpfulness, his sense of humor, and, most of all, his decency and kindness to everyone involved in the project.

We saw Robert about 18 months ago. He came out to consult with us on a problem involving an unhappy neighbor and a troublesome fence. His advice was excellent - plant some trees, let go of your angst, and in a few years, you will actually come to like that fence. How wise he was!

Please accept our deepest sympathies on your loss. We have the fondest memories of Robert and join many others in expressing our sadness that he is no longer with us.

Karen Nardi and William Carmen, Mill Valley, California

Karen Hudson Asay

May 20, 2014

I am shocked this morning to learn of Rob's passing in April. He coached my son Eli for many years in soccer and had an enormously positive influence on him. My heart goes out to you Karen and the kids. May you find strength in Rob's memory.
Fondly,
Karen Hudson -Asay

Tim Talbot

May 6, 2014

I just found out from Lawrence Solon the sad news of Rob's passing. Robbie was a truly good guy, and he will be missed. Deepest condolences to all his loved ones, especially Karen, Daniel, and Emily.

May 6, 2014

Rob was an amazing guy, we are very sad to hear this. Please accept our condolences.
The Loughman Family...Lisa, Kevin, Lauren, Rachel and Adam

Joe Farrell

May 2, 2014

Karen,

I am so saddened when I heard of the passing of Rob. I met him in the mid 1990's working in the same office in Larkspur when he shared office space with Steve Murch. Before we had all had kids, I enjoyed playing golf with him many times on Fridays before work. We also went on a few mountain bike rides together. Throughout the years we worked on many projects together collaborating on residential projects.

Rob was always a pleasure to be around. I was constantly impressed with his passion for all aspects of his life. He was one of the most creative and ambitious professionals I've encountered in my career. I always enjoyed catching up with him about you and your family. He will truly be missed.

Rozalynd and George Merrill

April 30, 2014

Dear Karen, Emily, Daniel and family,
Our heart goes out to all of you during this difficult time. We were very touched by Rob's memorial and feel we got to know him better after hearing stories from his loved ones. We were especially moved to read the poem he had written, because the night before the memorial, we were in Marshall, which I know is a favorite area for him, and we saw a beautiful prism in the sky. A beautiful sunset for an amazing man. He will be missed. Love to you all.

Caren Horstmeyer

April 29, 2014

Dear The Brockman Family,
Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Although I only met Rob once (at a soccer game, of course)I have heard amazing and wonderful stories about him. Thinking of you Peter, Todd, Mrs. Brockman and family.
Our condolences,
Caren Choppelas-Horstmeyer and family

April 28, 2014

The Weingart family sends our condolences. We are very saddened be this news and wish you all the best. Family is everything and we hope you can lean on each other during this brutal time.

April 26, 2014

Dear Brockman Family,

Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for your huge loss.

Rob's smile, his sense of humor and his dedication to his family and friends will never be forgotten....

With Deepest Sympathy,
Doug, Lori and Anders Lund

Hal Stellini

April 25, 2014

I had met Rob only recently but came to know what a great guy he was. He will live on in Emily's music.

April 25, 2014

Dear Brockman Family,
My heart aches for you. Please know that you are all in my prayers.
Fondly,
Gretchen (Beekler) Davidson

Andrew Kubichek

April 25, 2014

Very shocked and sorry to hear about the passing of Rob. My condolences to the Bockman family.

Fathers Day Truett Hurst winery 2013

David Rios

April 25, 2014

My blessings to all the Brockman's and their families, he will be missed by many! With love David Rios & the entire Rios family

John Corr

April 24, 2014

Rob was a guy that would easily add a smile to your face. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Brockmans.
John Corr and Family

April 24, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I had the privlage of bringing many of Rob's visions to reality and will forever be reminded of his creativity and passion for his work. My thoughts are with you. Marco

April 24, 2014

Rob was guy that could easily put a smile on your face. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Brockmans. John Corr and family.

Flo Alessandria

April 24, 2014

I was so very sorry to hear of Rob's passing. I went to high school with all 3 of the Brockman boys and have nothing but fond memories. I know Rob will be sorely missed. Sending my heartfelt condolences and keeping you all in my thoughts.

April 24, 2014

I am so sorry to hear the untimely passing of Robert! To Robert's family: - May God keep you in faith, hope and love. You are in our prayers!

Warm regards,
Alice C. Loh, Prof. Emerita
Cal Poly San Luis Obispo

Paula M. Capocchi

April 24, 2014

Kent Middle School would never have been the same without you Rob. Your sweet heart will be missed here.Godspeed to you brother~

Simone Lyne Comtois

April 24, 2014

Robert, you brought light to every life you touched.
By love you are remembered and in memory you will live.
To the Brockman family, may you know the comfort of peace that comes from above.
Ross and Simone

Craig Sommerville

April 24, 2014

I'm truly sorry to hear of Rob's passing he was one of the first friends I meet when we moved from Tripoli Libya to greenbrae and got me into playing soccer with Peter and Todd.He will always be in my prayers.

Ellen Greer Spencer

April 24, 2014

I am truly sorry for your loss Brockman Family and Friends.
It's so hard to see such a wonderful person pass on at such an early age! Rob played soccer with us at the Corte Madera Park, with my 3 older brothers, Phil, Erich and Matthew Greer. We had so much fun! I was sometimes the only girl scrimmaging with them. He was always so nice to me.
You will be missed immensely.
God Bless,
Ellen Greer Spencer

Paul Lewis

April 23, 2014

Karen, Emily and Daniel,
To say Rob was one of a kind would be an understatement, he was more unique than that. In our class at Cal Poly he was a friend to all and loved by all. Still after a week, I do not have words yet to express my feeling of loss. All of our prayers are for you and for strength. I think you know how much Rob was admired by everyone who met him. All best wishes.

April 23, 2014

Karen and Family -- I am so very, very sorry for your loss. Although I've never met you Dan and Emily, you were blessed to have such an amazing father. I got to know your fathers family in high school and we grew closer in college. I had the pleasure of attending your parents wedding. It was a beautiful day and a perfect celebration of their love. Rob's infectious spirit and love for life will forever be. Sending love and prayers to all.

Missy Lindner Barnes

Adobe Creek Funeral Home

April 24, 2014

Our thoughts are with the family and friends at this time.

Ray & Milli Colaizzi

April 23, 2014

Our prayers and best wishes to the family.

April 23, 2014

Dear Karen and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We feel we knew Rob just from the many conversations we had with your parents.
He always gave of himself and loved life. One cannot ask for more than that.
His spirit will always be with you, Dan, and Emily. He will be that angel on your shoulder guiding all of you through the next phase of your life;
love,
Nick and Barbara Volpetti

April 23, 2014

Such sad news. I don't even know if anyone remembers us from those Greenbrae days. For Matthew, Dan, Patty Russell, I'm the mother, Janet.

April 23, 2014

Rest in Peace Robert, you were a good friend and I will miss you


Geoff Knapp

April 23, 2014

Todd and family,
I am truely sorry to hear about the passing of Robert.
Sincerely,
Ron Lavi
Soccer Family

Ari and Kathy Green

April 23, 2014

Our profound condolences on your loss. May Rob's memory remain vibrant every day for you and your children. He will be missed.

ernesthenry vogtII

April 23, 2014

this life is but a vapor compared to the eternity we will spend with those we love. I knew Rob to be a hardworking friendly straight shooter with a smile and kind words for all.May you find God an ever present source of help and peace

Joy Metten

April 22, 2014

We were so sorry to learn the sad news. We love Rob and we love your family. We feel very blessed to have known Rob and to have had the pleasure of having him coach our son, Tyler, for many years. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and comfort you with peace in your hearts.

Mike, Pam, Nick and Alexandra Saisi

April 22, 2014

Karen, Dan and Emily,
We are so sorry to hear about Rob's passing. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda Clute

April 22, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

April 22, 2014

So long ago at Judo School, a very young Robbie and Peter were fine students.
We send our sympathy to all your family.
So difficult to comprehend your loss at this time. Jeanne Zanzi

April 22, 2014

You are in our thoughts Karen, Emily and Daniel, so saddened at this terrible and heart breaking news
Debbie and Chris Coenen

Kathi Murrin

April 22, 2014

Karen, Daniel and Emily- we are so sorry for your loss. We have been thinking of you all during this tough time. Our prayers are with you.

Mike McDpwd

April 22, 2014

Rob was my teammate in college and a friend. He always had a zest for life. Rob was also a positive upbeat guy and his love for life was evident. I respected him being a great husband and a fantastic Dad to his kids. May God Bless his soul and I pray for his wife, kids and family. God Bless

Sasha Butler

April 22, 2014

We are very sad to hear of the loss of such a goodhearted man who we had the pleasure of working with. He will be missed by many. Our condolences to Rob's family and dear friends. From ADR/Rick Brereton & Church Hildreth

Suzanne Brown

April 22, 2014

I am in shocked and so sorry for your loss I grew up in marin and new rob from high school !! My thoughts and prayers are with the family !!

Jim, Ave, Sarah & Joey Seltsam

April 22, 2014

Our deepest condolences to the Brockman Family. We will miss Rob's thoughtfulness, creativity and sincerity. He was truly special and one of a kind. ~ The Seltsam Family

John "Opel" Stanton

April 22, 2014

Dear Karen,

My condolences to you, Daniel, and Emily. I can't imagine the deep sorrow you must be experiencing at this time nor can words ease the pain. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to all of you.

Take comfort in knowing that I share your loss as Rob lives in my heart too! I have many wonderful memories of our college years that I experience frequently with a smile!

May God grant Rob eternal peace and His Grace sustain us all.

With Love,

Diane Gotti

April 22, 2014

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Dianne Bouton Rhodes

April 21, 2014

To the entire Brockman family -
I'm shocked and saddened by Rob's sudden passing. We were neighbors in Greenbrae. I was the youngest of the Bouton girls, but I have some memories of the shenanigans on our street! A great family and a greater loss. My heart and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Nancie de Ross

April 21, 2014

Dear Brockman family. My heart is so saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved. Rob and I knew one another since we were 5 years old. He was so kind and fun and funny! When we were children at school he once gabbed the back of my ear with a sharp pencil. The mark from that pencil has been with me ever since. Rob and I would laugh about it years later and it would always come up in our conversations. I have the one and only tattoo designed and created by Rob Brockman! I also recall Rob being so warm and open hearted. He was so very proud of his daughter and her singing and we talked for a long while about her career. I send to you my deepest love and I am always here for all of you should I ever be of service to you.

Kind regards,
Nancie de Ross

On site at one of the last projects...

Lacy Lang

April 21, 2014

My friend, you are now part of the view, and you will be remembered for your appreciation of beauty and your contribution to it.

Lisa Cicurel-Jones

April 21, 2014

Dear Pete, Ann-Mari, and Brockman family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. Your family is in my prayers at this difficult time.

With love,
Lisa

Robin Guptill

April 21, 2014

I knew Rob was a great person for helping coach the PHS boys soccer team, my son really looked up to him and appreciated his coaching & friendship. What an amazing life Rob led in so few years. I'm sad that Petaluma has lost such a great contributor. My deepest sorrow for your loss.

Spencer Hammon

April 21, 2014

Although it provides little comfort at this time, those of us signing this guest book are the lucky ones to have been able call Rob a friend. We can all take some comfort knowing Rob left with all of life's chips on the table.

The years spent with Rob in San Luis Obispo are memories I cherish and will always reflect upon with a smile.

Karen, Todd, & the rest of the family, my heartfelt condolences and wish the best for you through this time.

Gail Rouda Berston

April 20, 2014

Dear sweet Rob, we are recalling our shared childhood memories, playing games on our street, and your angelic face. We send our deepest condolences to those who cherished you, your joy and talent will be thought of often. Love, the Rouda family

Corinna Neve

April 20, 2014

Karen, Dan, Emily...I have been heartbroken over this devastating news...Karen, my deepest heartfelt condolences during this awful time, for I know how you feel and am praying for you so much. And Dan and Emily...Anthony and Alex feel your pain, for losing your dad is a pain like no other. There are no words for this shocking sudden event. We hold you in our hearts, and pray for your strength and peace in the days ahead...

Dave Bell

April 20, 2014

I am deeply saddened by the passing of a great friend who I have so many great memories with..especially during our teen years. Our first concert together in 8th grade at Tower of Power, our first jobs at the carwash and Zims, riding motorcycles and exploring all of Marin, numerous Tahoe trips, our first Bay to Breakers, concerts….
Rob was always a youthful and adventurous soul who lit up the room with his smile.
Karen, I still remember when I first met you and I could tell the Rob was truly in love…
My heart and prayers go out to you , Daniel and Emily.

Shelia King

April 20, 2014

May God grant the family peace and comfort in this time of sorrow (2Cor. 1: 2, 3).

Nancy Malone

April 19, 2014

I am sorry for your loss and hope his life's purpose continues to live on through those who shared his life.

sydney park

April 19, 2014

We are so saddened to hear of Rob's death. We remember him well from his early years in Kentfield/Greenbrae. Condolences to all of you.
The Parks(Sydney, Neil, Courtney and Sandy

Tony Marks

April 19, 2014

I still can't believe you're gone buddy. Seems like yesterday when we were graduating together, partying, in each other's weddings, experiencing fatherhood at the same time.......the memories are vast and happy. Always have a smile on my face thinking about them. I'm sure you'll be designing some cool water feature up there soon. You'll be missed by many Rob. To Karen, your children and the rest of your great family, my deepest condolences. RIP old friend.

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