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Thomas Salciccia Obituary
Resident of Campbell
Thomas Anthony Salciccia, Sr., passed away on January 12, 2016, after fighting a courageous battle against illness. He was 87. Tom was born in Yonkers, New York, the third son of Tobia and Mary Salciccia.
He attended St. Bonaventure University, a Franciscan Institute in Allegany, N.Y. and while attending was in the ROTC and commissioned as a Lieutenant in the Reserves. Tom graduated, married Connie Pecora of Pennsylvania, and in 1950 moved to California with his entire family. Once there he attended Santa Clara University Law School, but his schooling was interrupted when he was called up to serve in the Korean War as a Lieutenant in the artillery. After his U.S. Army military service, Tom returned to law school, where he became Editor-in-Chief of the Santa Clara Lawyer and a member of Alpha Sigma Nu. He received his law degree in 1957, passed the Bar Exam, and soon after began his own law practice for the next 58 years, becoming proudly the longest-practicing attorney in San Jose. He married attorney Carolyn Belfoy in 1971.
Tom was a member and officer of many organizations, including Optimists, Elks, Sons of Italy, Sons of Sicily, Italian-American Heritage, Veteran's Associations, Amici d'Oro and Friendly Wednesdays, in addition to membership in County, State and Federal Legal Associations.
Tom is predeceased by his parents and his first wife Connie, brothers Anthony, Frank, Tony, and Alfred, and longtime companion Jane Whitaker. He is survived by his children Mary Alice, Gina, Tom Jr., Lia and Stacy; step-children Kevin and Tracy; grandchildren Adrien, Emily, Joseph, Andrew, Ada, and step-grandchildren Lexi, Connor, Flynn and Evan. Also surviving are second (divorced) wife Carolyn, his siblings Toby, Lucy, and Richard, and numerous nieces and nephews.
Thomas was a hard worker, a brilliant mind and a true patriot. He enjoyed walks in nature, travel, golf, reading, good food, music, art, politics and debate. He touched many lives and will be sorely missed. Services will be held on Monday, February 1st, at 11 A.M. at St. Lucy's Church, 2350 Winchester Blvd, Campbell, CA.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations in the name of Thomas Salciccia to the Veteran's Administration: VAPAHCS Voluntary Service (135), 3801 Miranda Ave., Bldg. 100, Palo Alto, CA 94304.
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Laurie bryant
July 8, 2023
Tom was an excellent boss, he had emotional intelligence also. He made negotiating a win - win. He is missed.
Linda Benuto
January 21, 2021
Tom, I will never forget your kindness to me and your advice. I was telling ama friend recently about your office and the awesome trinkets you had everywhere.
Alice Cruz
January 23, 2020
Thomas Salciccia .. you were a great lawyer to our family for many years and a good friend. A great person who I respected, our deepest condolences to Gina and the Salciccia family .. Tom you will be missed , Rest In Peace .. from the Cruz / Murillo family ..
Alice Cruz
January 23, 2020
Thomas Salciccia .. you were a great lawyer to our family for many years and a good friend. A great person who I respected, you will be missed Tom , Rest In Peace ..
Laura Baugher-Davis
May 3, 2017
Tom was a beautiful human being, kind soul and all around good guy. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing and regret not seeing him before. He treated me like family and Gina was like a sister to me. God Bless the Salciccia family. Much love, Laura
Gilbert Murillo
September 24, 2016
Tom was a Great Man he help me every time I called him up and ask him for advice and he will be misssed From the Murillo/Cruz Family
February 1, 2016
TOM, our dear friend and second door neighbor of more than 3 decades, was first to welcome us to First Street. Tom said "If you need any help to get thru something, just ask, I"ll always be there
for you."
TOM, was an icon, a titan, who worked tirelessly for justice. TOM,has gone on to the SUPREME COURT, so when you also reach the end of your journey,but the Pearly Gates are closed, Just ask TOM for help. Tom will get you thru. Thanks for the memories.
OM will get you thru. Barbara and Mike
from the Sourdough Eatery
February 1, 2016
Gina, I just heard about your Dad's passing yesterday when I was in San Jose visiting my kids. My heart broke in two when I heard this news. Your Dad meant so much to me, he was so kind and gentle and patient with me all the time, even when I was wigging out at times. I will never forget him. Sending hugs,
Joyce Trapani
Kim Perrina-Dwyer
January 28, 2016
Gina & Family, you're Dad was a Great And caring Man, He will be Greatly missed and never forgotten, He has always been there for our family, our deepest sympathies.
Linda Benuto
January 28, 2016
My deepest condolences to the entire Salciccia family. 870 N. First street wil never be the same. RIP Tom.
Judge Charles Hayden
January 28, 2016
Tom was a fine attorney, a good friend and a man of principles.
Always took time for a chat, for advice and for a good laugh.
I always enjoyed those times of chatting with Tom at the courthouse or on the corner.
jim mathias
January 27, 2016
Gina, Mary Alice & Family,
Uncle Tommy was a great man. I will always remember him & Aunt Connie fondly. My deepest sympathies to all.
Antonietta & Gino D'Anna
January 27, 2016
Gina and family
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of Tom.
He will be greatly missed. He He was a brilliant attorney and a wonderful caring person.
He was always there if anyone needed him.We will miss
you Compare Tom.
David Cerra
January 27, 2016
Gina & Family
Our Families deepest sympathy for the loss of Tom. I will always cherish the fun times we all had with Tom and his lawfirm & my Family. He was truly a man who loved his Family & Country .
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