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Jodyann Faber Obituary

FABER, JODYANN

On October 23, 2004, JODYANN FABER, 46, of Bethesda, MD. Survived by her loving mother, Rovi Faber of Bethesda, MD; and father. Arthur Faber of Pompano Beach, FL; brothers, Eric of Lexington, KY, and Louis S. (Elaine) of Rochester, NY; nephews, Joshua, (Shevah) Faber of Champaign, IL and Benjamin (Kiera) Faber of Rochester, NY and many beloved friends. Burial followed a private family service by Rabbi Joui M. Hessel on October 24, 2004. A Memorial Service to celebrate Jody's life and to share the joys she brought to so many lives, will be held at the Washington Hebrew Congregation on Sunday, October 31 at 11 a.m. The family will receive friends at the Temple following the service. Contributions may be made to the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation, Hospice Caring or ACS Hope Lodge. Arrangements by HINES-RINALDI FUNERAL HOME, INC. under Jewish Funeral Practices Committee of Greater Washington Contract.

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Published by The Washington Post on Oct. 25, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for Jodyann Faber

Sponsored by Rovi, Eric and Lou Faber.

74 Entries

Dr Harry Wong

October 19, 2024

I have the pleasure and honor of meeting Jodie on a cruise. She definitely was a wonder and a delight.

MaryLesa Burns O'Connor

May 13, 2020

I have such lovely and fun memories of our 6th grade year at Mill and our friendship. It always bothered me that I lost you and then you called me from Chicago when we were in our 30's. I wanted to get together but it never happened. You have crossed my mind many times over the years. I'll never forget your Bat Mitzvah, it was my very first one. I was so deeply saddened to learn of your passing.

Lou Faber

April 30, 2013

I wrote the card trying hard to find the right words: words that would make you smile as you always made me smile, little sister. I tucked it away in a drawer as you are tucked away in my heart, your loving smile always there when I need it. Love, Lou

Elaine Heveron

April 29, 2013

Today I'm remembering the one year we all celebrated our April birthdays together in Rochester and Jody lit sparklers in the Park Avenue Cafe!

April 29, 2013

We think of you each and every day, certainly on today's date since it is your birthday. We feel confident you are aware of how we are honoring your memory by the actions of Eric, Lou, and me with Pull Tabs For Charity.

When we're in contact with Kaaren Oreck, her family, Larry Behar and his family, the Bedermans, we feel your presence. We pray that you're being protected from any harm or pain by Nana Sophia, Kate Markwood, and recently "Aunt" Mimi. You are surely missed by your family and friends. With much love and hugs, Mom

October 24, 2012

Dear Daughter,
You are missed. Your wonderful brothers and I are remembering you daily as we work on Pull Tabs For Charity in your memory. We feel what we're doing and what others are doing, with the US Military in all services throughout the world, keeps you smiling down on us. Lots of love and hugs 10/23/12, Mom

Elaine Heveron

October 24, 2012

Jodyann, your snapping pulltabs from cans, then joyously redeeming the bits of aluminum for charity lives on and on, as it morphs and grows world wide, keeping your mother more than alive. This, too was your gift to us. Thinking of you, your brothers and your Mom today with love. elaine

Lou Faber

October 23, 2012

Little sister, each morning I think of you, see your smile from the photo in my office, and miss you again. And yet that smile goes with me through the day and reminds me of all you were and all you did and all you wanted to do for others, and we carry that on, with you watching over us, knowing this is what you wanted.

Love
Lou

April 29, 2012

Oh how I miss your presence, but you are well being remembered by your brothers and me. Volunteers (in 47 States, and members of the US Armed Forces) are remembering you through Pull Tabs For Charity that you started. There was a wonderful article that appeared in the NIH Record just two days before your birthday today.

I know you're in a better place and I feel confident we will be together there someday. God bless you for being the terrific sister and daughter you were when amongst us. I love you,

Louis Faber

April 29, 2012

It is now eight years
but it was only yesterday
you smiled at me in the park
rolling down the hill, laughing.
That is the you I remember,
and the beautiful woman
who smiles at me from the photo
on my bookshelf, and the voice
of the little girl wanting
doughdotes and pisgetti,
and you are still here,
still laughing, still smiling.

Ketia Proctor

October 24, 2011

I can't believe it's been seven years since one of my favorite angels finally got her wings. How many days did I see that smiling face step off the elevator...mom close behind with her suitcase of medical records in hand. I may have only been an employee of the oncology center where Ms. Jodyann was a patient, but she touched my heart in many ways. She is loved and she is missed. Gone but NEVER forgotten.

Lou Faber

October 23, 2011

The calendar says it’s been seven years
and yet you are around me each day.
In the morning you smile at me
from the photo on the bookshelf.
Watching my four year old granddaughter
riding a pony, her laugh is your laugh,
and it’s suddenly your fifth birthday party
and you are the prettiest cowgirl in the world.
The old ceramic Chinese men, hunched over
their table pause and smile, your smile
before returning to their game, and I know
that you put them up to it, so on this day
we will go to the zoo with the grandkids
and you will laugh at the foolishness of the chimps
and I will see your reflection in the exhibit window
and I will laugh with you.

Rovi Faber

April 29, 2011

April 29, 2011
My dear daughter, I hardly thought I'd be able to carry on without you for this many years, but your memory and your life has inspired your brothers and me to keep your presence in the formation of Pull Tabs For Charity.

We feel confident you know all about how your dream has become a reality. Now the disc on YouTube will enable many more people to learn and honor your life.

I miss you terribly, but someday we'll all be together again in a much better place. Love and kisses, Mom

Lou Faber

October 24, 2010

Little sister. You live in our hearts and in the work you started that we carry on in your spirit.

Rovi Faber

October 23, 2010

My dear Jody -

Today marks the 6th year your brothers and I have been without you. It hasn't made it any easier. However, we're all handling our grief through Pull Tabs For Charity, and we know that you know what we're doing in your memory.

October 23, 2009

Dear Jody - Your family is reminded of you each day. Today is five years that you have been missed terribly. There are no words to express that awful feeling of not having you here with me. Although I still have Eric and Lou, for which I am grateful, and they miss you as well, your presence is missed and always will be missed. I'm grateful for the years we had together. I feel you are aware of what your brothers and I are doing with the creation of PULL TABS FOR CHARITY in your memory that is now going global. We are so proud of you! Love, Mom

Terri Webster

October 23, 2009

Dear Rovi,
I think of you often and reflect on my special memories of Jodi. There are several reminders of her in my daily life - including a couple of special cows she gave me. Miss you and hope all is well with you. You are a special lady.

Terri Webster, JHBMC

Elaine Heveron

October 23, 2009

Dear Rovi,
Thinking of you today and hope that you're doing okay, as another anniversary of Jodyann's passing hauls us into Autumn. God bless the Pull Tab for Charity work you do in her memory to help so many. Love to all who knew, loved and miss her.

Lou Faber

October 22, 2009

Dear sweet Jodyann: It's been five years but you still find ways to make me laugh and make me cry. Just yesterday I found a silly card you sent me for no reason and once again you made me laugh when I least expected to do so. We all carry you in our hearts always, and you still touch more lives than you could ever imagine.

Louis Faber

October 26, 2008

Love you, liitle sister

Rovi Faber

October 26, 2008

My dear daughter, Although you physically have not been with me these last four years, I feel that you are with me and your brothers spiritually. You are missed so very much. We feel your presence as we make strides with Pull Tabs For Charity in your memory. I love you. Mom

Rovi Faber

October 22, 2007

Words are just inadequate to express how much your presence is missed! Friends and family are expressing their love by continuing to collect pull tabs as you did while fighting for your life.Mom xo

Rovi Faber

April 29, 2007

Dearest Jody, There isn't a day that I don't remember you and all the many ways you expressed your love for me. Today being your birthday, I still love and cherish you and your many wonderful, thoughtful straits that not only me, but your family and many friends recall their fond memories you left behind. Lovingly, Mom

Lou Faber

April 29, 2007

Today, I once again mark your birthday,
from a cute girl to defiant patient
you cursed the cancer, fought it in your way,
and when the fight was done, you simply went.

I held you as you faced the surgeon's saw
told you that you had brains enough to spare
you clutched my hand until my skin was raw,
apologized, as if I'd really care

You never got the chance to meet my niece,
just two years old and one gigantic laugh,
so much like you were, giving me no peace,
riding my back, you called me your giraffe.

Now gone, it's still your childish face I see,
the laughing child I carry inside me.

Lou Faber

October 24, 2006

Two years doesn't seem that long. In my thoughts you are still the five year old riding a pony in the backyard in boots and a cowgirl hat, laughing your way through your birthday, and the beautiful girl of 13 chanting the Haftorah in you ever sweet voice. But above all you are the woman so full of joy rolling down the hill in Highland Park as we all felt the warmth that was you, my sister. For six years I told you to "look for the pony." It was our little secret, and all that time, and still, you were the pony in my world.

Rovi Faber

October 22, 2006

10/23/06 Dearest Jody, The difference of time doesn't seem to matter when it comes to missing you. You live in our hearts for all the memories left behind with your family and friends. May it be a comfort to know that your family and friends are continuing to collect pull tabs to honor your memory, and how much you did for others during your brief time on earth. I miss you and love you dearly. Mom

Rovi Faber

April 29, 2006

Dearest Jody, Today is your birthdate, and I am reminded of how fortunate your family and friends were to have you in our lives. You touched us most profoundly. You will never be forgotten though on earth you live no more, but in our memories you are with us as you always have been before. I love you dearly! Mom

Lou

October 24, 2005

A year is but a moment. With tears that will never dry, with a love that will never cease, you are with us always -- we carry you in our thoughts, in our hearts and in our prayers.

For thee, my own sweet sister, in thy heart

I know myself secure, as thou in mine.

We were and are—I am, even as thou art—

Beings who ne’er each other can resign:

It is the same, together or apart,

From life’s commencement to its slow decline

We are entwined—let death come slow or fast,

The tie which bound the first endures the last!

-- Lord Byron

Rovi Faber

October 23, 2005

As I stood at your gravesite today marking one year that we've been without you, I tenderly recalled the many joys you gave to your family during your lifetime. The passage of time will never fill the void in my heart. Just letting you know that I miss you and still love you dearly. Mom

Debbie Horberg Horberg

October 6, 2005

Dear Rovi, With the New Year upon us, I've been looking back on the last year's events.Of course, I think of Jody and how often it's been that I think of her. In the months preceding her death, we would talk fairly regularly on Wednesday mornings so, at first, Wednesday mornings would come and I'd start to pick up the phone before I would be conscious that calling her wouldn't work. There have been so many times over the last year that she comes to mind spontaneously--an area that I'm driving in Chicago, a restaurant or food that we shared, when Katrina struck New Orleans. Jody would have been the first to gather and send clothing to the victims of the hurricane because she was the kind of person who lived very passionately, and cared very deeply about others. I admired that about her.

Even though a year has passed and most people see that as adequate time to have adjusted to loss (whatever that means...),a lot of us who have experienced traumatic loss know that a year doesn't begin to bring the kind of relief or respite from the pain that we really want and need. I do hope the next year will be a continued time for healing and finding peace.I hope you are well and busy in ways you're enjoying, and that you are spending the holidays with Eric or Louis or both. I also hope that 5766 brings you good health and closeness with family and friends. Love, Deb

Rovi Faber

April 29, 2005

Dearest Daughter, There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. There's a tremendous void in my life not having you here. Today this being your birthday, I just had to tell you that I love you dearly, dear Jody. Mom

Van & Shirley Harris

March 24, 2005

"Tel mere...tel fille" (like mother, like daughter)....and then some.
Jodi, we just knew you intermittently, having first observed the beautiful child that you were and then from time to time watching you grow into a beautiful woman, in every way. One of our deepest regrets is that we were never able to get enough of you and learned of your maturity through our occasional meetings with your fantastic mother. From all we've ever known and seen of you, you were one of the exceptional ladies of your era. If we may borrow something memorable that Carl Sandburg once wrote about Abraham Lincoln it would aptly apply to wonderful, beautiful Jodyann....."When God created Jodyann Faber he didn't do anything else that day". You were truly one of the chosen ones in every sense of the word. With love in our hearts always, Van and Shirley

John Fetting M.D.

March 23, 2005

Dear Ms. Faber, I was very sorry to learn through your note of Jody's death. Please know of my deep sympathy, for you and your family. Jody and all of you are in my prayers. Jody fought her breast cancer every step of the way. She was determined and brave. She availed herself of the best ideas about her disease and the most aggressive treatments. I'm not sure how comforting this thought will be to you, but Jody received the best treatment we know how to give. She was staunchly supported by her committed family. It was my privilege to contribute in some modest way. Thank you for your note. Sincerely,

Nancy Robinson

March 23, 2005

Dear Rovi, A belated note, as I did not know until I saw you that Jody had died. I was priviledged to get to know Jody during her treatment at Hopkins. She touched my heart with her courage, her determination and ability to speak her truth. Under different circumstances, I would have loved for Jody to give a seminar to the oncology staff about how to listen and be truly present to patients and families. However, Jody taught people who she encountered on this 6 year journey. Jody will live on in the hearts of the pople whose lives she touched. And Rovi, you were the calm port and anchor for Jody during turbulent times. We should all be as blessed as Jody, to have a mother who accompanies her adult child on this difficult journey. Fondly, Nancy

The Cutest Little Sister

January 24, 2005

My Gorgeous Sister

January 24, 2005

Negar Ansari

January 22, 2005

Dear Rovi,

My prayers and thoughts are always with you.

Jodyann will not only be missed, but she will be remembered in the hearts of everyone she touched. She was such a compassionate and kind person and I am so grateful that I had the wonderful opportunity to know her.

Love,

Negar & Frank

James Green

January 7, 2005

Jody was a amazing person who brighten every room she walked into.

I had the pleasure of going to social events with Jody, and I have to say she really inspired me in the way I look at life. She overcame so much in her life and did it all with elegance and a great zest for living.

I will miss her dearly. God will truly bless this wonderful spirit.

Rovi, Eric, and Lou~ If you need anything, please don't hesitate to let me know.

I have
attached in the photo gallery,
Jody's favorite photo from our
time together.

Take care and God bless.

James R. Green Jr.

January 7, 2005

Susan Weiss

December 28, 2004

November 1, 2004

Dear Rovi:

Jody was truly one-of-a-kind. I loved that she was witty, insightful, kind and creative – but most importantly she possessed a generous spirit that really made an impact on everyone she met.

What I cherish most is the way that Jody and I talked and laughed a lot. Some of the best times we shared were in Chicago just rollerblading at the lake, roaming around Chinatown or just hanging out together. Here are a couple stories that always make me smile:

Jody had a knack for popping up in places I just wasn’t expecting her. For instance about 10 years ago, I was eating at a restaurant in Orlando and all of a sudden I hear a familiar voice calling my name from across the room. That’s right. Jody was in town for a conference, I was visiting a friend – we merged the groups and had a festive time into the wee hours of the morning.

A similar scenario happened the following year on a trip to New York. As I’m boarding a crowded plane … Jody comes running out of nowhere and moves assorted passengers out of their seats so we could spend the next few hours catching up. Priceless.

Most of all, I admire Jody’s courage and her amazing ability to keep fighting even in the most painful situations. She was able to find light and joy, even when times were the darkest.

Rovi, I’m so sorry for your loss. I just want you to know that Jody will always be in my heart and never forgotten.

Love,

Susan Weiss

Michael Leonard

December 26, 2004

November 9, 2004

Hi Rovi

Needless to say, we were all saddened when we heard the news about Jody.

I was on vacation and got the message from work when I came home that Saturday evening, that Jody's Memorial Service was scheduled the next morning.

I hope the service was all you wanted it to be, Rovi, as a fitting and lasting tribute to Jody's life and the beauty she brought to this world.

Although I wasn't at the service to have learned more about Jody's early life and background, I felt a very strong connection.

At about the same time Jody's Memorial Service was occurring that Sunday, I was several hours into the running of the Marine Corps Marathon.

Just about one year ago at last year's MCM, I called Jody and told her how much she inspired me the way she so bravely conducted her life. I told her I would run in her honor.

Last week, the evening before the marathon, I learned from that phone message that this year I would no longer have the privilege of running in her honor.

So I ran in memory of her. This year was the toughest marathon I've ever encountered. No marathon is ever easy. (If it was, everybody would be doing it).

But this year's temperature rose to 80 degrees---a nice day for spectators, but a brutal endeavor for someone trying to cover 26 miles.

Somewhere around the half-way point past Capitol Hill, the connection hit me. I was several hours into the race and was realizing that at this very time, Jody's Memorial Service was taking place. I wondered about it and hoped the service would truly memorialize her life. And I knew that if Jody were alive she'd be cheering me on to the finish line.

It really gave me a lift at a time when this 66 year old over-the-hill guy really needed it. If you, Rovi, could go through the service for the loss of your daughter, surely I could trudge a few more miles to the end of this run.

It turns out that once again, Jody would up doing so much more for me than I was ever able to do for her.

The marathon is so much more than just a long grueling race---it's actually a celebration of the human spirit. This is how I'll always remember Jody---so spirited, so courageous, yet in the midst of her anguish, still caring for others.

Rovi, for the past several years I've seen you care for Jody I think even more than yourself. Jody's memory will be a blessing for you and she'll always be in your heart.

But I hope you will enter a new phase in your life where you can concentrate more on yourself. Nobody on this planet could ever have done more as a care-giver than you did for Jody.

If there were medicals given out to care-givers, you would be world-class! Now that you have retired that medal, take time to nourish yourself---mind, body and spirit.

There's a song with a few words that come to mind now, and I'll think of Jody: "...for every drop of rain that falls, a flower grows..."

Very Sincerely,

Mike

Estelle Weintraub

December 26, 2004

My dear Rovi,

It is so difficult to know where to begin. My mind wanders while contemplating all that you and Jody have felt for each other, and all the remarkable things you struggled through to always be there for her.

And...Jody, this beautiful soul who desperately endeavored with courage and dignity to be part of this world, has left all those who were rooting for her and the majesty of her life. We honor her.

Thinking back to my last visit, I realized then, as I do now, how important it was for me to spend quality time with each of you. For in life, what we have, are the moments! Now, as I weep I have those moments!

You my dear Rovi, have had years of struggling with your emotions, while holding back so much. This year was truly the hardest.

My sincere hope is that you pick and choose to remember how many beautiful sharing moments and times you had together. She is where she need not struggle anymore. She is finally at peace. She leaves behind those who respected her witicisms and tenaciousness.

The tears roll down my eyes - even though I was not there for her last memorial.

The world is waiting for you to be part of it again. It will not be easy, but as your spirit returns, you will soar like a bird in rememberance of Jody's being.

Much love,

Estelle

Ann Young

December 26, 2004

October 25, 2004

Dear Rovi,

Even though I knew Jody was at Manor Care, I allowed myself to believe it was just a rehab assignment and she would soon be back in her apartment, or possible in yours. So it was with shock that I read her death notice this morning and with a deep sadness. The world was a better place with Jody in it and she will be missed terribly.

I hope you feel comfortable that the climate you created for Jody when she moved here was what allowed her to derive enjoyment from the years she spent, often in pain, but with an abiding love of life and an unending concern for the well-being of others. You and she are wonderful examples of deriving the best out of a life fraught with peril and tragedy and you have my utmost respect.

I will always carry a little of Jody with me. I look forward to celebrating her life with you at her Memorial Services, and to giving you a big hug.

With love,

"Annala"

Marsha Berdit

December 25, 2004

Jody: My fondest memories of you are When I visited your parents in Fort Lauderdale. You were precious then and remained a joy to you mother. I am so sorry that your last years were so painful to you and your family. May you and they find peace in the coming years.

Love to your mom, your brothers and all the family.

With deep affection, Marsha Berdit

Kaaren Oreck

December 23, 2004

How can you write farewell to someone whose presence will always be with you? How lucky I was to have Jody in my heart and to be in hers. A true sister in spirit. Beautiful Stylish Brilliant Fun Kind Compassionate. There are not enough adjective to describe the shining light of Jody. We are all better for having been a part of her life. Her life was short but she created a lifetime of wonderful memories for us all .I shall always love you and miss you

Elaine Heveron

November 18, 2004

Jody Jazz

Jody Jaaazzzzzz

Cheetos and grits

Making some waves

Dressed all up in

Purples or blues

Head wrap to shoes

One solid color for

Each precious day—

Orange meringue and

and out to shop,

Cause "trouble,"

and play--

Chocolate stashed

in your suitcase

or purse

Sushi for dinner--

Where’s the purse?

Lou’s on your cell phone--

Where’s the phone?

Mom!

Stack of photos

Lists of places

not to miss

New restaurant to try

Sparklers for birthdays

in a coffee shop

Even a holiday that

you hate

You find a way

to celebrate:

Valentine's Day w/ Eric

Key Lime Pie in the mail

Coupons, coupons,

Thinking of you….

(your sister-in-law)elaine

Georgetown Medical Center MRI DEPARTMENT

November 18, 2004

OUR CONDOLENCES TO YOUR FAMILY, YOU ALL ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. MRI STAFF

Valerie Markwood

November 17, 2004

As the holidays near, memories of shared holiday dinners at my Mom's with Jody, Rovi and my Uncle Raymond are all the more dear. Like Jody , Mom and my Uncle also left us in 2004. (I'm going to assume they're now together once again.) I'll always get a warm glow when I think of my beautiful and vivacious cousin Jody who was the embodiment of what it means to have "grace under fire." Love, Valerie

June Suzuki

November 15, 2004

Our paths crossed & hope will again

Know that you are happy ... js

ketia proctor

November 15, 2004

My deepest condolences go out to the entire Faber family. I am not a family friend or relative, so I don't have any witty stories to recall about Jody. I am the Medical Assistant at the Oncologist office in Annapolis were Jody was a patient. I will never forget how her and her mother would come into the office--Jody with her suitcase full of new information and reports for the doctor, and her mother wanting to borrow the phone book to get the number for the restaurant where they would be eating lunch after the appointment. I remember her frustration over "the damned steroids", but what I remember the most is her smile. It was like her own personal American Express card, she never left home without it. Her presence will be missed, but she will never be forgotten.

mark donahue

November 13, 2004

Those of us who knew Jody 20 years ago before the sickness, before the horrible chemicals, before the pain and suffering remember something that many may have never realized. She was beautiful. I don't mean just attractive, I mean flat out beautiful. Sure, everyone who came to know her over the last several years realized her "inner beauty". Her unbelieveable courage, her emotional strength and love of her family which made her fight as long and as hard as she did. But Jody was, before the nightmare she endured, a "babe" and she asked me the last time I saw her a few months ago if I remembered how she looked before. I told her I did remember and she smiled. She would be very happy and sincerely touched by all the wonderful things everyone has said about her and I agree with everything said. But Jody was a woman and would want to hear what all women want to hear at some point in their lives: Jody you were beautiful and I am convinced you would be today if not for that awfulness that crept into your body. Wherever you are, take some time and get your hair done, go to spa, buy some new clothes, go dancing and live a little. You have earned it.

Love,

Mark Donahue

Abe Katz

November 12, 2004

Dear Rovi, My heart felt condolences to you for the loss of your wonderful daughter Jody. You gave your daughter life. Once when she was born, and again when she was diagnosed with her illness. Your strength, tenacity, and love gave Jody the years that she might not have had. You and she were both an inspiration and gave meaning to what a true fighter is capable of. I am sadden for your loss. Dr. Abe Katz

Lou Faber

November 10, 2004

JODYANN, WITH LOVE

I want to write

the story of my sister’s life

as if words, carefully chosen

might somehow fill the abyss

suddenly torn in my heart.

I want to tell you about her,

not the woman who slipped away

quietly, slowly, so that we hardly

noticed, until so little was left,

but about the 5 year old who

rode the pony around

the back yard on her birthday

and only wanted to know

why it couldn’t live with us,

it could share her room.

Not the young woman

who cringed at the approach

of the phlebotomists,

called them vampires,

but the daughter who, despite the pain

pinned on the pink ribbon

and struggled on the walk

for all of the others.

Not the woman who traced

the scar on her skull from

the surgeons saw, but

the sister who always asked

how my shoulder was healing

and was I following

the doctor’s advice.

Not the woman who cursed

the change in her weight

as she rode the steroid

fueled roller coaster, but

the sister who laughed

no matter how bad the joke

and made me believe

she meant it, and the girl

who could find joy in

in a small black and white cat

or the perfect tchochke.

Not the woman who knew

the words were escaping

her, that her thoughts were

left half formed, the missing

idea just out of reach, but

but the aunt who knew

that simple candy could be

the strongest medicine for a child,

stronger than all of the potions

doctors pumped into her.

Not the woman

who was poked

prodded and tubed, but

the sister who found

the perfect gift even when

there was no occasion, who

knew every good restaurant

no matter where you met her,

and had discount coupons

for so many.

I want to tell you

of the life of a woman

gone too soon, leaving

a thousand smiles

in her wake, I want you

to remember her, as I do,

but not as a stone dropped

into a still, deep lake where

your search will be futile

and endless, but of the ripples

as they spread outward reflecting

off the shore, in each moment

shifting, never static

for that is her legacy

that is how she lives

and that is how

the hole slowly fills.

Pat Tiede

October 30, 2004

Dear Rovi and Family,

I am part of the Promenade Family that knew Jody, and from the first time I met her when she moved here several years ago, I was impressed with her upbeat and wonderful outlook on life. She attended many functions and along with her Mom was always the life of the party, dancing and enjoying life to the enth degree. We shared the dread disease of breast cancer and she, sadly, paved the way to march along a much stress-laden road to recovery. But Jody always had the upbeat smile and attitude. What an

inspiration for those who knew her and I commend her entire family, particularly Rovi who provided so much love and care for her. She will be missed but long remembered in our hearts. God Bless.

Ilene Leventhal

October 28, 2004

Dearest Rovi,

You and Jody are two of the most selfless, caring,and courageous women I have ever met. I want to thank your family for setting up this web site to allow me to express my heartfelt feelings. I will never forget how much you both have helped me to help others through your generous spirit towards HAND TO HAND. Even when Jody was ill she still lent us a hand. What a difference you both have made and what a legacy she has left. I would like to leave you with a few quotes that have helped me deal with the loss of those I have loved.

"Death is but the turning of a page of life: to the eyes of others it is death, but to those who die it is life". "Death for the spiritual souls is only a gate through which they enter into that sphere which every soul knows is to be its home". "The seeming death is the real birth of the soul." Hazrat Inayat Khan

Although these are just words, I hope you all believe that Jody lives on, not only in your hearts, but in the hearts of so many people whose lives she has touched with love, thoughtfulness, dignity and kindness. My heart goes out to all of you. I know Jody is smiling down upon you and will be one more angel in heaven to shine upon all of us. She was an Earth Angel that has transcended to become one of G-d's angels.

I have had a bad cold and may not be able to attend Jody's service on Sunday. Please know that on Sunday I will light a candle for her and send love to her and to all of you. I am so very sad for your loss. Love, Ilene

Barbara Epstein

October 28, 2004

Dear Rovi, Family and Friends ~

Jodyann was one of the bravest, most courageous people I have ever

met. She dealt with her terminal

illness with strength, dignity and

faith. Jodyann's life was one of service to others and in her relationships, she expressed kindness and caring. Her warmth and loving energy will continue to inspire us to be kinder, braver human beings and to make this world a better place.

Jodyann's spirit has returned to her heavenly home of peace and love. While she is missed and mourned by many here, she is released from the struggle, pain, and sadness of this world.

Although I only met Jodyann and Rovi a few years ago, I found Jodyann to be warm, open, and loving. I am honored to have known her and will always remember her beautiful spirit.

Laurie Manners

October 28, 2004

I would like to express my sincerest condolence to Jodyann's family. Though, I never personally met Jody, we've had a few phone conversations in the past. She was always kind and patient, and funny too. I always admired her strength.

Pat Williford

October 26, 2004

Dear Rovi,

There are no words to adequately express my heartfelt sympathy and nothing to ease the pain you must be feeling. Please know that I'm there for you and am just a call away.

There's an eskimo legend that best expresses my thoughts at this time...

Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.

xoxo,

YAD Pat

Susana Jones

October 26, 2004

I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to the family. Jodi was a remarkable woman who's strenght and determination was unmeasurable. It was indeed a pleasure to have known her.

Trina Leonard

October 25, 2004

Dear Rovi -- Jody was the bravest person I've ever met. I will never forget the courage, humor and determination with which she faced her illness and the enthusiasm with which she lived her life.

Like you, Rovi, she jammed more into a day than almost anyone else. Many years ago, when I was visiting Chicago, Jody took me out for an afternoon jam-packed with visits to her favorite spots, including the Rock and Roll McDonald's. I'm quite sure I never covered so much territory in such a small amount of time on any other day of my life! It was a wonderful afternoon that I shall always remember with joy, just as I shall always remember Jody.

My thoughts are with you, Rovi. I am sure that Jody will always be an angel on your shoulder.

Love,

Trina Leonard

Donna Bassin

October 25, 2004

Dear Rovi,

Thank you for sharing Jody with me as our friendship grew over the years. You always learn so much about someone when you meet their children, and knowing Jody made me admire you even more. My thoughts are with you both now.

The Right Rev'd Richard G Melli

October 25, 2004

Dear Rovi,

Your faithfullness and devotion to

Jodyann are an example to every parent. Your loss is shared by all who have had a child go before them.

Our hearfelt condolences to you and your family.

You will all be remembered in our Corporate Prayers.

"... May her Soul and the Souls of all the Faithful Departed, through the mercy of God, Rest in Peace. Amen. "

Blessings,

+ Richard and Nancy

Jody Honoring Ilan Ramon - Now Her Name is Inscribed in the Good Book

D. Cassandra Fletcher, Ph.D.

October 25, 2004

What a privilege to have been a friend of Jodyann Faber, an accomplished woman, who lived her life with passion and grace, a beautiful soul who faced her death with courage and dignity.

Your earthly struggles have ended, dearest Jody, but you will forever be enshrined in the hearts of those of us who have known and loved you.

To each member of the Faber family, and to Jody's other friends, I offer my heartfelt sympathy and condolences. Here in Las Vegas, I may weep alone, but I share with you, across the miles, your feelings of loss and sorrow.

To you dear Rovi, Jody's proud, loving, self-sacrificing, and devoted mother -- with whom I have shared many talks, e-mails, hopes, tears, and heartfelt prayers -- I extend my heart to you in your present grief, and my hand to you in friendship always.

To Jody's memory, and especially to you, Rovi, I dedicate my favorite poem, by John Burroughs. May it bring you some measure of peace, and the strength to carry on.

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

Serene, I fold my hands and wait,
nor care for wind nor tide nor sea.
I rave no more 'gainst time or fate,
for lo, my own shall come to me.

I stay my haste, I make delays,
for what avails this eager pace.
I stand amid the eternal ways,
and what is mine shall know my face.

Asleep, awake, by night or day,
the friends I seek are seeking me.
No wind can drive my bark astray,
nor change the tide of destiny.

What matter if I stand alone.
I wait with joy the coming years.
My heart shall reap where it has sown,
and garner up its fruit of tears.

The waters know their own and draw,
the brook that springs in yonder height.
So flows the good with equal law,
unto the soul of pure delight.

The stars come nightly to the sky,
the tidal wave unto the sea,
Nor time, nor space, nor deep, nor high,
can keep my own away from me.

With love, and with prayers on behalf of Jody and the family, for the comfort and blessings of the Most High,

Cassandra

LARRY BEHAR

October 25, 2004

To Rovi, Arthur, Eric and Lou,

I had the benefit of knowing this "true earth" girl for 27 years of her remarkable life, and no finer angel was ever sent to us than her. Her smile, her wit, her dynamism encased in a genuine sensitive heart made her our friend, now and always.

with deepest sadness,

larry and claire

Harshad and Shilpa Amin

October 25, 2004

Dearest Rovi and family,

We are very sorry to hear about the passing of Jodi. You have been through a long and difficult process. Now Jodi is at peace and in the comfort of God.

Our deepest sympathies to you.

Richard Sacks

October 25, 2004

Jodi

I'm sorry I never got to know you, but I know the world is a lesser place without you.

I was happy that I was able to help mom get your pictures in her computer; so she could print them for your birthday party (I really liked those of you at The Kennedy Center).

Save a place for me up there.

Love,

Richard

Betsy Harasek

October 25, 2004

Lou and family,

I am sorry for your loss. God's blessing be with you at this difficult time.

Betsy Harasek

Jack & Amy Bransdorf

October 25, 2004

Our thoughts and prayers are with Rovi and her family in the loss of Jody, her much beloved daughter.

Terri Webster

October 25, 2004

When the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. I am so blessed to have the memories that I have of Jodyann. I will always remember the first day I met Jody when she was accompanying her mother, Rovi, and was advocating for her at the hospital. Anyone would be blessed to have Jody on their side. Jody always thought about others. Once she learned that I collected cows she never failed to visit me without bringing me a new addition to my cow collection. Everywhere I look, I have unique reminders of the remarkable woman, Jody. She was an incredible example to us all of strength and determination combined with a heart of gold. She will be sorely missed by her family and friends. I have been blessed to have had the acquaintaince of such a remarkable and loved woman.

Kevin, Kyeong, Jason & EJ Dillon

October 25, 2004

We are really caught offgard on this announcement! We have never met a stronger spirit for doing things for others than Jody shared with us... throughout the many times we saw each other over the last several years, she always was clipping coupons for us, saving news articles, finding little treasures for the kids, and more. Thank you Jody for being a part of Our life. We'll miss you always.

ROBIN BEHAR

October 25, 2004

I share your pain and sorrow wholeheartedly. My prayers are with you daily for your strength in overcoming this difficult experience. My fondest memories are with your family.

Robin Behar

Harry Wong

October 25, 2004

Jody, you're incredible! I've seen you touch my heart and hearts of many others. You'll be missed.

Harry

Linda Whitten

October 25, 2004

Jody has touched my life profoundly. Her strength and determination has been a beacon to many. Much love to Rovi, Eric and all of Jody's family who are aching so. May you be comforted in your time of need.

Elaine Heveron

October 25, 2004

Jody, I'll always remember walking out of the Kennedy Center after seeing "Beehive" recently with you, Lou and Rovi. We were singing the Leslie Gore song, "It's My Party and I'll Cry if I Want To" and I felt as if we'd grown up together in different places. After the burial yesterday, a big red van passed us on the road--it was covered with dust and someone had written in the dust, "I LOVE YOU!" It sure felt like it came from you.

You'll be missed by throngs of friends and acquaintances in addition to your loving family. The only consolation for your loss is knowing you're out of pain and your spirit can dance and sing forever now.

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