James Aaron Pulliam

Dear Mike and Pat,

Korea seems a million years ago, yet we remember you for all of your kindnesses to us. We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Having read the other comments, it is apparent that Jay made a great impact on those who knew him. It seems that he left this world wrapped in a great blanket of love and warmth. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love,

Joe and Susie Rovansek (Fairfax,VA)

I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to sign the guest book. Katie sent me the link and I have been saving it - Jay spent a lot of fun times at my house - the three of them, Katie Jay and Kate were a happy threesome! Jay could make anyone smile and was a great organizer - I remember the time he and Katie did the Linen closet - it never looked so good - you just couldn't keep him still long enough - I always wanted Jay to share some of that super energy!
I have not seen Jay...

I had the pleasure of knowing Jay through Katie Buice, who is the child of my heart. When I heard the sad news I started remembering my experiences with Jay. I have not seen him in 10 years but time does not diminish the memories. They are what will sustain you and help ease the pain of separation.
He and Katied stayed with us when they visited DC in 1997.What I remember most about Jay was that he never met a stranger and his beautiful smile.

My heart goes out to your family and...

I met Jay when he was visiting London i thought he was a lovely, charming and interesting guy.I reamber we had some good conversations.I send my condolences to his friends and family.

Hello, Mrs. Pulliam,
My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. If there's anything I can do let me know. I want to let you know that I miss working with you. But, I do appreciate the times that we were able to work and talk with each other. You are a WONDERFUL PERSON! Again, my prayers are with you and your family.

It has been an honour to know Jay. He had an amazing ability to make other people feel beautiful and special.
He always tried to please everyone and put himself last.
Thankyou for coming into and enriching our family. We consider you as another brother.
May peace and love be with you always.

Dearest Jaybird,

I feel so lucky to have encountered such a warm and open soul. Your sweetness and honesty were infectious and we'll all miss that sense of humour! I always looked forward to the times we spent conversing soley in Dolly lyrics. You taught me so much in the time we spent together. Jaybird, you were, and still are a truly amazing soul.

Much Love always... Dave x

I hadn't seen Jay for years but often thought of him. I think that anybody who met Jay would instantly know that he was a sweet person, with a big heart. There are not too many people like this in the world and I know that he will be greatly missed.

Oh the memories; so many, yet never quite enough. I have my selfish memories of all we did together and I will guard (yet share) those forever, but my best memory will be what Jay gave to the world and what he would want all that loved him to continue giving: a compassion for humanity and a desire to help those who cannot help themselves or who simply cannot clearly see a way to help themselves. That takes major creativity and can even sometimes seem to be a curse. In reality, no one can...