Benjamin T. Dahmer

Ben. I miss you so much. You were a really funny guy. I may not have known you all that long but i hung out wiht you everyday for about a month and you were becoming one of my good friends. I wish you would have stayed around a little longer so I could have told you that. I miss you Ben...alot.

Ohhh God...Lets See You Always gave me the craziest smiles ever across the room in mr. daileys class. & Of course always making fun of me and what i wore. but i loved your shoes and most of all you. you could always make me laugh and feel awkward (AKA bread co.) Love You Very much and miss you bunches <3

I KNOW

I know you all worry, dream and pray
that I'm alright and happy.
God is making sure I am, He fusses over me.
I know you all miss and love me.
I feel the same for all of you.
God tells me that's alright, it's what loving people do.

I know you all hope I knew them all,
the ones who met me here,
grandmas, grandpas, aunts and uncles,
and friends who took my fear.
God joined them at the gate,
He cried and said He missed me,
because you taught...

To my little brother whos life was full of joy. I'll never understand why you left us so but know this Ben you will always be thought about and loved for an eternity of life. I'll see you in the future but for now you and I must wait until we meet again little bro love ya little guy.

I love you Ben .... I'm gonna miss you playing toys with me....
an I' gonna m iss you going swiming with me......
and i'm gonna miss you playing in the snow with me ......
and i'm gonna miss you takeing me up too 7 11 store for freezies....
and i'm gonna miss you Ben very much !
Cause you are my brother and a very good brother....
that I had lots of happy times with you Ben.....I'm going to miss you trick or treating with us Ben
On Halloween night .....and gonna...

Since I have learned of this book I keep track of all entries.....for Ben you are not only in my heart but always on my mind as well. We tend as human beings to take our life and love for granted at times. And when death of a loved one happens we are devastated to say the least. So to all my friends and family take time out of your busy lives and a quick hug, smile, a simple I LOVE YOU means so very much.The simple little things in life count although we tend to put them aside at times or...

Dear Ben,
you know i am not good with words but im going to try..every day you kept me smiling durring photo class & even if it was hard to take you seriously sometimes you really helped me through a lot lot lot. i really admired the way you wern't afraid to be yourself & you didnt care what anyone thought...you even wore the "makeup" i put on you the whole school day. i always looked for you @ the bus from south to fern & still do. i am really sorry for not being there as much as you...

"Son" I just wish this were a bad dream..... and I could wake up and you'd be here
with us again ....If I could have one wish for anything it would be that you were here
with us again and that time could stand still and change for my love for you will never ever end
And waiting too see you again is the hardest thing I've ever had too do in my whole life but I will wait for my lil buddy....as long as I do get to see & be with you again... my loving son with a heart thats bigger than...

"Son" I just wish this were a bad dream..... and I could wake up and you'd be here
with us again ....If I could have one wish for anything it would be that you were here
with us again and that time could stand still and change for my love for you will never ever end
And waiting too see you again is the hardest thing I've ever had too do in my whole life but I will wait for my lil buddy....as long as I do get to see & be with you again... my loving son with a heart thats bigger...