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Molly Westrate Obituary

Molly Bill Westrate Resident of Menlo Park Whether she was driving sports cars on racetracks in Europe, shopping for the perfect native textile in Asia, or creating a culinary masterpiece for friends at home, Molly Westrate enjoyed a life filled with style, fun, integrity, and good food. Molly succumbed to cancer on April 30, 2013. She will be remembered for her wit, charm, design savvy, culinary skills, loyalty, energy, commitment to goodness, and the love she lavished on her friends and family. Mary Andrea Bill was born February 9, 1945 to John and Kathryn Bill in Los Angeles and grew up in Santa Barbara. After graduating from the University of San Diego with a degree in music she moved to San Francisco where she received her teaching credential at SF State and taught in San Francisco and San Mateo. While in San Francisco, she met Stephen Westrate and the couple married in 1971. They moved to Portola Valley in 1973 where they lived for 22 years then moved to Woodside in 1995, and finally to Menlo Park in 2005. In 1985, she earned her real estate license and became an agent with Cornish & Carey in Portola Valley, and later with Coldwell Banker in Woodside, where she specialized in country properties. Outside of the office, Molly's interests were as diverse as her tastes. In her youth, she rode horses in the Santa Barbara hills and sailed with cousins in San Diego. As a young mother, she practiced ceramics and performed classical duo-piano pieces with friends. Later in life, she enjoyed collecting fine art and traveling with the Contemporary Collector's Circle of the Cantor Center, visiting new places, quilting, and enjoying her Asian-inspired garden. She always tried to create beauty, simplicity, and good design by bringing nature's sculpture, branches, weeds, into the home. When reflecting on her world travels, Molly punctuated her description of the regions with detailed reports of the food, which was another of her passions. She spent a lifetime cultivating an extensive collection of gourmet recipes and culinary delights, which she took every opportunity to prepare for family and friends. Molly is survived by her husband, Steve in Menlo Park; Erika and Clint Sattler and their children Gage and Ciel in Colorado; Blake and Warisa Westrate, and his daughter, Zoey in San Francisco; and Molly's sister, Judy Bianchi, of Sebastopol. There will be a Mass of Resurrection on Saturday, May 18th at the Chapel at the Woodside Priory School in Portola Valley followed by a celebration of Molly's life at the Priory's Founders Hall. In lieu of flowers, the family requests a donation to your charity of choice or to The Canary Foundation, 1501 S. California Ave., Palo Alto, CA 94304 (www.canaryfoundation.org) that is funding research into early detection of ovarian cancer.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on May 9, 2013.

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Nancy Borlo

May 3, 2021

So Sorry to hear about Molly's passing. She and I did a lot of things together while in High school at Bishop. Sadly after graduating we lost touch. Thanks for the beautiful tribute to a lovely lady

Bonny Trent Walsh

May 21, 2013

Molly and I went to most of elementary and high school together. I loved to listen to her play the piano. Such talent. We reconnected just recently and I was so impressed by the joy of life that was so obvious. Our sympathy to you and your family.

Bonny Walsh

May 21, 2013

Molly and I attended many years of elementary and high school together. We recently reconnected after many years. I'm so glad that I had a chance to see the spirit and joy for life that she carried with her. Our sympathy to you and your family.

Dyanne Boise Henderson

May 17, 2013

Dear Steve, I grew up right around the corner from Molly. In high school she and I were good friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May 16, 2013

I'm sorry about the passing of Molly. I remember her in H.S. and I have good memories from that period. My prayers to the family in sorrow. Lolita Puccetti Coffey (class of 62)

Patty Sue (Sever) Glasgow

May 15, 2013

Dear Westrate Family,

Losing a loved one is so difficult. I hope that all the cherished memories that you created together throughout the years will bring you comfort and joy. Molly was a wonderful person who impacted many lives. She will be deeply missed.

With sympathy,
Patty Sue (Sever) Glasgow

Nancy Borlo

May 15, 2013

I was so saddened by the news of Molly. We spent some wonderful times together in SB--cruising State or just hanging out. Now she is in the loving arms of Our Lord.

kathy Cahill-Kiser

May 15, 2013

Our parents were close and Molly and I explored the hills in Santa Barbara horse riding.
Please accept my condolence for the loss of this beautiful spirit.

May 9, 2013

Dear Steve, Erika and Blake,

I am saddened to learn of Molly's Passing. She was so smart, artistic, creative and fun. She was a wonderful role model for me growing up in Los Trancos Woods. I am sorry for your loss.

Love,

Kaia Eakin

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