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Felix McGowan Obituary

Felix James McGowan
1947 ~ 2020
Mr. Felix James McGowan passed away unexpectedly and peacefully on Wednesday, November the 18th in Salt Lake City, UT. at the home he shared with his lifelong and loving companion of 41 years, Kaye Haymond.
Felix was born January 20th 1947 in Elm Mott Texas to Joe C. McGowan and Katherine Snell McGowan. He was one of 7 children. Felix resided in Texas where he attended Houston Tillotson University, and was a member of the Kappa Alpha Psi fraternity where he made many friends. There he studied Sociology and attained a degree in Business Management. While there, he met and married Linda J. Lewis, (later divorced). To that union one child was born, Scott T. McGowan whom Felix loved with all his heart.
Felix then moved to Utah to work on his MBA at the University of Utah. And he never left. He began working in State government shortly after arriving and eventually became the Human Resource Director for the State of Utah under Governor Norm Bangerter. He made his final career move to Salt Lake County Government to become the Director of Personnel in which he later retired. Through his career he made many friends that remained throughout his life. There wasn't a place he would go that he was not known.
He enjoyed fishing, card games, taking RV trips with friends and family, his time spent in St. George, UT and trips to Mesquite, NV where on the way he could buy his lotto tickets (because he was always sure he would win). Felix loved watching his Utah Jazz and Utah UTES. Because of their many road trips together, his favorite saying was "he was just driving Miss Katie". He enjoyed traveling back to Texas to visit family and friends when he could, and long phone calls when he couldn't. He was a BBQ master and made the best ribs around.
Felix, was also known by many nicknames, Phil, Bulldog, Paul-Paul, Fee, and Papa Fee. He was an incredible man with a contagious smile and laugh that one could never forget. As we asked people for words that described him, we received protector, giver, angel, southern gentleman, friend, knowledgeable, dependable, kind, sweet, devoted, loyal, funny, and loving. All of these words give a description of what he lived up to in every way, every day of his life. He set an example to all of us on how people should be treated. Everything he did was with integrity and love. He stood up, and showed up for all. His presence will be missed, and we will forever leave him a seat at the table.
Felix is survived by: his son Scott McGowan Austin TX, Companion Kaye Haymond Salt Lake City, UT sisters Ruby McGowan Hackworth and Kathleen Johnson (Sweet Pea) San Antonio TX, Valorie McGowan Perkins Waco TX, a host of nieces and nephews and his Utah family Shellie (Debbie) Haymond Holladay UT, Doug Haymond Midvale UT, Peter Bigelow Holladay UT, Grandsons Noah and Joshua, Great Grandsons Rayden and Carter.
He is preceded in death by: parents Joe C. McGowan, Katherine Snell McGowan, sister Lelia Johnson, and brothers Edgar Lee McGowan, Joe Earl McGowan.
As per Felix's wishes, he was cremated and his ashes will be taken back to Texas and be privately scattered. Taking a que from his generous heart, in lieu of flowers donations may be made to one of the following charities: United Negro College Fund, American Heart Association, St. Jude's, Breast Cancer Awareness or a charity of your choice.
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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Nov. 28 to Nov. 29, 2020.

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Bob Haywood

December 8, 2020

I counted you, Felix, as a friend, then a coworker, sometimes an adversary, sometimes an advocate but all the time a professional. Your family should be proud of your accomplishments in life- I know you do Kaye. I know your resting in peace cause I can hear your laugh.

Candace Sampson

December 1, 2020

I remember as a little girl my grandmother, Adriana would pick me up from school at St. Ann's and bring me back to work with her. I remember Felix's laugh and he was a very kind man. I know they all had great times together working in HR. Sending my deepest condolences to Kaye and all of Felix's family.

Carlos Rodriguez

November 30, 2020

Felix was the kindest man. He taught me a lot, when I started state government in HR. He was a man of equanimity, sharpness and empathy. We need more people like him in this world. Nothing but good memories. You are so well remembered. Take care, Felix ...

Tara Cox

November 30, 2020

Uncle Phil, as I call him was one of my father's dearest friends. He was there for my dad and my family at some of the happiest times and the hardest moments. I'm so heartbroken to know you're gone and you will be missed. I wish we could have one more conversation and I could hear your encouraging words. I Love you.

To Kaye, Scott and the rest of the family, you have my deepest condolences. My mom and I are trying to contact you.

Dessie Manousakis

November 28, 2020

Truly a gentleman. He was an amazing man with a big heart. He and Kaye and I were very good friends when we all worked for the state. But as things happen, we lost touch. I would run into Felix every once in a while at the grocery store and it was always a pleasure. We would reminisce about days past. And would laugh and laugh. We had lots of fun times together.

Kaye you have my most sincere condolences. Please send me your contact information. I would love to see you.

Doug

November 28, 2020

Perhaps the kindest most generous person I have ever known. His wisdom echoes within my heart this day. I will miss you Dad. Indeed I will miss you greatly. I love you...

ARRIANN WOOLF

November 28, 2020

Felix was kind and generous and was one of my best mentors and one of my staunchest supporters.

He was the epitome of what it means to be a civil servant.

His role was difficult, as pleasing elected officials, while sticking up for what is right and not losing your soul in the process, is not easy.

Kaye, I'm not sure you remember me but Shelley and I were childhood friends. It was a "small world moment" when I found out from Felix that you were his partner. I am so very sorry for your loss and send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this difficult time.

Bill&Ann lamoreaux

November 28, 2020

Dear Katie,
We were shocked to see that Felix passed away this morning. He was a fantastic man and we always enjoyed visiting with him.our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time. He will me missed in our community.

Sophie Orvin

November 28, 2020

I am so saddened to hear about Felix's death. He was my boss for 4 years, and became a very good friend. He had so much class, and was so genuine and kind. Katie and Felix were such a devoted couple. My heart goes out to Katie and Scott his son. My prayers and thoughts are with you! May his soul be eternal!

D T

November 25, 2020

I am sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences. May the love of friends and family comfort you through your grief. 2 Thes 2: 16,17.

November 25, 2020

I am sorry to hear about your loss. May you find comfort during this difficult time.

Debbie Haymond

November 24, 2020

What an incredible man. I was so blessed to have him in my life. I am humbled to be able to have called him my father in law and friend. Heaven gained one of the kindest, gentlest, most honorable men on earth. His love, kindness, and generosity had no boundaries. My heart is with all who knew him. Pa Pa Fee you will be so missed.

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