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The Rutkowski’s - Mary, Rick, Donna, Sue, and Jean
December 04, 2023


Photo courtesy of Wendel and Loecher Funeral Home - Lancaster
Lancaster, New York
Sep 5, 1926 – Nov 15, 2023
DISTEFANO-Anthony September 5, 1926 – November 15, 2023. Of Lancaster, NY beloved husband of the late Marie (Scherer) and the late Theresa (Cammarano); loving father of David (Charlene) Distefano and JoAnn (Norman) Blatner ; dearest grandfather of Anthony (Jodi) Blatner, Maria (Diego)...
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The Rutkowski’s - Mary, Rick, Donna, Sue, and Jean
December 04, 2023

Group of 10 Trees
The Rutkowski Family
December 04, 2023 | Buffalo, NY
He welcomed us into his home and even for a meal when Dave and us rode together coming home from Bona's. Loved those visits with Dave and his family.
MICHAEL MAZIARCZYK
November 19, 2023 | HOLLAND, NY | Friend
Mr. DiStefano, or Pa-D as some of Dave's old buddies called him, was a friendly conversationalist and advice giver to all of us. Sharing pizza and a beer with him on the old breezeway of the house were happy and enlightening times thanks to him and "Ma-D". It was a pleasure to know him and pray he rests in peace.
Lee & Sue Robak
November 18, 2023 | Friend
Life-long memories from his class in school.
Harry Konst
November 18, 2023 | School
One of the nicest most genuine souls I ever met. Tony always had a smile and a cold beer to share and especially listened to you when you spoke. He will be missed!
Tom Ferrentino
November 17, 2023 | Buffalo, NY | Family
This past summer I had the great pleasure of enjoying a meal with Tony. There is no doubt he had a special spark in his eye and loved his life! I was blessed to be in his presence and thankful to JoAnn and Norm for the hospitality. My deepest sympathy to the family of Tony Distefano.
Leslie Stewart
November 17, 2023 | Friend
Tony was an amazing person. He lived a life that always reflected the joy of life. Tony was always living his best moment. To meet him was to love, admire, and want to be around him even more. I think of Tony and smile. He was truly a reflection of God’s love.
Mary Colson
November 16, 2023 | East Amherst, NY | Friend