San Antonio, Texas
1931 - 2025
EUGENE WHITNEY TOIFL
November 17, 1931 - October 6, 2025
Eugene W. Toifl went to be with His Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on October 6, 2025. He was born to Helen P. Flynn and Eugene W. Toifl in Brooklyn, New York on November 17, 1931. He is preceded in death by his loving wife of 47 years, Shirley Ann Clem Toifl, his second beloved wife of 18 years, Joyce VanDeWalle, son Philip E. Toifl, daughter Mary Ann Ramirez, and grandson Nathan Ramirez. He is survived by his daughter, Mary Helen McDonald (Randy), son Sam D. Toifl, 13 grandchildren, 19 great-grandchildren, numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family and friends.
Eugene was a proud U.S. Army Veteran and served with the U.S. Coast Guard Reserves. He was a San Antonio Police Officer for 36 years where he was promoted to Detective and Sergeant. He led with wisdom and a high level of integrity. He joined the Memorial Services Detachment (MSD) on April 1, 2003, and faithfully served as a Rifleman for nearly 14 years. Eugene (Gino) deeply enjoyed volunteering with the MSD and supporting our veteran community.
He was a Charter member of Alzafar Highlander Bagpipe Band and proudly played the bagpipes in numerous ceremonies including his granddaughter Mistie Boyle's (Joey) wedding, parades, and burials, always bringing honor and dignity to every service. He was a member of Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church where he served as a member of the ACTS community, taught RCI classes, Eucharistic Ministry, Adoration Chapel, Knights of Columbus, and Bejar 56 Order of Alhambra.
Gene spent his late seventies and eighties riding his Harley Davidson Trike. He experienced lots of joy with the freedom of his motorcycle. He enjoyed going to family functions especially his grandchildren's and great-grandchildren's athletic and school events. He will be greatly missed for his fabulous storytelling, jokes, Biblical knowledge, and love.
A few years after the loss of his second wife, he moved to The Meadows at Morningside Ministry where he made many friends. Throughout his last several years he was lovingly cared for by his daughter, Mary Helen, along with help from Patricia Ibarra and Christina Esquivall. Patty and Christina have become like family. Eugene spent the last year of his life at Oak Mist Assisted Living Home. He was compassionately cared for by Carolyn, Ann Marie, and owner Bianca Bodea.
The family expresses heartfelt thanks to Abundant Hospice, River City Home Care, Father Chris Munoz, Pastor Bill Tucker, and Concordia Lutheran Church.
Visitation will be held on Thursday, October 16th from 1:30pm to 3:00pm at the Angelus Chapel. Graveside Service with military honors will be held on Friday, October 17th at 9:30am at Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery. A Memorial Service will follow at 11:00am at Concordia Lutheran Church.
In lieu of flowers donations can be made to I Care Memory (icarememory.org) or a church of your choice.
Sergeant Toifl was an exemplary leader in the SAPD. I had the honor of working for him as a detective investigator. I wish more sergeants had followed in his leadership example when I worked at SAPD. May he rest in peace.
John Campa
October 14, 2025 | Helotes, TX | Coworker
My husband, Ed, and I enjoyed Shirley and Gene's friendship at Northside Baptist Church. My sincerest condolences to Mary Helen and Sam. Phyllis McCarley
Phyllis McCarley
October 14, 2025 | Friend
I´m so sorry for you loss. Gene was a member of our Holy Name Society at Blessed Sacrament. We are having a Mass for our deceased members and would love a family member to be there to receive a candle and certificate for Gene. Sunday, November 2nd we will have our Annual Mass for Deceased Members at St. Gerard Church, 1523 Iowa Street, San Antonio 78203 at 3:00 PM.
Judy Martin
October 13, 2025
Gene was my mother's cousin. They were raised together so they were very close and I have the fondest memories of times spent with Gene and Shirley and Mary Helen, Mary Ann, Sam, and Phil. We spent times together in Brooklyn as well as in San Antonio and though it has been a long time since we were in touch, the Toifl's were a wonderful part of my young life. I remember Gene coming to California for a visit and playing his bagpipes on my back patio - set up quite a ruckus with the...
Lynn Jewell (Markle)
October 12, 2025 | Vacaville, CA | Family
It was my pleasure to have known and worked with Gene. He was an honorable Mason and contributed his time to the community selflessly.
Barry Badders
October 12, 2025 | Work
SAPD Sergeant Toifl was a good officer and a good man. May he rest in peace. Condolences to his family.
tom tannehill
October 12, 2025 | San Antonio, TX | Coworker
A true man of god , he is now with his lord and savior ! See you on the other side Mr.Toifl
Austin McDonald
October 11, 2025 | Belmont, TX | Family
Uncle Gene, your story telling, faith, and your sense of humor were just some of your best attributes. A one of a kind man that we all were so fortunate to know and have in our lives. You will be missed beyond what words can express. Love you.
Sharon Jennings
October 11, 2025 | Helotes, TX | Family
