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Eileen Ubillos Obituary

Eileen Margaret (Cookingham) Ubillos left us on July 29, 2020 after a 3-week battle with Covid-19. She will be remembered as thoughtful, caring, & fun. She was born in Schenectady, NY. Lived her first twenty-three years in that area. Later moved to Massachusetts with her late husband, Rocco, and their respective children, where she worked as a newspaper reporter for 25 years for the Milford Daily News in Milford under the name of Eileen Vigliante covering many field & town hall meeting assignments. She met Peter in 1998. They were soon married in 1999 and honeymooned in France. She is survived by her Daughter, Jill Kourafas, husband Chuck, and two grandsons, Will and Owen. Her granddaughter Coranna Ferrezanno and husband Gennaro and Eileens great granddaughter, Scarlett. Grandson Tyler Sasinowski. Peters children that Eileen virtually adopted: Pam Rivet and daughters Alexa, Christine and Catherine. Scott Ubillos, wife Dena, children Emily, Hayes, and Nick Stepson Alan Heyd, wife Margorie and boys Ari and Brook. Stepdaughter Susan Blanchette and husband John and children Michael and Melissa. Eileens step-children from her first marriage are: Karen Vigliante-Cranney and husband Joe. Michael Vigliante, wife Maureen, children Michael, Marissa, Megan, and Mikayla. Rocco Vigliante Jr. and son Brandon. Eileens sister Maureen (Cookingham) Brooks and sons, Cody, Wyatt, and Austin. Contact family for information on a service to commemorate Eileen.

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Published by Milford Daily News on Aug. 9, 2020.

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Elaine Garon

August 16, 2020

Eileen was a special friend. Even though we weren’t together a lot, we still made good memories at the Power Squadron and our parties.
Rest In Peace my friend.
Elaine Garon

Christina (Halsing) Melpignano

August 10, 2020

My condolences to Eileen’s family. Eileen was a true gem! Someone you’ll never forget. I worked with her for many years at the MDN and still smile whenever I think of her. She was a breath of fresh air each morning. You could hear her coming into the building long before you’d see her, high heels clicking and bracelets tinkling. Plopping down her oversized bag, she’d fumble through it, greeting her coworkers while wrestling to get her coat off before getting down to the business of writing the next story. No one wore chunky jewelry like Vig! Always classy, put together and very, very glam. She had a sparkle in her eye that matched the sparkle in her earrings. She was always kind, thoughtful, generous, quick on her feet, witty, talented, cheerful and a good listener. She loved a good cocktail and good conversation. She was smart, beautiful, full of life and a whole lot of fun.
Rest In Peace my dear Eileen. I will always smile whenever I think of you.
May God Bless your entire family.

Christina (Halsing) Melpignano

Stacy (Drumtra) Juba

August 9, 2020

I worked with Eileen for several years at the Milford News. She was so vibrant, cheerful, and friendly. She taught me a lot about being a reporter, and I will always appreciate how helpful she was to me. She talked about her family all the time and it was obvious how much they meant to her. I enjoyed catching up with her over email awhile back. Eileen was so supportive of my writing career, and we shared family pictures. My husband and I will always remember her fondly. Our deepest sympathies to the family she adored.

Leslie Holden Dixon

August 9, 2020

Eileen walked into the Milford Daily newsroom early each morning, high heels clicking, hair swept up, carrying a massive handbag with a bright smile on her face, ready to tackle each day’s events. She loved being a reporter, covering the mundane, funny, shocking, sad and the joyful events throughout the Milford area for some 25 years. And she loved working with - and in more recent years – chatting about the eclectic and talented staff at the MDN, particularly her dear friend and colleague Denise Marie Mize and editor Nick Tosches To her greatest loves -her husband Peter, daughter Jill and Eileen’s entire family, I send my deepest sympathies. I will miss her.

Al and Linda DeCotis

August 9, 2020

Eileen was such a Dear Friend to our Family, The Johnstons, in Franklin, MA., especially to brother Jim. We quickly became her friend, too. She visited the homestead in Franklin many times. We had many pleasant visits and conversations with her. She had a wonderful spirit! We wish to express our Deepest Sympathy to Peter and to all of Eileen's dear family. You are in our thoughts and our prayers. God bless! Linda (Johnston) and Al DeCotis

Simone Taylor

August 8, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this time of grieving.

August 7, 2020

This is a heartbreaker to myself and my husband. Eileen and I became very good friends when we lived in Franklin, Mass. The friendship lasted from the moment we met for many, many years. Eileen married a very good friend of ours, therefore the friendship continued. Even tho they moved to Florida and we moved to Virginia we managed to see each other at least once a year, so we could have our usual fun together. This hurts alot, but we will always remember her as a super gal. Ann & Charlie Hinckey - Friends

Karen Vigliante-Cranney

August 6, 2020

In loving memory of my stepmom, Eileen, who has been in my life since I was ten years old. I am so shocked and saddened by her unexpected passing and I send my deepest condolences to Peter and Jill and their families, and to the Sasinowski, Brooks and the Vigliante families. Rest In Peace, dear Eileen, you touched so many lives.

Frank Vigilante

August 5, 2020

In loving memory of my Aunt Eileen. You were always very fun, kind and friendly to me. I will miss tremendously your smile and especially your laugh. The world will not be the same without you. May God bless you in the afterlife and all those who you love left here on earth - in this most difficult of times.

Ellen Peters

August 5, 2020

Never met Eileen, but she looks like a lovely person. I send my condolences to Hayes and the entire family, who I’m sure loved her very much.

Dena Ubillos

August 5, 2020

She is so beautiful. We will miss her so much!

JW/JKH

August 5, 2020

My deepest sympathy to the (Cookingham) Ubillos Families for the loss of your loved one, Eileen Margaret, and pray God gives you comfort, peace and strength.

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