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December 18, 2017
I didn't have the pleasure of being around Fred (Mr. Laccabue) for a very long time.
I never once doubted your genuine quality when I was around you. You treated me with such care and friendliness, even showing an interest in my well-being and life, and I'm not even sure if the last time I hugged you goodbye that I knew it would be the last. Although I only had a short year with you, I was sad to hear about your passing. Thank you for the wonderful memories, especially those of you sharing your favorite classics with me in the study. You are missed.
January 28, 2015
Our belated condolences to the Laccabue family. I stopped by to see my daddy tonight who remembered Fred as his lifelong best friend. From St. Mel's to University of Illinois and long beyond. Enjoyed meeting him over the years. Julie Baumgartner Brandis
January 5, 2015
My sincerest condolences to Michelle and Michael on Fred's passing. Fred was a good man and good friend and he will be missed.

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Jim Mimmack
December 23, 2014
Fred hired me into cdc in 1964 and was my manager for my early FORTRAN years. I didn't see him much as he was already a second level manager. But as a manager and leader he got us what we needed to complete our assignments and treated us all fairly and with respect. Later in the Poker Game was when we became friends. I was one friend who contributed much to his bank account. He truly "knew when to hold 'em, knew when to fold 'em." And I have many Laccabue stories from the last fifty years.
Susan Laccabue
December 21, 2014
When we were little Dad told us kids that if we saved up half the money for a television set he would pay the other half. After two years and by the age of 9, saving my allowance, I would finally have $36 for half. It was an exciting day with Dad and I came home with a small black and white, complete with antennae ears. A few years later, Dad would loan me money to help me purchase my third home. I was short on the down payment and needed a bit extra. Dad did not believe in handouts, he believed in hard work and earning your way, so it was a business deal, with a promissory note and accrued interest. Most importantly, he trusted me with that loan, and also reinforced in me that if I wanted something I would need to work hard for it. Thanks to Dad and his guidance and example, I have always been a good saver, a smart investor, and financially independent. This guidance would lead me to a career in business and a later a B.S. in Business with an Accounting concentration. Although dad could not be at my graduation this year, in spite of learning of his illness, he still made the effort to congratulate me and express his pride in my achievements. Thank you for encouraging me to be a strong, independent, and hard-working woman. Rest peacefully Dad. I love you.
Andrea Carmichael
December 20, 2014
We'll miss you cousin Fred. You made everyone feel special in your company -God bless you.
Gloria Gassi
December 20, 2014
I remember so many wonderful family moments with Freddie. Many were in Sault Ste. Marie when he would visit with his Mom and Dad in our early years of growing up. I also remember when my Mom took me to Chicago when I was about 5 years old and we had fun times. Freddie always made me laugh. To celebrate my parents 50th Anniversary we made a trip to Cupertino to see my Dad's sister, Auntie Annie. Freddie and Michelle were generous hosts and Michael was about 8 years old and thinking about playing the piano. At my parents' 60th Anniversary Freddie was in the Sault again and it was great to have him there with Michelle and Michael. Even though he lived a full and beautiful life it's still too soon to say good-bye, but he will live in the hearts of many. Sincere sympathy and love to all of the family. May he rest in peace knowing he is embraced by God's eternal love. With love, cousin Gloria Gassi
Carol Ann Hunt
December 20, 2014
There are so many highlights in my growing up years that include Freddie! My "big" cousin who always looked at you like you were the only person in the room. I believe he was very proud of his heritage and every time he came to our humble little town he was like a sponge trying to soak up each moment to charish for another day. A generous man who despite his station in life talked to all as an equal. I can't imagine hearing a wonderful violin solo, or opera without remembering with love my dear cousin. May he rest in peace!
Fred Thorlin
December 19, 2014
In many ways he was the best manager I ever had. His perpetual smile made him a frightening opponent at the poker table. Fifty years is a long time for a poker game. I hope you find one on the other side.
December 19, 2014
Dad was an amazing man and I'm proud to be his son. While I was with him at the end, holding his hand as he passed from this world, I can only wish I had more time to share with him, to learn from him. He was a good man with incredible integrity, energy, and spirit. Thanks, Dad, for all you contributed to my life and to our world. You made a huge impact on my life and on our society! You will be missed... every single day! Your friend and son...
Kelly McHale
December 19, 2014
Fred was a very special man who always greeted me warmly and made me feel as if I were a member of his family, even after I wasn't. I will always remember his big smile and sweet spirit. He was a loving grandfather to my children and we will miss him. I'm sending my love and condolences to Michelle, Mary Ann, Ron, and all of the Laccabue kids and grandkids during this hard time.
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