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Gay L Rudek
September 21, 2024
It's now been 10 years (and 1 day!) since Dad passed - and 33 years since Mom died - yet I still think of them weekly if not daily since Robert & I are blessed to live in the home they so lovingly bought 60 years ago. What a legacy they both left of their many years in San Diego! I truly believe they both were loved by many, yet not nearly so loved as by their family, and especially by me. I will always love & appreciate you both, Mom & Dad!!
Gay
Merry Hoersch Padilla
September 20, 2024
Sending love to Gay and family on this 10th anniversary. All the Hoersch brothers and sisters are together again!
Merry Louise
Gay (Hoersch) Rudek
September 20, 2023
It's been 9 years since my Dad passed now - much has happened since then: my brother Stan sadly passed last year at age 75, I am now 70, husband Robert 72 and our daughter Sarah has blessed us with 2 beautiful grandkids ages 7 & 9. Life goes on but memories of my Dad (& Mom too) will always live on in my mind, especially all that I learned from them about life, working hard and doing your best at everything you attempt to do. Those are timeless lessons, learned the hard way like they learned them - maybe that's why they're timeless!
Dad, Mom & now Stan - I love you all and will someday see you in Heaven!
Gay Rudek
September 20, 2021
Another year has come & gone - now 7 years since Dad passed and yet amazingly I still miss the old guy! My husband of 46 years Robert & I frequently talk about some of the fun things we did with Mom & Dad and especially in 2009 taking Dad back to a family reunion in WA where we saw lots of our relatives. Even then - at age 91 - his mind was sharp & he liked nothing better than to tell stories and talk about times in the past.
I will always have great memories of my Dad and consider myself a very fortunate daughter!
Gay Rudek
September 20, 2020
My Dad was in many ways my "Hero" throughout my life. He had many faults - who doesn't? - but what I loved most about him was his "can do!" spirit and in spite of life's difficulties, never complained. His & my Mom's strong work ethic always inspired me to work hard at everything I did and expect to succeed. It was OK to fall down, as long as you got back up afterwards and went at it again. Both Dad & Mom really cared about people - including their employees at the restaurants - and did everything they could, financially & otherwise, for those they loved. My Dad loved to laugh and especially loved telling jokes: to family, friends and even customers sometimes. I wouldn't be surprised if right now he's telling St. Peter some corny joke right now in Heaven!!
Love & miss you Dad!
peter hobbs
November 13, 2017
Crawford, I worked with your Dad at Harolds Fifth Ave. While Sam oversaw the kitchens of the three restaurants your Dad was second in command. Nice guy. I was just a young kid but learned a lot from all of them.
Had lunch at the Hob Nob (formerly Dorthys Oven) a few days ago.
November 12, 2017
My Dad, Bob Crawford, worked for Mr. Hoersch at the Melody Grill. Our family knew him, his wife Dorothy, brother Sam and son Stanley. May he Rest in Peace.
peter hobbs
September 27, 2015
One year has passed. Seems like an instant. Harold thanks for the life experiences that i received as a young man and used them well in my life.
Mary Ingram
September 28, 2014
This reminds me of Uncle Harold:
"If you do not go after go after what you want, you will never have it. If you do not ask, the answer will always be NO. If you do not step forward, you will always be in the same place."
There were so many of you who worked with Harold at the Hob Nob Hill, Dorothy's Oven, and Harold's Fifth Ave and collectively you all added to his success.
I remember my mother telling me that when the restaurant was first starting, she and my dad would go to the restaurant after they got off work to help clean the place. They volunteered to help Harold & Dorothy's business because they believed in them and wanted to help family. I am sure they received a great meal after!
Peter hobbs
September 28, 2014
I attended the funeral and signed in for three of us who all had their first formal part time jobs washing pots and pans at Harold's Fifth Ave. Sadly there was no mention of those restaurants and I realize it was so long ago but hundreds if not thousands of people went through Harold's employment over the decades. His brother Sam was my direct boss and I learned a lot from him. Harold worked out front and greeted the guests, ever the smiling host but when he came into the kitchen he seldom smiled ands scared the hell out of this young 16 year old. I earned a $1.00 an hour and the Union wanted part of that even as a part time worker. Everyday busses downtown to work from school and after at 9.30pm or so busses out to PB and hit the school books. It was a great work/life experience for me. My wife and I still go to the Hob Nob several times a month and up until a few weeks ago I always asked about Harold. Amazing when you outlive all your friends, one would think there would be hundreds of people at the service but sadly most had long since departed this earth so just a few of us for the services.
God speed Harold.
Peter Hobbs
September 28, 2014
I went to the funeral yesterday and signed for three people. All of us had first part time jobs working at Harold's Fifth Ave. A class place at the time. We did fill in downtown at the original Hob Nob and picked bakery products up at Dorothy's Oven. Hey i know i am going back years but there was no mention of any of that history at the funeral. Now live downtown and still go to Hob Nob several times a month and had just asked how Harold was a few weeks ago. I worked for his brother Sam who was a great task master. Harold was the host at the restaurant out front and was always smiling for the customers but when he came back to the kitchen he was always business and scared the hell out me as a young man of 16. Learned so much and I have always appreciated the training and the opportunity. That was so many years ago.
Ronna (Jones) Snyder
September 27, 2014
Farewell, Uncle Harold. We will always remember your kind hospitality (and wonderful home-style meals) at "the Hob Nob" as we passed through San Diego on family vacations. Your sister, my mother, Ruth Hoersch Jones at 84 years of age sends her love and fond memories from the assisted living facility where she now lives in Spokane due to an on-the-job hip and head injury at 81 years of age. (She was working TWO bookkeeping jobs at 81 years of age!) You Hoersch "kids" sure knew how to work and your beautiful obituary is a glowing testament to that. Mom will be so proud to read it. I will share it with her. Love, your niece, Ronna Snyder (with husband of 38 years, Bill, four grown children, assorted spouses and six grandchildren).
Melani
September 26, 2014
Thanks for always being such a great host! Will forever treasure the memories of holidays at your house and seeing Uncle Tommy (Lasorda) at HNH. You are missed Uncle Harold!!!
Nancy McGee
September 26, 2014
Stan, Gay and Bob - your dad was an excellent neighbor to have across the street for so many wonderful years. My Mom and I will miss him a great deal.
David Miller
September 26, 2014
Gay, I went to Francis Parker with you back in the '60's. But I used to see your father at many events for years, long after my Parker days. Your dad was a wonderful man and I always enjoyed speaking to him, and your mother. I share your loss.
Sandra Schumsky
September 26, 2014
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
September 26, 2014
Rest easy, my brother. You had a great run in the Circle of Life, and brightened the lives of many of the rest of us.
-- Joel Hoersch
LuAnn Rodriquez
September 26, 2014
It was always a pleasure to see Uncle Harold and his family when a trek was made back to Kansas. His love of family and great sense of humor brightened the time my parents and I got to spend with him.
Merry Hoersch Padilla
September 26, 2014
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to cousins Stan and Gay (and the Rudek family), as well as to Uncle Joel, Aunt Lois, Aunt Ruth, Aunt Arlene, and Aunt Esther. Thanks to Uncle Harold and my Dad (Sam) for giving me my first paying job (other than baby-sitting) as a restaurant hostess, which helped me develop my people skills. I have fond memories of getting together at the Hob Nob Hill, the Hob Nob downtown and with all the Hoersch family aunts, uncles and cousins at Harold's Fifth Ave. May you rest in peace.
September 26, 2014
So sorry to read of your loss Gay and Bob 96 is is a long run!!!!! Blessings to you and your family. Terri Hueners
Karen Bergeron
September 26, 2014
I sure will miss my San Diego visits and sitting in the hot tub on a nice sunny day.
Love you.
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