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Bruce Matthews Obituary

Bruce Matthews

Lakewood - Bruce Owen Matthews, 80, of Lakewood passed away on October 21, 2020. He was the son of Harvey ("Jack") Matthews and Mildred ("Billie") Matthews. He graduated from Lakewood High School, Villanova University with a Bachelors of Science in Economics, and Rutgers Law School with a Juris Doctorate.

Well-known and respected attorney in law in Ocean County for over 50 years, he primarily focused on the fields of personal injury and workmen's compensation matters.

He was a member of the Ocean County Bar Association, the New Jersey Bar Association, and the American Bar Association.

He was a member of the Lakewood High School Basketball Hall of Fame.

'Whiskey" Matthews loved music, good food, people and sporting events, August at Saratoga, some successful days at Monmouth Park, Summer good times, the Ocean, Beacon Manor and "The Bluffs", and the quintessential "Jersey Shore Boy".

Due to the Pandemic, funeral services will be private, but if you would like to be informed about "Bruce's Memorial Gathering" (when circumstances permit), please provide your name and email address to [email protected].

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press from Oct. 23 to Nov. 1, 2020.

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Sandra L Silva

May 3, 2023

RIP Bruce. You were my amazing Attorney.
Thank you, prayers to your Family

Linda Lester

October 17, 2022

Bruce was my Lawyer and my friend. My parents went to school with him. When my dad passed away in 1997, Bruce was there for me. He was amazing person . I love him so much and he will be greatly miss. R I P

Terry Whyte

November 23, 2020

What a nice guy !!! I won't forget you Bruce !!

Ryan Ardon

November 1, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.

Bette Matthews

November 1, 2020

There was a time, Bruce was my whole world. He taught me so many things. He meant so much to so many people. Rest in peace.

Dickie Frank

October 27, 2020

Great person, did alot for so many people. Rest in Peace Whisky, you will be missed never forgotten.

Linda Lester

October 25, 2020

I am very hurt because Bruce was the most loving and caring person that I knew. Bruce was my Lawyer for 30 years and he went to school with my parents. I am going to miss him so much. R I P my friend

Gene Hendrickson

October 24, 2020

Rest In Peace my Wildcat friend. A great lawyer and like me a huge Villanova basketball fan. Fiercely independent and always a tenacious advocate for his clients. I will miss you my friend. I will never forget you.

Spencer Thornton

October 24, 2020

I’m saddened to read of Bruce’s passing. He was just a nice man that I was always happy to bump into and talk. I will miss the many afternoons when we studied together in Oceanport, Hialeah, Fl or upstate New York. RIP my friend and I hope all the close races and cases go your way.

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