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Jay Patterson Obituary

Jay Patterson
1949-2018
Our witty and facetious husband, father, grandfather ('pappi'), uncle, son, brother and friend, Jay Christopher Patterson, passed away peacefully on March 30, 2018 at MD Anderson Hospital in Houston, TX at the age of 68. He touched all of our hearts in many meaningful ways and will be missed and remembered forever.
Jay was born on October 21, 1949 in Beaumont, TX and was the son of Jack and Sue Patterson. As the oldest of two sibling's, Kelly Thaden and York Patterson, Jay has always been the one taking care of others and putting others first. He graduated from Lamar University in Beaumont, TX in 1972 with a Bachelor Political Science and by 1986 open his own business Great Plains Pool & Spa Products.
In 1975, Jay married the love of his life, Barbara, and together they have shared 42 years of marriage with each other. They have two wonderful and charming boys Travis and Blake. Jay found joy in everything his boys were a part of from volunteering and coaching Little League Baseball; he also found joy in training Labrador retrievers for field trials. He enjoyed spending time at his ranch in Schulenburg, TX raising beef master cattle and donating to the Schulenburg FFA. If that wasn't enough he enjoyed spending his time playing golf, hunting and fishing.
He is survived by mother, Sue Patterson; spouse, Barbara Patterson; children, Blake with spouse Laura, Travis with spouse Alexis; grandchildren, Kaden and Ryder; brother, York with spouse Vicki and nephew Hunter; sister Kelly with spouse Bob and nephew Jesse. He is preceded in death by his father, Jack Patterson.
A Memorial Service will be held at 6pm on Wednesday April 4, 2018, at The Settegast-Koft Company @ Sugar Creek, 15015 Southwest Freeway Sugar Land, TX 77478.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Jay's honor to MD Anderson Cancer Center at gifts.mdanderson.org #endcancer or to Schulenburg FFA at Schulenburg.ffanow.org.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Apr. 2, 2018.

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April 5, 2018

The lost of a love one is difficult. May the precious memories you have help you cope and bring you peace. 1 Thes. 4:14 Can bring you some comfort knowing that there is a future for the ones we have lost in death can be reassuring. May the God of peace be with you and your family.

Scott Burrall

April 3, 2018

Barbara, I am very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. He will be dearly missed at our WINDO meetings. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

April 3, 2018

Barbara, I am sorry for your loss. I am glad you had so much time with a man who was so much.
Connie Guyton

A. L.

April 3, 2018

May the bereaved family be comforted by looking forward to Jesus' promise recorded at John 6:40.

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Don Robertson

April 2, 2018

Our prayers go out to you and your family for strength in this sad time.
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Chuck & Mary Lou Moritz

April 2, 2018

So sorry to hear of your loss. Jay will be missed for his sense of humor and joy of life. May God comfort you at this time of loss.

Chuck & Mary Lou Moritz

April 2, 2018

So sorry to hear of your loss, Barbara. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. Chuck & Mary Lou Moritz

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