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Charles Buettner Obituary
'Charlie'
Mr. Buettner, 89, of Charlotte passed away Wednesday, August 18, 2010 in Hunter Woods Nursing and Rehabilitation Center. He was born December 11, 1920 to Ferdinand and Elizabeth Ballweg Buettner in Queens, NY. During his years he enjoyed tinkering, woodworking, and most of all spending time with his family. He was an usher of St. Patrick's Catholic Church in Smithtown, NY.
He is survived by his four sons, Charles A. Buettner of Charlotte, Gerard R. Buettner of Bohemia, NY, Raymond J. Buettner of Charlotte, Kenneth P. Buettner of Charlotte; his two grandchildren, Danielle Ambrose and husband David of Collegeville, PA, Christopher John of East Setauket, NY; one sister, Agnes Rizkalla of Tampa, FL; his sister-in-law, Patricia Wojcieszak of Bellmore, NY and a special friend, Marie Knudsen of Saugerties, NY.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his loving wife of 50 years, Frances M. Buettner; three siblings, Betty, Evelyn, Joseph; and a brother-in-law John Wojcieszak.
The family will receive friends Thursday, August 26, 2010 from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM in McEwen Funeral Service Derita Chapel, 6300 Mallard Creek Road. The Mass of the Resurrection will be held Friday, August 27, 2010 at 10:00 AM in St. Patrick's Catholic Church, 1621 Dilworth Road E. Burial will follow at Salisbury National Cemetery.
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Memories and Condolences
for Charles Buettner
JoAnn White
September 7, 2010
So sorry to hear the news of Uncle Charlie. I have very fond memories of him. He was always good for a laugh at our family gatherings and always let me take a puff on his cigar. I know how hard it is to lose your last parent but you know he is at peace.
August 27, 2010
My brother, Jim, told me of the death of Charles Buettner Sr. Our sincere sympathy is extended to family members and friends.
I am reminded of a quote I recently read while working Sundays as a caregiver at Mary’s Haven.
“All that we can know about those who have loved and lost”(Thorton Wilder wrote) is that they would wish us to remember them with a more intensified realization of their reality. What is essential clarifies. The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude.”
We trust that in the days ahead you will find comfort with the support of family and friends.
John and Lee Nelson (Saratoga Springs, NY)
Friends of Girard and John.
August 25, 2010
Dear Gerard , We were sad to hear of the passing of your dad, Theres no doubt thats a tough one, We hope all you guys are hanging in there remembering the good times and knowing he can join your mom who is patiently waiting for her husband to join her . I saw the pictures of your family on the web sight and it reminded me of my family in the past , we grow older but the Love remains the same God alone is enough'
Bless you all Keep close our love to you all, Gerard , we are here for you , Please don't forget. Love Always weather you like it or not Snora & jimmy
Diana Enrico
August 25, 2010
So sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you all...Charles, Gerard, Kenneth and Raymond.
Diana Enrico
August 25, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Janet Carl
August 25, 2010
I was saddened to learn of his death. He was always part of my family growing up. As we got older, he shared his practical advice with my brother and I. He was financially savy and was well grounded in his faith.My mother passed away unexpectedly at age 61. Charles Sr. (my uncle) gave a great deal of his time in helping my brother Tom and I with execution of her will and other final expenses. He helped us through a very difficult time. I regret that because of distance, we were not able to visit. He will remain in my prayers.
My condolences to Charles, Ray, Ken and Gerard. I know you will miss your father.
Janet Carl--
Don Nelson
August 24, 2010
Will alway's have great memories of Chas SR.and his sense of humor with us "punk" kids growing up.Raised you guys after all.My condolences and love,Charlie,Gerard,Raymond and Kenny!
Laure Hall
August 24, 2010
Love to you all at this difficult time. My prayers are with you and all touched by your father.
Steve & Susie Axtell
August 24, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God bless you and keep you under the shelter of His wings.
David Ambrose
August 24, 2010
My thoughts and prayers to all of you with the loss of Charles Sr. It's not a "goodbye" just a "so long for now" !!!!
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