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James Raman Obituary

James "Jim" Wesley Raman COLUMBIA Dr. James "Jim" Wesley Raman returned to his heavenly home on Monday, March 11, 2019. Although born and raised in NY, Jim moved to SC in 1997 to attend the University of South Carolina. It was there that he met the love of his life, Misti, and graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Biology. From there Jim went on to attend the Medical University of South Carolina School of Medicine, entering with the highest MCAT score in the history of either of our medical schools. After two years Jim made the courageous decision to transfer his academic credits to MUSC's School of Dental Medicine, and join his then fianc‚e, Misti, in her journey to become a dentist. Jim continued on and became Chief Resident at Nova Southeastern University's orthodontic residency in Fort Lauderdale. He returned home in 2010 where he and his wife proudly served as owners of Irmo Smiles, providing pediatric, family, cosmetic and orthodontic dentistry in the Irmo, Columbia and Lexington communities. Jim was a devout Christian who attended Riverland Hills Baptist Church. He not only believed in God, but applied his faith in his profession and openly shared his Christian beliefs with those he deeply loved. He and his wife, Misti, had the pleasure of being chosen for season 25 of CBS's "The Amazing Race." It was that life changing experience, witnessing deprivation and abject poverty in the Philippines, where God called their hearts to return and initiate a free dental clinic to the most impoverished areas in Manila. Locally, Jim's desire to give back could be witnessed at Irmo Smiles annual Dentistry From the Heart Day, where doctors, assistants, hygienists, and volunteers from all over the state would join to provide free dental services to the underserved in our area. Although Dr. Raman was deeply committed to helping people build their self-confidence through the enhancement of their smile, Jim was extremely passionate about bringing community and state awareness to the issues surrounding autism. Jim did much to help contribute toward the growth of a higher level of understanding and treatment in the greater Columbia area, and served as a board member of the Autism Academy of South Carolina. Jim proudly authored the document presented to the SC Assembly, which ultimately led to the passing of House Bill 3747, which required autism benefits in small group and individual health plans. Jim's passionate drive for acceptance of these children, and the legislative change needed for their success, stemmed directly from his desperation to help his own son, Jimmy. All who had the pleasure of knowing Jim benefited from the many different substantial contributions he so unselfishly provided. He dreamed bigger and envisioned life on a level that few could comprehend. However, those he shared it with believed in and knew that if Dr. Jim had the desire in his heart, he would take all measures to make it a reality. His goal in all areas of his life was to have maximum impact on the world. His love for dentistry and serving those around him was only surpassed by his love of God and his openly affectionate love and adoration for his daughter, Lexi; son, Jimmy, and loving wife and best friend, Misti. He will be forever missed and loved by those whom he touched. Jim was a very dedicated husband to his wife, Misti Sturkie Raman, and an outstanding, most dedicated father to his beloved children, Alexis "Lexi" Raman and James "Jimmy" Raman, Jr. His love for his family was unsurpassed. He is survived by: father, Frederick and the late Jeanne Dussault Raman; brothers, Fredrick Raman and Jeffrey S. Raman (Joanne); sister, Eve Altman (Gary); father-in-law and mother-in-law, John and Cathy Rakowsky; brother-in-law, John Rakowsky, Jr. (Brooke); sister-in-law, Cristen Sturkie, and numerous nieces and nephews. Funeral services for James Wesley Raman, 42, will be held at 12:00 p.m. on Saturday, March 16, 2019, at Riverland Hills Baptist Church with interment to follow at Woodridge Memorial Park. Memorials may be made to the Autism Academy of South Carolina, P.O. Box 7514, Columbia, SC 29202. www.caughmanharmanfuneralhome.net.

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Published by The State from Mar. 15 to Mar. 16, 2019.

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Wil

April 18, 2019

I watched your memorial film and felt the gentle and generous spirit that James filled in the essence he shared with his family, his friends, his fellowship with those he knew and loved and those he loved without knowing them. So while we may mourn his absence on Earth, his presence in heaven is a reason to rejoice, for James will always be with us. Even with those, like me, who never knew him. I know my Darling Girl, Francesca, who also went to heaven recently, will want to teach him yoga. Good ever and ever, Jim. You are praised.

Never knew you...but know you now.

Wil

Michael Amoroso

March 18, 2019

Jimmy Boy-
It's been such a long while and I often thought about you so fondly. I am so sorry we lost touch through the years- have thought a great deal about it the last several days. We both moved away and on to such a full life (always thought of us as the ones that got out), and it is heavy hearted but joyous when I see the beautiful family you built. You created so much and I know through the pain your family will continue to be so proud. I am so proud to have called you friend. Even in our younger years you lived such a full life, leaving no stone unturned in your pursuit of goals. Clearly that carried over to your adult life and the beautiful family and professional life you built. When I read about the amazing work you have done in Manila and around autism it filled my pained heart to know you never changed when it came to passionately accomplishing the unthinkable. I wish I could pick up the phone and tell you all this in person and I wish life didn't get in the way and create so much distance and years. I'll pray for your family now Jimmy Boy and while my heart aches hearing of your passing I know I am blessed to have shared this earth with you. Very few lived as fully as you did if only for a short time. I'll miss you old friend- rest easy now.
Love you jimmy boy, Gdnt

- Amo

Shayne Livingston

March 16, 2019

Misti, I am so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts. May your dear husband rest easy and you and your children be comforted by your love and memories.

Patricia Eaton Ramsey

March 16, 2019

Sincere thoughts and prayers for all family members during your grief for loss of a very special person.

Susan Meyers

March 15, 2019

Deepest sympathy to Dr. Raman's family. Enjoyed watching the amazing race that you ran. Prayers for his family

Thomas and Diane Yeoman

March 15, 2019

Jim immediately touched our lives with his positive spirit. We are better people because he was in our life. We are so sorry for your loss.

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Laura Truell

March 15, 2019

May God bless you, Dr. Jim. You truly ran an amazing race. ❤

Woody & Carol Taylor

March 15, 2019

We were shocked and sad to hearing of Jim's passing. We now pray the Lord will comfort you and keep you safe in His arms in this time of sorrow and pain. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

March 15, 2019

My condolences to the family. May you find comfort in your memories and in the love of family and friends. May the God of all comfort bring you peace during this difficult time. 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17.

Leslie Beard

March 15, 2019

My heart is heavy with this news. God speed Dr. Jim.

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March 15, 2019

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