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Michael Weesner Obituary
September 23, 1944 ~ February 11, 2019
Monterey
Michael Francis Weesner – MONTEREY – The man. His legacy. Our hero.
Mike passed away peacefully on February 11th, 2019 surrounded by love and his family. Mike was a man of deep integrity. His commitment to his family, his community and his students, is his legacy. He was larger than life: full of love, humor and creativity up to his very last breath.
As a father, he was pure love and inspiration: a friend; a mentor; and a model to emulate.
As a husband, he was a perfect partner. He and Carol brought out each other's unique interests, skills, and qualities. Mike was Carol's tireless supporter and embraced her penchant for coloring outside the lines.
As an educator, he met students exactly where they were, and instilled in them confidence, passion, and self-worth. He made them feel seen, heard, and cared for.
Mike's journey with cancer was akin to how he lived his entire life. He was strong and brave, soft and accepting. In his six-year journey, he consistently reinvented himself to accommodate those facets of his life that were no longer within his grasp.
Left behind to continue his legacy are his beloved children: Beth Weesner, Bill Weesner and Sharyn Weesner; his wife Carol Lynne Weesner; his grandchildren, the wildly outrageous Sadie and Liam Weesner; his brother John Weesner and his family; and legions of former students, colleagues, friends and neighbors for whom he made the world a better place.
Mike's wishes were clear. His wife, family, students and friends are to celebrate his mission here, which is now completed. A celebration of his life will begin at 3 P.M. on March 2, 2019 at the Monterey High School cafeteria – directly across from his classroom of 30 years of his 40-year teaching career at Monterey High School.
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April 2, 2019
Mr Weesner was my teacher and volleyball coach back in the 80s. I always remember him with a smile on my face. He was so invested in his students and a joy to be around. So funny and encouraging. I've often thought of him when I think back on the the people who have shaped my life. He was one of the good ones. May his legacy live on through his beautiful family.
J. Winter
March 3, 2019
Mike Weesner was my teacher for both Oceanography and Photography in 1982-ish. I was a terrible student and at the height of my truancy. I've never forgotten the look of sadness on his face when he saw me outside while I was ditching his Oceanography class. Even still, it was one class that I actually learned something, and he was always kind to me, never belittling. I wish I'd had the sense to reach out and let him know how much he meant to me.
Thank you, Mr. Weesner.
Cynthia Tiechner
March 3, 2019
Carol,
My prayers are with you. I had no idea Mike was not well. He was such a likable person, and so well thought of in the community. His sense of humor was one of his best qualities. I know you will miss him every day, as will so many. I hope your faith can keep you strong during this difficult time.
Debra Hill
March 2, 2019
Carol and family,
I was so shocked to hear of Michael's passing. I loved talking to him at the mail box as I delivered the mail and seeing the trains in the back yard. He was a highlight of my day while delivering the mail.
My utmost sympathy to you and your family.
Samantha Cabaluna
February 27, 2019
I had Mike Weesner as a teacher in both Oceanography and Photography and I can confirm that he had a big impact on me. He was a brilliant storyteller, and sparked his students' imaginations with those stories. I still retell stories I heard him tell. Also I found him to be a man of integrity. I remember we had a test in oceanography where we went to the tide pools at Asilomar and had to identify animals using a dichotomous key. This was a marine sanctuary and it is forbidden to take anything. So he told the class: if I catchy you taking anything ot won't affect your grade. But I WILL turn you in. Instilling respect for the creatures we were studying, the laws protecting them, and our own agency as humans on the verge of adulthood. So smart. The world is a lesser place worhout him. Peace to the Weesner family and all who loved him. Samantha Roby Cabaluna
Margarete Sujan Davis
February 27, 2019
I feel so lucky to have been a student in Mr. Weesner's MHS Oceanography class. He was so caring and gentle in his approach to teaching; I always felt comfortable asking him questions about the sea world.A favorite memory:waving to each other from our passing sailboats in Monterey Bay, together with his cheery smile. Sending love to his family, Margarete
Rachelle
February 27, 2019
My heart goes out to Carol and family for your loss. He was a great teacher and I loved his photography class. He will be greatly missed.
February 26, 2019
Mike brought so many gifts to so many people. His incredible spirit will never be foegotten.
Emily Foss
M CH
February 25, 2019
Mr. Weesner was a great man and a great teacher. I remember my 1999 senior year video yearbook class with him like it was yesterday. My condolences to his family. Please take heart in knowing how many lives he positively impacted.
maria miller
February 24, 2019
I loved his photography class. (so many years ago!) He was a nice, good-humored teacher. My condolences to his family.
Catherine Cook
February 24, 2019
Dear Carol,
So sorry for your loss. Mike was a true advocate for students and a wonderful teacher. Sadly, they don`t make them like him any more.
My thoughts are with you.
Catherine
Alex G
February 21, 2019
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one. May the loving God of all comfort and promised hope strengthen you during this difficult time. 1 Thessalonians 4:14 (JW)
February 21, 2019
Thoughts of sympathy and peace.
Numbers 6:24-26
A.B
February 21, 2019
My heartfelt condolences to the family. May you find comfort from Gods words and promises for the future for our loved ones who have passed. Have peace and happiness in the memories you shared. (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)
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