Bette Anne Thomson

Bette Anne Wildes Thomson, 89 of Groton, passed away peacefully at her home in Groton Connecticut on August 6, 2025, with loving family by her side.

Bette was born on December 20, 1935, in Mystic Connecticut to Dorothy Lamb Wildes and Willis Parker Wildes, Jr. She had four older brothers, Robert, Russell, Kenneth and Warren.

She grew up in Noank, and attended Noank Grammar School, and Fitch High School, graduating in 1953. She was employed at the US Naval Sound Laboratory in 1953.

Bette married Herbert Thomson March 19, 1955, in Mystic, Connecticut. She and Herb enjoyed 53 wonderful years of marriage. Herb passed away October 1, 2008, age 73.

She is survived by her three sons, Brian, David, and Robert. She has six grandchildren: Keri, Keith, Talo, Seve, Morgan, Madison; and two great- grandchildren, Sophia and Julian.

Bette and Herb Joined the Groton Congregational Church in 1955 and were devoted and active members during their lifetimes.

Bette loved volunteering, first as a Cub Scout den mother, then as a lifelong participant of the Groton auxiliary of the Child and Family Agency. She was a member of the Thames Craft Guild. She had many other interests, including sewing, gardening, and traveling. She was a gifted pianist as well.

She loved most of all, hosting family get-togethers. She hosted many holidays where her family members gathered to enjoy her wonderful hospitality and love of life!

There will be no calling hours. Bette’s family will organize a celebration of her life this fall.

In lieu of flowers, those who wish to honor Bette’s memory are invited to make a donation to the St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or the Tunnels to Towers Foundation, 2361 Hylan Boulevard, Staten Island, NY 10306.