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Carla Carnes Obituary

STATESVILLE, N.C., - Carla Rebecca Koon Carnes passed away August 13, 2008, in Carolinas Medical Center in Charlotte, NC.

Carla was born in Aiken, SC, March 11, 1980, to George and Deborah Koon. She graduated from Lexington High School in 1998 and earned a B.S. in accounting from North Greenville College in 2002.

On July 13, 2002, Carla married Michael Carnes of Greenville, SC. Julia Linen Carnes was born to Carla and Michael on February 6, 2007, in Fargo, ND. Most recently, Carla, Michael and Linen lived in Statesville, NC, where Carla worked as a group fitness instructor and certified fitness trainer. They are members of Cove Church in Davidson, NC.

Carla’s life had an unquestionable impact on everyone who knew her. As a friend, mother and wife she was unparalleled. It is impossible to capture in words what she meant to the lives she affected. Her joy and the life that she presented in every situation was infectious. We are beyond speechless at the void her death has left in our lives, but believe that the short time she spent with us is worth the immense anguish. We celebrate knowing that she is enjoying the nearness and fullness of God and look forward to the day that we see her again.

The family will be receiving friends at Lake Murray Baptist Church, 1001 Hwy 378 West in Lexington, SC, Sunday, August 17, 2008, at 6:00 p.m. The funeral will be held at 2:00 p.m. at Lexington Baptist Church, West Main Street in Lexington, SC, Monday, August 18, 2008. Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Lexington Chapel is assisting the family.

In lieu of sending flowers, Michael and Linen would like for everyone to send a donation to the missions work of Carla’s sister, Allison and her husband, Josh. Josh and Allison are working to establish a seminary for pastors in India. They request that you send your contributions to Red Bank Baptist Church, 120 Community Drive, Lexington, SC 29073. Please designate these contributions to the Carla Carnes Missionary Fund.

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Published by The State on Aug. 16, 2008.

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juan abuchaibe

October 31, 2008

dear carlas family i heard about this sad news just today october 31 . 08 my name is juan abuchaibe i was one of the colombian tennis players at north greenville college and very good friend of carla wile i was there . she was one of the persons who always made us feel welcome and invite us to her home i have wonderfull memories of her and ill keep her always on my heart .. to her family .. my suport in this dificult time .. just know that she will be remembred by her friends here in colombia a

Linda Lucas McKay

August 26, 2008

George and family, I was sad to hear about your loss. I don't always understand why God allows us Christains suffering but he does always promise us comfort and peace. I lost a husband at an early age and had to really pull strength and comfort from the Lord as in my own strength I felt as if I could not go own. But even though you will have many sad times for many years God's strength will get you through. I know I have been there. Losing a child I heard is so much harder. I want you to know I feel for you and will be praying for you. I still have my CD I bought when you came to Chapin Baptist church and I am going to put it in again and hear the songs yall sang and remember Carla. God bless each of you!

Dwight Jenkins

August 25, 2008

Dear George and Deborah,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are and will remain in my prayers. I claim the promise of Psalm 147:3 -- "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." May our Lord's healing touch flood into your souls, and may He give you a depth of grace unlike anything you have ever experienced.

Louise McGaha

August 21, 2008

George, Debra and family, I was so sorry to hear about Carla. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I feel so sad knowing you all are hurting.

Cindy Mack Hook

August 21, 2008

George, I know words can not even begin to describe what you and your family are going through. It's not for us to understand now. God has His plans. You are all in my prayers.

Gene & Ann Rowell

August 21, 2008

May "the God of all comfort" do as none other can ... provide all who grieve with a measure of His sustaining strength and solace. We offer our heart-felt sympathy to the Koon family whom we love and respect. Revelation 21:1-27

J Paul & Kathy Sanderson

August 21, 2008

Koon Family and Michael + Linen..
Carla came to Clinton,TN at a very young age along with the rest of the Koon's.. Her big beautiful eyes-smiles won all the Sanderson's over just like her sister and brother did too. Pastor George and Deb minister to our family and other families and work in God's vinyard daily...the Kids sang with their Dad .."He's still working on me" to make me what I aught to be...Well, today Carla's work is done...and she's HOME

Her life has touch many more people since you took your family back to South Carolina George in so many ways. It was always fun to see you and be with you, Deb and the kids when you came for revivals here in Tennessee.. We got to see the kids grow up even though they were not with us here in Tennessee...

Memories, of working in God's fields together are still in our minds at times like these... and that work still goes on as I have seen from various people who have posted about Carla....

Angie, Amy, Allison, & Abbe as well as Kathy and I hurt for your loss Koon family...YOU are God's people we have never forgot and Carla is someone who has touched many lives in her short life here on earth..

Gone to the father who giveth life...one day..one day we will all see her again as you will too....Just know we love you Koon family and are praying for you daily, that God's healing hand will give you HIS PEACE..not as the world giveth ,give I unto you ...Let not your heart be trouble , neither let it be afraid...In my father's house are many house's , I go there to prepare a place for you and will come again and received you ( CARLA ) unto myself...the calling home of a saint..

In Christ Koon family ...we love you

The Sanderson's ..J.Paul , Kathy and the 4 A's ( Angie, Amy, Allison,Abee )

Paula Becker

August 21, 2008

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my friends and family's thoughts and prayers.
May God bless you throughout this terrible time to bring you peace and comfort.

karen ezell

August 20, 2008

Dear Allison and Pastor Josh,
We grieve deeply over the pain your family is going through. No words can take that away. But I do know that God's Word tells us that no pain we go through here can compare with the riches in Christ Jesus. What a blessing to have the assurance that we'll all be together again one day with Him and to know that Carla knows Him and is with Him now. I pray for healing hearts for your family and that He brings each of you the strength you need as you heal. We will continue to lift you and your families up to Him in prayer. You are such a blessing to us and we love you all so much.
Karen & Kenny Ezell

Natalie Sand

August 20, 2008

Dear Michael, Linen and Koon Family,
It was such a blessing to have Carla for a friend. She truly is an amazing woman who I am going to miss dearly. I am so grateful for her friendship while we became mommies together. It was such a blessing to come visit her and meet her entire family. You r'all so amazing. So many fond memories. Michael, we are always here for you. Linen, we love you! You are continually in our prayers.

Carrie Murphy

August 20, 2008

GEORGE,Deborah and family,
I want you to know how much your family means to me and i hurt with you during this time. Wow! what a legacy Carla left. She was loved by so many and her singing for the Lord touched many people.My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love in Christ,Carrie Bearden Murphy

Charles and Jean Bearden

August 20, 2008

We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
May God bless you all through this terrible time.

David Davis

August 19, 2008

Dear Koon cousins,
May God wrap his arms extra tightly around y'all these days, and may comfort flow back to y'all like y'all have given to our family and so many others.

Mike and Beverly Davis

August 19, 2008

When we heard that Carla had joined that Great Cloud of Witnesses, our hearts were saddened at your great loss. We pray that the presence of the God of all comfort will be evident in the caring touch of all those that knew and loved her.

Veronica Denton

August 19, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. We have very fond memories of the Koon family when you were in Clinton, TN. I know God is with you during this difficult time. Gary and Veronica Denton, Jeff and Jennifer Denton Haun

Allison (Hucks) Nicholson

August 19, 2008

Dear Koon and Carnes Families, I will continue to pray for you in the coming months and years as you continue to mourn the loss of this amazing woman. Her confidence, joy, humor, creativity, and love changed me and I am better for having known her. I rest and am comforted in knowing she is with our Savior now and I look forward to worshiping our Father with her one day. I am so thankful to have had lunch with her the Saturday before her passing. She was so beautiful and her spirit was so sweet…a memory I’ll keep always.

Bill & Linda Toney

August 19, 2008

Our thoughts & prayers are with you & the family. We are so sorry for your loss but, heaven has truly gained an "Angel"
Bill & Linda Toney & family
LeAne & Gene Hackney ~ Amanda & Matthew
Elaine & John Walker ~ Alex, Andrew, Aaron, Anthony & Ayden
Eric & Cathy ~ Jake & Katie

Rabon & Jewelle Stewart

August 19, 2008

Dear Koon and Carnes Families:
You are in our thoughts and prayers as you work through the loss of Carla and her presence in your lives.
We never had the privilege of meeting her, but we knew of her through our connection with Mike's mother, Sharon (my cousin), and had joined others praying for them during his deployment.
No words are sufficient to express the sorrow we felt upon learning of her death. We know that God does, indeed, do all things well and so we trust His unfailing promises especially in times like these.
Know that you are remembered with love and prayers.

Jessica (Adams)Bendt

August 19, 2008

I remember having lunch w/ Carla while at LHS nearly everyday;borrowing her dress for the Jr.Miss...so many memories. She is now w/ my brother Jack. May the families find some comfort during this very difficult time.

LeAne Toney ~ Hackney

August 19, 2008

George, Deborah, & Family ~ We are so sorry & saddend to hear the passing of Carla. The thoughts & prayers of many are with you & the entire Koon & Carnes family. We have so many great memories of Carla & the Koon family while you were the pastor @ South Clinton Baptist in TN. Again our thoughts, love & prayers go out to all. May GOD be with you & comfort you during this time & the days ahead.

Norma Fraker

August 19, 2008

Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

We love you,
Al & Norma Fraker (Clinton, TN)

Jeanenne gallop and family

August 19, 2008

We are truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Elaine Toney Walker

August 19, 2008

There are not words to express my sorrow. Carla will forever be in my memory as a joyous child with no front teeth. The Koon family has been a tremendous blessing in my life over the years. May God give you strength and peace in your time of grieving. My prayers are with you always.

Andrew Hall

August 18, 2008

I met Carla before she graduated from Lexington HS and had the opportunity to spend time getting to know her one summer. As I read through the many thoughts and rememberences of her, she seemed to have stayed true to the great person I remember her being. It was an honor and a pleasure to say I knew her and her family. Her love for her family and for God was always so evident. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.

Lonnie & Hazel Shull

August 18, 2008

You have our deepest sympathy and our prayers. We remember Carla so pleasantly as she ministered to us when I was pastor of FBC, West Columbia.
We do not understand but we trust God's will. He will not fail you.

Angela Murray / Ingersoll Rand

August 18, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Anne Lavemder

August 18, 2008

Geroge, Deborah, and family, I was saddened to hear of the tragic loss you have had. My thoughts and prayers are with you. We do know that God is our refuge and strength at all times. Anne Lavender

Danny Byars

August 18, 2008

My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Magan Stout

August 18, 2008

I have no words to express my sympathy or shock. My prayers are with all of you.

Gary Cooper

August 18, 2008

May GOD provide you with the peace and comfort that only he can provide.

Erica Gantt

August 18, 2008

My heart is with each of you during this most difficult time. May God provide comfort to you all. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jason & Rosemary Davis

August 18, 2008

We were sorry to hear about Carla. She was such a special person to many people. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Rita Koon

August 18, 2008

I am very sorry for your loss and sorry that I could not be there during this time. You are in my prayers.

Kristina Kuhns (Backman)

August 18, 2008

I was very shocked and saddened to hear about the loss of a good person and soccer player. the family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Tanya & Justin Hilton

August 18, 2008

I had the pleasure of working with Carla at New Life Fitness World in Lexington. Her smile & her spirit were electrifying. She was so thrilled when Michael returned home. Of course soon she was pregnant & they were on their way out west. It was a honor to know such a wonderful person with a beautiful spirit. Michael, Linen, Koon & Carnes family you are all in our prayers. 1 Thes. 4: 13-18

Brenda Hood

August 18, 2008

Koon Family,

May God give you peace during this time of sadness. You are and will be in our thoughts and prayer.


Brenda Price-Hood
SCBC, His Kids

The Crumpton's

August 18, 2008

Our Thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Continue to step out with faith knowing God will provide you with everything you need .

Leah Browder Simpson

August 18, 2008

I was so shocked and saddened to hear the news about Carla. I have always and will always have very fond memories of her. She was always so happy and sweet. She will be missed. My thought and prayers are with your family.

Stacy Whisennant

August 18, 2008

My deepest thoughts and prayers are with Carla's family during this time. Carla impacted my life in ways that words can not express and I know that heaven rejoices over the blessing that they are receiving.

Chasity Seegars

August 18, 2008

I had the pleasure of working with Carla at the church while Michael was oversees. I am glad to have known someone so amazing. She is truly an inspiration to so many and will be missed immensely.

Margie Franklin

August 17, 2008

I was so saddened to hear of the loss of Carla. She was such a beautiful child when Harry and I were at Lake Murray. Such a blessing to have known her and to read about the person she grew up to be. My prayers go out to your family during this difficult time.

Jamie Gill

August 17, 2008

I don't really know if I have the words to express how shocked and sad I was to hear of Carla's passing.

I met her when i began working at the ymca in the nursery. I waited especially for the moment she would come back to pick up her daughter, just to see Linen's face LIGHT UP so big, she was always so excited to see her mom. Carla was such a fantastic mother, and a genuinely kind person. Every time I saw her, she was happy and smiling, beautiful inside as much as outside.

Her family is my thoughts and my prayers during this time.

Martha & George Kyzer

August 17, 2008

George and I send our deepest sympathies to the whole Koon family.We did not have the opportunity to know Carla, but, we do know her grandfather, Rev. Carl Koon and his wife, Jennie. They are such kind and wonderful people, I know Carla had to be also. Our prayers are with all of you.

Ed and Charlene Kemper

August 17, 2008

The Koon Family Singing Band has serenaded us many times with promises to "'meet friends and family on the other side of Jordan, where they will spend all eternity". We are saddened to learn of your loss, and cannot imagine the anguish and anger you must be feeling. We pray that somewhere in due time, between Carla's music and Linen's smiles, God will grace you each with peace in your hearts and a smile of your own. Jordan is just a blink away.

Debbie & Keith Spires

August 17, 2008

We were so sorry to learn of Carla's passing. Our daughter was in Lex One Children's Choir with Carla and Allison. And, of course, we have known George since his family's time in Gaston many years ago. Our hearts ache for you as we know that there is nothing harder to bear than losing your child. We pray that you are able to feel the loving arms of Jesus around you during the hard days to come.

Leah Fitts

August 17, 2008

I will miss Carla so much. She was a true friend and she had a very positive impact on my life. She was REAL. I know she is in heaven smiling down on us. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Kimberly Ough

August 17, 2008

My thoughts and Prayers are with you. I am very blessed to have worked with and known Carla for the short time that I did. She lit up the room whenever she came in! I was deeply saddened to hear of her passing. I enjoyed her very much.

Wanda & Jim Harelson

August 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you on this journey in your lives. We are deeply sorry for your loss and our heart felt sympathy goes especially to Michael and their baby girl, who will miss her tender care each day.

JULIE Costner Okelly

August 17, 2008

Carla will greatly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all! I wish I could attend the services, however, I am in California and just got the news.

Jo McRae

August 17, 2008

Pastor George, Deborah and Family,

I am deeply saddened of Carla's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting her and hearing her sing with you. She will be greatly missed. Just know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Chris, Rhonda (Wooten), Cayman & Cheyenne Hutchinson

August 17, 2008

Michael, Linen, George, Deborah, Allison & Family, Bryson, Dooley Family and Koon Family,

Our prayers are with you! Romans 12:15 says: "Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep." We weep deeply with you in the loss of Carla, our precious dear sister in Christ, friend, and cousin. She will be missed by many and the cherished memories of times spent together will be held dear to our hearts. We rejoice in knowing that one day we will join Carla in our "Forever Home...Heaven." May you find continual comfort in the loving, comforting arms of our Heavenly Father. We love each of you and are here if you need us in any way.

Jim Sketo

August 17, 2008

All are in our thoughts and prayers ....our hearts go out to you...dear old friends.

The Sketo Family Lexington SC

Tina Corn

August 17, 2008

May God strengthen you and comfort you during this time. My prayers are with you all.

K,C,C anc C Alford

August 17, 2008

Michael, Linen and family,
God crossed our paths at Radius Church in SC., for this we are so grateful... Carla and I became closer while Michael was on one of his "mission trips" to Afghanistan, especially when she and I were both expecting. It came time for our family to do mission work as well as start another Radius Church in Tennessee, you and Carla were so supportive! Carla was very encouraging especially with that smile of hers. I can remember sending emails and making phone calls asking her to pray for specifics for our family, each were always answered or replied to with such sincere grace and love. Your family is such a blessing to us and to so many. You have expanded His Kingdom in several ways. What a legacy. Thank you.
Our human words spoken/written here, may or may not lend any real comfort... So for now, we pray, we ask God w/ His Holy Spirit to comfort you through all of your friends and family, possibly use our attempt-- or however He desires to comfort and care for you...just know you are loved by God and by so many in His family. He is with you as He promises and will not leave or forsake you although it may feel that way at times. We love you and are available for anything you, Linen or your family may need. His peace that passes all understanding be yours forever...

Darcy, Ezra, Kagan & Jase Phillips

August 16, 2008

We had the pleasure of having Carla & Michael as our next door neighbors in Lexington for a few years. Carla & I quickly became friends b/c as you all know, Carla made friends with anyone and everyone :-) We were trying to get together last weekend but it didn't work out and we said "we'll do it next time"...funny how we always think there will be a "next time." I have been reflecting over the times we shared together and feel so blessed to have had her in my life. She was a daily witness for Christ and everyone who met her was immediately drawn to her big smile and sweet, gentle spirit. Her heart was HUGE and each & every friend & family member meant so much to her. She touched lives in ways I don't think she even realized. I realize now looking back that it was her friendship that led to my rekindling my relationship with Jesus Christ and I will be forever grateful for her influence. Her memory will serve as a constant reminder to honor Him in my daily life and to never take a single day for granted. I love you Carla and am missing you terribly. I'm hoping you'll have heaven all stylish and creatively decorated by the time I join you there :-) Michael, you & Linen are in our constant thoughts and prayers and of course we are here for you if there is anything we can do to help please don't hesitate.

Tina Hartley

August 16, 2008

Koon/Carnes Family:
May God be with you during this very difficult time. Please know that we are praying for you all....
Chris, Tina and Lauren Hartley

Mike and Susan Evans

August 16, 2008

We are blessed to have known Carla as a neighbor, coworker, and most of all friend. We can't recall a single moment that Carla did not show her beautiful smile. She always had a great outlook on life and certainly had much to smile about. She will be missed dearly at the YMCA and in the community. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Michael, Linen, and the family.

Barry and Chrissy Felton

August 16, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. We pray for comfort during your loss.

Raymond, Michelle & Matthew Kilgore

August 16, 2008

Word's can't express the sorrow we have for your families. Just know that we are praying that God comforts you thru this difficult time. Pastor George you taught us in 2 Corinthians 1:3 "The God of All Comfort".

Alan & Gay Oxendine

August 16, 2008

Dearest Koon and Carnes Families,

We were saddened to hear of the loss of Carla but know she is with Our Father. She had a smile that would light up the room. When your heart is empty, filling it with happy memories can help you find your smile. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Shelli Matar

August 16, 2008

God be with your family during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you, your family and the friends that have suffered this terrible loss.

Julian and Wanda Brooks

August 16, 2008

Dearest George, Deborah and family: We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow and we specifically pray for God's comfort in the days that follow.

The Staff of Caughman-Harman Funeral Home

August 17, 2008

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Eddie & Crystal Shelton

August 16, 2008

Michael,
We only briefly met you and Carla and Linen at our life group through the Cove Church when you visited at our house. Please know that you are being lifted up in prayer. We knew from the short time we had together that you were a strong couple in your relationship with Jesus Christ. Hold on to Him. We are praying that he will hold you and Linen and the rest of the family in his loving arms and meet you right where you are. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you out. In Christ's love and in deepest sympathy,

David Tate

August 16, 2008

Dear George, Deborah, Michael, Josh, Allison and Bryson,
We are deeply saddened at the news we received of Carla's passing. Please know we are praying for you, lifting your family with each thought of you. We only briefly knew Carla and Michael but she truly was and example of strength and devotion in her walk with the Lord. May God be your peace in this time of deep sorrow. We love you and will continue to lift you up.
Love in Christ,
David, Shannon and Max Tate

Sherry Shealy Martschink

August 16, 2008

I was so sorry to learn of Carla's illness and death at such a young age. The entire family (Carnes, Koon, Dooley, etc.) is in my thoughts and prayers.

Carlene Proctor

August 16, 2008

I was so saddened to hear about the loss of your daughter Carla. I remember her and Allison as a small child at Chouchton Baptist Church and such sweet children. My prayers go out to the family during this most diffulict time. God Bless

Kari Ward

August 16, 2008

Dear Koon and Carnes families,
Dale and I feel truly blessed to have known Carla and shared so many fun memories together over the years. We have been reflecting over those these past several days and can only imagine what you are going through. We love you and we are praying for each one of you. Carla and I ran together through Lexington and went to breakfast at the Other Pancake House on Saturday, July 26th and I will forever cherish that day. Kari and Dale Ward

Alicia(Taylor) Hartsell

August 16, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gail Perry

August 16, 2008

George, you must remember how you taught
us that GOD WILL MAKE A WAY WHEN THERE SEEMS TO BE NO WAY. We have no answers for why this has happened but we know the same God is there for you and your loving family. You are each so special and he'll never leave you.My prayers to all of you , I love you.

Elizabeth Hook-Hoffman

August 16, 2008

sooo, i got on facebook a lil while ago && found out that one of my close friends passed away yesterday. her name was carla && she was the greatest person i have ever met in my whole entire life. she was always a role model to me even though she was like 7 years older than me. but age doesnt matter, she was such a terrific person, in fact i cant even think of a word that can describe carla, she was amazing && never had a single enemy!! she was so young && so full of life with a brand new life with a family of her own... my thoughts, prayers, tears, && condolences goes out to carla && the koon family && the carnes family as well. this will be a tough week, but god knew what he was doing when he called her home, he calls all of his angels at the right time that they are needed, && we just have to realize that she isnt gone comepletely, she lives in all of us whose lives she has touched all her years on this earth. so thank you carla for al you did && how many lives you have changed by your short time here on this earth. we will carry you on in our lives forever... you will be greatly && forever missed && forever && always in our hearts!! we love && miss you always!!

3Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 5For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. 6If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. 7And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort... 2 cor 1:3-7

Geri Edwards

August 16, 2008

Michael, Linen and Family,
Carla and I became friends when she started working at the YMCA. She was such an inspiration to me. She was such a wonderful and beautiful friend and the best mother. I am so blessed to have known Carla. She had an impact on everyone she met. I thank God for placing her in our lives. It is because of Carla that I am on my way to finding God again.

Emmy and Frank Morrissey

August 16, 2008

Thank you for sharing Carla with us and with Fran. Carla was a precious person and we will miss hearing about her and loving her from a distance through Fran. Please know that many tears have been shed along with yours. Love, Emmy and Frank Morrissey

Barbara Bunton

August 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. I was in Carla's fitness class at the YMCA and just loved her dearly. She was such an inspiration to everyone. She will be missed by all. I am so glad we have the LORD JESUS CHRIST to be our comfort during these times.

Jane Shealy

August 16, 2008

We are lifting your family up daily in prayer. We ask that the Holy Spirit will comfort you through these difficult days.

Joey & Jane Shealy

Amanda (Scott) Esbensen

August 16, 2008

We are so saddened by the loss of Carla. Jon and I went to highschool with Allison and Carla. Carla was just such a nice and outgoing person, so easy to be around. We saw her last at Chris and Ashley's wedding and I am so thankful for that. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brian, Donna and Bobby Raines

August 16, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this most difficult time!

Terry & Sandra Pound

August 16, 2008

Our son Richie was a student at North Greenville when Carla was there, and we have known George and many of his family for years. We grieve with this family over their loss. It is indeed Heaven's gain.

Alan Oxendine

August 16, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Koon family. Words are not enough.
Alan and Gay Oxendine

Marion & Barbara Benton

August 16, 2008

Dearest Michael,Linen,George,Deborah,Brysonand Allison & Josh...our hearts are heavy and greatly saddened at Carla's sudden call home! Please know that you are all being surrounded and lifted up in prayer by those who love you all around the world! Rest peacefully in the loving arms of our heavenly Father as He carries you thru this valley and the days ahead. We carry Carla's beautiful smile and song in our hearts always.
We love you.

Sabrina Jones

August 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.I was in Carlas fitness class at the YMCA of Statesville.Carlas smile was infectious and she was just wonderful person to be around.I count myself blessed to have known her the short time that i did.

Sabrina Jones

August 15, 2008

I just wanted to let you know that Carlas entire family are in our thoughts and prayer.I took her fitness classes at the YMCA in Statesville,Her smile was infectious and she was such a wonderful and loving person.I count myself blessed to have known her for the short time that i did.

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Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

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Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

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Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

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The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

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Ways to honor Carla Carnes's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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