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John Desselle Obituary

John was a resident and native of Baton Rouge and passed away peacefully, Saturday, June 11, 2016, surrounded by family and friends, at age 58. He is survived by his wife of 35 years, Rhonda LeBlanc Desselle; daughter, Danielle Pitre and husband Brandon; two sons, Matthew Desselle and fiancé Morgan Adams, and Jonathon "Tyler" Desselle and girlfriend Kaitlyn Moore; father, John T. Desselle; three sisters, Sheryl Desselle and partner Sue Hunt, Sue Gonzales and husband Mitch, and Michele Kirshner; Sister-in-laws; Sandra Graffeo and husband Leon, Jan LeBlanc, brother-in-laws; Harry LeBlanc Jr and wife Jo Ann, Michael LeBlanc Sr. and wife Lola, Gregory LeBlanc and wife Teresa and Johnie Polito, numerous nieces and nephews; and his faithful pet Kobe. John is preceded in death by his mother, Dorothy "Dot" Desselle; paternal grandmother Coela "Meme" Ware Desselle; maternal grandmother Mae Doyle Rice; father and mother- in-law Harry and Sadie LeBlanc, Sr. and brother in law Jeff Kirshner and sister-in-law; Beverly Polito. He enjoyed being around family and friends, cooking, LSU sports, and listening to music, especially his best friends band "The Chris LeBlanc Band". The family would like to give special thanks to Dr. Hollis O'Neal Jr and his nurse Brooke. Visitation will be Tuesday, June 14, 2016 at Rabenhorst Funeral Home East, 11000 Florida Blvd. beginning at 5:00pm until 9:00pm. Visitation will resume Wednesday, June 15, 2016 at St. Isidore the Farmer Catholic Church beginning at 11:00am until Mass of Christian Burial at 1:00pm celebrated by Rev. Frank Bass and Deacon Gregory LeBlanc. Pallbearers will be; Chris Patterson, Justin Kirshner, Sean Kirshner, Chris LeBlanc, Michael LeBlanc, Jr., Stephen Polito, Donavan Graffeo and Cliff Aucoin.

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Published by The Advocate from Jun. 13 to Jun. 15, 2016.

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Jeanne Avery

June 7, 2019

Rhonda, I just want you to know that John has not been forgotten. Just in the last week, John has come to my mind. I even remember thinking ... Did John pass away? It had to be the Lord. Surely He wants you to be assured of His constant presence. You are loved and the Lord is your shield. Though I didn't have a close relationship with ya'll, we share wonderful memories of our children's school days. Praying that you are doing well. Sending prayers and love to your family.

Dave Besse

June 17, 2016

Rhonda, I am so sorry to hear about John. My thoughts are with you, your children and family.

stephen boyd

June 16, 2016

Had some great times at copolymer with you John, 21 years to be exact,Will always remember you. Rest in peace my friend. Stephen Boyd

Terry Clark

June 15, 2016

Rhonda I am so sorry to hear about John. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Ella Turner-Puckett

June 15, 2016

I worked at Copolymer with John and his dad for many years. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Karen Cunningham

June 15, 2016

Rhonda, I am so sad and sorry to learn of Johns passing. John was truly one of the sweetest guys. You, your children, Sherry and all family are in my heart and prayers.

kevin desselle

June 15, 2016

sorry for your loss a friend to all

June 15, 2016

Rhonda, Danielle, Matt, Tyler & Family Members,
There are no words to describe how deeply our family is sorry for John's new beginning of life in Heaven.

He was the most generous, kind, funny and loving soul we knew. He never met a stranger, always had a smile and a huge heart.

What he and your family did for ours , there are not enough words to describe the love and thanks.

So many fond memories of him that will continue through your loving family.

We will continue to pray for each one of you for years to come.

Much Love,
Brad, Darlene & Ariel D'Amico
Central, Louisiana

Sarita Tridico

June 14, 2016

Dear Rhonda, Laurie called and told me about the loss of your husband. I just wanted to send you a little message and let you how sorry I am. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. May God's peace surround you and his loving arms keep you at this difficult time. Your ole buddy. Sarita

Kim Jone

June 14, 2016

My heart goes out to this family that I was fortunate to share so many years and great times with. John was such a great "big brother" and the memories are endless and do nothing but bring a smile to my face. He will be missed but never forgotten. My love to you all

Wendy

June 14, 2016

Rhonda and Danielle, Matt, Tyler my heart hurts for you all. John was so awesome anybody that knew the family knows what a great person he was. He will be missed by so many. God has gained a wonderful man. Fly with the Angels John. Love yal.

Myrtle Cain

June 14, 2016

Rhonda,

I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your husband. I will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer during this difficult time. God will always take care of his people. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.

With deepest sympathy,

keedy

June 14, 2016

Sending my sincere condolences to the family. May the God of all comfort give you peace and strength during this difficult time. Psalms 29:11

Beth Richard

June 14, 2016

Dear Mickie, Sherry, Mr. John, Rhonda,
I'm so sad to hear of John's death. He was our beloved softball team coach in the summers and he knew how to coach our wild gang of girls, as well as love, give, be patient and encouraging... He was the best! My heart goes out to you all, as well as my prayers.
Love, Beth Richard (Mickie's childhood friend and SLU college roomie)...

Dr. Vaughan and Staff

June 14, 2016

Rhonda and Tyler, We send up prayers for you and other family members at this time of your loss. Even though we did not know John we are sure he left you with many good memories.

Jerry Schaefer

June 14, 2016

Rhonda, I was very saddened to hear about John's passing. My heart goes out to you and the family in your time of sorrow. The few times I met John at the mardigras lot I thought what a nice man he was. If he wasn't busy cooking for everyone he was offering to help me do something. He was always smiling, friendly, and upbeat. He will be sadly missed and fondly remembered by all that knew him. My love and prayers go out to you and the family and I thank John for being a friend.

Lee Ann LeBeau Alonzo

June 14, 2016

Rhonda,
Thoughts & prayers to you and your family during this very difficult time. With my deepest sympathy & love, Lee Ann

Marcia McCrocklin

June 14, 2016

What a wonderful, kind, sweet soul. The world is a better place and I am a better person because he was in it. Rest in peace my brother. You will be missed terribly. My prayers and love are with the family.

Sandee Henson

June 14, 2016

Rhonda-
You are your children are in my prayers.

Angelina Berthelot

June 14, 2016

Dearest Desslle Family,
In my absence of Mr. John's funeral services I would like to light a candle to remember the beautiful life he lived, memorialize the wonderful man that he was, and symbolize the prayers I will continue to send for your family. When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life (John 8:12, NIV).
Mr. John was a loving, caring, funny and friendly man. I cannot think of a time spent with him where he did not uphold those qualities. He showed those qualities in everything he did for his family and friends, in his cooking, and even for those that may have been less deserving. I know that bits of those qualities are passed through every person that has had the pleasure of meeting him. Mrs. Rhonda, Danielle, Matt and Tyler, you all show the most of those qualities as you have built upon each other in so many positive ways. Y'all are an amazing family! I will never deny that it is a blessing to know and have had the pleasure of spending time with you all.
I truly wish you my deepest sympathy during your time of grief. I hope that you will have all the support and comfort you need to continue being a living example of how wonderful Mr. John was. I love y'all!

June 13, 2016

So very sorry for your loss. My relationship with ya'll goes all the way back to St Isidore school days. Fond, fond memories of the entire family. Praying for you, Jeanne' Avery

Ed and Brenda Averette

June 13, 2016

Rhonda, when I think of John I remember each time I saw him he always had a big smile that would light up the room, He was so proud and so full of love for his family and always willing to help with anything you needed. I am so sorry for all of you and will keep you and and the family in my prayers. You have made enough wonderful memories to keep John alive in your hearts forever. May God Bless you all!

Philip Accardo

June 13, 2016

My thoughts and prayers Rhonda are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Ada Kirkpatrick

June 13, 2016

To all the Desselles:I cannot find the words to express my sympathy and sadness over John's passing.I've known him since he was a child and he still left us too soon. Always had a smile on his face and had such a sweet heart. You all have my prayers......

Ellen Guillot and family

June 13, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. John loved sharing in fun and laughter. These memories will sustain you in the days ahead. May God bless and comfort you.

Cherita & Chad Taylor

June 13, 2016

Your smile, upbeat personality and great sense of humor will be greatly missed. Ms. Rhonda, Tyler, Kaitlyn and the rest of the family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

June 13, 2016

Rhonda,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of John. I hope you can find God's peace and loving arms at this very difficult time. My heart goes out to you and the kids. You are all in my prayers.
Love and prayers,
Caroline Hutchinson

Jan LeJeune

June 13, 2016

What a sad time for all that knew John. He always was smiling and spreading happiness- he will be missed by many!!! John- I count myself lucky to have known you and be your friend and will miss you. Rhonda and family y'all will be in my heart and prayers-
Love y'all
Jan and Mike

Lisa Beauregard

June 13, 2016

The true testament to one's life is how they are remembered when they are gone. I can never remember John speaking ill of anyone. John will always be remembered by his kindness, generosity, his fun sense of humor and the wonderful husband, father and friend he was.

Robert L. King

June 13, 2016

John's family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Lisa and Paul Sanchez

June 13, 2016

Rhonda and family, so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember John as a fun-loving kind man, so full of life, who truly loved his family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary Ann Gold

June 13, 2016

Your sweet smile and loving personality will be missed by many, rest in peace John until we meet again

Michelle, Jarrett, Jarren Pickering

June 13, 2016

Rhonda, Danielle, Matt and Tyler - There are no words! I am so so sorry for your loss. John was like a dad to Jarrett and Jarren and was there for them when I could not be, they loved him dearly. Please know that he will be missed terribly and that each of our hearts and prayers go out to each one of you. With much love, Michelle, Jarrett and Jarren

June 13, 2016

Thoughts and prayers to Rhonda and the family. John was a great guy I enjoyed his company at the LSU games and parties he will be missed.

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