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Margaret Oldham Obituary

Lulene Oldham

Margaret Lulene Oldham, 74, passed from this life at her home in Midland on Thursday, September 28, 2006 at 4:40 P.M. She was born August 18, 1932 in Archer City, Texas to Isaac and Gladys Randall Gunter. Lulene married Arthur Oldham of Kellyville, Oklahoma on June 12, 1949 at the First Baptist Church in Whiteface, Texas. She graduated Whiteface High School in 1950 and spent the years that followed living in Whiteface; Roswell, New Mexico; Lagos, Nigeria; Kinshasa, Zaire; and Midland. She taught Sunday school for many years, enjoyed travel throughout the world, was an excellent seamstress, and was known for her creative letter writing. She had a life-long love of gardening and always created a spot of beauty wherever life took her. Following Arthur's retirement from Gulf Oil Corporation in 1983, the couple returned to Midland where Lulene spent her time gardening, sewing, traveling and serving others. She volunteered for Meals on Wheels, the Petroleum Museum and Hospice of Midland, Inc. She was a member of the First Baptist Church of Midland, the Santa Rita Club, and the Chevron Retirees Association. She was preceded in death by her parents; a brother, Isaac H. Gunter; and a beloved son, Randall Loran Oldham.

She is survived by her loving husband; a daughter, Brenda L. Holly of Midland; a cherished grandson, Randall Lyle Holly, USMC, Kaneohe Bay, Hawaii; a sister and brother-in-law, Virginia and Fred Brown of Fort Worth; five nieces, and several adored great nieces and nephews.

The service is private. Burial will be in Sunset Memorial Gardens in Odessa. Arrangements are under the direction of Ellis Funeral Home. To place on-line condolences please visit www.mem.com. Memorials may be made to HospiceMidland, Inc, Box 2621, Midland (79702), and the Museum of the Southwest Sculpture Garden, 1705 W. Missouri, Midland (79701).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram on Oct. 2, 2006.

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Tammy Brown

October 17, 2006

Mr. Oldham, please know that my prayers are with you and your family. It was truley and honor and a joy to have known Lulene. I so enjoyed the few times together in our little support group. May God bless and comfort you all.

Bill Macpherson

October 16, 2006

Arthur and Brenda, May God comfort and sustain you as you continue your lives without the physical presence of your beloved wife and mother. My prayers are with you and I know that our God will send you comfort, strength and courage.
What a comfort it is already to know that Luleen is rejoicing in heaven, freed from the illness that had bound her so tightly.

Karen Awbrey

October 5, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to you, Arthur. We know that Lulene is now free of pain and discomfort. My parents also send you their prayers and sympathy. May God give you peace through the days ahead. Karen & Kameron Awbrey
Bob & Robbie Awbrey (Sundown, Texas)

Marci Zermeno

October 5, 2006

I have so many wonderfull memories of Arthur and Lulene from Zaire where I grew up with my parents Dr. Bill and Darlene Macpherson - good friends of the Oldhams. We shared several holidays together. Lulene taught us gold leafing and many other artsy things. I have enjoyed coresponding with her during the holidays and keeping her up on my growing family news. She holds a dear place in my heart and will be remembered always. Our love and prayer support go out to Arthur and the family. Marci (Macpherson) Zermeno

Pam Gandy

October 2, 2006

You don't know me, but, I am Fred and Virginia's neice. My mother, Sue Sheppard and I would like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family. You and your family are in our prayers. Sue Sheppard and Pam Gandy

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