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David Wilhelm Obituary
By MARK BIXLER
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
The federal agent found slain Saturday was a high-ranking Atlanta supervisor for U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement, a colleague said.
David G. Wilhelm was one of four assistant special agents working from an office near Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport. He oversaw agents who investigated money laundering and trafficking in illegal drugs and humans, among other things, said Jason Kidd, an agent who worked for Wilhelm.
"He was the nicest good ole country boy," Kidd said. "He never got upset."
Wilhelm developed a sterling reputation among customs investigators during previous assignments in North Carolina and Virginia and had accumulated awards that decorate his office wall, Kidd said. He was particularly well known for his skill in working on cases that involved drugs or financial impropriety or the use of wiretaps, Kidd said.
"He was widely considered one of the top agents," he said.
Wilhelm was in his early 40s.
He rented an apartment in Peachtree City and was building a house in Buckhead. He was working on that house when an assailant killed him. The authorities later found Wilhelm's truck at the Gwinnett County apartments where they arrested Brian Nichols, suspected of killing a judge, court reporter and deputy and wounding another deputy in downtown Atlanta Friday.
Agents were consoling his wife Saturday aftenroon.
"She's being taken care of right now," Kidd said.
Memories and Condolences
for David Wilhelm
1575 Entries
Bucky Straub
October 20, 2020
Was sitting watching TV with wife and show came on about FBI and immediately Bro you came to mind!! Was telling wife about our childhood memories. Tears started to flow about memories that came to mind. U are truly missed Bro!! I know that when mom got to heaven over a year ago I know u where one of the ones she looked for to give a big hug too. Mom and Dad truly respected u and your family!! Thanks Dave for all the good memories!!
Anonymous
August 16, 2020
My dad was working with him on his house and although he didn’t know much about Mr. Wilhelm, he often talks about him. He made an impact on my dad’s life in such a short time and always speaks fondly of him.
He will always be remembered.
RL Grizzle
March 12, 2015
David Wilhelm, a good and brave man. A man who loved his wife and family. I've thought of you often and all those whose lives were cut short that day. Heaven is lovelier with all of you there.
Rodney Wilson
March 13, 2011
We have not forgotten you Dave, again, Thanks, Rodney
Lisa Uriola
March 11, 2011
Today marks the 6th anniversay of Dave's passing. I'm sure many of us still remember it like it was yesterday. Sadly, families in the law enforcement community are continuing to lose loved ones at a record pace. In Georgia alone, we lost 10 officers this past year, and the sensless killing of Special Agent Zapata in Mexico made those losses hurt even more. I hope those families, as devastated as they are, will come together and do their best to stay strong just as the great Wilhelm family did when they lost their beloved Dave. Think of how they lived - not how they died. Though the sadness still shows in their eyes to this day, the Wilhelm family continues to honor Dave's wonderful memory by showing kindness, grace, and courage to everyone they meet. Trust me when I tell you that once you have met a member of Dave's family, you will never forget them. As you end your day today, please take a moment to think about Dave and the way his friendship and love of family have influenced your life.
Candee
March 8, 2011
As we reflect back on the lives of those extra special people that walked with us through part of our life but are now angels and spirits watching over us....let us gather the positive lessons that they were here to teach us....to do our best, to help others, to live each day like it is our last ....with no REGRETS.
Ryan Spradlin
June 9, 2009
D, ironically I have taken a position with ICE in Atlanta and perhaps even more ironic am staying in temporary quarters at an apartment off Lenox, not even a mile from the beautiful home you were so excited about. The morning of my first day of work I passed it and knew you were wishing me luck. I miss you everyday bro and wish you were here to have me and Janet over for that BBQ you always talked about having.
Rodney Wilson
April 30, 2009
Dave, there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you and what you meant to me. Your memory will remain with me forever. Thanks.
Lisa Uriola
April 28, 2009
A beautiful weekend just passed and we spent it honoring the fallen law enforcement officers that were lost this past year. The Annual Law Enforcement Memorial Ride was held this past Saturday in Atlanta with over 2500 motorcycles and over 3000 riders participating. There were so many riders there that the procession was over eight miles long. It was such an honor to be there as a volunteer, watching all the riders proudly wearing their club colors. My favorite, of course, will always be Ed Christian and his chapter of the Blue Knights. As the names of the fallen officers were read, I couldn't help but think about the pain I felt back in 2005 when they called off Dave's name. I hope the families of those lost will find comfort in the lasting memories they have and remember the legacies their loved ones are leaving behind. There will always be stories to be told, and that is how they will continue to live in our hearts.
One of the familiar faces I saw was Patrick Wilhelm and his sweet wife, Allison who were there representing the Wilhelm family. The room became quiet as Patrick sang the National Anthem in his beautiful baritone voice.
Yesterday was the Second Annual David Wilhelm Memorial Golf Tournament in Carrollton, GA. Funds were raised for the Special Olympics, which I believe was one of Dave's favorite charities. The number of players keeps growing each year and Dave would be so proud of the way people came together for a day of fun. And yes, Patrick and his wife were there also. I was disappointed that his dad didn't make it this year because he is such a joy to talk to. I think he would have enjoyed the beautiful day. I'm sure it was Dave's radiant glow beating down on us, and it is still showing today on all of our sunburned faces.
To Candee: Todd showed me your picture today. I'm glad to see that you're out having fun. Dave would have wanted that for you. You are becoming quite the fisherman..uh..[wo]man.
John Johnson
March 28, 2009
Big D, losing you was such a profound loss to me and countless others whose life you touched. It's been over 3 years, and I remember you each day. You life was a meaningful as it could have possibly been, and I treasure our friendship. I just remember calling your cell over and again, then one day my phone would ring with "Ya Ya, whassup, bubba?, and we would go for an hour.
I miss you, and I'll see you in the promised land
JJ Jacksonville FLE
Lisa Uriola
March 15, 2009
It doesn't seem like it's already been 4 years since we lost Dave. I always think of Candee, Mars, and the Wilhelm family and hope they always remember how much we all loved Dave. I was thinking of him on March 11 and gave him a drink to toast his life. We have a living plant in our office that the Wilhelm family gave me on the day of Dave's funeral. It's name is (of course) Dave. After 4 years, the plant has grown quite large (over 3 ft in diameter). It's thriving in its environment. I mention that because I think Dave's spirit touched that plant. I chuckle whenever I think of it because just as Dave touched the lives of so many people, it's funny how he also touched something as simple as a plant. It's strong and healthy just like Dave was and I'm glad we still have a living representation of his life.
I watched the Wilhelm family on TV during the trial. Just as Patrick always does, he never left his mother's side. I'm sure he was holding her hand as they sat there. And Candee...you sat there strong and determined. Even though we have a partial victory, I know your fight is not yet over. Please remember that we all stand with you and that we love all of you very much.
I hope Patrick and Mr. Wilhelm will be at Dave's Memorial Golf Tournament again this year. I thoroughly enjoyed chatting with Mr. Wilhelm last year and hope to do it again next month.
I wish all of you lots of peace, happiness, and love.
John Fry
March 14, 2009
Dave,
Today, as last year at this time, there will be a lunch held in your memory. People and time change, people come and go, but not our thoughts of you. We miss you.
Tavis Neal
March 13, 2009
hey Dave just wanted to say we miss you.I had a lot of great times with you.Tavis
Jeff Jordan
March 11, 2009
Well Dave, another year has passed and the void has not been filled. You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I struggle to understand the "why" behind all of this and hope to clearly find the answer when I see you again.
Whitney Griffin
November 21, 2008
Dear Candee, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am the daugter of Charles Thompson and the granddaughter of Rachel Thompson. My grandmother and father used to talk about you all the time, but I never had the opportunity to meet you. I Know that time heals everything and it will do the same in the pain and suffering you have dealt with.
Whitney
Tavis Neal
October 11, 2008
hey Dave just looking through my pictures when I was younger and theres a pic of me and you at the pool.Sure was cool having you as a friend.Thanks for all the great times!
Todd Elmore
September 22, 2008
At long last, the justice system you so passionately defended can continue. As the trial opens, closure on the tragedy of what ended your life will begin. However, YOUR SPIRIT AND SOUL WILL BE EVERLASTING.
anonymous
September 15, 2008
David, I think of you all the time. I miss you a lot. You saved my life in Jan 1992 and I would not be here today if it were not for you. I miss talking to you on the phone. I miss seeing you. The only thing I can do is try to live my life as good as you did. It's not right. It never will be right. You should not have gone away. I still am trying to accept that. I don't think I ever will. Love you.
David Ramsey
August 10, 2008
Almost every weekend when I pass through Rowan County on Interstate 85, I'll see your name on the East Innes Street Bridge, the "David Gray Wilhelm Memorial Bridge". What a wonderful tribute to you and your family.
Ken Wagoner
July 21, 2008
Dear Candee, I'm so very sorry for your loss, and pray that the Lord has sent you comfort and strength in your time without this wonderful man, spoked of so highly by so many.
I deeply regret I did not know your husband, but I knew, respected and admired his father, Dwight, greatly. He worked for my family for many many years, and was so very kind to me as a little boy, and later as a young man. I grieve for your husband, and the son of my friend, Dwight.
Please accept my prayers and thoughts.
Ken Wagoner
Claudia Sibaja
June 26, 2008
Heaven has gained an angel
Tavis Neal
June 12, 2008
Dave,
I think of you all the time.You were such a great role model when I was growing up.You have such a great since of humor.I enjoyed just seeing you at the gym and catching up on things.I hated what happened to you and couldnt believe it was you.The only good thing is that i know your in heaven and somehow you are proud of what I have done with my life.God Bless...Tavis
Wendy Hunt
March 13, 2008
David ~ a day doesn't go by without a great memory of spending time with You, Candee and Mars. Everyone that knew you, misses you. Save me a seat at the round table ~ Wendy Loo
Tracy McQuillen
March 11, 2008
Dave,
I can't believe it has been three years. You are, and always will be a hero to all of us that had the pleasure of knowing you and loving you. You are missed so very much. We know you are on watch and the guardian angel of your friends and family, please continue to watch over all of us. Always remember my brother Ryan, who loves and misses you so very much. Always know how special you are. I am so proud to have had the honor of knowing you. Love and regards to your family, Candee, all of your friends & co-workers and always Mars. Always in our hearts, Tracy (Spradlin) McQuillen
margaret spradlin
March 11, 2008
We are thinking of you and your family today. Ryan misses you terribly.
Al Fitchett
March 11, 2008
It’s taken me 3 years to write this entry and its still difficult for me to believe Dave is no longer with us. I first met Dave in 1991, while attending Secret Service training in Atlanta. We were both early in our careers with the Customs Service, but connected immediately because of our love for investigative work. We stayed in touch over the years and became good friends. Dave was real with everyone he dealt with and this is what I appreciated about him. During our last conversation, Dave and I were discussing casework and Dave reminded me any case we work is a “Search for Truth”. This is what drives or motivates any investigator, “The Search for Truth”. Dave I thank God the fellowship we shared with each another. We miss you!
Jeff Jordan
March 11, 2008
Dave,
Time has passed and the world goes on, but I never stop thinking about you and your gifts to me. It was never same without you. I recall the last time we verbally spoke (as I speak to you everyday, people just can't hear me), just a short week before you were killed. I never told you how much your kind words and bright positive attitude helped me that day, and how much you meant to me. There isn't a day that goes by that I do not think about you and wish that you were here with us. I know that I will see you again and that we'll share all those laughs once again. I miss you Dave.
Candee WILHELM
March 11, 2008
David....
WOW...three years! This morning just like the morning of March 11th 2005...beautiful morning...no one would have ever guessed it would be the last day of your life. It is STILL so hard to believe and accept. You made your mark in my life and everyone who was fortunate enough to cross paths with you! You will NEVER be forgotten ....you inspire me everyday! I am seeking absolute JUSTICE for your murder and will NEVER back down! There is NO COMPROMISE for the loss of your life! The world isnt the same without you in it and I will do my part to make sure that is understood LOUD AND CLEAR!
You are alive in my heart ....forever!
LOVE,
Candee (Mars misses you)
Scotty Bates
March 11, 2008
God Bless You! You will never be forgotten!
Lisa Uriola
March 11, 2008
It's had to believe that it was three years ago today that we lost our precious Dave. We've been trying to move on with our lives, trying to put back the pieces of our shattered hearts and fill the void that we know will never be filled until the day comes that we are all reunited with him in Heaven.
I admire Dave's family so much for the constant strength and courage they always show. Whether they're attending a memorial golf tournament or an office dedication, they come to honor their husband, son, and brother who was the epitomy of a true man. Through their tears, I hope they know that Dave would have wanted them to mend their broken hearts, move forward with their lives, and remember that he still lives in all of them.
Dave's wife, Candee has been so amazing. She lost the love of her life, yet she's still able stand in front of you ready to extend the hand of friendship along with sincere greetings and a big hug. She has shown unbelievable courage through it all. She & Dave were a perfect match. You just knew they were going to be married forever. I'm sorry that Dave was taken from you so soon.
So many of us still feel sadness about losing Dave. Not too long ago, Ray Justice & I were talking about Dave. I could hear the pain and sadnes in his voice as he simply mentioned Dave's name. We realize that all we can do is to strive to be better people by implementing the things Dave taught us about courage, love, professionalism, and compassion. Doing so will allow Dave to continue to live in all of us.
To Dave...We honor your special memory today and every day. Please know that not a single day goes by without us thinking of you. You are loved and missed more than words can ever say.
Todd Elmore
December 25, 2007
David was always one phone call away when people needed him and he ALWAYS answered. On this Christmas morning as we reflect on the many gifts under the tree, I know that the greatest gift from David is the everlasting answering of the call, even though a spiritual answer, he still answers when we need him. We miss you brother.
Tiffany Carter
October 5, 2007
I am Randy Carter's daughter and I always enjoyed visiting the Charlotte office. David was a very pleasent person to be around. My dad can be a hard person to pick on and David knew just how to do it! I have many memories of office get togethers and parties. A great Leader and individual is greatly missed by many. God Bless.
Randy Carter
October 5, 2007
Candee, I became very close to Dave during my four years in Charlotte. He and Patrick filmed "A day in the life of Randy Carter" which Dave played me in the video. I hold the video very dearly even though they captured several of my irritating personal traits. Dave was a great friend and inspiration to me both in and out of the office. The following phrase reminds me of David: "If you have integrity, nothing else matters. If you do not have integrity, nothing else maters." David was a true leader and was able to mentor others exceptionally well. Many peers and seniors learned from him and what they learned will be carried with them all the rest of their lives.
Steve W. Graves
September 29, 2007
To The Family of David Wilhelm:
Though God whispered his name years ago...his memories are and will remain forever in our hearts and souls. Until we meet again...
Sharon Johnson Burt
May 10, 2007
I never knew David. I knew Patrick and his wife Allison from when Allison and I worked together at WDAV in Davidson. But I moved to Atlanta a few years ago to get married and I was here that horrible weekend when David and the others were killed. My heart goes out to his widow Candice and to Patrick and Allison on this tragic loss. I just searched the internet and learned of the dedication recently here in Atlanta -- what a fitting tribute to a fallen hero!
Lisa Uriola
April 5, 2007
On March 29, 2007, a beautiful ceremony took place in Atlanta. The David G. Wilhelm Strike Force was officially dedicated in his honor. It combines the talents of numerous agencies who stand together to arrest and prosecute those who sell and distribute drugs.
The day of the ceremony was beautiful. The sun was shining and the wind was blowing slightly; just the kind of day Dave would have wanted. Lots of people were there. Candee, Dave's parents, his brothers, many friends (both known and unknown), and numerous people from the media, all came to pay tribute to a man who represented and sacrificed so much. His loss is still felt by all of us who knew him. You can still see the sadness in his dad's eyes. There are so many things we never get over. Losing Dave through a senseless act of violence has taught us that having the love and support of family will help survivors get through anything. Never forget to tell your family and friends how much you appreciate and love them. You never know when they'll be unexpectedly taken from you. Candee and the rest of Dave's family are true heroes. They stand together with grace and love, and through their sad eyes, we will always see Dave.
We love and miss you so much, Dave. The Strike Force named in your honor will help ensure your legacy lives on. As always, mine and the rest of SAC Atlanta's love and prayers go out to Candee and her family. It really was great seeing all of you that day.
Tim
March 30, 2007
Great guy. Worked with David a few times in Texas and think of him often. Last sat with him in VA at a Chilies; he spoke about this great house he had just purchased in Atlanta. He was a happy and hopeful guy and I admired him
Janice Britt
March 30, 2007
I did not personally know David however I am now part of the strike force and I am very proud to be part of an organization to honor David Wilhelm's legacy.
Gene Anderson
March 29, 2007
I will be part of the dedication of the STRIKE FORCE facility today in Atlanta honoring David. My brother was with the Ga. State Patrol for 23 years, I was in the Army for 3 years and know that David had more of a calling than a career. Our prayers are with you.
Gene Anderson (Capt. US Army 1967-1970)
Heather & Barry Parrish
December 10, 2006
Candee, Just wanted you to know though it's been years but we think about you often. I read your message in this guestbook from earlier this year and you are such a strong woman. I just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you today.
LUIS & JESSICA MALDONADO
September 7, 2006
WE WISH WE COULD HAVE MET HIM UNDER OTHER CIRCUMSTANCES, BUT WE COULDN'T SO WE HAVE NO REGRETS FOR THE CIRCUMSTANCES IN WHICH WE MET HIM UNDER. HE WAS A GOOD MAN AND HE TOUCHED OUR LIVES IN MANY WAYS. THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT WE DON'T MISS HIM OR THINK ABOUT HIM. CANDEE YOU ARE ALSO IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Alan Palmer
March 28, 2006
My family wanted to pass our condolences to Candee Wilhelm during this time marking the anniversary of David's death. I pray that time will make the pain diminish, and that you are always able to hold your head high with the pride of having him in your life. God Bless you and your family.
Jeff
March 13, 2006
My condolences on your loss.
Diane Hamilton
March 12, 2006
To the ones who loved him deeply:
I just wanted to let you know that neither David nor you have been forgotten. I think often of you and David as a prayer goes up that all is well.
David will live on because the love you have for him will never fade and our thoughts will always turn to David and his great example of how to live our lives and be a genuinely wonderful human being.
Thank you David for that example.
LORI GUYTON
March 11, 2006
TO THE WILHELM FAMILY,
NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT OUR FAMILY DOESN'T THINK ABOUT YOUR FAMILY AND ALL THE OTHER FAMILYS THAT LOST THEIR LOVED ONES.WE DIDN'T KNOW DAVID OR THE OTHERS,BUT WE WILL NEVER FORGET THEM OR THE SACRAFICE THEY MADE!MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!AND PLEASE KNOW WE HAVE NOT FORGOTTEN YOUR LOVED ONE.
Mac Zosky
March 11, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with David's wife and family on this anniversary of his death. Such a fine man taken by such a senseless act. He will always live on in the wonderful memories he created with those who love him. God bless you.
John Fry
March 9, 2006
This Saturday night (March 11, 2006), Candee and Todd have put together a memorial to pay tribute to your memory; it will be a grand event and one open to all your friends. One day not to long ago, the Brothers Corcoran, Kevin & John, and I were talking about the many hats which you wore; I think we got it up to about 10, but who really knows just how many hats are out there? We agreed out of all the hats the one which meant the most to us, was the one titled, "Friend". There is not a day that goes by that thoughts of you don't cross my mind, or that your name isn't somehow brought up in conversation. Over this past year I have mailed Candee all the pictures I had of you, most if not all were taken with your old Charlotte crew; Ron, Larry, Patty, Jocko, Mike, Roger, Janis, Mary, Mark, and myself. Then a few weeks ago, and purely by accident, I discovered a video tape from back in May 1997, and in this video there is this 15 second clip of you and Candee, but it was enough of a glimpse to see and understand that you and Candee would marry. My friend you are missed by so many, and words will never adequately describe the void which was left with your passing. What will never be emptied from our memories are the laughs, the private talks, the fellowship, the process of watching you learn and grow, your unquestionable work ethic, your keen eye for details, your love of God, country and family, or how you made each one of us feel special when we were with you. Thank you for all this, and so much more.
Our love,
John & Kathryn Fry
Lauren Royster
March 8, 2006
It has been almost a year since Dave has passed away. I knew him through my father. Him and Dad worked together, they were very good friends. Dave and Candee lived right down the road from us in VA. They, along with some other agents, used to come over alomst every friday or saturday night and eat oysters. It was so much fun. Then i found out they were moving and I was very upset. I've missed them ever since. They were just fun people to hang out with and talk to. I miss Dave and all the laughs he brought to me and my family. I honestly think about him alot, and cry sometimes and smile other times. Dave was a great guy and will NEVER be forgotten. Love to Candee too.
Stephanie Kennedy
March 8, 2006
It is coming up on a year that you have left us, you are truly missed by your courthouse family and we will keep you and your family in our prayers. Stay strong your loved one is always with you.
Lisa Uriola
December 8, 2005
I was thinking of Candee and Dave's family over this Thanksgiving weekend. It was their first major holiday without him. I wondered what Candee was feeling. We all know what an amazing woman she is. The strength she has shown all of us during this horrible tragedy has been unbelieveable. Dave would be so proud of her. She's held her head up high and kept her tears to herself. Candee, I hope that Dave has talked to you in your dreams as you wanted him to. We all miss him. As I walk in his old office, I can see him sitting in his chair. His memorial cards are on almost every agent's desk in the SAC Atlanta office.
Christmas is coming around again. I remember that was the first time we all met Candee at last year's Christmas party. In walked this tiny framed woman who stood close to Dave smiling at everyone he was introducing her to. Who would of thought that 3 months later, this tiny woman would be forced to deal with the most horrific tragedy of her young life. She faced it with dignity. Dave was right. You were his soul mate. You handled it in the same manner he would have. He prepared you well for the possibilities that sometimes occur within law enforcement and you handled it better than any woman ever could. I applaud you, Candee, and all of yours and Dave's family. Your strength and courage are something we should all hope to possess during our lifetime.
I hope all of you have a wonderful holiday.
claudia barnes
December 5, 2005
Candee - It's unfortunate that we had to meet under such tragic conditions. But, as I've expressed to you, God makes no mistakes. We may not know His full plan now, but one day it will be revealed to us. My heart goes out to you and your family. Call on me any time. I know how much you loved David, and you are a very strong woman. Thanks for being a consoling partner. I will continue to pray each day for you and your family.
Kim Smith
May 24, 2005
I knew you for such a short time, really through Ken...he cherished each and every moment with you. I remember when he found out for sure you could come and work together...you know you pray it will work but just wait. It did and what a blessing to have you here with him.
David, you touched Ken's heart and soul in more ways than you will ever know. Our kids always remember when you would call and Ken saying "David go home" you gave it your all, through your work (above and beyond), friendships and most of all your family. I always knew that from Ken but am honored to have heard so many more wonderful stories about you through the last few months. People leave this earth but you left a mark, that is what we are put on this earth for...what a witness of faith.
Through all of the pain, as Candee shared, we are only leant to each other...her strength through this is because of YOU!!! No two people have I ever met that have touched so many lives as you guys have. YOUR purpose on this earth will live on...your faith and spirit has and will touch so many lives.
We are forever grateful for the time we had and promise to keep Candee in our hearts and prayers. I cherish my friendship with her and so look forward to you forever being a part of our lives through all the memories and stories that are bringing us joy and sadness!!!
Your spirit touches our lives daily!!! Thank you again for all the gifts you have given us!!!
Kim Smith
Daphne Houghton
May 11, 2005
I came to know "Dave" as we called him my freshman year at Appalachian State University. He was always a first class person. My prayers go out for those he loved. Daphne
Bonnie Knowles
May 7, 2005
Dear SWEET David,
It was such a pleasure and an honor to have known you. You touched my life with such kindness and love. You took such good care of Candee and for that I will always be grateful. Thanks for always making me feel welcome and loved when I came to visit. Candee and I talk about you alot. Sometimes it brings a tear and sometimes a smile. She misses you so much. Just know you will always be thought about and loved and missed.
Your B-Mother in law,
Bonnie
PS I am so proud to have my beautiful fire place to look at every day. Knowing your hands did that gorgeous work is just amazing!
Candee and Mars Wilhelm
May 7, 2005
To My Beautiful Sweet husband, partner, SOULMATE... I miss you SO very much! Sometimes it is unbearable, but I know you want me to be strong and I know that you are concerned that Mars and I are okay. We WILL continue to live for you and I will continue to pull out the positives from this aweful NIGHTMARE that I can not seem to wake up from. I know how much you TREASURED me and we have NO REGRETS! We lived a LIFETIME together and I am so grateful for you. You were/are my guide, my teacher, my other HALF!
I will love you UNTIL MY LAST BREATH...
I have HUGE faith that I will one day be back in your arms.
Your wife FOR ETERNITY
...Candee
-Give Storm a big hug for me.
Steve Burke
April 16, 2005
I would like to offer my condolences to the family and friends of Special Agent David G. Wilhelm.
Joe Nava
April 12, 2005
I work for the Imperial County Narcotic Task Force in El Centro, Ca. and had the distinct privilege of meeting Dave and working with him in Charlotte, N.C. Dave treated me like a long lost friend and made my experience in N.C. very rewarding. I am extremely sorry to hear of his passing. I wish his family, friends and co-workers the best and may God be with you in these hard times. My sincerest condolences to his wife and family. I have talked about Dave to many law enforcement people in Calif. therefore they also send their condolences. May God Bless you.
j r
April 7, 2005
Peace be with you always.
Thad White
April 7, 2005
As a native of Salisbury, NC, I knew the Wilhelm family as a High School student. I just wanted to send my deepest sympathies to the family.
Susan Taylor
April 6, 2005
My prayers are with your family and friends. My heart breaks more each time I hear of another officer falling.
Steven Soggin
April 1, 2005
Reading about David Wilhelm made me appreciate how much he contributed during his life and why Customs, his friends and family spoke so admiringly of him. I feel especially saddened that I never had the opportunity to meet him. What a unique person he must have been.
With deepest sympathy,
Steve Soggin
Annonymous
March 31, 2005
Just wanted to give respect to one so worthy.
As I read through each heart felt offering I came to realize how blessed his family is for having loved and been loved by this man.
To those who did love and were loved by David G. Wilhelm I'm convinced God gave you one of his greatest blessings.
Tom Doolittle
March 31, 2005
Although for only a short period of time, Dave was my second line supervisor. His leadership, guidance, and genuine compassion for his fellow agents will be missed greatly. Blessings to the entire Wilhelm family.
Elizabeth Cohn
March 31, 2005
Mrs. Wilhelm, I am a court reporter with Fulton County State Court and send my condolences to you and your family. I regret not being able to express my sympathy to you in person, but please know you are in our hearts and prayers, and we will never forget this tragedy that took your husband and our colleagues here. If you ever need anything, do not hesitate to call on any of us here. Our thoughts are with you during this time of mourning.
Elizabeth G. Cohn
BV
March 30, 2005
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Candee. May God bless you always.
Roosevelt Hamlin
March 28, 2005
To The Family of David G. Wilhelm: The Campus Police Department of Thomas Nelson Community College sends its sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved family member and member of the law enforcement community.
HELEN REMPPEL
March 28, 2005
SAFELY HOME
I AM HOME IN HEAVEN, DEAR ONES:
OH, SO HAPPY AND SO BRIGHT!
THERE IS PERFECT JOY AND BEAUTY
IN THIS EVERLASTING LIGHT.
ALL THE PAIN AND GRIEF IS OVER.
EVERY RESTLESS TOSSING PASSED;
I AM NOW AT PEACE FOREVER,
SAFELY HOME IN HEAVEN AT LAST.
THEN YOU MUST NOT GRIEVE SO SORELY,
FOR I LOVE YOU DEARLY STILL:
TRY TO LOOK BEYOND EARTH'S SHADOWS
PRAY TO TRUST OUR FATHER'S WILL.
Rosalyn Smith
March 28, 2005
My prayers go out to your entire family as well as the other families which were involved in this tragedy.
Al Rodriguez
March 28, 2005
To the family of David G. Wilhelm:
As a member of the law enforcement community and a former member of the U.S. Customs Color Guard, I would like to offer my heart felt condolences on the loss of your loved one. Although I never had the chance to meet David, he lived and worked in the same city I do. Your loss has been our loss in all that has been left behind. God bless your family during this difficult time.
Respectfully,
A.R.
Kevin Cuthbertson
March 28, 2005
My condolences for your loss. May God bless you and comfort you during your time of sorrow.
TONY COTTON
March 27, 2005
God has taken him to a far better place now.
margaret spradlin
March 26, 2005
It has been two weeks since David was taken so senselessly. As the wife of a retired Special Agent AND Ryan's mother, I have lived most of my life in, and with the law enforcement family. Ryan's brother Brett is a deputy sheriff here in Tallahassee. My thoughts have been with you Candee, and David's parents and brothers. I think I have "identified" with this whole tragedy. I think of you all every day. Please stay in touch with Ryan, as he truly loved Dave. I know he is grieving for him. Patrick is a wonderful man as was Dave. Our love and thoughts will be with you all for a very long time to come. Please hug Mars for us too, I know he is missing and grieving for David.
with love
margaret & lloyd spradlin
J. Santiago
March 26, 2005
To the Wilhelm Family:
Deeply sorry for your loss. Condolences and blessings to Dave's family, friends and all who knew him.
Lisa Rafal
March 26, 2005
Candee,
Our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you. May you find comfort in knowing that David's life produced so much good for the country and the world.
Love,
Lisa, Alan & Ethan
Peter B
March 25, 2005
Our families thoughts and prayers go out to David's family and all of those who worked closely with him. "All of the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle."
russ jack
March 25, 2005
I have not met Mr. Wilhelm, but am sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure everyone in the service will miss him and my best wishes to his survivors. Bless you all.
david muzzy
March 25, 2005
Davids family and friends are in my prayers during this sad and senseless act. His work has just begun with our lord .Bless you all. David
Deiatra Helms-Smith
March 25, 2005
David and I went to High School together. I wish to extend my deepest sympathy over the loss of this kind young man.
Robert de Hartog
March 25, 2005
It just goes to show what dedication to law enforcement brings out in its very members: selfless compassion and duty to serve. David Wilhelm exemplified the best of these traits and for that, I am proud of having shared, with David, the honour of public service to our fellow respective citizens.
Robert de Hartog
Ottawa Police Service(retired)
Christy Payne
March 25, 2005
I'm sure he was a great officer and my prayers are with his entire family. God bless you all.
Dwight Combs
March 25, 2005
Even though I never knew David, he and his family are part of the law enforcement family. When there is a loss, it effects all of us, such as in this case. I have lost a fellow officer before and understand the pain that the FAMILY is goinig through. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you, now and always.
Richard Lopez, U.S. Capitol Police
March 25, 2005
My sincere condolences to the Wilhelm family and the men and women of Immigration and Customs Enforcement. I am greatly saddened by your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. May God give you the strength and courage to get through this difficult time, and the years to come. Although our brotherhood has suffered a tremendous loss, we know that David is now safe in Gods arms, guarding the gates of Heaven. God Bless you
David, for all that you have been, and for all that you have meant, to the people whose lives you have touched.
Mike A
March 24, 2005
On behalf of the men and women of the United States Capitol Police Intelligence Section, I wish to extend our heartfelt sympathies and prayers for the family and friends of David during this most difficult time. Though we did not know David, his career speaks for itself and we are honored by his service and professionalism—we appreciate the sacrifices his family has made so he could serve in our brotherhood. God bless David Wilhelm, his family and his many friends!
Mohler Janet
March 24, 2005
Candee: I really didn't get a chance to get to know you and Dave but I know Ryan thought the world of Dave. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ryan Spradlin
March 24, 2005
My Friendship with a Fallen Hero
I met Dave in June 2001 while we both attended a two-week long "Customs Technical Surveillance School" in Brunswick, Georgia. I was immediately impressed with Dave because he eloquently spoke about the class topic and was able to answer several questions his classmates had based on his investigative experience. Although it had to become somewhat embarrassing for the instructor, Dave basically taught the class. I can remember thinking, "How does this young guy know so much?" Then Dave told the class that he had been on the job for 14 years. I was shocked because he looked 25 years old to me. It goes without saying that I liked Dave from the beginning. Outside of class we bonded immediately. Dave and I talked about our case loads (he always joked and made it a point to inform me that he had more arrests and bigger seizures then me, which was true, but I wouldn't admit that to him). We talked about our personal lives, Dave told me more times than I could count that he was married to his soul mate, his "baby doll". We ate together, worked out together and of course Dave joked with me about how much stronger he was then me, which was also true. To be honest, Dave seemed to excel at everything. Our friendship developed so quickly that one night I took him to my sister's home in Jacksonville, Florida for dinner. This was a significant thing because I have always been considered a person difficult to get close to, but with Dave it happened naturally. Dave had unexplainable characteristics that I was instantly drawn to. Dave was the type of person that you wanted to be friends with. Anybody who knew Dave knows exactly what I'm talking about.
Needless to say, Dave and I remained in contact with each other after the training ended, frequently discussing work and life. A few months later, Dave and I simultaneously received news that we had both won Customs Commissioner's Awards and would be attending the ceremony together in Washington DC. Our families and significant others met and we all shared two amazingly proud days together. We were even sat side by side at the awards ceremony. I will never forget Commissioner Bonner's speech. 9-11 had just happened and the theme of the awards was "Everyday Heroes". Certainly in Dave's case, the theme couldn't have been more befitting. During his opening remarks, Commissioner Bonner specifically mentioned Dave and his accomplishments. Even during such a moving moment, Dave leaned over and playfully whispered to me, "I told you my award was better then yours." Dave was always able to joke about his excellence but at the same time compliment you about your accomplishments. He always made you feel so important. He had the rare quality of humbleness and always extended credit instead of taking it.
In September 2002, Dave and I were notified around the same day that we were selected as Group Supervisors. He was so proud that we were promoted together. Although we never verbalized it, I think we both always considered it remarkable that two agents in completely different geographic locations met, befriended each other and from then on had such a special connection on both professional and personal levels. As G/S's we were in constant contact, discussing the new challenges of supervision, and running ideas by each other. Dave would always tell me, "You better be handling your business in New Orleans." We always had a playful way of competing with each other without ever keeping score. Dave often motivated you by his own actions. Dave made you a better person because you didn't want to let him down. He definitely led by example and practiced what he preached.
In mid 2004, after a couple of months of keeping our fingers crossed, Dave was selected as an ASAC in Atlanta. He was so excited about the opportunity and the challenge of "turning Atlanta upside down". I told Dave that nobody deserved it more and joked with him not to forget me now that he was a "big shot". Not only did he not forget me, we became even closer. Dave was my mentor when I needed advice or if I just wanted to talk. If I didn't understand something or needed guidance Dave was always a telephone call away and would stop what he was doing to help. Dave was extraordinarily generous with his time often sacrificing his own plans to work with you. He always had the answers or pointed you in the right direction. He always knew how to deliver his message without making you feel inadequate. Dave was a great listener and despite our agency's frustrating times, a passionate, motivated and conscientious leader. Dave would often say to me, "Bubba, we can't be part of the problem. We are the future of this agency and must be part of the solution." Dave believed that only hard work would make a situation better. Nobody was more honest, nobody worked harder, nobody was more innovative and nobody cared more. He exemplified what law enforcement and humanity are all about: integrity, service, courage and above all, honor. Earlier I said that I was drawn to Dave's unexplainable characteristics. I now realize that in Dave I saw a great man and an agent that I respected and wanted to emulate. I can only hope that I absorbed some of Dave's vision, leadership and knowledge during our friendship. Dave, I thank God that I was blessed with your friendship and promise you, "I'll always try to handle my business just like you did." Dave, thank you for being the man you were and for making that final call. May your legacy live on forever.
Matthew Peris
March 24, 2005
I never had the honor to meet S/A Wilhelm, but from all accounts, I am sorry to have never met him. Godspeed, we have your watch!
Marc Goldberg
March 24, 2005
I never had the benefit of knowing or meeting David, but the way a close mutual help friend to both us talked about him with such affection, admiration, and grief, I couldn't help but feel shocked and saddened by his untimely passing. The number of people he has touched and his lifes good works are illustrated in this guestbook time and again. If only the good die young, all should feel blessed that David lived the life he did for as long as he did and that those who knew him and loved him were lucky enough to bask in the light that radiated from him.
My sincerest sympathies and condolensces to the Wilhem family. May God bless you and protect you until you are lucky enough to see him again.
Jack Steele
March 24, 2005
Candee, I was so impressed by your strength. I was there while 5,000 people went through the reception line at the college...admiring how you and Dave's family maintained with a steel backbone. Dave is so proud of how you handled yourself.
GOD BLESS, Jack Steele
Windy Merkle
March 24, 2005
Candee and the Wilhelm Family,
As said in Matthew 25:21 "Well done my good and faithful servant..." I did not know David, nor do I know your family, but this tragedy and David's story has captivated my heart. The words provided in this guestbook are a testimony to the way David lived and the lives he touched while here on earth and continues to touch in death. My heart aches for you! May your loving memories sustain you. This tragedy is constantly on my mind and in my heart. I must say that the kind words spoken of your husband, son, brother, and friend have encouraged me to strive to be a more kind,loving person, wife, daughter, and friend. Please know you will remain in my daily thoughts and prayers. There is rejoicing in Heaven. Your loving David will be missed but NEVER forgotten and ALWAYS loved. May God continue to strengthen you and hold you all in the palm of his hand.
Greg Archambeault
March 24, 2005
Offer my thoughts and prayers to the deceased and his family. God Bless.
Russ Knocke
March 23, 2005
Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. God bless
David Palmatier
March 23, 2005
David Wilhelm touched many lives. He was a positive role model for many and that will be one of his most enduring legacies.
Although Mars may wait by the fireplace for Dave to come home, Mars is a dog. He doesn’t understand that his master has a new home in heaven, where he watches over us all.
Marcy Amerson
March 23, 2005
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that there are many people across the country who care about you! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
S. Harwood
March 23, 2005
I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to work with Dave. I called him up for help on a small operation one Saturday over the 2004 Thanksgiving holiday. He didn't balk at the holiday or the late hours, he just mobilized the cavalry and asked me what else I needed. Doesn't get any better than that.
Thanks for setting the example. You'll be missed sorely, but never replaced.
Anthony Larison
March 23, 2005
You have our prayers in this time of loss. David will be missed but not forgotten.
April Miller
March 23, 2005
I would just like to extend my deepest condolences to your family during this time of grief. ICE has lost a great agent and we are all saddened by ASAC Wilhelm's death. May God give your family peace and comfort during this time.
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