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Henry Talifer Obituary

Henry Alfred Talifer, 74, attorney at law, PHD and long-time Conejo Valley resident, joined the hand of God in heaven on Monday, August 5, 2013, after a brave fight with cancer. Henry was born in San Francisco, Calif., to Henry and Regina Tagliaferri. He graduated from Los Angeles High School. During his early college years, he met his first wife, Mary (Howe), with whom he had two children. Henry later married Lucille (Hoffer) and they shared his final years together traveling and living in Thousand Oaks, Calif.

In 1961, Henry became a Reserve Commissioned Officer grade of Second Lieutenant in the Army of the United States and also received his Bachelor of Arts Degree in political science from the University of California Los Angeles. He continued his education at Santa Clara University and received a Degree of Juris Doctor in 1967. In 1969, he became an attorney and counselor of law. Three years later, in 1972, Henry became an attorney and counselor of the U.S. Court of Appeals as well as an attorney and counselor of the Supreme Court. With a true passion for education, he proceeded to obtain a Master of Arts Degree in education, social, and philosophical foundations in 1972 from California State University, Northridge. In 1979, Henry earned a Doctor of Philosophy Degree in education from the University of Southern California. He later received a Master of Arts Degree in philosophy from California State University Los Angeles in 2005. Throughout his career, Henry was recognized for his ongoing contributions as an advisory board chair and attorney volunteer for Volunteers in Parole. He also volunteered with Friends Outside throughout the Los Angeles region.

Henry was a practicing attorney with the Los Angeles City Attorney's office at LAX, and an active member of the State Bar of California. Throughout his work and personal life, Henry fostered discussions with friends, family and students alike. He thrived in teaching Psychology of Education courses at California State University Northridge where he received the Professor of the Year Award. He continued teaching higher education courses, including various philosophy courses at Moorpark College, University of Redlands, California State University Los Angeles, and California Lutheran University. He was known for his unique classroom 'antics' that captured the attention of his students.

His zest for life and exploration was apparent in his travels throughout his lifetime, having explored Northern and Southern Europe, Russia, Alaska, Hawai'i and other parts of the U.S. With a twinkle in his eyes and a charming lilt in his speech, he loved to share stories, jokes and anecdotes that brought warmth, smiles and laughter. Favorite pastimes of Henry's included his love of baseball (especially the Dodgers), movies and books - ever-the-one to keep learning, and taking a left turn instead of a right because he just hadn't been down that way before. Fascinated by human nature, some of his stories spun just from observing others.

Henry is survived by his loving wife, Lucille; daughter, Jean; son, John; son-in-law, Brendan; two grandsons, Ryan and Jack; and stepchildren, Kim, Michael, Bonnie, and Simon.

Friends are invited to join in the celebration of Henry's life that will be held at Pierce Brothers Valley Oaks Memorial Park, 5600 Lindero Canyon Road, Westlake Village. Please call 818-889-0902 for more information.


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Published by Ventura County Star from Aug. 8 to Aug. 11, 2013.

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August 23, 2013

Dear Lucille and the rest of the family,
Henry brought much joy to the Philosophy Dept at Cal State LA. He was always in good spirits, even after his long drive to East LA. He was eager to discuss whatever we happened to be discussing at the moment in the department office -- as well as have coffee and pastries. He had many fans among his students and colleagues, many of whom commented about his warmth (among other virtues). We will miss him.
Ann Garry

Mary Yahalom

August 22, 2013

Dear Lucille: I was so sad to hear of Henry's death. I know that you are devastated since he was such a wonderful husband. I will greatly miss seeing his smiling face and the great conversation when I would see you in the office. As it said he is "touching the hand of God" and that is quite a place to be. Lots of Love and Prayers!

Jim Spitser

August 20, 2013

Dear Lucille, Jean and John: I first met Henry in 1969 at a Criminal Division party. I did not know Henry at the time, but his wife, Mary, and I had both been in the Ventura County Student Symphony Orchestra for about 4 years in the 1950s.I transferred to the Airport Division a few months later and Henry arrived late in 1970. We were in the Airport Division together until about 1993. From about 1980 until about 2000, we were 2 members of an 8 man Dodgers season ticket group. When the group disbanded, Henry and I continued to attend 3 to 6 Dodgers games per season through the 2012 season. As I recall, the final game we attended in 2012 included Henry, Lucille, my wife, Linda, and myself.In the 1990's , we attended a several-day conference in Newport Beach on Arbitration, following which we received Certificates from the American Arbitration Association. All-in-all, Henry was a unique and most interesting person who was a dear friend who will be greatly missed. P.S. I note that one of the other Guest Book Entries is from Linda Sherman, one of Henry's students in the 1990's. In the category of "It's a Small World", Linda Sherman was my wife's Maiden Name.

Linda Sherman

August 16, 2013

Henry Talifer was my Social Ethics instructor at Cal Lutheran in the 1990's when I went to college at night to earn a bachelor's degree. He was a terrific teacher - very memorable. The class was great - I wish there had been other classes I could have taken that he taught. I remember talking with him about the Dodgers and the fact that he graduated from LA High (also my alma mater) the year I was born. He is one of those people who you know for a short time, yet he has a permanent place in my memory. My condolences to his family.

August 11, 2013

We knew Henry for only a short time, but he made my sister so happy. He was life itself. Love, Bob & Kathy

August 11, 2013

Dear Jean & John,
We are so deeply sorry for your loss.
The Kieling family

Hans Lingens

August 8, 2013

Dear Lucille
We are very sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. This is a great loss for you and the family. The announcement of Henry's passing shocked us deeply. We wish him rest and peace in the Lord.
I remember fondly the time Henry, the late Peter Bach and I studied at USC. It was always a privileged time that we three had together. Later, we met intermittently in Thousand Oaks either on CLU campus or at lunch.
He was very concerned about what would happen to him and was very worried about you.
If there is anything we can do to help, please do not hesitate to ask.
Kindest Regard,
Hans and Barbara

Carly Stoltenberg

August 8, 2013

Jean and John, so sorry for your loss. I hope the memories you have of your father provide some comfort in this time of sorrow. Xoxo

Stephanie Mork Valentino

August 8, 2013

Thoughts and prayers are with you Johnny and your family. Your Dad was a great man and will be missed! Love u

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