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Henry Allen Oder Jr.

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Henry Oder Obituary

Henry Allen Oder, Jr. "Hank" CHARLOTTE - Hank, 85, of Charlotte, NC, died Wednesday, August 29, 2012, at his residence, surrounded by his family and friends. His family will receive friends from 10:00 to 11:00 a.m. Tuesday, September 4, 2012, at McEwen Funeral Service, Mint Hill Chapel, with a memorial service to follow at 11:00 a.m. in the funeral home chapel. The Rev. Rollo Leimer will officiate. Interment will follow in Forest Lawn East Cemetery, Matthews, NC, with military honors. Hank was a 1943 graduate of Lexington (VA) High School. Entering college after high school, he received his AB Degree in Political Science in 1947 from Washington & Lee University. While in undergraduate school, Hank was a member of Sigma Chi Fraternity. Hank entered the US Army in September of 1950. In 1952, following his graduation from Officer Candidates School and as a young Lieutenant, he was sent to Korea as a forward observer and was awarded a Bronze Star for valor. He was discharged from the Army in November of 1953. Returning from the war, Hank returned to Washington and Lee University, where he graduated in 1956 with his L.L.B. (J.D.). He was a member of Phi Alpha Delta Fraternity. Hank practiced law from 1956 to 1961 in Lexington, VA and later in Arlington, VA. It was in Arlington that he joined the law firm of a former classmate, B.E. Stephenson. Hank began his career with Central Piedmont Community College (CPCC) in 1968 when he developed and was the lead instructor of the Real Estate Pre-Licensing Program. This was the first program of its kind in the North Carolina community college system. It later became a two year program. From 1980 to 1990 he was program director of the Paralegal Program, and from 1990 until his retirement in 1994, Hank taught various law and police related courses. He retired from CPCC after 26 years of service. Hank was a member of the VFW Post 2423, and a charter member of Korean War Veterans Association N.C. 265. He was a former member of the American Legion. Following his separation from the service and on December 27, 1953, Hank married Louise Hoyle Walker, a native Charlottean. Three children were born of the marriage before it ended in divorce. In addition to his parents, Hank was preceded in death by his brother, Thomas W. Odor. Survivors include his children, Valerie Dodd Johnston and her husband, William, of Hillsville, VA, Mark Anderson Oder and his friend, Teresa Coggins, of Lake Norman, NC, and David Allen Oder and his wife, Leila, of Charlotte; grandchildren, Caroline Johnston Mora and her husband, Andres, Tyler Johnston, Ashley Oder Cortes and her husband, Diego, and Joseph Oder; four great-grandchildren; and a sister-in-law, Joy Odor of Reidsville, VA. Memorials may be sent to the Institutional Advancement/ CPCC Foundation, Post Office Box 35009, Charlotte, NC 28235-5009. Condolences may be offered at www.mcewenminthillchapel.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Sep. 2, 2012.

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Nina Neal

September 10, 2012

I had the opportunity to work with Hank as an instructor in the Paralegal Department. Hank was truly an inspiration to me. He remained true to the law, and on several occasions, over the past three years, he visited the law library at Cato Campus where I continued to assist him with research. Hank will truly be missed.

September 4, 2012

I have been Mr. Oder's banker for some years. He had become one of my favorite customers over the years. I'm going to miss hearing from him. My heart goes out to the family.
Julie Brinkley

Donnie Dotson

September 2, 2012

My prayers will be with his family during this difficult time. I am so very sorry for you loss. In 1977, I was forunate enough to be in Hank's, Real Estate class. After I completed the classes, we became friends. From time to time over the years we would have lunch or dinner together. Mr. Hank was such a kind and wise man. I thought the world of him and was proud to call him my friend. Much to my sorrow we lost touch with one another, and that was my loss. He was the most caring teacher, friend that one could hope for. May God Bless all of his children and Grandchildren with many wonderful memories of this man!

September 2, 2012

Many great memories with my Uncle Hank and his family. Always a kind, loving and sharing man. As a great communicator and teacher, Hank taught and helped this nephew greatly as a recent college grad. He took me in his home and was responsbile for setting me up with my first job in Charlotte. A toast to you Hank Oder, my favorite Uncle. God Bless You. Mac McDonald

September 2, 2012

i enjoyed his class in 1974, something you would not forget

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