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for James Pulliam
June 27, 2008
Dear Mike and Pat,
Korea seems a million years ago, yet we remember you for all of your kindnesses to us. We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Having read the other comments, it is apparent that Jay made a great impact on those who knew him. It seems that he left this world wrapped in a great blanket of love and warmth. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love,
Joe and Susie Rovansek (Fairfax,VA)
Marilyn Buice
March 19, 2008
I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to sign the guest book. Katie sent me the link and I have been saving it - Jay spent a lot of fun times at my house - the three of them, Katie Jay and Kate were a happy threesome! Jay could make anyone smile and was a great organizer - I remember the time he and Katie did the Linen closet - it never looked so good - you just couldn't keep him still long enough - I always wanted Jay to share some of that super energy!
I have not seen Jay since he moved overseas - Katie always knew where he was and what he was doing so I was well aware - I know Jay is in a better place - with no pain and making God smile - I'll miss you Jay Love Marilyn (Mrs. B) PS That is a great picture brings fond memories
Rita Flynn
October 29, 2007
I had the pleasure of knowing Jay through Katie Buice, who is the child of my heart. When I heard the sad news I started remembering my experiences with Jay. I have not seen him in 10 years but time does not diminish the memories. They are what will sustain you and help ease the pain of separation.
He and Katied stayed with us when they visited DC in 1997.What I remember most about Jay was that he never met a stranger and his beautiful smile.
My heart goes out to your family and you will remain in my prayers.
Jay was a gift from God and I am grateful for my happy memories of him.
Rita Flynn
Nick Darling
October 16, 2007
I met Jay when he was visiting London i thought he was a lovely, charming and interesting guy.I reamber we had some good conversations.I send my condolences to his friends and family.
Mary Graham
October 12, 2007
Hello, Mrs. Pulliam,
My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. If there's anything I can do let me know. I want to let you know that I miss working with you. But, I do appreciate the times that we were able to work and talk with each other. You are a WONDERFUL PERSON! Again, my prayers are with you and your family.
Taryn and Michael Beck
October 12, 2007
It has been an honour to know Jay. He had an amazing ability to make other people feel beautiful and special.
He always tried to please everyone and put himself last.
Thankyou for coming into and enriching our family. We consider you as another brother.
May peace and love be with you always.
David Goss
October 11, 2007
Dearest Jaybird,
I feel so lucky to have encountered such a warm and open soul. Your sweetness and honesty were infectious and we'll all miss that sense of humour! I always looked forward to the times we spent conversing soley in Dolly lyrics. You taught me so much in the time we spent together. Jaybird, you were, and still are a truly amazing soul.
Much Love always... Dave x
Daniel Garland
October 11, 2007
I hadn't seen Jay for years but often thought of him. I think that anybody who met Jay would instantly know that he was a sweet person, with a big heart. There are not too many people like this in the world and I know that he will be greatly missed.
Katie Buice
October 10, 2007
Oh the memories; so many, yet never quite enough. I have my selfish memories of all we did together and I will guard (yet share) those forever, but my best memory will be what Jay gave to the world and what he would want all that loved him to continue giving: a compassion for humanity and a desire to help those who cannot help themselves or who simply cannot clearly see a way to help themselves. That takes major creativity and can even sometimes seem to be a curse. In reality, no one can probably write enough to live up to the wonderfulness of Jayvita-bird. Not to make him out to be God but just because his essence is too hard to put in to words (not to mention the rarity of having a connection with someone almost instantly, and then remaining friends regardless of distance, and if only by heart). One thing is for sure, I miss him terribly yet I know that he is at peace now. I may visit DC again one day, but my thoughts will always be of my wonderful friend who continually reminded me that I have something to offer this world. I am truly honored to have had Jay as a friend for 15 years. There is no way for me to imagine what my life would have been like without his charisma and contagious, never-ending positive regard for me and everyone he met. For the record, I did not want to share but I had no choice because Jay was meant to pass his brilliant flame to all of the people he met and befriended. Although he is gone now, he is truly nearby because he will forever be part of all who knew him. Such a phenomenal flame cannot simply be forgotten. That’s an impossibility. Thank you Jay.
Thank you also to Jay’s family who are exceptionally wonderful too (duh). I was extremely sad to say good-bye to you last week but I am thinking and praying for you everyday. I love all of you very much and will plan to keep in touch, so we can reconnect and insure our “paths.” Thank you again for sharing your son/brother/brother-in-law/Uncle/grandchild/nephew/cousin with me and the world (literally I think I could say).
"Love you good",
Janelle and Guy McAliece
October 9, 2007
We had the pleasure of knowing Jay through Daniel. There was always laughter when the two of them were around and I will always remember that infectious laugh Jay has with such fond memories. He was so great to be near - a little bit of love always rubbed off when he was around. We will miss seeing that glorious smile.
MARTIN KROUWEL
October 9, 2007
Jay! Although I only met you briefly while you where in London, it was obvious, that those who new you well, loved you for who you were!
My heart goes out to your friends and family. Now watch over them and keep them safe!
Naimen Ebdon
October 9, 2007
..Dearest Jay..
here i am sitting at my friends window,looking out across her wet green garden on this October morning,it seems to be a perfect place to gather my thoughts and say a little something to you and for all who knew you Mr.Already i have seen a blue Jay bird candidly sitting outside on a Sycamore, shaking its little tail feathers, i am both suprised and elated to see him, quite magical and vivid Jay, as you always were, and are my beautiful friend.
Reading through all our memories and moments that you gave to each and everyone Jay, i realise you will always be here in all of us,in every thing we do,gratefully so...its never goodbye Jay as i'm sure you know,continue to fly and shake your tail feather as you so brilliantly do...you were and are to each and everyone you touched a beautiful soul inside and out....long may you fly and shine!!!
take care lil Jay
much love
Naimen xxxxx
Matt Thomas
October 9, 2007
Jay,
It was totally random that we met via myspace on the internet while you were working in a Chinese resteraunt up North in Sawtell. I looked forward to your e-mails and we shared a love of the absurd and pop culture. When we met in person you were the sweetest guy and tended to melt the hearts of everyone in Melbourne :)
An angel passing through .... I feel very lucky to have known you.
Shine on Jay
Matt x
Britton Hammett-McCurry
October 8, 2007
Jay was a wonderful part of my life growing up in Tyrone. He was like a part of my family, spending so much time in my house through the years laughing, creating art, telling colorful stories, and making me smile. He had so much to say and to share and to express. The world was brighter because of the light he radiated. Your family is in my thoughts during this difficult time. May you take comfort in all the beautiful memories you shared with him.
david reid
October 8, 2007
i will remember your smiling eyes and the friendship u gave me. i am honoured to have met such a beautiful soul, thankyou sweet jay.
love david reid
Gerard Williams & Tom Kane
October 8, 2007
To Jay, Meeting you and Daniel changed my life. Your spirit was infectious and your sense of humanity profound. You had such a positive and loving effect on the world around you and that effect will live on for eternity. Tom and I will treasure the memory of you forever. We love you.
For a little while we knew an angel. His name was Jay. May he soar!
c Lombardo
October 8, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Nicola Burford
October 7, 2007
Dear Jaybird,
I will cherish the time you shared with me in Sydney as your time with us all was the most precious gift - your heart and soul will be never forgotten; rest in peace beautiful man. love Nicola x
Holly Jones
October 7, 2007
I remember meeting Jay really clearly. He was out with Daniel in London, in a bar called Rinky Dink in Clapham and we had such a laugh. He was a friendly, open spirit and everyone warmed to him instatly. I think his spirit will live on in everyone who knew him and I know whenever I have a great night out I will think of him and the time we met. He was such a honey and although what has happened is awful we can only hope that Jay has found where he wants to be and is brightening up the lives of those he is with now. I am sure he is. Whenever I see a panda it makes me think of him and always will x My thougts are with all those who knew him and his family x
Lisa Terizis
October 7, 2007
I had the pleasure to work with Jay at mac in sydney.I'll always remember his beautifull smile and his kindness.
Lisa xx
Christina Demos-Jones
October 7, 2007
My deepest sympathy and thoughts go to Jay's family. Such incredible sadness to have lost such a wonderful sparkle of a young man. He was such a delight to know and had amazing depth and empathy for one so young. Much sadness is left behind.
Karen Beck
October 7, 2007
Jay
You came into our lives eleven years ago when you and Daniel first became friends.We loved you and cherished the beautiful person you were. You have enriched our lives so much over the past years, and you taught us so much. You will be greatly missed but our memories are wonderful. Our thoughts are with Jay's family and all his wonderful friends.
Karen and Ian Beck
Sydney Australia
Natalia Diaz
October 7, 2007
Jay was one of the most beautiful people I have ever met and I will never forget him, and how he colored those days in Sydney. My love and prayers go out to him and his family.
Ian Krouwel
October 6, 2007
JayBird,I have so many memories its hard to think of the best times as there where so many smiles laughs and jokes the warmest feeling of friendship.For anyone that knew you they have just the most beautiful things to say. Now Jaybird Sleep well and feel no fear or pain , one day all our spirits will meet again . I take comfort in that you live on in the people who love you .
My love and warmest thoughts just for you Jaybird
Kong x x
Roger Dickens
October 6, 2007
Jay was one of the most amazing people I have ever known. Since meeting him years ago he has always been very caring and inspiring. I will never forget the great times we had. I think that we can all smile and be happy to know that we had the chance to be know Jay and be touched by his amazing spirit.
Always your friend,
Steven Zapata Jr.
October 6, 2007
I can remember the very first time I met J. It’s so clear to me. He had an amazing energy about him that drew me in, made me want to know him. I'm so lucky to have been a part of his life and I'm so happy that I'll forever have him as a part of mine.
J brought so much happiness to my life and even now I look back to our friendship and smile. I've not cried, but I've smiled a lot these past few days. It's what he would have wanted; love, beauty and happiness. I love you J. Thanks for everything in every way. You’ll always be a special friend.
Bec Shelley
October 6, 2007
My thoughts go out to Jays parents, brother and entire family in this time of deep saddness.
Jay was a loyal, caring, understanding and funloving person, who was so special to me. My words cannot express how sad I feel to have lost such a beautiful friend. Jay touched my life in so many ways and in most recent times with my little daughter Lucy. His sincere affection towards her was amazing.
Jay, you will be treasured forever in my heart and I will miss you forever!
Daniel Beck
October 6, 2007
Dearest Jaybird,
You are the most beautiful person i've ever known, and i'm blessed to have had you in my life for 11 amazing years. My heart is heavy with sadness, but I know that you are safe and peaceful and that gives me comfort. My heart goes out to your family, Pat, Mike, Chris, Ana, Katis Elise and your dear friend and cousin David.
I love you.
Daniel
Kate Mc Donald
October 6, 2007
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Zorana McDavitt
October 6, 2007
Jaybird,
From MAC, to catching trains out to the sticks, to sharing our woes of Uni life, you were always a source of joy to me. The mere thought of you always brought a smile to my face and I look forward to feeling that again soon. I will never forget you my fabulous friend.
Love always and my sympathy to all those who had the priviledge of knowing you,
Your friend,
Rose & John Galluzzo
October 6, 2007
To the Pulliam Family,
It was so incredibly sad to hear the news of Jay's passing. We will always remember his humour, wit and wonderful smile! He was a treasure and we were privileged to have known him. Our thoughts are with you. From Carla's mom and dad.
Carla Demos-Jones
October 5, 2007
My thoughts go to Jay's family at this time. I am truely sorry that such a funny, bright and compassionate being has left us. He may not have known it, but Jay played a big part in my life. He will always be remembered. I love you, Jaybird.
Eileen Sherrill
October 5, 2007
To the Pulliam family,
Our thoughts have been of you just this weekend, with loving conversations about happy times in Korea. We send our love and prayers from Peachtree City.
Steve and Eileen Sherrill and girls, Alyssa and Bethany
Marie Linton
October 5, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. David P - we love you. - the Lintons
Katherine Foster
October 5, 2007
I met Jay just short of a year ago and was immediately drawn to his creativity, warmth, insight, humor, generosity and overall loveliness. To those who were fortunate to know him more intimately I express my deepest sorrow for this loss. The impact that Jay had on my life will never be forgotten.
Susan Canipe
October 5, 2007
For David...Jacqueline has spoken about you and "Jaybird" with such affection and love. I feel so sad and sorry for your loss.
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