Alexandra Noel Pfister

Hello Pfisters and Sandwaters. I still think about you all often. Alexandra passed away on my birthday. I miss my updates from Georgia on your adventures. Thinking of you all. Sincerely Jim

It warms my heart that people in my life still honor you, remember you and love you. You were such a bright shining light. It's hard to handle that you're not here with us. I love you and miss you so much.

So many years Alley, we miss you so much, everyone does. I miss you so much my heart aches. My girls have grown up without you, they remember you, we talk about you but their children won´t know you and that hurts. I just hope you know that I would have walked through hell for you, moved heaven and earth to get to you. I want to snatch you back and have you here and mend your Mommas heart that´s not been the same since. You leaving has put a hole that can´t be plugged. We all miss you and...

Wow, Alexandra you have missed so much life. Every time something big happens in our family I think about how you are missing another life event. Your sister had another baby, her 6th, born on April 30. You should be here helping us spoil her. I always wonder how different things would be with your influence. You left Johanna without a sister. I think about how different her life might be if she had your guidance. Silas is about to start driving and graduate from high school. Sahria is a...

I imagine what the world would be like if you were still here. I wonder what you'd be doing. If you'd be happy. How your presence alone would make life better for others. I hope that wherever you are, you know that you are loved and missed by many.

This year was especially hard for me. We have missed celebrating 10 birthdays with you. It's hard to belive that this May it will be 10 years since you left us. It doesn't get easier missing out on your beautiful smile, your laughter and sweet spirit. I would give anything for another chance with you. I love you so much.

I hate to say it, but I don't really remember you much anymore. It's been a while sense I thought about you, and it's been a while sense I cried for you. But today I looked through these small, and long notes, and I realized just how special you were to us. I hate to admit it, but seeing messages from your mom every May made me remember you again, it made me cry cause I allways thought you looked like an angel, but I never thought you would ever become one. - Sahria H

Alley, You continue to be a missing piece with every family gathering, everyday. You are missed so much and it´s so damn sad you´re not here to be with us, smile, laugh, join in our crazy antics. Talk to, hug. I miss you!! Would have loved to see you continue to grow into the incredible woman you already were well on your to being. There are days I can´t believe your not here. Love you our Alley Cat!! Be at peace and know we will keep you alive in our hearts. Aunt Jill

My sweet Alley, I still miss you every day. Every family event reminds me that you're not here. Your absence is hard to take. You should be here with us, enjoying your life, making plans and having fun. It's such a short life and you chose to make it painfully shorter. I'll just never be able to fathom what was going through your head. I'll always regret that you didn't pick up the phone and call me or your siblings. We love you and would have done anything for you, our bright shining gift.