May God bless you and your...
Dear Suanne and family,
My heart breaks for you. Ray was a great man. Excellent bartender and coworker. He was loved by all. Your all in my prayers
Jeanette Lamparty
October 23, 2021 | Brigantine, NJ | Family Friend


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Brigantine, New Jersey
James "Ray" DeFeo, 60, of Brigantine passed away on Monday October 11, 2021. Ray was born in Philadelphia PA. to the late Luciano and Dorothy (nee Kelly) DeFeo. Ray was an avid crabber and fisherman. He was a fan of all the Philly Sports Teams. Ray enjoyed music, especially listening to Bob...
Read MoreDear Suanne and family,
My heart breaks for you. Ray was a great man. Excellent bartender and coworker. He was loved by all. Your all in my prayers
Jeanette Lamparty
October 23, 2021 | Brigantine, NJ | Family Friend
You will be missed Ray. We will miss our chats over the best mint juleps made by you!
Mary Kathryn & Tom Rhoades
October 19, 2021 | Newark, DE | Friend
Our Sincere Condolences to the entire family. Sorry life got in the way...lost touch since Florida, but glad to be able to help you, and get to meet your future wife in Florida while you lived with me and my family of five. Just happy we were able to help.
Phil McAlpin
October 19, 2021 | Ridley Park, PA | Family Friend
Suanne,Luch, and Family:
Ray left a lasting impression on anyone he met.My deepest sympathy goes out to you.He truly loved life and his Family,especially Suanne!!May he Rest In Peace in the Arms of the Lord.Find strength in Friends and Family!!
Johnny(Bear) DeRose
Johnny Bear
October 15, 2021 | Friend
I'm so so sorry to hear about Ray's passing. I've know him since he was 10 years old. Many happy memories. You have my deepest condolences
Maryellen Psridi
October 14, 2021 | Coatesville, PA | Friend
May you rest peacefully until we all meet again. Thank you for loving our niece Suanne with all of your wonderfully warm and sweet heart.
Uncle Frank and Aunt Pat Dardiz
October 14, 2021 | Orlando, FL | Family