James Heisler

April 28, 2025
The years have passed however, our thoughts of this dear man have not waned nor grown dim. How could they? My brother's smile lit up a room, just as our mother's did. They were very much alike in the ways that matter most to the people around them. Dear, dear people that are missed profoundly.
Now, we who loved them, Mom, Jim, and our sister Bett, remember them fondly. One thing each of these precious folks did was engage in inciteful conversations. In thoughtful...

In the bigger picture, this is a testimony as to how many lives can be touched by just one life; one simple, unobtrusive, life well lived. How blessed we all were to be part of his family, of his life. Gone from this planet- yes. Gone from our hearts- never, ever. Heaven is a beautiful place; there is no allowance is made for pain or sadness . Memories become even more precious as time passes. There will, one day, come a time for reunion with those who have gone on before. As with all...

To the Heisler Family
We still feel the loss of our wonderful and kind neighbor, Mr. James Heisler. We know he is watching from heaven, proud of you all and protecting you with his love.

What I remember most about Jim was him walking me to school 1 st grade was scary but Jim was reassuring. Waiting up all night for him to get home on leave for Christmas. He was better than any gift Santa could leave. He rarely got angry not even when I trash picked his old ties and sold them to the neighbors. Oops. Seeing his face glow when ever he talked about rose, the day they got married was magical. It was the 1st wedding I was in so I thought it was all about me right. Jim looked so...

I always admired Uncle Jimmy, he was had a way of making you feel special in a crowded room. He was my God Father and only at his funeral did I learn that he was the God Father to a few people. I always thought I was his only God Child because he made me feel like I was. He could be as loud as his brother's but he also had an extreme calmness about him. You know if he just flashed his smile that things would be fine. We are all better for knowing and being related to him. Family meant...

Growing up my mom always said how much she admired Uncle Jimmy and Aunt Rosie's Marriage. It's something that always stuck with me, so on the many family parties and gatherings I would study how Uncle Jimmy carried himself, how he treated his kids, family, and his wife. Uncle Jimmy seemed to know how to handle people and conversation. He had an inclusive personality, he was the kind of person that would always circle a room and make sure to talk to everyone. I remember as a kid my brother...

Wow, what can I say that hasn't already been said. So many warm and wonderful things said about this dear dear man.
I was blessed to be his little sister. A sweeter kinder older brother I could not have had. As others have stated, he always made me feel important to him.
As I stood by his grave site, I watched as the many many people were walking over the grass to join us. I was thinking how blessed we all are to have been part of his life. I remembered the day we met Rose....

Rose, I met you & Jim around 45 years ago when Mae & I were planning a shower for Donna before her wedding to John. I remember thinking how nice and kind Jim was to have us over helping (along with you) two inexperienced girls plan a shower. He was always so pleasant, friendly and kind. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Claire

Dear Katie,

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your Dad was a very lucky man to have such a loving daughter and family. I remember you showing me a picture of him while we were working together in the Caymans and sharing your love for him. I wish I would've had the chance to meet him but I'm so happy that I can be there for you now. Sending lots of love to you, Jason, Reef and your Mum! See you soon. Love xx